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Christianity EtcRe: A Response To The Allegory In The Garden Of Eden's Account Of The Fall by missjo(op): 5:58pm On Jul 07, 2020
Kobojunkie:
undecided I see the similarities in this particular story. I confess I didn't really have the story fresh in my mind until you posted it.

I also see something else! According to the story, the curse that Joshua laid was not in fact his, but God's, to begin with.

And this example also shows that indeed the power to curse does not belong to man, but to God. He is able to speak curses, just as He did numerous times, through His prophets but man is not able to lay a curse on another man of his own will or some personal grudge.

But this has been informative. I should probably go brush up on my old testament reading since I have not done so in years.
Lol, God did not tell Joshua to lay the curse, same way he did not tell Noah to lay his. At least we were not informed of this before they proclaimed their curses.
These men were in direct communication with God, they were holy and forthright, and so their curses could very well be validated by God after/as soon as/in the instant it was proclaimed.

The writer of 1kings 16:34 however (said to be Jeremiah), was wise to make this inclusion (according to the word of the lord) because as a prophet himself, he recognized that Joshua must have had a special privilege to proclaim blesses or curses because of the preexisting power of God in him, not particularly from requesting permission from God.
The best way I can explain this is that Noah and Joshua were already living in God's perfect will and as such, their steps, their words, and their actions, were within the latitude of the working of the holy spirit. Selfishness or personal grudge was not their motivation.


There's the example of Elijah who left his cloak (filled with God's power) for Elisha after he asked for a double portion of his master's annointing. This was a blessing, but it was never written that God told Elijah to bestow his power on Elisha.
Summary - Elijah's will, but validated by God. smiley


It's been nice chatting with you as well smiley
Christianity EtcRe: A Response To The Allegory In The Garden Of Eden's Account Of The Fall by missjo(op): 5:00pm On Jul 07, 2020
Kobojunkie:
I don't believe it was the curse that did it. Given that other cities were also impacted in a similar manner, I don't believe it was the curse.
Joshua 6:26
Joshua had an oath pronounced at that particular time, saying: ‘Cursed may the man be before God who gets up and does build this city, even Jericho. At the forfeit of his firstborn let him lay the foundation of it, and at the forfeit of his youngest let him put up its doors.

Now about 500 years later in the book of
1 Kings 16:34
In [King Ahab’s] days, Hiel the Bethelite built Jericho. At the forfeit of Abiram his firstborn he laid the foundation of it, and at the forfeit of Segub his youngest he put up its doors, according to God’s word that he spoke by means of Joshua the son of Nun.


Do you see any similarities?
Christianity EtcRe: A Response To The Allegory In The Garden Of Eden's Account Of The Fall by missjo(op): 4:56pm On Jul 07, 2020
AristocraticMe:
Nice write up........ i love the first paragraph about the Adam and Sex and the Fall...... good explanation.
Thanks smiley
Christianity EtcRe: A Response To The Allegory In The Garden Of Eden's Account Of The Fall by missjo(op): 12:36pm On Jul 07, 2020
Kobojunkie:
Your statement assumes God gave man power to curse/bless his fellow man, but there is no evidence of this in scripture. Whether sinner or saint, there is no evidence that either has the power to bless or curse any of God's creation.
A good example would be the story of Balaam being hired to curse the people of Israel. We learn from that very story that God is the one who administers curses and blesses, not man.
Following that reveal, it is safe to assume that the power to bless and to curse are indeed not in the tongue of men. The power of life and death maybe, but not blessings and curses.

Your example with Joshua's curse on Jericho again seems a bit of a stretch just like the claim of the curse on Canaan being to blame for Israel's eventual annexation of the land of Canaan.
Lol, how is Joshua's curse a bit of a stretch? The curse wasn't fulfilled?
FamilyRe: Picture Of Newborn Baby Holding Mum's Failed Coil Goes Viral by missjo(f): 12:33pm On Jul 07, 2020
Haha, this is funny. cheesy

Baby be like, nana you couldn't stop me even if you wanted. Who's laughing now? grin
Christianity EtcRe: A Response To The Allegory In The Garden Of Eden's Account Of The Fall by missjo(op): 1:47am On Jul 07, 2020
Kobojunkie:
Ok.
But I still don't believe that man has the ability to curse or bless that which he cannot create. I believe that power belongs to the Almighty and Him alone. grin
Lol, a man who curses/blesses is not doing it of his own power, it's the power and authority of God in him through the holy spirit that enables this ability.

A sinner cannot curse and expect God to validate it.

There are many recorded instances involving men of God & prophets in the bible placing curses/blessings which came to pass.
I included the example of Joshua above before you quoted my post (again), lol.

The power to bless and curse is found in the tongue, but not just any tongue, the tongue has to belong to someone whom God has found holy and acceptable in his sight, not just anyone who is angry and then decides to retaliate by throwing curses around. The latter is a beautiful waste of time
Christianity EtcRe: A Response To The Allegory In The Garden Of Eden's Account Of The Fall by missjo(op): 1:13am On Jul 07, 2020
Kobojunkie:
Here's another dimension to add to this. The curse was placed on Canaan more than 500 years before The Israelites showed up in the land of Canaan.

So again, given that Canaan was not the only people enslaved by Israel, at a point i.e. it shared a fate similar to other peoples(different roots from Canaan), this surely leads away from the idea of a curse being to blame and more towards God acting as He said He would have it.
The curse specifically stated that Canaan/Ham would serve his brothers. This came to pass when Israel (Shem) conquered and took over the land of the Canaanites (Ham).
It doesn't matter if it takes 1000years, what God has validated/promised comes to pass.

With the exception of Canaan, I don't know of any other lands and people that were conquered or enslaved by the Isrealites, do you?

Note that fighting a war and winning it is not the same as conquering or enslavement. The 12 tribes of Israel, 13 if you count the Levites, were assigned their lands only within the boundary of the area known to have belonged to the Canaanites. These lands became theirs (conquer) and any inhabitants that were not killed became slaves (enslavement).
They held no lands in Edom, Ammon, Moab, or Assyria, even though they fought wars with these countries and won sometimes.


Another quick example of a curse made by man, validated by God, but only came fulfilled many years in the future, was the curse of Jericho proclaimed by Joshua. After the walls were destroyed and the city sacked, a curse was placed that whosoever tried to rebuild it would lose his first son and his last son, in that exact order.
It took some generations later, but this curse was also fulfilled.
Christianity EtcRe: A Response To The Allegory In The Garden Of Eden's Account Of The Fall by missjo(op): 9:10pm On Jul 06, 2020
Kobojunkie:
Given the similarities between the listed peoples, how can you then say that Canaan's tragedy was definitely a result of a curse? undecided
Edomites, descendants of Esau.
Moabites and Ammonites, descendants of Lot.
Israelites, descendants of Jacob.

All the above have a common ancestry starting from Terah who himself was a direct descendant of Shem, Noah's son.

The Canaanites (Palestinians) on the other hand all share a common ancestry as direct descendants of Canaan, son of Ham who saw his father Noah's unclothedness.

As an addendum, the Assyrians, Babylonians, Greeks Romans, etc are said to be descendants of Japheth who also share in the blessing with Shem to rule over the descendants of Ham, more specifically, Canaan (the curse).
Christianity EtcRe: A Response To The Allegory In The Garden Of Eden's Account Of The Fall by missjo(op): 5:25pm On Jul 06, 2020
Kobojunkie:
The philistine country did not remain enslaved for longer than a minute though.
So, still can't be the curse. The reason for Canaans destruction seems to have more to do with their immoral ways than it does any curse. After all loo k at the case of Sodom and Gomorrah, a civilization that met similar fate as Canaan.

I don't believe it is even possible for humans to curse that which they cannot create and.
I used Philistine as one example and they were enslaved for quite a while actually, then they revolted, then became enslaved again, and so on and so forth through Israel's history.
Apart from Philistine, Jerusalem was also a part of Canaan and was inhabited by the Jebusites who were not destroyed but only enslaved by Israelites.

Canaan's destruction and enslavement as the case may be, was not just because of their immoral ways but because of the curse that was on them and for the prophesy of Noah to be fulfilled.

The Edomites, Moabites, Ammonites were also immoral and evil people in the sight of God, but their lands and people were never meant to be destroyed or enslaved by Israel even though these nations surrounded Canaan
Christianity EtcRe: A Response To The Allegory In The Garden Of Eden's Account Of The Fall by missjo(op): 4:55pm On Jul 06, 2020
Kobojunkie:
According to the curse, they were meant to be enslaved, not destroyed.
The curse can not then be claimed as reason for Canaan's destruction. undecided
Lol, enslaved, destroyed. I deliberately typed both

Not all of Canaan was completely destroyed.
For example, the Philistine country remained ensalved while the inhabitants of Jericho were completely destroyed, with the exception of Rahaab and her family.
Christianity EtcRe: A Response To The Allegory In The Garden Of Eden's Account Of The Fall by missjo(op): 4:23pm On Jul 06, 2020
Kobojunkie:
How was it evil?

Not too long before this man and woman had been created with all their naked glory hanging free and swinging in the wind. God declared His handiwork GOOD. Man and woman lived without shame or care for as long as they did before man sinned.

After man sinned, shame showed up, a result the knowledge, likely of evil, that man had acquired( shame has nothing to do with good). Now, God, out of pity, made cloths for man to cover man's shame of that which God declared good.

Fast forward in time to the fateful incedent with Noah getting drunk and naked. It was not Ham's fault that Noah lost the covering He used to "hide" his shame. Ham found his old man naked and called his brothers. Sure they covered Noah up believing that what they beheld was worth concealing instead.

But Noah was wrong in attempting to curse his grandson, Canaan because he didn't do nothing wrong, nor did Ham, as far as good and evil is really concerned and at that time too. He could have maybe scolded him but not curse him. Fortunately, it seems the "curse" had no real effect anyways. undecided


Validated?
Are we talking about the same descendants of Canaan whom the Israelites, descendants of Shem destroyed, enslaved, and took over their lands?
Christianity EtcRe: A Response To The Allegory In The Garden Of Eden's Account Of The Fall by missjo(op): 10:10pm On Jul 05, 2020
Kobojunkie:
Also, i don't believe Ham was evil. Sure he saw his father's unclothedness and spoke of it, but what he did was not evil at all, at least not in the sight of God since God did not scold him for it, only noah did, for obvious reasons.
Seeing his father naked and not covering him up was sinful, inviting his brothers to see it also was the evil.

The curse Noah placed on him was validated by God, so it's safe to believe God supported Noah in both scolding and cursing.

Some theologians hold the belief that Ham may have had sexual relations with his father in that state, but I'm not of that school of thought.
Christianity EtcRe: A Response To The Allegory In The Garden Of Eden's Account Of The Fall by missjo(op): 10:02pm On Jul 05, 2020
Kobojunkie:
Was Adam's disobedience not an outward expression of Evil, which I take to mean that which is contrary to the will of God ? undecided
I figured you would ask this, so I edited my comment to include something before you quoted it. Check please
Christianity EtcRe: A Response To The Allegory In The Garden Of Eden's Account Of The Fall by missjo(op): 9:59pm On Jul 05, 2020
Kobojunkie:
Evil came into the world through Adam for He was the one who disobeyed God by eating from the tree of "good and evil" in the beginning. As a result, his seeds were tainted by his sin, and remain that way to this day.
Sin, not evil, came into the world through Adam, and yes his seeds were tainted.

Evil is the outward expression of sin without remorse & contriteness.
The same sin-tainted nature in Cain was also in Abel, yet only Cain was evil in the sight of God.

Same explanation with the sons of Noah, all tainted by the sin of their forefather Adam, but only Ham is the evil son.
CelebritiesRe: Kanye West Announces His Intention To Run For President by missjo(f): 11:22am On Jul 05, 2020
Iceyjayz:
Don't mind her, he's a billionaire.
Obviously, I was just trying to find out if she's actually for real. Lol
CelebritiesRe: Kanye West Announces His Intention To Run For President by missjo(f): 11:09am On Jul 05, 2020
cococandy:
Trump is not a billionaire
Are you being serious?
RomanceRe: I Like Manly Men by missjo(f): 8:51am On Jul 04, 2020
Lol, who doesn't.
Feminine looking and acting men are good as best friends tho
TravelRe: NASA Astronauts Share Stunning Images Of Boundary Between Night & Day From Space by missjo(f): 7:51am On Jul 03, 2020
Gosh, the seemingly infinity of space with no end in sight. I truly can't understand how anyone won't be scared out of their minds when they are in space, I'd be mortified.

As much as I am claustrophobic, I still have a phobia for being in such an open space with no sense of depth and form around me. cry

Beautiful images, but hell I don't want to see it personally. shocked
Foreign AffairsRe: 350 Elephants Die In Botswana (Photos) by missjo(f): 8:06am On Jul 02, 2020
Such majestic animals cry
FamilyRe: What Was The Most Embarrasing Thing Your Parents Caught You Doing by missjo(f): 7:45am On Jul 02, 2020
My mom never caught me herself and damn was I a naughty girl. Lol
I got snitched on a few times, and this is how she always discovered things about me. sad

Twice, I had aunties I thought could keep their mouths shut reporting me to my mum. Then one time, it was a neighbour living few blocks from us who snitched on me after she caught her son and myself fōndling on her sofa.

Another time it was my cousin who invited me out to a party only to snitch on me by telling my nana she saw me smoking a joint angry
I still don't talk to this girl till now, what a douche.
TravelRe: Why Does Accra almost Look Like South Africa by missjo(f):
Nigeria isn't as safe and comfortable as Ghana, to be honest.
HealthRe: Johnson & Johnson To Pay $2.1bn Over Cancer-causing Talcum Powder by missjo(f): 11:04am On Jun 24, 2020
santino09:
Thought pharma Giants can't be touched.
Really sad as I was just with a Johnson and Johnson rep yesterday.
Normally they can't under the right administration because they've got powerful lobbyists is Washington.
But with Donnie Trump, he's anti deep state and political cronyism except with his wall-street friends.
FamilyRe: Nigerian Women And Abortion by missjo(f): 2:34pm On Jun 18, 2020
Ningen:
Your partner coercing you into having coitus & birth control failing (yes, it's not 100% effective).

You getting pregnant because your SO wouldn't marry you if you don't, thus your relationship is on the line and you're manipulated to give in.

Just trying to say, there are external factors that can impact your decision against your wishes.
This is kind of the point tho.
I can't comprehend any way I could possibly get pregnant against my own wishes. cheesy I mean, it's my uterus right?

That's an odd thing to type.
FamilyRe: Nigerian Women And Abortion by missjo(f): 1:22pm On Jun 18, 2020
bukatyne:
I don't agree with your assertion that Nigerian women are sexually repressed culturally to the extent they can't protect themselves.
I never said they can't, I implied it's harder. This is why I used the word 'embarrassed'.

Culturally, premarital sex still has taboo status. It's mostly forgivable for males but all hush hush when it comes to females. This is one reason why sexually-active single women may find it embarrassing walking into a pharmacy to get birth control patches, pills, or condoms.
FamilyRe: Nigerian Women And Abortion by missjo(f): 12:51pm On Jun 18, 2020
Ningen:
Not entirely true.
Not when coercion and manipulation exists.
Lol, what do you mean by coercion and manipulation and how exactly does it impact my decision to not get pregnant when I don't want to?
FamilyRe: Nigerian Women And Abortion by missjo(f): 12:45pm On Jun 18, 2020
bukatyne:
Nigerian single women are culturally restricted when it comes to sex?

In this same Nigeria?


Ok.

@bold:

I totally agree with you.
Your point please before I can respond smiley
FamilyRe: Nigerian Women And Abortion by missjo(f): 11:15am On Jun 18, 2020
This is dependent on the society a woman lives in.
I believe single women in Nigeria are too culturally restricted when it comes to the issue of sex, this can make them feel embarrassed if they need to walk into pharmacies or see doctors to get birth control options.

I've been getting access to birth control since I turned 21. Waking into any pharmacy here for these things is quite normal and no one looks at you funny. Bought male condoms sometimes as well, to ensure he does not come with an excuse of not having one. Getting pregnant or not getting pregnant is my decision.
Foreign AffairsRe: China Warns Britain That Beijing Will 'Strike Back If UK Steps Out Of Line' by missjo(f): 1:06pm On Jun 17, 2020
Hong Kong is part of China at the end of the day, it isn't a British territory and I can't wait to see how all of this will play out.
Christianity EtcRe: Bishop Oyedepo Speaks On Succession Of Living Faith Church by missjo(f): 12:08pm On Jun 12, 2020
petra1:
Nothing is wrong with that . It's an issue of loyalty to the vision . Aaron the high priest was moses elder brother .

Miriam the prophetess was moses elder sister

When Aaron died ,his son was chosen to be high priest. Because he was already serving with him .

But moses son was not serving with him . Rather joshua was serving moses. So Joshua took over from moses .

James jesus brother took over the from jesus.

It's an issue of loyalty. Its rather safe if if there is a willing heart to serve in the family than a stranger.
Be careful so you don't misinform people.
Foreign AffairsRe: Is Donald Trump Actually Helping America? by missjo(f): 7:40am On May 31, 2020
redsun:
That guy is acting like he is got a mental breakdown. Very much unlike a president of a democratic world, nevertheless, America that everybody used to look up to for pretentious decency. He is erratic, rude, abusive, threatening, unwitty and undiplomatic.

I am surprised the American president has such almost absolute power that seems like he is above the law.
I'm glad you know it was always a pretentious decency.
HealthRe: The Controversy Regarding Female Ejaculation by missjo(op): 6:47pm On May 11, 2020
Rawhumper:
And we have been drinking it.....goosh!

But it tastes good,i even rub on my hands and face.
Sex helps to smoothen my skin and i glow more whenever i have healthy sex....


To me sex is the best thing ever!
What now? shocked
cheesy
RomanceRe: Men, If You Want Your Marriage To Last, Marry An Illiterate.......... by missjo(f): 7:17am On Dec 30, 2019
crackhaus:
Healthserve, I saw your mention.


Regarding the topic:
While it seems there is a connection to be made between education and conceited behavior in women, I certainly do not see the alternative (illiteracy/being uneducated) as the solution.

As a matter of fact, true education rests in the understanding that good character and exemplary social behaviors are very important aspects of a truly educated person.

A woman with all the degrees and certificates but without an exemplary attitude and social character, is really not fully educated to me. Same way an illiterate woman with all the exemplary social manners and attitudes, is in fact quite educated enough to me, as is.

There is a reason why the standard verbose uttered while being presented with a Bachelor's degree usually goes something like this:
"...having fulfilled the requirements of the University in character and in academics, we are pleased to..."
Something of that sort but you get the point.

Although, these words have now become taken for granted in the Nigerian educational system, but believe me when I tell you, no erudite higher-learning institution anywhere in the world will ever graduate an all A's student who has a very questionable character.
There must be a balance.

Only women who were given mushroom education see their literacy as a license for conceited behavior, and they are very easy to spot.
kiss

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