danthamccoy:
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Kindly check your mail. sent you a PM

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I must confess Dapo is not fit for the position. He shouldn't bother contesting for another term in office

NoToPile:
The vibes I am getting from posts on this thread is that men no longer want to be providers.

Day by day it's getting hard to be a sole provider especially in a country like Nigeria..

surebona:


Sincerely speaking I caused it all... Please don't criticize me, I am human, I cheated on her, and could not hold myself but to tell her...

I'm sorry to say this bro.. You're a dick head

Babysho:


You have great taste in movies. Manchester By Sea is one of my favorite movies

You're very right, I don't really like action movies or sci-fi

Yes I cried while watching Forest Gump and Manchester by sea

Jones4190:
PDP is a fraud.
Multiplier effect of corruption
1. A young man works for one of the state ministries. His salary is 120K. He makes 15,000 everyday on this desk (N75k a week) engaging in corrupt practices. As a result, he spends the daily cash as he cares. Living large and far above his legitimate income.
2. He visits the local joint every evening and buys drinks for friends, and area boys. They hail him. He is married, but has two girlfriends. His "income" is enough to take care of them. The Asun seller at his favorite joint is happy, the joint owner is happy.
3. Everyone was benefiting from his "income". Friends, family, area boys, joint owner, Asun seller, girlfriends, wife and his church. Life was good.
4. Then suddenly the ministry implemented the Treasury Single Account (TSA) at the beginning of PMB administration. His extra "income" disappeared and he had to adjust to the reality of event and live within his real income. That wasn't easy.
5. Initially he reduced his daily visit to the joint to 3 days a week and stopped buying drinks for everyone. He reduced the plates of Asun. The Asun seller started to find it hard to sell a full goat each day and resorted to buying half.
6. The young man's girlfriends started to feel the heat too. No more iPhone 10. The joint owner noticed a drop in sales. The young man finally stopped visiting the joint after a month. The area boys started feeling his absence. The effect cascaded down.
7. The young man started spending more time at home with his wife and kids. The family had to readjust to the reality of the new normal. His hair stylist noticed the young man suddenly stopped tipping. He will even wait for his N200 change after haircut.
8. Things are different. Times are hard, they all cry. The young man is blaming Buhari, his wife is blaming Buhari, the area boys are blaming Buhari, the girlfriends are saying Buhari must go, the joint owner is saying Buhari killed the "economy"
9. The Asun seller is cursing Buhari, the hair stylist is insisting Buhari is too old to rule. This is the story of our nation where corruption fuels the "economy". Those who are not engaging in it are benefiting from it.
10. This tread is not about Buhari's achievement or failure, but rather about the "multiplier" effect of corruption and how we have built a system largely driven by corruption. It's about policy implication (good or bad). It's about the choices we have made.
Finally, the young man had to withdraw his kids from what he called expensive primary school his kids attend. He added:"what are they teaching them there sef " Obasanjo didn't go to a private school. I just laughed .

You just summarized the whole problem in Nigeria. Simple Economics

Klass99:
Pressure from whom and from where, pls?

I think individuals put themselves under pressure, by themselves in their quest for materials things and the quest to blow, then they turn around and want to blame it on other people or society.

Is a gun being held to Sikira's head under mad pressure to run things with one big god father, somewhere?

Is Audu under mad pressure, at gun point, to scam or ritualize people?

As individuals we always have a choice in this life! Your life is also yours to build, it is not for others to steer.

I chose to live where I live now, I chose to decline a job offer @ MVP, I chose to turn down Kadiri's sexual advances while accepting Kelvin's for xyz reasons, I chose not to visit the baba's place for anything............these are just examples of choices, we all make on a regular.

Pressure may come from certain quarters like peers, family etc but at the end of the day, you get to decide by yourself and for yourself, what to do.

If Sikira decides she wants an iPhone as a student with no income source, who put her under pressure?

And if Audu decides he must drive the latest benz on a salary of 70k per month (without extra streams of income) who put him under pressure?

Well said champ, Every man makes his own choice

bukatyne:


1. This is the senior level, the premium ones and I was adding the yahoo yahoo Boys.

2. The Bolanle is outside the scope of this discussion na, they are not engaging her for transactional sex as they would Lucia. It is under the guise of 'relationship' and 'marriage' especially when they are tired of 'fvcking' around and what a family or want a family while still actively on the field. Some of them in my office talk about how they snatched 'girls' from chewing gum boyfriends in school and NYSC and used money to 'scatter' her life. Some of them married Bolanles and still maintain their Lucia. Some still bring their Lucias to mutual parties and events. Clean brown skinned chics like they are made of glass and tape rule for symmetry.

3. Yep, the youth that feminity (real and fake brings). Unfortunately, it is something most of them seek as they grow richer and naturally older. The woman they need vs the woman they want dynamic. The queen (efficient, effective, resourceful manager) vs the princess (sweet, fresh, Ego massaging, beauty queen).

4. Back to first point. Except they are extremely objective to know when their (selling point) looks fade and the men want younger play things, they can't invest. Jumping from Dubai to France does not make you think investments, you think faaji

5. Sex outside marriage is sin so gvcking boyfriend and papitos take you same place if you don't repent. There is however an extra level of degradation transacting sex for money. That is the simple definition of a prostitute. It is also assumed that a prostitute has higher body counts aka diseases, mingling of spirits, wear and tear of the body etc. With the way people change sexual partners today, that might not be the case. And we have Lucias kept by one patron today. Someone told me the story of a lady that was a Lucia to a patron for 11 years and stopped upon marriage. Some girls have had 11 boyfriends within that time frame. Some men who claim to be in love and sleep with only their girlfriends have 'dated', 22 girls in that period.

6. That Regina? I thought her mother was streetwise.

7. A man who can conquer his ego is on the way. Rich men have no problem spending money on women, they just want their women (wife, Lucia, Bolanle and daughters) to be feminine. Poor men and rich men have different problems. This is the natural man's behavior which is changed by religion, training, morals or culture.

I must confess your approach to life situations are very realistic .

Do one have to pay to get access to the site? @Dpsycologist

Burial ceremony is a total waste of resourses. I'll rather immortalise them after they are gone. I told my parents already. No burial party for you ooo

I'm surprised when Christians say they can't marry a particular tribe. What happen to the body of Christ we belong to?

We really don't love ourselves. OP fight for what you want you only have yourself after they are gone.

Ariza:
Aside the risk of entering into the wrong hole which can damage the woman's organs I see no disadvantage. Both have no experience to make comparison so I believe they are PERFECT!

Even the wrong hole story self will only last few hrs max. Anybody won't regret staying a virgin till marriage. Sex is inborn you'll get better at it with time.

People don't want to be vulnerable. And you can't love without being vulnerable, you see them having back up relationship

czarr:
And there are people who think all these are made up or coincidences

There will always be a doubting Thomas... You only tell people who care to listen

czarr:
For a long time i always had the believe that there is a scientific explanation for everything and there is nothing more than the eyes can see.

Few years ago my grand mother fell ill and was taken to the hospital, nothing serious about the illness so we were expecting her to be discharged quickly as usual, she seemed to be recovering...

While she was still at the hospital I had a dream where she was packing her things like she was travelling, I asked where she was going, she said she was going far and I should take care of my parents...I woke up to the news of her death.

My dad also had a similar dream that night the experience still shocks me till now.

Please share any experiences that had you believing in the supernatural.

To be honest some things are hard to tell other people. I once dreamt about heaven . I wrote it down in my diary ....

Where I completely believed that some things are supernatural was when my Dad's friend showed up in my dream. Like someone that died like 2years ago. We were close he had a business in my area before his death . I will never forget " He told me Contact my Son tell him to rejuvenate my business I'm not happy" when I woke up I was shocked, I just slept back and I didn't tell anyone about it. Because no one will believe me I don't want to be called a psycho

In fairness to God his Son dropped by like 2 days later telling my his Dad is always showing up in his sleep everynight begging him to rejuvenate his business .... That he can't sleep, I felt so bad for not delivering his message

Many other dreams I have written down. Most of them happened

well said, thank you oluwasedago

Says who?? @ hadeehart101

My friends and I are planning on going to some west African state like you did. But all i could see is the true state of Africa, probably the whole of West Africa. It's all rotten with courrption and extortion. i'm totaly discourage .

Endurance

Bluezy13:


Hehehe...


See as you fall the nigga hands

Na so jare

Igbokiller:
lol. Nothing can stop me o. She has Holla me we have special connection so I'm going to tap her current in france

Chai!! Safe journey boss. Update us about your outcome

Igbokiller:
I still claim am

I'm saving money to go see her in france

You've been messed up. Don't visit her I repeat

Igbokiller:
chai I claim her o .







Come she dey call u "my dear Mike"

Na everybody she dey use "My dear" for

UyaiIncomparabl:


Hahahaha. I get you bro.

I had to unsubscribe from getting any mail from her. You can check her out if you wanna know more.

Igbokiller:
I think that's my Mary



Unbelievable enough. Whenever I remember her. I get an email from her before the day ends

"Your Mary" made me laugh. Oga she belong to everybody

UyaiIncomparabl:


Oh, you too? Were her assertions real about you?

They look real but I don't believe in crap

Igbokiller:
Astrology works. I have an astrologer at my service, Mary. I believe in her work. The first time I subscribe to Mary's website. She's emailed me things about myself which I've never told anyone. Three weeks ago, she mentioned to me I'll meet a girlfriend and just a week ago A LADY STARTED CRUSHING ON ME AND NOW WE ARE IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. My job has also started reaping fruit like Mary said it would recently.


I believe in astrology and I'll advise your friend try a virgo

You're talking about this Mary I guess

falcon01:
Who the f*ck is he??

Besides he knew whats gon happen he lived a thug life and they mostly die young ask
2pac
Biggie smalls
Eazy E
Scott La Rock
Ol' Dirty Bastard
Proof

E.t.c

Eazy E died of Aids