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luvtoyota:
Hi guys, I started dating this girl like 2months ago, she came to town for her IT, she is schooling in a polytechnic in Benin. I met her through a mutual friend. I liked her and we started dating. She is real pretty and Sexxy, the kind of girl I want to marry. I took good care of her. We had fun. Boy oh Boy. She is always chatting with friends on Facebook and Twitter and WhatsApp, so far I have given her 60k for her house rent, she also collected 48k and promised to pay back, she gave the money to her girl friend who has refused to pay back. I discussed marriage with her but she said she has other plans for now. She is 21yrs old. I do everything for her including buying pad, recharge card hair nails etc. She claims she hustle to pay her bills. Now she wants me to pay school fees, hand out, furnish her room etc. She was supposed to come to my crib for Christmas but she went to stay with her elder sister. IS THIS GIRL WORTH IT?

permanentgrace:
I was in the market earlier this week precisely on Monday to pick some stuffs for myself and for those i have to show xmas grace to. While in the market, i walked passed a section where hair-stylists were furiously busy braiding hairs of the girls who came there to make their probably xmas hair. Well, spotting beautiful ladies in such gathering is no surprise actually and sure i did spot two or more who caught my fantasy. But there was this particular one i liked mostly and wanted her so baaadlly.

How did i play my game to have her?

Going straight to toast a girl in such gathering could fetch you an embarrassment you'd definitely find it difficult to forget in your entire life time. As a sharp dude, i had to apply wisdom (what they say is the greatest gift in life) on dealing with this. I went back to the place, told the very hair-stylist who was making her hair that i want to make my hair. She was laughing that i wasnt serious but i insisted i was serious. After getting her desired attention which i sought, i excused her out for a minute and opened up to her plain that i so madly like the girl she was plaiting her hair and ready to have her at all cost. She again was laughing thinking i wasnt serious. Well, i asked how much was the cost of making her hair. She said 3k and i said i will pay for her hair. I gave her 4k, 3k for the lady's hair and 1k for her. I gave her my number to give to her after letting her know i already paid for her hair so she can reach me. I equally collected her (the hair-stylist) phone number so to keep in touch with her.

What happened thereafter?
In the evening of that very day, i saw a text in my phone as thus: 'thank you for paying for my hair'. I called and we talked for a long time. We agreed to meet on Tuesday for a date and it did happen. Yesterday as it was Wednesday, i took her to a show and after the show, we headed straight to my crib. With all her initial gra gra of 'i dont stay late at night', 'i dont sleep outside my house' etc, she finally crashed in crib.

Was it possible to break the walls of the 'Jerusalem'?

Well, it wasnt easy for her to allow me have access 'down there' but impossiblity does not exist in my life and thus, i finally had my way after convincingly had her mind changed by telling her how much i love her and want her for keep. Lol. Women, very easy to convince.
I must say she worth my 12k investment within the short while. Let's see how things go. If it is good, we ride on, if the opposite, the census must continues.

#ChristmasGirlFriend.

studio14:
I love fayose but this is nonsense teach me how to fish don't give me fish

happney65:
Free Toto dey naa..I remember my former area..Na so i dey Bleep one nurse for there..The babe dey first tell me say she dey engaged..Shior wetin concern me..The first day she came to my house na hin i fucck am..Small girl like 19years old ohh..The pusssy don wide..I was like WTF..Anytime she come my house na so so fuckkk sha..leta she said i did not love her say na lust i get for her..Shioor..Infact Alice nearly Jam her one day,na God save me..But my new area wey i dey i never see free toto for there sha.I still dey watch one Ahlaja girl like that wey get big yansh but i never get close to am..I pray make God help me put my Kini into her Kini..

Serginho:
we dated before I left town, I came back after a year nd even though the spark is still dia nd even more serious now than then, she told me about two guys interested in her nd how they shower her with gifts nd cash.
I knw one of the guys nd he respects me alot, I confronted him like a friend nd he opened up to me dat he once showed interest in her nd gave her many gifts but later found out dat she was only interested in his money nd gifts so he backed out nd since then, they hardly even talk.
I told the girl abt my discussion with the guy nd she insisted they still talk nd dat she even like him but I havnt seen them togeda since I came back nd the passion between I nd this girl is still dia. Some of the tins she won't even do for me then cus she said she was shy, she does it now even before I ask.
I want to knw, is she tryin to get me jealous or serious abt wat she said is going on between she nd these other guys?
She hardly ask me for gifts nd money but she does dat to the other guys nd she's so affraid to upset me, one of the guys is a staff in her workplace, I don't knw him in person nd she doesn't really talk much abt him nd the other is a student like me.

neutrotoba:
So yeah, here is a counter thread to naughtynaughty's thread: https://www.nairaland.com/2805676/guys-come-house-annoying-talk

That is one very annoying thread!!

I've got to admit, i'm sometimes guilty of 'innocently' inviting a girl I JUST MET over to my house because I can't think of a venue where i'd be more comfortable with a lady I JUST MET

Let's not deviate, the actual purpose of this thread is to feed naughtynaughty and her likes a dose of their own pill.

It's cool to take bae out every now and then and spoil her with expensive treats. Even at that, Bae wouldn't be the one to request or demand it!! But when a total stranger that i had just exchanged digits with the previous day responds with "let's meet at a cool spot" (which could only mean one thing; 'take me out') to my innocent "i'd like to see you" statement, that's a huge turn off for me

Come ooooon, why are you all like that? Show some class!!!!

That's like begging!!!!!!!

Am I the only one that experiences this?
Am I the only one that prefers meeting at MY HOUSE? Guys?

Cc lalasticlala

Chule:
on a more serious note..... ladies it's high time u guys grow up and a changed mentality, this is globalized century were things are a lot easier other than then.
The world has moved on lady, no time for hide and seek, meet under the banana tree at the village square anymore.

The truth is guys feel a lot more comfortable and confident when they entertain you in their house. esp if that his house is 'toshed' up.In fact..he lets the house do the wooing.

it will be ur decision to kn if ar to giv or not.

kasay:
All these PDP e-thugs on Nairaland seems to have learnt nothing and remember nothing. The same way you wailers chanted and screamed GEJ till 2019 and made senseless analysis on how GEJ will win by moonslide is the same way you are foolishly chanting Wike will win 1millon times over by landslide. Now, let me tell you what you already know. The Rivers election is as important as the presidential election to PMB, Amaechi,Tinubu and APC. The blood of the over 100 APC members slaughtered by Wike must be avenged by installing Dakuku. The military, police and INEC will be on hand to bury pdp in Rivers. Just as it was impossible for GEJ to win in march 2015, so it will be impossible for Wike to win the coming re-run. Bookmark this post and refer to it by middle of next year. You guys will learn again that elections are not won on Nairaland. e-DIOTs!!!!

abduljabbar4:
What goes around comes around. What can you do mr wike? APC will treat you the same way you treated Amaechi. We will use propaganda, intimidation, blackmailing and all other forms of arbitrary use of power to throw you out.

johnbull368:
Wike don't worry Karma awaits u, just the way u and your cohorts killed alot of APC members in rivers state to rig yourself into power.
laughing in chines....Chin chu yu......

abduljabbar4:
What goes around comes around. What can you do mr wike? APC will treat you the same way you treated Amaechi. We will use propaganda, intimidation, blackmailing and all other forms of arbitrary use of power to throw you out.

Glo4issy:
Hi pals,

Guys in the house please I need mature answers.

If a guy buys Iphone6S for ur girlfriend as an xmas gift,what will be ur reaction and thinking?Am asking cause my guy is not finding it funny,he even said I should return it,Is this not selfishness?

joseph1832:
Its a wonder many still can't comprehend. The dude involved has released a statement he didn't collect a single dime from Dasuki yet, you and yours still believe he collected it.

Do you and yours seriously want to believe just anything negative about PMB?.

abiolert:
From these past few days, I have seen that wailers are relatively calm here. what has suddenly happened to Bacanister and co? I guess the realities of the atrocities of previous government has dawned on them, and shown to the entire Nation, how cruel PDP's government was. my advice for treasury looters is, return the money you stole or you will never know peace for the rest of your life. Amen!

Iykestix:
he posted this yesterday on his facebook profile

prestigediva1:
Only fool will follow this guy thread...impressing jobless pdp mofos with. 5000naira that can't even pay nepa bills...chai..he should ask. his predecessor...Fayemi best governor Ekiti will never have again...5000 my foot

4Tees:
Is PDP still the largest party if Africa? I know they could not realise the ambitious and lofty dream of ruling the largest black nation in the world for straight sixty (60) years. Olisa Metuh and co, any answer??

polt:
Please nairalanders...I really need your help ...I am depressed....people might say i am a fool but what i feel now i far beyond me....


I have been dating this girl for 5 years now.... We have been together through thick and thin and even as i type this, i shed tears... I have always Loved her.. All through the years, i have always been there for her and even when she lost her dad, i tried all i could... I have Hustled to see her happy. I took our relationship to the next level and went as far to see her mother and other extended family of hers. She treats me like trash even after all this years. Shared the little i had with her just to see her through thick and thin.. NOW she suddenly hates me for no reason. I had a little misunderstanding with her recently and suddenly her cousins started advising her to let go of me for no reason. I was there for her all through the years and those cousins of hers never advised her to leave me... Is it wrong to have a little misunderstanding with her and we can make things work. I never cheated on her all through the years and i am sating this from the debt of my heart. She cheated on me more than twice and even with a priest and her ex but i forgave and we moved on just because of LOVE.. IS THIS HOW IT FEELS TO BE IN LOVE? Now i am depressed and in pains... I really dont know what to do.. I really want to leave her . The SPIRIT IS WILLING BUT THE BODY IS WEAK....

PLEASE HELP ME NAIRALANDERS...

arireirede:
PDP should stop crying fowl,if they re not satisfy, they should go to court whereas,result is not yet announced.

tuniski:
see yourself so, cos apc won election then pdp will be extinct abi? I wonder why apga hasn't extinct. Anyway, change in leadership via the ballot is the beauty of democracy. Pdp remains very much alive. It is not about the victor but, the multitude that voted the loser! Watch it as pdp bounces back except buhari/apc govs do magic in performance. The citizens now have the power to hire and fire politicians!!!! God bless nigeria and deepen our democracy.

seunmsg:
Clueless Wada has been chased out of Kogi government house the same way Nigerians chased clueless GEJ out of Aso Rock. Not a good year for corrupt and clueless leaders at all.

Adminisher:
Let Wada join a good party. He is far better than Audu but APC must win 30 states if possible. let Wada come to APC

Eberex:
Do not generalize girls.

i will not encourage guys to sponsor their girl friends in school. You can do some basic things but not the main thing reserved for her parents. My gf is in her finals now and i have been in your shoes. But the difference is i have banged her. So if anything happens tomorrow, i will not fall yakata like you are doing now.

donphilopus:
Every sane mind knows that Mama Piss' stooge is going nowhere. Sylva is the answer. Like I've earlier said, I believe Sylva more than Timi Alaibe. The guy is compromised. Hadn't been he was chosen as APC Candidate, no one would have stepped down for him. He knows how to make his party lose an Election on the eve of the Election.

lofty900:
I feel no sympathy for her. Is it just me?

timsolo:
She is still innocent until proven guilty by a competent court of law. Same goes for Amaechi, Tinubu, Fashola, Saraki, Obasanjo, Aisha Buhari etc.

free2ryhme:
I cant defend Adams on the current state of central Hospital but if he does not build infrastructures to make the state friendly for private / foreign investments \ investors the much awaited developments and improving of the masses welfare will never be achieved