Woke up this morning the 1st thing that crossed my mind is the dress i'm currently designing and i smiled thinking abt it. Had to rush to the bathroom to get to class early. I love what i'm currently doing. I enrolled in a fashion academy a month ago, and nw it's the best thing that has ever happened to me.

Petite

;DThe walls of Jericho

Femi Fani-Kayode don spoil show for PDP....A matured man never speaks this way!!!

Sorry to say, but this man has been initiated by them boko haram!

pickabeau1:


Now I'm the funny one
I think you should look inwards.. Woman
Thus is the first time you mentioned other attributes aside his 'lookinggoodness' and 'wellgroomedability' and the fact that it just makes sense to settle down nownow

You had better be sure you are financially, spiritually and emotionally compatible before you commit your life to him and any man for that matter ...

People like you will come with a new moniker to wail, gnash about your hubby taking you for granted after you left it all to marry him..

Boo hoo

I'm 22, nt like I'm desperate or anything. Just because I gave an highlight of how he is doesn't mean I'm ignorant of his character!

pickabeau1:


All this one Na early morning rant...

Someone comes here and all she says about her intended is that he is attractive and well groomed

Nothing about his values, his philosophy or whehter he is even caring to her and you say I'm attacking her

Even for you that likes tall dudes, is that all you considered?

Now who is cranky this morning

Go and eat and come back

U're funny....if he isn't the man I want, will I consider his proposal? This man is every woman's dream. I myself, I'm nt bad looking so I'm nt looking for physical attribute, just that, he'll what I want in a man. He's gentle, strict, caring, and can take care of a woman. So, what more do I want? Just that he's not bad looking either!

MizMyColi:


If your going to pay his Mom a visit, won't, I repeat, won't affect your training, then please go ahead, but if it will, please, your future (personal) is equally important, so the visit can hold on for now, except of course, his mom is critically ill.

Btw, How long is "quite some time"?

Before, I read your post, I saw Pickabeau1 mention the word "superficial"

Sweery, going by the characters I highlighted in your post, I'd have to agree with him.

Sincerely now, tell me, if he suddenly looks smelly and tattered, loses his job and his face becomes somewhat unpleasant to look at, would you still like him? Would you love him?

On the guy's part, two things are involved, either his motive are unpure or genuine.
There's a possibility his Mom is pressuring him seriously and he just wants to get over the marriage ish, or......there's something more sinister
You have to be really sure.
And there's no way to go about that other than Taking Your Time.

Y'see, you need to make him understand you're not desperate (except of course you are). This is the journey of a life-time we're talking of here.
If he is for real, trust me dear, there will be no pressure. He'd wait for you, as long as he knows you're not stalling unnecessarily.

Na small small dem dey take chop food wey hot.

Don't let my comments get you incited at him o, don't let my comments give you the impression he's bad, and don't go asking him silly questions because you want to ascertain his true motive. All I'm saying is that it could go both ways. Just think for yourself and see the wisdom in your mother's unspoken words.

I say you continue with your academy plans. I would if I were in your shoes, even though it might shitty scare me I'd lose him.
But I reckon that wisdom is always profitable to direct our paths.

Thank you...well said, I'll heed to this advice.

menix:
Sure beau, go see d mum buh pls i mean Please!! leave out goin to stay wiv him.

Visit is ok.

Since u know service might not allow u finish d programme, y then should mum insist he should wait 4 u.

If d guy is close to ur heart desire kindly book ur ticket nd every oda thing will fall in place..

I'm nt intending to stay with him. Infact it's just to meet with his family that's all then I'll come back. The guy seem serious. I asked him why the rush, we shld just slow things down and pray about it.

englishmart:
you are considering leaving your career pursuit for a good-looking young guy, who might proly dump you for someone else?

If really he fvking loves you, he wouldn't trade your career for anything....

But, if you are too desperate to get married to someone because of his good looks, then be ready for a divorce, for there are a million guys who are more goodlooking

who cares about physical attributes? What matters is the fact that the decision is serious, probably he wants me to come so he could engage me, then I'll come and continue with my training, he has spoken to my mum on phone. Dnt want to inform my dad yet till everything is set.

pickabeau1:
So his only redeeming qualities are his goodlookingness?


So where is he based ....

Has he even met your own parents

How serious is he

Does he have a job or apartment of his own

You want to throw away a chance to be financially independent on the chance his mom likes you?

OwKay

I'm nt only interested in his physical appearance, I said he's well groomed too.

I'm a fresh graduate who finished last year dec. I moved to lag as soon I was done with project, still awaiting my final year result. I decided to enroll in a fashion academy here in Lagos of which I'll resume on monday.
There's this guy whom I've known for quite sometime now. He's working and goodlooking, also well groomed. I like him. He's insisting on getting married later this year, probably Nov/Dec. He said I should come to where he is this march, that his mum wants to see me, and if possible I'll leave lagos and the fashion academy. He wants me to be closer to him.
Now, I've already paid for the academy and won't get the money back. I told my mum about it, she siad I should pray about it and there's no way I'd leave the academy. She said if the guy can't wait for me to finish, then I should forget about him. The training will last for nine months of which I'm not sure of completing since service is around the corner.
I really don't know what's best, should i just continue with the training or should I just take a break and go and see his mum, then come back to complete the training?

First love never dies but true love buries it alive. I've found true love, so going back isn't possible.

ITbomb:

Amanda why?

why what?

I'd rather go for what's real....Rita Ora

Money! It controls everything...Even the conscience. So dnt be suprised, It's politics.

Money! It controls everything...Even the conscience.

engrjacuzzi:
this is the chioma okewuru late Ernest died for.
does it worth ever dying for a woman? there are a lot of pretty queens out there than this babe
he died a foolish way.

Are you kidding me? Dat guy was too weak! The gurl looks like a village girl sef!!! Nw I'm angry!

Why was the gurl arrested? She didn't use her hands to kill the guy nau...she shld be released joooor!

icebebe:
ahhahah ur evilness is wicked!

Fine gurl

Omoge Jazi...

I dey craze?

Is dis some kind of joke? Babe, u smoke weed? U wan bcome model by force. No doubt u're beautiful, but what u just did is unacceptable.

So what? Shld we come and help her learn how to cook for you?

Are u normal at all?

Dis is the most ridiculous, awkward thing I've ever seen on nairaland...Abi op, they give u winch chop abi?

zekki:
She is beautiful

pls come collect a pair of medicated glasses, u need to see well!

Goodnuel:
loll... You no well..

so because of this silly short statement, u had to quote the whole writeup? You no well too.

Hiaaaaaaaan! Nairaland!!!!!!! Dis made fp?!!! Unbelievable!

shadowgwalker:
oh yes!yes!!yes!!! yey!!!!yes oh!
I'm a male
light -dark in complexion
tall and mighty in my both heights
speak English, German and Hausa
I'm from west Africa
I hate smoking and drinking and womanizing
I fear God
I like you
I'm a school drop out with 2.1 and working with **** bank as the head of i-t
I luv mathematics and physics more than buhari and apc
I sabi dance well well, especially breakdance




to know more please kwantac my whatsapp or bbm...
thanks! muaaaaa!!!!

shadowgwalker:
oh yes!yes!!yes!!! yey!!!!yes oh!
I'm a male
light -dark in complexion
tall and mighty in my both heights
speak English, German and Hausa
I'm from west Africa
I hate smoking and drinking and womanizing
I fear God
I like you
I'm a school drop out with 2.1 and working with **** bank as the head of i-t
I luv mathematics and physics more than buhari and apc
I sabi dance well well, especially breakdance




to know more please kwantac my whatsapp or bbm...
thanks! muaaaaa!!!!

u don enter one chance... Bros, are u this desperate?