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Emmaomotob:
Dear Seun,
It is so sad that you allow moderators like maclatunji(or whatever his name is ) to exist on Nairaland. This sentimental moderator, that thinks he is doing the will of his god just banned one of my nairaland accounts.
Its so sad that when websites gain prominence, they begin to treat users with utter disdain. No one has the right to hide any post if the post has OBJECTIVE backing, just the way atheists attack God, because they can back their posts.
With due respect, considering the fact that you employed 'this' moderator, I hereby plead with you, as a law abiding Nairalander, that Misogynist2014, should be unblocked. I sincerely and eagerly wait for your much needed response.
Yours Sincerely,
Emmaomotob.

Shyna112:
Our Ileyah meat does not have any incantation recited on it, it is just same as any normal meat you'll find at the market or else where

pendy79:
Al-hamdullilah I've seen the light of Al-Islam and will never depart from it. So many ignorant folks calling themselves christians here. We should be forgiving and enlighten as I was fooled for years too.

Their god who send down RUMOUR is the only true god. If their god in his absoluteness could send down RUMOUR from heaven then why do you think their godlike pastors can't teach them more rumour. (Obadiah 1.1 and Jeremiah 49.14) arguing with some of them is like pouring water in basket and expecting it to be full.

Did Jesus (prophet Isah) preach or proclaim any religion or new way of life when alive or didn't he say he came to only fulfil the scriptures.

Abraham had a first child from his wife's maid Hagar called Ishmael and he was asked to sacrifice "his only begotten child" (Heb. 11.17, Gen. 22.2) if isaac were born then won't the bible say his legitimate son. The test on Abraham was done long before Isaac was born and is even well stated that he was asked to sacrificed his only son not sarah's only son. Ishmael was 14years older than Isaac. Yet some dull ignorant bigots who are spoonfed lies and fables swallow hook and sinker. I guess their god didn't know the meaning of the word "only begotten son" or he forgot Abraham has another child 14years older.

If Paul is the rallying point of early christians then all christians should be catholics since he was the first pope and he authored many books in the new testaments. Not even disciples of Jesus match the reverence Paul had.

One igronant stereotype bigot is comparing eid adha with christmas. Go read about what christmas is all about and even easter then you know your pastors and reverends have been making you worship roman gods since ages and ponder why jehovah witnesses don't celebrate both.

Islam is never about human beings writing their biography and autobiography it is the complete. Way of life God wants human to live. The ways of the Prophet is recorded separate from the quran so as not to mix up God divine Will from the way the Prophet a messenger, a creation like all prophets before him lived
Al-hamdullilah I'm a Muslim now
If any wont eat the sallah meat it is better to politely reject than go throw it away that itself is a sin. When I was younger we did so and it never affected the relationship with our neighbours. It is height of wickedness to go throw away something someone used his hardearned money to procure and present to you on a platform. Of good neighbourliness

Pauljonnes:
YOU CAN NOT. THE BIBLE WARNING ABOUT IT. Hebrews 13:9-10 KJV
Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines. For it is a good thing that the heart be established with grace; not with meats, which have not profited them that have been occupied therein. Eating Ileya meat is not profitable to the christian. it rather help us portray our self as an Esau. Don't forget they are our brother chased away. if u eat with them ,you became like them, a slave. Eating with them is spiritual don't sell yourself cheaply with a piece or bulk of meat . I do eat it before when I was in school but I am informed I can never make the mistake.

Yerwa:
Guys try to get your facts straight, I can see some people ascribing the eid to idol worship, very wrong.
The practice is symbolic of prophet Abraham when he dreamt that he was to sacrifice his son Ishmael and when he was going to do it God provided a ram, which he then sacrificed, that has been the practice since then.

Gloria3389:
Sorry please.... give me the Bible verse that said so so I can read It

kolomax:
what's the one saying

Ibnsultan:
Allah means God almighty the Moon,sun earth us are his creation. Eid mubarak

crackhaus:
You can't tell her/HIM what to do, but you can deliberate on things during meetings before most decisions are reached.




You mean children should see parents argue and deliberate over decisions? Sorry, I do not agree...this point thus ends here.


A woman in charge of her family is a lot more dominating and controlling than a man who is. Fact!


No such thing as shared power of final decision where two people are involved, one person will have to compromise.
The point is regardless of who compromises, the power of final decision rests on the man.


@emboldened, funny how you now see a scenario where kids should not witness arguments or advice between parents.
Your first example is also not wise. Children should not see one parent argue, advice, or go against the other no matter the scenario...full stop!


I don't know if it's a case of your psyche, but patriarchy does not mean women are inferior. This is the excuse bitter feminists base their arguments on because they hate male-dominated societies.


If you think patriarchy is the cause of this, then therein lies your problem.
That you read one or two stories of men who did it does not make it the norm. Plenty polygamous homes have existed and will continue to exist where the women in it live in peaceful coexistence.


I already gave you the underlying premise behind inheritance, I don't know what you're saying here.
Again I ask, what does a woman getting married into another family want with her father's property?


Not many.
I doubt if any man will send his faithful, loyal, and beautiful wife out of a house they built together from scratch.


You will learn that they do soon enough, two people do not occupy the exact same position and share an exact equal amount of power at the exact same time.

There's always a hierarchy no matter how equal it seems on the outside.


He is a man, he proposed, the woman drops her name to adopt his, he is the figure head in that marriage, he is the leader by hierarchy...this gives him a little more power.

It has been this way for ages and will continue to be, so get with the programme.


Because we are men, deal with it.

Over 2000years of growth and civilization has made it so. You can ask your bf to marry into your family, bear your surname, and acquire your property if that's how you want it...good luck with that and in finding a man who will agree to it


Her husband's property is not hers, but her father's own is? Explain this logic to me please

I thought you were one of those who said on some thread a while ago that a man's property is also his wife's by reason of marriage?
What is this one you're saying now?


All emboldened are your words not mine.

Like I hinted before, rid and purge yourself of the notion that all men see women as inferior...whatever got your psyche to this point is something I'm still trying to figure out.

since2005:
[size=30] God let my day come oooo [/size]

Mynd44:
As Christians, it is not right to eat it. Don't even touch it. Just send it to my house and I will dispose of it for you

missbronze:
Na una sabi.

As for me, the only thing i desire in this life is to have a CHILD. A child to give all my love, to train, and to raise.

And, is only a child that will make me do anything desprate. because, a child is all i desire in this life.

Husband or no Husband, i dont give a damn.

And, am so glad that one can have a child without a husband.

carefreewannabe:


Done.



Who said so?



Did I throw stones?



Don't tell me you are so altruistic.

And even if you did, your reward was POWER.

carefreewannabe: It's not what I said.



You haven't explained how you were oppressed you just said that you were.



Did you complain? Were you told that you have to do it because you are a "lesser being"?



This is a good example. Do you know how such an unfair belief developed?
It developed because women have been told to stay at home for centuries and men encouraged to go out and make money. Thus women became dependent on men and after a time considered it normal to ask for everything.

I am not a fan of it AT ALL.



You should have been told NOT to fight with anybody.



Unfair treatment, indeed.
This is why I question these old-fashioned practices.
From my point of view, they are useless.
However, too many men want to preserve them because despite all the examples you have given, you will NOT be told that you are a "lesser being" BUT that yours is the supremacy.

Sunnycliff: happy celebrate

Emmalot121: A man in India has sliced off his penis with a sharp knife in a fit of rage after a heated argument with his wife, police said. The man was angry that the couple doesn’t have a male child.
“The man was upset for some time for having only two daughters, and repeatedly taunting his wife for not bearing a male child. This led to a dispute between them,” a relative told police.
This shocking incident, according to The Times of India, took place in Siwan district’s Khojwa village. Relatives informed police that the man, in his early 30s, works in Qatar and currently is at home on leave for a month. Police said the critically injured man was admitted to a hospital and they were investigating the matter. What happened to his private part is not yet clear. http://www.punchng.com/feature/weird-planet/upset-at-having-no-son-man-cuts-off-own-genitals/

Psalmpy: uhmmm
report to d police
i dont trust Naija police they can xchange their parents 4 20naira

berem: True but it depends o!

IGBOSON1: It's not that simple! The damage slavery and the subsequent colonialism did to the African psyche was massive! Add this to the systems and structures the selfish colonialists left behind in Africa when they left, and you'll see that the odds have been stacked way high against us! This is exactly how the 'superior' Europeans want things to remain: for us to always run to them for help and protection!

They've structured the world economy to perpetuate this dependency we have for them, and when it looks like a great African nation is about to raise like a Phoenix from the ashes, they conspire and do the needful to crush it; of course with the active connivance of their misguided African helpers......kinda like we saw with Biafra!

The greedy African elite that collected the reins of oppression from the departing Europeans were not too concerned about changing things because they were quite satisfied and comfortable with the status-quo!

Psalmpy: do u 've any or what means

carefreewannabe: It's fun, at least to me.




It has no value for you but you consider it import enough to talk about it every day at the moment.



I haven't said, I was oppressed, have I?
But how have you been oppressed as a man? I really want to know.

carefreewannabe: Abeg, I wasn't talking about feminism and oppression.
I just answered why some women sleep with married men.