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Girls are loving it but guys are...

All these girls coming here to shout it is good...

I personally think this is foolishness.my fellow nairalanders what do you think??

Sharp212:
God day N'landers,please I was bent on an argument or a conversation per say with a friend and we argued on the impact of regular SEX in a relationship so he was of the view that frequent SEX in a relationship does the magic for him while av' come in contact with some other dudes that their take on this is on the opposite,they claim that meeting their girlfriend constantly makes them look like they no longer deserve true love because their holy mountain has been over climbed,so I decided to bring this issue up so you guys can throw more light on these . So does it unite or dis-unite?

it break up

baldlarry:
Hi guys, It`s a new forum for potential students aspiring to study in Finland @ undergraduate level. Pls join this forum to Educate,Inform,Share Ideas,Give suggestions,etc so that all can learn.
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Freemanan:
Unconfirmed sir

hmmm

Freemanan:
www.vanguardngr.com/2015/07/38-people-dead-boko-haram-on-the-run-chadian-forces-in-pursuit/

was it the bokoharam DAT died or the Chadian army.

dapyd1:
We hear you.

good

IamLEGEND1:
that mother is outdated

mtchwwww

Suspect33:
stop dis childish stuff and go back to schl

what school??

Suspect33:
Hmm

y u first me comment??

Should the Lord give you the good gift of a husband or wife, and I hope He does, there are a few things I want you to know. Things that you may not hear from anyone else, and certainly not on TV or other media. Sadly,… your church may not even tell you.

Marriage, sweet little people, is not for the purpose of your happiness. Happy as I want you to be and hope you will be, you must yet understand that marriage is God’s design and His purposes must be pursued in order for you to be truly happy. His end is holiness and He will use all things in a life devoted to Him to fulfill that end.

To my girls:
Marry a man whose first pursuit is Christ. After that, he is not hard to please. Admire him, cheer him on and show gratitude, and he will fall over himself trying to please you. Smile often, speak well of him always, and do whatever necessary to try and maintain a pleasant mood about you so that it transfers to your home, making it a place where he and your children love to be.
You’ll have bad days of course, crying days even, and that’s when you go to your bedroom, kneel on the floor and beg the Lord to carry you. Then get up, get a fresh perspective (crayons will come off the wall), and try again. Above all else, make a home.

To my boys:
Marry a woman whose first pursuit is Christ. After that, she may be hard to please only if you don’t know “the secret”. What is that? I’m glad you asked. The secret to pleasing your wife is to make her feel safe and treasured. You may have to move out of your comfort zone to do this at times. She won’t always readily translate the oil change to love, though it means that. But let me give you a “secret question”–a question you need to ask her often. It’s not just in the asking, though. Be sure to focus your eyes on hers, maybe even touch her shoulder or face, and then ask: “What’s on your mind these days? “ And then be ready to listen. She wants you to draw her out. She will perceive this as your protection over the matters of her heart. Tenderness, listening, protection. That’s what she wants.

To you all:
If your wife or husband does something really silly, forgive. If they do it again, forgive again. Forgiveness must be the propelling force in your lives each day. Dwell on the strengths, push out thoughts of their weaknesses. Take every thought captive–choose to love.

Here’s that part you are not going to hear often:
If you find yourself “not happy”, having lost attraction, disinterested, etc., you are not permitted to even think about a divorce. If you find yourselves arguing more and more, don’t think for a minute that “the children will be better off out of this”, because they won’t.

The vows you took on your wedding day were not suggestions. They were covenant vows, before a Holy God, family and friends, to stay with this person the rest of your life, even if you don’t feel like it. You swore a solemn oath and if you can’t live up to it, don’t get married. Decide up front that your marriage is irrevocable. There is far more motivation for getting along if your “marriage house” has no door.

Do not share intimate thoughts or feelings with anyone of the opposite sex. Do not find yourself alone for any length of time with such either.
Divorce is not a “private option”. It will affect multiple families for many generations. When you “separate what God has joined” you permanently injure far more than just yourself.
Guard your marriage as fiercely as you would guard your own life. Treat your spouse as an extension of your flesh, just as God sees you. Treat your spouse like other family members. You know, “you gotta love ‘em, they’re the only family you’ve got”.
I want you to be happy, I surely do. But I will pray for you to be holy.

Proverbs 19:14 – “Houses and wealth are inherited from parents, but a prudent wife is from the LORD.”
Proverbs 20:6-7 – “Many a man claims to have unfailing love, but a faithful man who can find? The righteous man leads a blameless life; blessed are his children af

sinestro24:
well the gf tried it,

she was like: i want to breakup, i am no longer feeling the relationship

my response errrrr: yes sure why not, and cut the call.

she call back tire now, then i was forming liam helmsworth.

she dare not try that kind test again

hahahahaha.... Funny

sinestro24:
which kind rubbish testing is that one.

she is doing it cuz she have you by your balls, and knows she will get you when she wants to.

you have 2 options, brrom the girl totally or play hard to get (2 can play that game) make her work for it, next time she will think twice.

u sound like a professional to me..

kinglekan:

OP what makes a song secular? The way it sounds or the lyrics.

the way it sounds,the lyrics and most importantly,the spirit behind it.

febo15:
Guy don't allow anybody to test you,even if na blood test.

hehehe

gabbidonb:
Stop wasting your time and move on; we don't want you to come back here narrating how she dumped you; shine your eyes.

tnx.

Sandydayz:
I think so too.... U shouldn't think so, U should Knw... I don't like it wen peeps play with other emotions.... Just give it a good thinking

hmmmmm....I really wonder what she wants to gain from using me.

Sandydayz:
Av u ever had the idea... Like what if she doesn't care bout u the way u care for her?

maybe..I think she z just using me..

UnknownT:
Ur brain na akamu? Notice the question mark there? Though he has apologized sha, so its all good

mtchww..

Sandydayz:
This is serious... Well i don't think she's testing u

then what is she doing??

UnknownT:
he didn't abuse you. He asked you a question. A simple yes or no answer

what was his question..

Gurgle:
She doesn't know that for sure

Anyway I don't think "testing" you is really necessary because life will give both of you enough tests

She doesn't need to add more of them

hmmmm.tnx

Mrbigman1:
Ur brain na akamu?

No body is an expert in anything, dey use dia brains and d lazy ones calls dem expert.

She's bored, she dnt ve an option and she's coming back to continue playing with what she can manipulate

must you abuse me

Gurgle:
She is right to test you but I think she is overdoing it

Tell her to stop playing with your feelings

I don believe she is right because she has no reason to.I could never cheat on her..

vizkiz:
as an expert, broi am confused too oh

na wa oh..please where are the ladies??

[quote author=tuzle post=36343118][/quote]are u crious??

I have dated her for more than a year now.the problem is,she sometimes behave immaturely DAT causes us to separate.after the separation,she will end up saying that she was only testing me..four months ago,she left because I didn't have money to fund a little problem she had,now she is saying she loves me and was only testing me..I have refused to give in to her this time,because I don't want her playing with my emotions.someone said I am only being immatured,that I hardly know ladies..i dont really know what she wants,i am just confused.please I need some expert to advice me on what to do..

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diamondzs:
HSE

what is HSE??

I av been wondering what professional certificate can be attached to a bsc in any of the natural sciences.such as botany,genetics and biotechnology,microbiology. Etc..please urgent advice needed..

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