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100fix:
Both adulterous

They were never married to each other, your queer interpretation of the scriptures is very misleading

100fix:
32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.

The OP's cousin and the father of the boy never married, so nothing like husband and wife between as they were just boyfriend/girlfriend and the pregnancy happened.

The man has married and has kids with his wife while OP's cousin intends to do same, so what is difficult to understand.

Konwan:
I am already as a patriotic citizen. I can not be slave in someone's country because I don't want to contribute to growth of mine country just as you.

Shame.

You said you lived in the US for 2 decades, did I in any way berate you for that?🙄

Don't assume your timeline should be everyone's timeline, learn to respect other people's decisions about their personal lives ... that is maturity.

GeorgWashinton:
Just like that?

It is not as if the boy was abandoned, he is living with his father.

Konwan:
Stay where you are- suffering and smiling. Live there the rest of your life and make sure you include in your will to be buried there.

Nigeria is not a cemetery for Diasporans. Why are you even here in Nigerian social media? if you've canceled the nation.

I have been living in the US for two decades and heading back to Nigeria to give back to my country before the end of my life.

Selfish Nigerians unwilling to give anything back to their nation and have the audacity to complain.

Is it your suffering and smiling?😆😆

Nobody is stopping you from relocating back to Nigeria, happy relocating.😆😆😆

Karleb:
I hope she gets her new life. I also hope she wouldn't disturb grandpa like me in 20 years time on NL if the boy decides to disown her.

Disown her over what?🤔

He now has his father to care for him or is he not better off being raised by his father at this stage of his life rather than a single mother?

That boy will be a source of worry to his mother if she brings him over, person whey no "fear" the authority of his grandfather nor his uncles while still in Nigeria, shey na for UK whey many youngsters feel being rude is their birthright na im the boy go dey respectful?🙄

Work place meal....Fish fillet, potato wedges and mixed veggies.

Go for the BQ on the island.

hustla:
Thanks!

👍

Niceguy06:
I was paying $2750 in Phoenix back then

And that can not even buy a half plot of land in some low end neighbourhoods in Lagos!🤣🤣🤣🤣

Niceguy06:
Basically, everything is fucking cheap in Nigeria relative to other countries, especially the western countries I have been to. The rent I used to pay in the US for a month will literally buy two acres of land in Lagos, and the amount I spend on food when I went to the US is enough to last me for the whole year in Nigeria if I spend extravagantly. This is what I noticed over time. Is it because wages and salary are not that great in Nigeria or there are other reasons to This?

How much are you paying in monthly rent in the US, that can buy acres of Lagos?...Wake up!

Moving back to Nigeria permanently, is not yet in my plans and will not be for many years to come.😊

hustla:
Adult actually

Though there is more demand in the children and adolescents side of support work because for just only one young person, about 6-8 support workers will be needed in a residential setting if it is 2-1

Snoop around, check out sites like CV library and search for support roles with sponsorship attached to them as many prefer to sponsor those already in the UK with work experience.

A lot of such were available last year.

hustla:
Been in support for like 8 months

How much is the payment?

Adult or children?

Geonigga:
Good afternoon to you all. I'm base in Abuja with my girl friend. We are about to settle down but the problem is that both of us have As as genotype. I so much love her and I don't think if I can let her go. I want to know if there is any known hospital in Abuja that do prenatal genetic test for unborn baby to avoid giving birth to a baby with SS.

Go your separate ways now.....it will not worth it.

Epinigirls:
Please what kind of workforce do you recruit? I'm educated and looking for opportunities in the UK 🇬🇧 biko

Can we talk?

I work within the field of Clinical Child Psychology, so recruitment is around that field.

Royalpriest9301:
it's like you don't know what women are capable of doing, one day God forbid you'll just got an information that the boy is dead, the father has used him or the stepmom has killed him, last last he is her first child, she should forgive him, put him in her parents place or family she can trust till he finish secondary school, then she can see what's next for him from there but thinking she want to abandon him for the dad, ibeg make she no try am

How does it count as abandonment? Does it mean, a father is not capable of loving, caring and protecting his own child?🤔

100fix:
The moment you and your partner sincerely exchange promises to marry. That’s as good as married in the sight of God.

But in this story na boyfriend/girlfriend tinz, they were never married. The boy's father went ahead to marry and have other children.

The woman has never been married, so nothing is holding her back.

acewines:
Awon japa crew don show face

I don japa, tey tey!😜

hustla:
baddest

show us way

I work with children in social care and it is in the shortage list.

If you presently have support work experience, they are companies open to sponsorship though some expect you to pay for the switch, you collect your 5 years visa.

OyeofIkoTuN:
Oga just act like you agree ooo....e dey pain but 2 can play that game..

Let her feel comfortable bringing the kids to your new location,wait it out 6 months,play the fool...e dey pain but no worry, 10 months keep playing the fool..Let her keep bringing your kids for weekends and vacations.. after the 11th month, you should have everything ready for the kids to be in Nigeria.....After you have japa to naija with the kids...Let me see how she wanna do the magic

You think say the woman dull, someone whey don bug her husband phone and you think you she hasn't gone a step further to make sure the children details pop up should they show up at any airport for departure and get the man arrested for kidnapping?🤣🤣🤣🤣

I can imagine the feeling.🤣🤣

Jamesbiodun:
He want to go to the UK because someone told him that his mother can take him coz I don't see why he just think his mother can take him to the UK when she just relocated...
Are you thinking what I am thinking... All na scope

Yes, we can't discount the father being in the background of the desire to have him move to the UK. 🤣🤣🤣

I work here in the UK, in a company that recruits workforce from overseas and some of my colleagues who are single mothers who have no one to leave their child/children with back home in their home countries, had to arrive with their kids though it is better to come alone first, then after 2/3 months file for the child/children to come join them.

The mother should continue to ignore him because bringing him to the UK will be a huge mistake on her part, as the boy would so frustrate her.

Let him enjoy his father's love and care, the mother has tried.

He should have "ported"to APC, where his heart is in.

hustla:


We never reach PSW o but God dey run am

How ur side?

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Cool, now on skilled worker visa ( Tier 2).

hustla:
Boss I dey o

Na the UK I dey so laidis

And I believe you dey PSW visa tins or tier 2 sponsorship. Finished school, now working with children.

Nice one.

hustla:
She jus dey disguise

How far, bros? It's been a long while now....I remember those days of UK student visa runs thread! Person don old o.🤣🤣🤣

thebosstrevor1:
Dude, we are in Africa and a country called Nigeria, go and read her history.

Democratic monarchy, a new form of government where you elect the leader but he becomes president for life.

Whey PDP now?😜😜

While their then Vincent Ogbulafor (died last year) boasted in 2008 that PDP will rule for 60 years.......🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

yarimo:
After squandering Anambra state tax payers money, just spending on bleaching creams . While people suffer in Anambra state

😜😜😜😜😜😜

yarimo:
Margaret obi should reduce bleaching haba

Na you dey give am money for the "cream"?🤣🤣