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XhosaNostra:
Exactly! There's probably nothing good to say, so don't mind them lol.

It's amazing,it really is.
Love how you handled yourself by the way

rex444:
the original topic n content oooo.... Really they are not from naija ? Well they are still Africans ....we are truly blessed

Okay about the topic & content, i basically just wanted any willing participant to talk about those qualities they possess that is enough reason for them not to be cheated on. In other words,validate yourself without overestimating yourself, which is why i said VISIBLE reasons as opposed to imaginary ones.

ddugeri:
U jst won't understand

Lmao,what is there to be understood? It is not rocket science mahn.
you do not love your present chic, stop that

Truthsbitter:
But she wouldn't know if she was cheated on if the attention given to her was just perfect.

You must be a renowned playboy to type this

Oluwadamilare118:
Smile.. Then.

Hope to be in a new relationship!

I wish you good luck

rex444:
am seriously lost here but your choice of words caught my attention. ... sometimes I even wonder who calls naija youths lazy when we have such people like U n ubunja

Lol,they are not naijans

What are you lost on? Her post which you quoted, or the original topic & content?

drealcivilceno:
You asked for it ooh.

You have a dog, not our kind of local dog ooh!, you feed it and clean after it.

It protects you and will give up its life for you coz that is their nature. Higher animal(you) lower animal(dog).

The truth is that even if it will give its life up for you, you can never put in charge right because he is a dog, yeah and it has its use.

The way you see life is not the same way a man see it.

You have understand how men and humans think.

Xhosa said she made them feel like men(what we want), lol coz like she said it is like our drug, and her game is to get the man hooked and she gets honesty ( what she wants) from them in return which every woman must learn to use to their advantage because most girls do not possess.

Total manipulation right, A game right?

e.g. there is a very heavy load you cannot carry, instead of "honey help me carry this load", say " babe, you having been looking muscular recently", touching and admiring his biceps, wait for him to digest it, and launch what you want. He will carry it for you and ask if you want to carry something else but remember to use this right cos it may backfire ooh!

All i am saying is everyone can never be the same, use what you have to achieve an more fufilling and honourable end.

Wow,a robust breakdown indeed. What I'm gleaning from your response is that a man should not be cheated on no matter what?
Am i on track?

I noticed something on this topic tho, xhosanostra had the boldness to list the qualities why she should not be cheated on and you boys are all over her sexy ass trying to do God knows what.

Come on fellas, say something about why you think no girl has a right to cheat on you & leave my girl alone At least someone mentioned his diick and the things he provides which is more than i can say for the rest of you.

Where are the naija ladies here? You girls are killing me. Tell this boys whachu gots

fuckboys:
I love this mentality, our nigerian girls always feeling entitled even after all they had to offer was pvssy in the relationship.

We keep hearing stale lines like "after he's used and dumped me"

why can't our bitches learn a thing or two from them southies bitches, lets jest fck each other and get it over with... Fuuuck.,

Environment & social conditioning matters a great deal, Nigerian chics will never be SA chics

ericsmith:
sorry my response keeps coming late some of us actually av a real life, u're lonely i understand how much solace online appraisal gives you, as for the embolded, seems everything about you is in the past, accept our condolences. .. buh my dear life is not about alway having something to say, Life is about having something to show.
your sense did make up for the ugliness u are hiding ... jus been romantic

What is your problem?

Seems you started the game of not picking calls and despite the apology, she still felt hurt enough to want to give you a taste of your own medicine. Lol

Just ride it out,then when she finally picks up, say to her baby you've made your point and i heard it loud. I'm never gonna ignore you again for as long as i live

XhosaNostra:
LMFAO. Let me read through. E pain am

E really pain am

PUSSYHOE:
I ain't if she cant cope she should leave.

Lol,okay daddy.
I appreciate your honesty on this, thank you.

XhosaNostra:
Excuse me, did you read the original post, senor? In case I'm the one who missed the memo, the thread is about why you think you shouldn't be cheated on. Translation, indulge in some self-aggrandizement. I'm not here feeling fly, I'm going with the programme. Now get off my tit. Geez.

You got the memo babe, pity that some of these blokes didn't. One brotha up there is already wishing me death.

Alpha-males my smooth behind

PUSSYHOE:
I am gonna cheat will try hard not to get caught and will never deprive her of diick or other things, if she cheats thats the end.

So she should be content with your diick, the things you won't deprive her of, and not cheat, but you will.
You consider yourself quite special,don't you?

XhosaNostra:
Let me also add that I have been cheated on, on more than one occasion because I build a guy up to the point where he starts feeling like Mr Universe Now he's prancing around thinking he's God's gift to women. There's only one small problem with that though, very few can do it like I can, so they always come running back when they're not getting the same kind of praise singing, then I become the only drug that gives them the same high
I've left many a junkies in my wake

Unfortunate junkies
Their loss

drealcivilceno:
Have you heard the proverb..." the stick and the carrot?"..
That should explain it..

Break it down further chief

Oluwadamilare118:
In as much am not cheating, you shouldn't.

Fair enough. So when you cheat,she's allowed to.
Don't get caught then

XhosaNostra:
The fact that I don't cheat, alone, is enough reason for me to EXPECT the same in return. It's not even negotiable. You cheat, I'm out.

Secondary reasons, I'm not perfect but I try my best to make someone feel important, wanted & desirable. I'm attentive. I don't hold back at all. Sometimes I even feel like I'm overdoing things, but I'm an intense person, so to hell with being lukewarm, we're taking it all the way up to 100 degrees. Basically, if you can't stand the heat, get away from this mineshaft. I can only function in two temperatures, lava hot or arctic cold. So when someone manages to stoke my amorous flames (which is as rare a happenstance as finding a male preschool teacher), I burn hot for them...& only for them
I mean which person in their right senses would cheat on a person that makes them feel like George Fùcking Clooney? I'd like to see the size of the nose on that clown!

You're a babe Nostra

I love your stuff so much,i wish i was the one writing it on someone else's thread

chenzen:
The Focus here are the LADIES. The guys can turn red or use words to vent their frustrations so I can quit but I wont till I m done. Thank God no one can strangle me through the internet neither can anyone beg me to stop.

Loll,you're doing this on purpose then

That you're even considering going back to her shows you do not love your present girl as you would have us believe.

Would it not be fairer if you just said everyone male & female should date multiple people the way you explained it?
That way, no one feels hurt by your topic

healthserve:
Thrash since when did having healthy expectations equate to overestimating ones self. Expect your partner to have ten spare tyres of it soothes your ego.

I will overlook the obvious saltiness in your response since i am serious about getting answers.

Now when you say healthy expectations, do you mean for yourself, do you mean for your partner, or is it for both of you as a collective?

Please try not to be salty in your next response, i am trying to get somewhere if you'll be patient enough.

This is not designed to make anyone feel less than they are, it is just an open question intended to have you gauge your self-worth in actual visible terms as opposed to imaginary ones.

So here goes

You have a partner whom you love tremendously but something led to another and he/she cheated on you.
The question I wish to ask is, what exactly are those things about you that made you believe you should NEVER be cheated on?

This is for both the married & unmarried.

A 10 year old girl is much too aware for that sort of thing.

ornicus:
How many books have you bought for your children? Do you read books in front of your children? Our children are our own reflection. My dad and mum had a big library of books when we were growing up. Encyclopedias, classic novels, etc. So I read a lot. I read roots before I was 10.

I had intended to do same, have a giant library of hardcover classic literature. I do have a library, but it is electronic and not the same thing. I don't read books that much anymore. I have a colleague that religiously reads and practises self development via books. His library is conspicuous in his house. I'm sure his kids are reading well.

These days if parents do not expressly insist on reading schedules for kids and enforce it strictly, it does not matter how big their library is, those kids will not read it.

Rekhina:
cucumber damages d wall the more, but a unique fake dick does not

Cucumber?
Why would you use a cucumber when there are plastic & rubber dildos?

A vibrator is not inserted,it's battery operated for clitoral stimulation ONLY

SyberKate:
Many of us already use toys but the problem with using toys is that it wouldn't gree pay my bills so I still need multiple partners for that

so the guy above was right afterall

Rekhina:
It damages vaginal wall

What about vibrators

naptu2:
The Emperor of Japan usually hosts tea parties for visiting heads of state. It is derived from the tradition in the Wikipedia link below, but it is a little less formal and traditional than what is in the link.


Japanese Tea Ceremony
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Japanese_tea_ceremony

Lol,thanks. Tea party is not the same as the traditional Tea ceremony, that is really what i needed to distinguish. Thanks again

Sanchez01:
I don't know who asked you this nonsense. I only pointed out an observation. Reverence or not is not the point. It's like seeing a first class king such as the Ojaja in suit all because he is meeting with presidents and foreign world leaders.

Mr. Observatory, you claimed the Japanese culture has been tainted because his imperial majesty wears a suit. I was letting you know their culture is still very much alive and well owing to the reverence with which the Japanese regard him.
And by the way, his father also wore a suit before abdicating earlier this year to give way for this present emperor to ascend the throne.

naptu2:
More pictures of the royal tea party.

Hello, please what is this tea party about exactly?
I'm aware of the Chinese tea ceremony, but i am just knowing about this for the first time. Is it a cultural thing or just for diplomacy