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Ihedinobi: Guys, if sex is marriage, then there is no such thing as "pre-marital" sex. It means that you're married to everyone you've ever slept with. That is obviously not true. Sex is a 'marriage' of bodies, that is, a joining of bodies with another person. Clearly, and obviously, it was designed to occur only under a condition of 'marriage' of other things besides the body.

When two people have decided that they will spend the rest of their lives together, they aren't automatically married. They will be married after they have fulfilled what traditions are necessary to pronounce them married. This is not to say that traditions are God, but to say that God is no author of confusion. If people can pronounce themselves married merely because they have decided that they want to spend the rest of their lives with each other - mere intention - what is the point of marriage ceremony, documents signing, token-sharing, vows and whatnot? Anyone may simply pick up a member of the opposite sex whenever they please and start having sexx with them. And why should they be expected to stick with the union when things get tough if there is no binding covenant or contract and there are no witnesses to hold them to their commitments?

Even the first couple were married before they started having sexx. The "father" of the woman brought her to the man and the man accepted and claimed her for himself and made her the center of his life. That was the precedent that God set. If we have decided to make that simple ceremony elaborate, that is our own problem, but we cannot scrap the entire thing just to suit our hormones. There must be an exchange and a commitment to the woman's welfare before a marriage can said to have been finalized.

Only under special circumstances can a given couple be excused.

Please see the following thread for another treatment of this matter: https://www.nairaland.com/1244999/brother-goshen-please-explain-stand

u3fine: From their home page, this is what is written:

Vacancy Announcement
Invitation for the first batch National
Youth Service Corps has been sent. If
you have received yours, click on
Applicant's Login on the Navigation
Bar and login with your email and
select National Youth Service Corp
as your Vacancy Advert.
Other Batches will be released
subsequently.

yetseyi: Early dis morning.
How u dey?

yetseyi: I think I applied for one of the inspectors position ( the one that requires BSc anyfield) and I got the invite

haibe: wrong, the covenant has been sealed the moment they have sex.

Are you telling me every bible character observed a marriage ceremony? or are joint by a priest? Never. So according to your logic, they have not been joines by God? lol

haibe: The problem with some africans is that they hate reading.

Start reading this thread from page 2 again.

quivah: 1.whats fornication? When you s.Ex and leave the girl??

I laff dear!!!

2 se.x only joins two people together spiritually,which is wrong without Godly Union(marriage)..

I saw a post where you said a priest joins the guys together while se.x joins them by God or so..
God joins the Union via marriage and not se.x!
They are joined in the name of the father.. except if you mean God should come down to join them...
Menh ..
S.ex is more spiritual than physical..

haibe: What does undefiled mean to you please? you think its to have sex? No its to have sex wrongly, simple. e.g no extra marital affair.


A man is joined with a woman through sex, this is how God has made it, it is just so (see 1 corinthians 6:15-17). So if the bible says what God has joined together, don't think it means what a priest joins together or what a man of God joins together, you will be deluding yourself that way

haibe: So you mean to tell me that non-christians who have no priest nor pastor are not married SMH!

Mr man sex is that covenant that joins a man and a woman, not a priest or pastor, don't misinterprete "what God has joined together" to mean it means through a priest or pastor. God sees the true intent of every man and so you may even be joined by a priest and still not married in the sight of God.

quivah: True talk brother!!
Unmarried girls please keep yourself... while unmarried guys should go frolick with the married women or goats.. since the advice isn't for them shey?

Nahum777: what am saying is, who ever you sleep with is your wife. forget all these rantings. sex is marriage in the eyes of God. Changing your mind means, you never had a real intention to marry who you have defiled. That makes you a fornicator.

haibe: I am not here to argue with anyone but sex is what joins a man and woman, not court marriage or marriage by a priest.

Note I didn't say sex is a marriage ceremony, lol, sex is marriage(the joining of a man and woman to become one)

Forget those marriage ceremonies, it doesn't determine whether you are married or not

FrancisTony: @MR harbiolar. The termChristmasappeared in Old English as early as 1038 A.D. asCristes Maesse, and later asCristes-messein A.D. 1131. It means "the Mass of Christ." This name was established by the Christian church to disconnect the holiday and its customs from its pagan origins. As one fourth century theologian penned, "We hold this day holy, not like the pagans because of the birth of the sun, but because of Him who made it."
Although it is true that many traditional Christmas customs find their origins in pagan practices, these ancient and forgotten associations are far removed from the hearts of Christian worshipers today at Christmastime. So much so, it seems a pointless concern. If the focus of Christmas is Jesus Christand his gift of eternal life, then what harm can come from such a celebration? Moreover, Christian churches see Christmas as an occasion to spread the good news of the gospel at a time when many unbelievers pause to consider Christ

kuyt: I really can't tell, sincerely as it depends on your bargaining power and how you present yourself to the panel.



I tell you, we have people from Badagry, Sango, Mowe, Ibafo, Ikorodu, Ajah, Awoyaya.
So it depends on where you call "far"

Again, I got in touch with the HR people and they told me there is an address for the process: recruitment@chrislandschools.sch.ng

kuyt: @uboma
@flexxee
It's okay guys.
Let me reiterate it that the HR dept. has a contact email address. We all do and every dept. does have it.
Since they didn't put it for this purpose, it's not in my place to put it up here. They will have their reasons for that.
I am just a teaching staff in one of the units.



I have been with them for up to four years now, they started with me on a good scale and at intervals, they improve on their pay plus other incentives.

noblefada: Guess your question was not answered because its irrelevant and we are not ready to waste our time answering irrelevant stuff. Shalom

Dudecollins: U welc.
I can't say. Bt the earlier,the better!

Dudecollins: I wouldn't know if Foodco is recruiting. I guess she just wanted to be vewi sure of wia I was going as she appears to be d general receptionist for the whole building. Do u av any hints on them recruiting?

oche_ejemb: 1. Who is Linda?
2. What is she smoking?
3. Where can I get some of it?

Rilwayne001: Demolishing The Falsehood Of Christianity
And Its Bible

www.nairaland.com/739943/demolishing-falsehood-christianity-bible

Dudecollins: When I got to the building, I told the security man @d entrance dat I was goin to Admin and that I came to submit my CV. He den directed me inside d building. Inside d building,at a cubicle like a reception, I told d woman dia d same tin. She asked which of the companies(Shoprite,Foodco etc). So, I replied shoprite. She den told me wia to submit it....nt actually far from d cubicle. Just ur CV,dat's all (cos I intentionally asked d guy dat collected it from me)

mahdino: Well I have given quotations from ur bible to prove my point, go back and read again.
The quran said it and I believe, but for ur own consumption I quoted from the bible, so what else do u want?

Mee234: adam built kaba. abraham rebuilt it. this manho must be a person(apology to logic boy)

nora544: I don't like this pastors from the new churches.

Could you remember the story from Adeboye that he could drive his car with no fuel, so this is also a liear.

I am a cristian and i know what it means to live a christian live.

mahdino: I told u that I look to the bible so I can sink my points into ur dump head, that is why the quran said we should go to the Bible, cause God said "Jesus told u in the bible that there is another prophet to come after me... So since u don't want to listen to the quran, so we go to prove to u from your bible.
What ever name u may call the prophet Jesus was his forerunner.

rationalmind: Good bye

ATMC: where ris Sal C Araregem Vicky O lana Vello idnoble mintayo yetseyi and the rest...where una dey?

HumbledbYGrace: I am back o....

I am nolonger a mod in this section and have been given the Foreign Affairs section.

It was nice bullying ya'll....