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Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 11:33am On Dec 17, 2013 |
I hope you bought book of finishing school for boys because i am aware you have a 17 year old son.remember when you said you seized his ipad have you trained him about urinating in public,belching and sneezing without covering the mouth,farting in public,carrying his private part every second,sagging his jeans,fighting and cussing in public etc whatever is good for the goose is good for the gander also chaircover: |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 11:39am On Dec 17, 2013 |
For those that cannot cook,i didnt know catering school has finished in Nigeria and as per the issue of calling a military guy,i also didnt know hitting of a strangers ass is a gentle manly behaviour yellowpawpaw: K, if u r fighting for a cause, fight for the right reasons. |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 11:42am On Dec 17, 2013 |
Nigerian girls dey suffer no be small. Man marry, travels and get married again and tell you to claim you are his cousin Sucking above 70 sugar mama while you are carrying his baby. I ask what stops you from traveling out to chase the green card yourself. Oh maybe because of what the society will say. Marry you and return you back to your parents that you lack home training But goes around to pick up another girl. After all, girls plenty. Why girls no go plenty when they have made the country shithole. No form of tourism, kidnapping, terrorism ...the little people of diverse culture we would have met is no longer available and we are stuck with the shitty militants . God sef know say if him bring me back to Naija next time as a woman, I go even find my levels out before age 11. Okokorioko, abeg if you travel go Ghana sef, the Ghanaians dey step up make foreigners no take all their women. See them treated like queens and princesses. Opoko. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 11:47am On Dec 17, 2013 |
But i didnt know that a man dragging out his wife out of the car and beating her in public is a decent behaviour and a young boy fighting in public with another boy up to the extent of tearing clothes and rolling on the floor is also a gentle man behaviour.all this stoopid double standards and sexism will take us nowhere.whatever is good for the goose is freaking good for the gander.jeez Djtm: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 11:49am On Dec 17, 2013 |
Exactly Chillisauce: Nigerian girls dey suffer no be small. |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 11:57am On Dec 17, 2013 |
But acid pouring men,those that strip women naked for stealing and f1nga them,pour pepper in their private parts or those who set HUMAN beings ablaze including rap1sts dont need training abi. fyi women are a reflection of our fvked up disgustingly pretentious society Efemena_xy: ^^ CC forget that one sef. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 11:59am On Dec 17, 2013 |
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Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 12:06pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
I also didnt know it is a grave offence for a woman to express her frustrations about things she doesnt like,i didnt even know its not allowed for a woman not to like something her husband is doing,the consequences is to be thrown back to jer parents hoise without working things out.i cant even fathom what mothers teach their sons DOUBLE STANDARDS I SUPPOSE.NO WONDER WE HAVE FHAGS and weak men ALL OVER The place.many women have lost their motherhood yellowpawpaw: |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 12:09pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
kulyie: I also didnt know it is a grave offence for a woman to express her frustrations about things she doesnt like,i didnt even know its not allowed for a woman not to like something her husband is doing,the consequences is to be thrown back to jer parents hoise without working things out.i cant even fathom what mothers teach their sons Kulyie, I bet today is your day off. No get heart attack o . |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Miner13: 12:10pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
pickabeau1: Hahahaha.... It is never his plan to marry another wife. Unless the inlaws chose that as their option. He make his stand clear re-train your daughter and he will be ready to take her back. I wonder why some people are of the opinion of the man been heartless. Before any reasonable man could took that step, you should al know that he has fought the battle and yet no reasonable changes. Besides an insider said, the husband had informed the inlaws time without number but they did not count it to be something |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 12:14pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Yes i get yoir jist shouting is bad and can drive anyone crazy and there are also better ways of passing a message across but have you stopped to consider that before the woman ahouts (note that i am not supporting shouting) wouldnt ahe have talked,begged,cajoled,cried and all failed.if she starts her shouting,cant he leave the hoise for her so that when she doesnt see her husband for like 2 months and the guy eventually comes home,no one will tell her to use her senses necaise no doubt she will be scared and know she has pushed him to the wall for him leaving her in the house,dumping her back to her parents is highly insulting and degrading.isnt that what they call dalemoshu chaircover: |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 12:16pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Yes i get yoir jist shouting is bad and can drive anyone crazy and there are also better ways of passing a message across but have you stopped to consider that before the woman shouts (note that i am not supporting shouting) wouldnt she have talked,begged,cajoled,cried and all failed.if she starts her shouting,cant he leave the house for her so that when she doesnt see her husband for like 2 months and the guy eventually comes home,no one will tell her to use her senses becaise no doubt she will be scared and know she has pushed him to the wall for him leaving her in the house,dumping her back to her parents is highly insulting and degrading.isnt that what they call dalemoshu chaircover: |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 12:22pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Lol.today is off o.my own xmas break has started.except i just feel like doing some little work at home.meanwhile OLORUN MAJE.my bp os very normal thanks for the care olorun na a care fun e Chillisauce: |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Miner13: 12:25pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
kulyie: exactly.its illiterate women that this nonsense always happen to.i doubt whether she has a stable job with a stable income.i hardly hear of educated and empowered girls go through this disgusting indignities. ọjọgbọn amoye ọrọyi kori bi oti ro oon. She's educated but not working under govt or any company yet. An insider said the husband want her to do business and has set up business for her, rather than looking for job. What else then would you be looking in a man that has shown this commitment to his wife |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 12:27pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Gbam bukatyne: |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by pickabeau1: 12:28pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Miner13: Also if he has involved the inlaws countless times, then this is more or less tantamount to seperation... Ok since youve been kind enough to give more info What manner of retraining does he want from the inlaws |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by pickabeau1: 12:30pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Let me ask you a question Is seperation insulting... Do you believe in it and how should it be done ... kulyie: Yes i get yoir jist |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 12:34pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Thanks for the compliment.i receive it so back to the issue.i have problems with both parties so i am not encouraging double standards by some people who claim the woman needs finesse and say nothing about the man the woman fvkd up by shouting even if shes right,it is enough for the man to use that against her if he was trying to get rid of her.shouting obviously is the worst form of communication the mans behaviour too is too bush.what part of the planet is he living both need counselling as for the ojogbon.call me ojogbon kulyi e ;De Miner13: |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Miner13: 12:38pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
kulyie: in your own school of thought i guess women should only be seen and not heard.they shouldnt have a voice and an opinion,their husbands word is final,all others are unreasonable.if that be so,animals will best be their companion i posted this because i also want to learn from it. We should not take aggression to reading any comment but what point you as a person can gain and also teach others. |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 12:39pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Seperation is ok as a last resort afyer all modes of civility has failed but she is not a bag of rice to be dumped in her parents house.if they want to seperate,the wife is free to pack her bags and baggages to wherever.it now becomes her choice whether she wants to go to her parents house,friends house,hotel or rent a house pickabeau1: Let me ask you a question |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by pickabeau1: 12:47pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
kulyie: Seperation is ok as a last resort afyer all modes of civility has failed but she is not a bag of rice to be dumped in her parents house.if they want to seperate,the wife is free to pack her bags and baggages to wherever.it now becomes her choice whether she wants to go to her parents house,friends house,hotel or rent a house thanks for your response I agree that the approach is wrong and he has heaped indignities on his inlaws Can you further expatiate on the phrase "mode of civility".. at what point is that threshold reached and after what sort of actions |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 12:48pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Well i am not being "aggressiv" about anthing.inly if you could see the look on my face while typing that.as matter of fact,i was being sarcastic Miner13: |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Miner13: 12:55pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
pickabeau1: @chilli funny post as usual well, i did not hide anything, the way i heard everything that's the way i put it down. Even when i discovered more questions are arising from here i had to go in for more details and ensured i posted it as i received it. Whether he beat her, an insider also make it known that nothing like. |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 12:55pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Modes of civility e.g talking/ decent communication,apologizing,exchanging of gifts.however when the arguements begin to reach slapping each other,cussing,name calling,threatening with acid or knife,tearing of each others clothes,then call it a day. thats the level many couples are in nigeria WHICH I HAVE SEEN pickabeau1: |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by pickabeau1: 12:59pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Miner13: I am just curious as to this approachby the man in question.. a seperation for a period of 3 to 6 months will also have the same impact with less vitriol from the inlaws kulyie: Modes of civility e.g talking/ decent communication,apologizing,exchanging of gifts.however when the arguements begin to reach slapping each other,cussing,name calling,threatening with acid or knife,tearing of each others clothes,then call it a day. So if i get you , once communication breaks down in a marriage the next thing is seperation or else they will start beating each other up |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 1:00pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Abi o soul_glo: I am learning a lot from married people. So if I marry a Nigerian man can I send him back to his father to retrain him if I end up being stuck with all the financial responsibilities for a while? Obviously no one trained him as to what an African man is expected to do for his family. I should call my father in law and his brothers to come take him and not bring him back until he is ready to step up and be a man. |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Miner13: 1:01pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Chillisauce: Woman, both families were not poor as you have guest it to be. If they were to set up their daughter i know they can do it and the husband also working with good take home. |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Miner13: 1:05pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
kulyie: No doubt its rude to shout and yell at anybody irrespective of gender and age but sending a woman back to her parents house,what do they call that. so, you mean if you have a daughter and you receive this type of information about her, you will leave her to be batard with punches or kill. Or, are you saying you can act the same way? |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 1:06pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Before nko.an example is romance or politics section.if you want to see all manners of cussing just go there and that usually happens when communication has broken down and i can bet my life that assuming those folks that are arguing saw each other,they will beat themselves or stab themselves. Of which nl is a reflection of nigerians and its anonymous yet cuuses and insults fly around like no mans buisness despite mods and censored words.so imagine if there was none pickabeau1: |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Miner13: 1:08pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
kulyie: @chillisauae before nko.i guess she falls under the category of baba bisi owo obe ti tan o,baba bisi,owo pampers ti tan,baba bisi,bra mi ti yakulyieeeeee han han! Kilo le to yen |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 1:13pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Never! I am saying that a perso old enough to get married should be old enough to fix his sh1t when it comes up.meanwhile i never referred to anything like battery and even if she is battered, i will rather have my daughter divorced and alive than for her to be forming mrs endurance before she dies like titi.tufffiiiaaakwah Miner13: |
Re: My Wife Needs To Be Re-trained, Then I Sent Her Back To Her Parents. by Nobody: 1:15pm On Dec 17, 2013 |
Its just an illustration na why you dey exclaim Miner13: |
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