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donbrowser:
😂 😂 😂

The saving grace these Obidients have is that people like me are usually busy. You will leave social media for us last last ni

If you can create 6 threads, all focusing on Obi within the last 48hrs when you are supposedly busy, I am imagining how many threads you will create when you are "idle" 😂 😂 😂

Young love

Hmm.......

Bornbiafra:
Must you post it here mugu....

Are you not the mugu, for commenting?

Sad.

Karemarealty288:
The policeman should be adequately compensated by House on the rock family....they are the ones that messed up the man’s career.

He messed up his career, as he has no business giving out his gun

BeardedmeatR:
Omo forget politics, I for like fhuck that witch if I corner her. I love lanky ladies without yansh.

If I handle her ehn, she will never go back to her vegetative husband.

Going by your username, you are truly a he-goat. Someone probably your mother's age is who you feel cool objectifying.

Have difference in political views but don't go that far because you wouldn't feel comfortable someone else saying same about your mother.

Saintmary:
And it doesn't occur to you that selfish people beget selfish people?


Is there no link between the father's character and that of the child?


Absolving a 17 year old of responsibility for his actions, is that not a sure way of raising a callous, entitled adult?


Most responders here have come a long way to learn from various experiences, successfully passing through adolescence, thereby can be objective enough to call for a supervised period of real life learning for a soon to be adult.


Yet, our assessor deems all the people as inferior simply because of their perceived economic standing?



Mindlog, you have done your best, some people just need a little more time to learn, or maybe they will never learn, it's also okay.

My day job is working with 15 year olds who are living in care (have been taken away from their families by the UK govt), so I see no reason this boy's case be considered worse.

Afodot0022:
Yes i understand you better, she have the higher chances taken custody because of their age and also female. Just dont want anything that will make me relate with her which i know its impossible cos of the kids. Seeing her brings back the hurt in me and reason am trying to avoid her. She came yesterday to see them kids and honestly i wasnt happy seeing her cos it triggers what she did to me and how she hurt me. I just dont want to set an eye on her for now so i can be fine and heal and back emotionally. Me seeing her drains me emotionally. Honestly divorce is not easy and has its own issues. Atimes itss even worst than the marriage itself.

I understand where you are coming from as you are dealing with the loss of a marriage and her presence naturally triggers you and that is why people going through a divorce are encouraged to seek therapy as it helps in some form of desensitization, to help the person pour out their heart and gradually become less triggered by the other person's presence as they begin to achieve clarity about the ended marriage and what lies ahead.

It should be shared custody as they should spend their time between you and their mother, have that discussion with her no matter how difficult it may seem as you both have to work out how to co-parent with less acrimony.

If custody issue is taken to court, she may likely be granted custody considering their ages and you given visitation rights, with them spending some of their school holidays with you unless you can prove to the judge that she abuses substances or clinically assessed to be mentally unstable which would be a risk, leaving the children with her.

When it comes to care for the girls, she comes first before your mother and sister.

No but it has to be left behind in the locker room and if found on you during shift......

Brandiebird:
I guess you’d need empathy to feel Sorry for a child in the predicament in the op. This is a child. Many of us were rebellious, and little shits but it was through love, wisdom and support that we grew out of that stage and were able to redeem ourselves. This child has a story too! This sob story is the mother’s story. Can you imagine what he heard growing up? Can you imagine what he went through in the care of his father?

Both parents are selfish people who never should have brought him into this cold world! Every child is a blank sheet and the result is due to their environment. The only victim here is the child.

I think I have empathy enough to have pursued my postgraduate specialty in clinical child psychology because the minds of children and adolescents intrigues me.

The boy is not a "victim" by any standard, he was not aborted, he had his mom and his maternal side of family in the first 15 years of his life as his support system, which millions of children do not have the luxury of.

Living with his father, is part of his "redemption" or do we not regularly read here on Nairaland by guys, that a single mother raising a boy is a "disaster", that the boy needs his father?

So I am having difficulties trying to establish victimhood when it comes to the boy, if he heard he was a bastard while growing up, his father showing up has proven otherwise.

His father is the best person to have custody of him at that age because his mother bringing him to the UK, is fireworks waiting to explode because that boy at 16 will have the UK laws protecting him as he can legally bring a girl of 16 and above, home for sex and the mother can do nothing, he is free to be going and coming anytime he likes without his mother's permission etc.

Let him enjoy his father care and love.

Brandiebird:
Just a few points I noticed….

1) A child wanted his biological father’s name: nothing wrong with that.

2. He wanted to live with his father: his right and as a child he was probably damaged by his mother and father’s actions.

3. He is being manipulated and abused: He probably understood the drama around his birth and then his father became abusive after manipulating him.

4. This is a child we’re talking about: Most importantly!!!! A child who knew nothing about life.


5. The mother was a loose girl who got pregnant out of marriage

6. The father was a manipulative predator

I just feel sorry for that child

Also, this place is full of bitter people! Home of the weak and depressed.

Why should you feel "sorry" for a 16 year old boy, who lives with his biological father?

Nice one.

Post it on Twitter and make it go viral, JUTH management would come online to try to mitigate the backlash by saying they accept transfers.

She is not a friend but a leech, based on what you have written. She knows you are out of job but still comfortable not contributing to the expenses of the house while she saves.

You know very well that if you were served quit notice, she would pack her things and move, would not be bothered how you sort yourself out.

You have to be assertive and have that discussion, no matter how hard you think it is going to be. Lay the reality on the table, you are both adults as you can't continue to subsidize her at your own detriment as you have done what some can not do for their siblings.

Call you a bastard on an anonymous forum?

Zonefree:
How can a human get obsessed with liabilities? Does it make sense, dear?

That is why Psychopathology and Personality disorders are taught courses in the field of Psychology.

Zonefree:
Where's the obsession

It is littered all over Nairaland.

Zonefree:
- Ahnie, a woman, deviated from the subject matter.

- Frozen70, a woman, said she'll be reading people's comment cos she got nothing to say.

- Mindlog, a woman, is asking about the personal hygiene of the husband after 5 years of marriage.

- Kobojunkie, a woman, is suggesting he gets a marriage counselor to help beg his wife.

- Exodus15v11, a woman, is worried why the husband failed to ask the wife why she said that.


All these and more are the reasons why a sane man should never seek marital advise from women!

Chris, since you intend ending up being an intimate partner of another man ...what is your obsession with females? Be bold enough to accept your "truth" , even if you are asexual.

Obi is living rent-free in their heads 😆😆😆

Shettima was a Governor for 8 years just as Obi was.......let anyone be bold enough to pair their scorecards, side by side!🤣🤣🤣🤣

Aurelius1:
This is Jeromestark theory: the nairaland virgin campaigner.

Same Jeromestark groomed a 16 year old adolescent and disvirgined her at 17, still sexually active with her. (he slipped with that self disclosure)..... reason he has no moral right to advocate for virginity.

That picture is iconic.

Your landlord is a fraud.

Delusional.

What has the man's personal hygiene been like recently?

Nice one

donhils:
Enlighten us more with your vast knowledge

Be a sleuth, as there are so much information lying idle on the internet, be piqued enough to go through some of them as human sexuality is way beyond vaginas, penis and ejaculation.

Exclusive101:
This one contested for House of Reps in her state, under APC, lost the primaries, then rushed to Lagos, Apapa constituency. Under their regional party of saints. She also wanted to be president in 2019.

This bastard of a jerk from Alaigbo want to rule over Lagosian something Azikiwe couldn't do but I don't blame her I blame Yoruba with dead brain forming woke.

So all Yorubas supporting Peter Obi none of you fools n cursed soul along with your relatives is fit to represent your constituents that Peter Peter Obi as to import lunatics such as this cursed miserable bastard to preside over your father n mother.

You see this guy here, he is Tony Chinedu Nwulu and is a former member of the House of Representatives of Nigeria who represented the Oshodi-Isolo II constituency of Lagos State in the National assembly.😆😆😆😆

Then below is someone who the diverse people of Coventry voted in to represent them in Parliament but I know your type have no issues with the double standard.

Taiwo is doing a good job, I intend attending her meetings to input my views as she is now my representative.

SenatePresdo:
The guy you mentioned is right.

I just have to agree that what arouses men is the urge to release clustered semen.

If there is no semen, a naked Beyonce won't even turn you on.

Like I said earlier, limited knowledge of human sexuality. You think it is only semen that triggers arousal?😆

Desatura:
Catch a fly, put it in a bottle and cover with the lid. After some time, take off the lid. Fly will still keep moving within the bottle.
Me: it's freedom time guys
Housefly: I am used to been here bro.

Lessons: Some slaves enjoy slavery even when opportunities to be free comes

Vote wisely and if this write-up annoy you, you are already heading for destruction

In behavioural theory, it is called learned helplessness.

Hendrixky:
Sex is overrated
Not actually sweet The way we guys see it..it can be likened to Masturbation....same way you are robbing your hands on your dick that is how it is when you insert your penis into a woman. You are just robbing your penis inside her flesh

That is why when we ejaculate the whole feeling is gone. The woman becomes like a dead wood to us.

Untill little semen gathers again we will not feel anything
This means it is that liquid in our body that gets us excited
Not a woman’s body

Your knowledge of human sexuality is certainly very limited.