₦airaland Forum

talktonase:
I don't

Lol.

Vizzim:
She is blind to see ring he put on.

Not all married men put on their ring.

Most men are cheats anyway...

wristbangle:
How have u been?

Very well dear. Thanks

yinkslinks:
Fake! so all the married men you have dated lied without you knowing? Please who has that lil wayne pic?

You have got comprehension issues boy

onunwa21:
Re u a victim?

Borrowed experience is the best teacher . No I'm not.

TINALETC3:
Dis cn neva b a reason, Wen u wnt 2 b really serious wt d man coming ur way, go extra mile and find out abt hm, u dnt rely on wat he told u

I laugh in Swahili. I have seen a case of a lady who dated a married man for more than two years and she never knew he was married. The man's wife and children are not based in Nigeria so the lady in question had no idea at all. She spends the weekends there, knows most of he man's friends, in fact they refer to her as ÏYAWO! BUbble burst when they did an introduction ceremony and the wife got wind of it and contacted the lady. So don't say it can never be a reason, it happens!!

MidasTouche01:
It was fine...


Yours?

Cool too. Thanks for asking.

wristbangle:
Lol. Long time

Hiyaaaaaa

thorpido:
No two ways about this.Your boyfriend and this woman have an emotional attachment that goes beyond just being a 'school mother'.
If I may ask,does her husband know about this relationship?His passing the night in her/his house?
There's no doubt this relationship will take a toll on your own relationship with your boyfriend.As it stands now,it's a love triangle.Your boyfriend will be struggling to divide his attention.

You need to have a talk with him and threaten to quit the relationship if he will not put a stop to this relationship.I wonder how he sleeps in the house with a woman whose husband is often away for days/weeks and 'someone is not knocking on the bedroom door deep in the night'.

If he won't put a stop to this relationship,I'm afraid all you have is a love triangle that won't end until the relationship ends.Can you wait till then?

Spot on...

PLS CARRY OUT THESE TESTS B4 BUYING RICE, THIS IS REAL:

The minute well being.

Take a spoonful of rice and set it on fire. What happens next will make you tick.

China remains the largest rice producer in the world. The Middle Empire harvests more than 200 million tons of rice a year and a large number is exported all over the world.
However, cooks and consumers must be cautious: not only does this food contain pesticides used in Chinese agriculture, but according to The Korea Times, rice can also be manufactured artificially. The potato starch is mixed with plastic (synthetic resin, for example) and then takes the form of a grain of rice. The grains are then steamed with a typical rice flavor. Doctors sound the alarm against the consumption of this artificial product: three solid portions apparently contain as much plastic as a small plastic bag. An alarming fact!

With these simple tricks, you can determine whether your rice is natural or stuffed with plastic:

The water test


Pour a tablespoon of raw rice into a glass filled with cold water and mix vigorously. If the rice falls to the bottom of the glass, everything is fine, if on the contrary it floats on the surface, be vigilant, because it surely contains plastic!

The fire test


Using a lighter and a match, burn a handful of rice. If it catches fire and smells of burnt plastic, you know what to do! Do not eat it!

The mortar and pestle test

When molding a few grains of rice with a mortar and pestle, the powder should be quite white. For artificial rice, you will notice a yellow discoloration instead.


The mold test


If you want to be sure that you do not risk anything with your cooked rice, put a small amount into a tupperware and leave it in a warm place. In a few days, mold will have to appear, otherwise it is that your rice is artificial.

This is how to get it right: is the rice you buy natural or artificial? Show these different tips to all your friends so they do not take the risk of eating plastic for dinner!

6. ...because He lied about his marital status and she fell for it hook,line and sinker.

DarkSavage:
a little more height, more angle to the hips and more flesh to the breast and she'd have been ready to go.

Well beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. . It's NL baby, it's not about her physical features.

MidasTouche01:
Your highness.....

I hail How was you day ?

MidasTouche01:
We was mimzyfied this year, maybe we will get hadezified next year.....

Issorite, make we dey look

Lolzzz.

DarkSavage:
Your boobs and hips aren't coming off aggressively enough!

And do you use dumbbells? Your little biceps are bulging like massive boils.

Easy

Pretty but you need a very thick skin too. You've got plenty of time on your hands so that's not gonna be a prob. Get a good campaign team too. C'est fini.

KnightRod:
if you talk about an ex too much, you're not over em?

If you don't talk about them, you're not over em?

Just how much is too much?

Its simple. Strike a balance in between.

Ls0fdk:
[color=teal]no no no i can't take point 5
WTF

Nice one Mimzy
Quite informative [/color]

It could be a slip of the tongue na. Lolz.

iykekelvins:
[color=#099999]If she tries that shiit, she's getting the fvck out..[/color]

No chills at all. Haba

Hehehehe. I can relate .

MackBrooklyn:
Nice one Mimzyy



But the shît is just that the lady/guy someone dumped today, another person will date and probably marry him/her and another lady/guy who was also dumped also will still be someone's new girlfriend/boyfriend. It's a just a cycle, everything na second hand

Hmmmm.... you have a point though

KissChrix:
Striking the balance between 1 and 2 might be tough

It's not as tough as it seems. There will be times when your exs name will pop up while having a conversation with your new girl, the best thing to do is to talk briefly on it and change the topic.

Holding on to previous romantic attachments creates feelings of distrust and can stymie an otherwise promising relationship. So are you wondering if your honey's heart still rests in the hands of a past love? There’s no way to know for sure without talking to your partner about your concerns. But how do you know when you need to have that talk? Here are 10 signs that it may be time to bring it up.

1. Talking About the Ex Too Much
We all compare our current romance to ones we’ve had in the past, and an occasional reference to an old steady is no cause for alarm. “But," says marriage and family therapist Joan Sherman, "if it’s happening 24-seven, it’s a problem. It’s going to keep both of you from enjoying the new relationship.”

Sherman says if you're hearing every detail and story about the former relationship, it’s probably a sign that your partner hasn’t moved on.

2. Not Talking About the Former Love At All
Silence about a former lover can indicate lack of closure. Guilty feelings from carrying a secret torch often make a person not want to talk about an ex. If you notice your partner's afraid to bring up the ex or if your partner's tried and it's becomes a sore point, Sherman says, it’s time to ask why.

3. Online Stalking
Whether it’s with Facebook, a dating profile, or Googling the ex's name, relationship expert and author John Gray says, keeping frequent online tabs can be a red flag. Gray says, “If they’re spending too much time online following a past partner, it may make you feel neglected. Are you getting what you need from this person, especially when he or she spends two hours on Facebook after dinner?” If not, Gray says, it’s time to speak up.

4. Too Much Contact With the Ex
Frequent emails, phone calls, or online messaging with a past love can take away from a current relationship. But it’s a matter of context, says Washington Post advice columnist Carolyn Hax.If you're talking weekly emails and your partner is still fully invested in your current relationship, then it’s not a sign of anything. But if it’s weekly emails and you partner isn't devoted, then you have a legit concern, Hax says. Your partner may not have cut the cord

A new relationship is all about trust, Sherman says. If you’re not OK with your current partner’s contact with an ex, say so. Your partner and his or her ex should be willing to take a break from each other while you two concentrate on what you have together. It doesn’t have to be a permanent break, but it is the respectful thing to do.

5. The Ex's Name Slips Out During Sexual Climax
Talk about bad timing. During orgasm, the mind is totally uninhibited, making it easier for someone else’s name to slip out, Gray says. That kind of a mistake usually suggests unresolved feelings for an ex.

6. Keeping Mementos
Looking at souvenirs from a relationship is part of the healing process. But, Sherman says, it's time to let go of the reminders when the feelings are resolved. Your partner doesn't need to set the favorite sweatshirt and all those love letters out on the curb. But they should be out of everyday reach.As for photos on display, it’s one thing to have a group picture that includes a past partner on the wall. It’s another to erect a shrine to that person or plaster the bedroom with a display of the glory days together. You can gently and tactfully suggest keeping those pretty frames and filling them together with new memories of the two of you.

7. Hot and Cold Romance
Watch out for a partner who turns affections on and off. Gray says it might be a sign of inner turmoil. Your partner may be cold and pull away when feeling guilty about not having given the same kind of love in the past relationship. Then the passion may get turned up again when your partner feels guilty for withdrawing from you.

8. Your Partner Says He or She's Not Ready to Commit
One of the symptoms of not being ready to move on is the “I love you, but I’m not in love with you” talk. Or, “I’m into you, but I still want to see others.” If a longstanding relationship isn’t moving to the next level, then the roadblock could be another person from the past.

“When someone is wondering, ‘Should I go back? Why didn’t it work?’ it can build a barrier to moving forward,” Gray says.

9. Trouble in the Bedroom
Having problems keeping an erection or reaching orgasm can be a symptom of an emotional hang-up, Gray says. The guilt can create a sense of unworthiness and hold someone back from fully surrendering to a new partner.”

Gray emphasizes, however, that many other factors can affect bedroom performance, such as depression, high estrogen levels, excessive belly fat, and drug abuse.

10. You Just Have a Feeling
“Sometimes clients tell me, ‘I have this feeling in my gut that something’s not right,’” Sherman says. It’s a good barometer, she says. If you think something just doesn’t feel right, it’s probably worth bringing it out in the open. It could lead to a discovery about your partner’s feelings for someone else.

Also, if you feel a need to snoop around, there’s a good chance your relationship has trust problems, Sherman says. Try to get to the cause of the distrust, and hold off on the detective work.

How to Get Past It
As much heartache and headache as it may cause, couples can survive one partner being stuck on a previous failed relationship. But the longer you wait to speak up, the more likely you’ll be to resent the situation, Sherman says.

Start the dialogue with your hung-up honey with a “working together” approach instead of pushing the other person away with angry words. Use phrases like, “I need your help,” and, “I need your reassurance,” and, “I love you and want to work with you on this,” to get the ball rolling, Sherman says.

If you’re having problems addressing the issue but really feel it’s worth working on, it may be time to seek help from a couple's therapist.

Jealousy: A Word of Caution
If you want to keep a healthy relationship with the love of your life, be careful about prematurely jumping on the jealousy train and making quick accusations. Short of a greater context, there’s no reason to hound your partner with a “how dare you” attitude at every little suspicion.

“Extreme jealousy is worse than having lingering feelings about someone else,” Hax says. “Often a hang-up is just feelings. But constantly being on the lookout for bad things -- that tends to be a deeper problem of trust."

Source: http://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/guide/previous-relationship-baggage-and-jealousy?page=4

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Morning hunnie. Been following your diary though I haven't read in between the lines. I'll have to read over again. Please holla on whatsapp. Lost my contacts. So sorry dear

PS: I believe you...

SmellingAnus:
mimzyy I will not bring my self low to even help this small boy with a reply from this my moniker. I have laughed hard seeing him goof several times on the people he claims that I am . I am not demon neither am I nairalandtroll2. I have never written anything against you on nairaland, instead I wrote something for you on my diary without mentioning you that only you and I can understand that is if you have read my diary from the beginning to the end. Don't let this clown fool you. He has so many enemies that he sees many of them as smellinganus...

cashmoney02:
Everythinq's clear now ma'am.....

It was a mere identity crises on my part.....

Are you by any chance the real mimz.y??....

Yeah I am...

Thanks for owning up. Have a good night.

If this is you ' then you need to please stop. Common!!!

Demonn:
You stand out like a bast*rd on Fathers Day!

You have a mind like the contents of a "plain" brown envelope

You are a deucedly repulsive ignoramus and a rotten orgasm faking malodorous marinade of sweat and fear!

You are an irredeemably perverted subhuman and a preposterous Internet-addicted personification of vulgarity!

danbrowndmf:
just dnt tell anybody what i'm about to tell you. 'whisper in her ear' *YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL*

Merci

That's not Ts.om!

cashmoney02:

I can see you brought them in piles....

Since as expected.....Life's become unworthy for you to live.....lookinq for vulnerable low-life qirls to ask nudes from..

.....what took yhu so loonq??...bastaaard!