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Family / Re: How Do You Build Trust In A Marriage? by missjo(f): 5:13pm On Feb 14, 2021 |
mariahAngel:Hmmm, what's done is done ma'am and I don't believe in nevers. Yes I acknowledge the part which our indiscretions together may have played in how mistrustful he is of me presently, but my husband isn't exactly a saint either. He's definitely cheated on one or two people before. Now that I think of it, I should probably have that conversation with him Thanks 4 Likes |
Family / Re: How Do You Build Trust In A Marriage? by missjo(f): 4:52pm On Feb 14, 2021 |
SpeciMental:Lmfao. Thanks, but this was funny. I already brief him about my daily activities, I've been doing that now more than before just to see if he chills. Some days, it works, but other days he's back to the usual suspicions. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: How Do You Build Trust In A Marriage? by missjo(f): 4:46pm On Feb 14, 2021 |
bukatyne:Wow there's a lot to respond to here He is the kind of man you would call a ladies man, meaning he's the one who would have been cheating, not cheated on. I have joked about that a lot with him. Also has a big ego on him too, so I'm not sure if he feels inadequate I have asked him why he suspects me, his answer is always the same. I don't suspect you, I'm only being protective. He says he is afraid of losing me, that's why he constantly does what he does. Personally, I don't think he rates me at all, like why would I start having an affair with a coworker just like that? I don't flirt at all, most people on first impression think I'm snobbish and unfriendly, especially men. I don't know about being stunning but I'm okay, lol. Yes I enjoy the attention, doesn't mean I show that I do. Single word answers are what I'm known for, my friends are tired of me cos of it. He is my spec, real life spec. Movie spec is different, very few men actually look like those hunkies in the movies. He wasn't really a rebound, I was still in that relationship when we first started chilling and doing stuff. You could say I cheated on my ex with him, hard to admit but it's what it is. He is extremely loving, he is also nuts but he's that kind of nuts that pisses me off then has me loving up afterwards. Thanks a whole lot for your response. My only worry is that one of these days, he gonna use his suspicions as an excuse to get some. I might finally consider talking therapy to him, see what he says. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: How Do You Build Trust In A Marriage? by missjo(f): 4:18pm On Feb 14, 2021 |
sherylbaky:Hmmmm 1 Like |
Family / Re: How Do You Build Trust In A Marriage? by missjo(f): 4:04pm On Feb 14, 2021 |
freetheking:Thanks |
Family / How Do You Build Trust In A Marriage? by missjo(f): 8:34am On Feb 13, 2021 |
Hello all, as shown in the topic, what I need most in my marriage is trust. My husband does not not trust me, he's extremely suspicious of me. At first, it was flattering seeing him show his insecurities by being protective and wanting to know where I am and who I'm with all the time. But I can take it no more cos of the way he keeps mentioning specific names of men he thinks I'm having something with. To give you a bit of context, this is a summary of our marriage. By the time I and my husband met, I was in a relationship with someone else. He didn't mind and we clicked mostly because we were classmates from way back. I instantly fell for him and it was easy for me to fall in love probably because the relationship I was in at the time was on shaky ground, we were always fighting. I found peace with my current husband when he showed genuine interest and we developed our friendship, and that led us to where we are now as a married couple. Now I'm not stupid, my mind tells me that perhaps at the back of his mind, he feels that if I was able to leave my previous relationship to be with him, then I can do the same to him. This is what I'm thinking, but I also believe there's more to what may be going on in his own mind. Missing his calls always becomes an issue, he has this attitude of calling me on video immediately after I tell him where I am and then he would insist I pan out the camera angle to show him around. He has gone as far as mentioning the name of two coworkers of mine, and makes jokes that insinuate I'm having a secret affair. I love this man, and I would not cheat on him. He makes me swear and make promises to him all the time and frankly, I'm tired of swearing for someone who just won't get that he's got me and won't lose me. It's gotten to the point that his continuous suspicions of my coworkers have made me start noticing them in ways I shouldn't have. I honestly started watching them more just to understand why my husband would ever assume I can be interested in them. I want him to trust me, I need his trust, but I have run out of things to do on my own. I was going to suggest couple's therapy to him, but I'm so not ready for one of his long speeches. I just want to do all I can to build the trust and if it don't work, then I can be bold enough to suggest therapy as a last resort. 2 Likes |
Foreign Affairs / Re: How The Ancient Egyptians Mummifed Their Dead For Afterlife In Steps (Graphic) by missjo(f): 12:55am On Sep 23, 2020 |
ednut1:Hello! If you will, please do some research on this Egyptian word Apiru/Habiru/Hapiru/Aperu. Same words, just different spellings depending on source material. Basically means slaves/outcasts. And no, Google is never enough 14 Likes |
Foreign Affairs / Re: How The Ancient Egyptians Mummifed Their Dead For Afterlife In Steps (Graphic) by missjo(f): 12:28am On Sep 23, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:I do not intend to make you appear purposefully ignorant, but don't you consider yourself a bit funny typing the above texts in bold with so much ferociousness? There is a Jewish public holiday called Pesach (The Passover) which is celebrated by all Jews around the world, everyone knows this, everyone except you it seems. So if you claim that the Jews have rejected the story of their enslavement in Egypt, do pray tell, what is this Passover they are still celebrating every year worldwide? Don't answer 59 Likes 6 Shares |
Foreign Affairs / Re: How The Ancient Egyptians Mummifed Their Dead For Afterlife In Steps (Graphic) by missjo(f): 12:03am On Sep 23, 2020 |
mimicherry:Lol 2 Likes |
Foreign Affairs / Re: How The Ancient Egyptians Mummifed Their Dead For Afterlife In Steps (Graphic) by missjo(f): 4:37pm On Sep 22, 2020 |
CosmicPhoenix:Oh dear. I have no intention to convince you, what you believe is up to you. But perhaps if you stripped yourself of your denial for a wee bit, you might actually start to consider what I already posted above to be the proof you need. I specifically put in bold certain words like Aperu (research on this on your own). Also, the store city mentioned in that scriptural verse called Rameses is named after the Pharaoh who commissioned the Aperu (Hebrew) to build it. You ought to know that Pharaohs were known to give their names to cities built during their reign, they would typically make it the capital from whence they ruled. Other examples of such cities named after the Pharaoh who built them include Memphis, Akhetaten, Tanis, Mendes, etc The connection you require using that verse, is that for a city which was built by the Israelites as slaves in the book of Exodus, it follows that the Pharaoh who was ruling at that time had to be a Rameses for the city to be called Rameses. And furthermore from Egyptian history, there was only one Rameses who used the Aperu(Hebrew) slave labour to build monuments, this was Rameses II. He was responsible for building a greater percentage of all Egyptian monuments than any other Pharaoh that ever ruled because he had slave labour (Hebrews) to accomplish it. 144 Likes 6 Shares |
Foreign Affairs / Re: How The Ancient Egyptians Mummifed Their Dead For Afterlife In Steps (Graphic) by missjo(f): 4:05pm On Sep 22, 2020 |
CosmicPhoenix: missjo: Rameses II, specifically. 137 Likes 11 Shares |
Travel / Re: ₦11Billion Isolated Home On The Crystal Clear Ocean Front Of Cayman Island(Pic) by missjo(f): 8:25pm On Sep 03, 2020 |
Cayman |
Travel / Re: 19 Black Families Purchased 97Acres Of Land To Build New Black City In U.S(Pics) by missjo(f): 4:34pm On Sep 02, 2020 |
How realistic is this? 3 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Mahatma Gandhi's Eye Glasses Sold For ₦131 Million (Photos) by missjo(f): 5:03am On Aug 23, 2020 |
daddytime:Nelson Mandela had bad sides too 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: Israel Opens First Floating Sail-in Cinema For Coronavirus Safe Viewing(Photos) by missjo(f): 9:04am On Aug 21, 2020 |
thesicilian:How is this risky? |
Education / Re: Some Commonly Confused Animals: Can You Tell Them Apart? by missjo(f): 6:51am On Aug 07, 2020 |
Frogs and toads also look so much alike, and many people do confuse them for each other. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Should I Deflower Her? by missjo(f): 7:12pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
If you have to ask, then it's best you don't do it. Your doubts and uneasiness will make it too painful for her cos you're not in the right frame of mind to deflower her or any girl for that matter. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Coronavirus: South Koreans Disinfect Money In Washing Machine, Microwave (Pics) by missjo(f): 6:49pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
Wow, you mean they got more money from the bank than what they tried to disinfect. Is this what happened, or do my eyes deceive me? 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Why GOD Had To Do It Himself by missjo(f): 10:00am On Jul 30, 2020 |
kingxsamz:One doesn't need to know or have a previous experience of the full consequences of their action before obeying an instruction. All they had to do was obey since they knew no better. |
TV/Movies / Re: Maureen Esisi Kisses Bbnaija Prince Via TV by missjo(f): 9:49am On Jul 30, 2020 |
I'm not sure what to make of this 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Phones / Re: Help Please! by missjo(f): 6:11pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
budaatum:My pleasure Buda 1 Like 1 Share |
Family / Re: To The 40s And Above People Here, What Is Your Advice To Those Of Us In Our 20s? by missjo(f): 6:09pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
tolukem:I love this 1 Like |
Phones / Re: Help Please! by missjo(f): 5:31pm On Jul 25, 2020 |
budaatum:8.3 is a good choice, really good. Honestly, any mid-range or flagship device from Nokia is good. My personal tip for you though is to pick Nokia devices that are branded under the Android One programme. The updates for these come early 1 Like 1 Share |
Phones / Re: Help Please! by missjo(f): 2:39pm On Jul 24, 2020 |
Have you researched Nokia devices, Buda? 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Iceland To Open Artificial Sky Lagoon With A Luxurious Swim Up Bar In 2021(Pics) by missjo(f): 8:39am On Jul 14, 2020 |
Explorers:Your top two? |
Family / Re: . by missjo(f): 8:33am On Jul 14, 2020 |
UjuJoan2:You're joking right? I'm about to inform him of this Seriously tho, can't be him. Wrong age, wrong ethnicity 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: Iceland To Open Artificial Sky Lagoon With A Luxurious Swim Up Bar In 2021(Pics) by missjo(f): 7:22pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
Visiting this country is high up on my bucket list. Beautiful 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Say Something And I'll Argue Against It. by missjo(f): 8:01am On Jul 10, 2020 |
budaatum:Haha |
Religion / Re: This Is Why The Official Black Lives Matter Statement Is So Disturbing by missjo(f): 7:47am On Jul 09, 2020 |
Tags/movements have always been disturbing. Too many moving parts makes it hard for them to maintain cohesiveness and uniformity of purpose and vision. I don't need to belong to a BLM movement to know that black lives matter, just as all lives should. I don't need to belong to a feminist movement to know that women's rights matter, just as every human's right should. Etc. Etc. 6 Likes |
Religion / Re: A Response To The Allegory In The Garden Of Eden's Account Of The Fall by missjo(f): 7:22am On Jul 09, 2020 |
Kobojunkie:Nope, Jeremiah didn't make anything up. I specifically noted that he was 'wise' to have noted that part, especially when you consider that the person he was writing about lived hundreds of years before him. We've moved past Noah and Ham. You simply don't want to believe that some events in the bible were a fulfillment of previous blessings/curses, lol. Proof that Elisha got a double portion? Well if we are to be literal, Elisha did perform more miracles than his master before him. The Bible records eight for Elijah and double that amount for Elisha. Figuratively however, the term "double portion" in Jewish culture refers to the blessing of the firstborn. Elisha was not a prophet, he was more like an underling to Elijah. There were higher prophets in Israel that could very well have taken over the exalted post held by Elijah, but by granting the request of Elisha and leaving his cloak to him, he effectively promoted him above all other prophets in Israel and made him his heir/firstborn. Elisha became the head of the school of Prophets both in his resident northern kingdom and the southern kingdom of Israel after Elijah's passing, something which Elijah himself didn't quite accomplish because he was the quiet loner type, never really involving himself in politics. So while we can view the double portion as figurative, it is also very literal seeing that every specific miracle which Elijah performed, Elisha also did some but in a much greater magnitude than his predecessor. Not forgetting also the doubling in number when counting the miracles of both prophets. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by missjo(f): 6:53am On Jul 09, 2020 |
She never truly loved him, and this is a major problem with our generation - people are ultimately looking out for what they'll gain from their partners but masking all that selfish desire with claims of being in love. Gosh so many of us would fail this test if we were to find ourselves in the same situation, so while I'm critical of her, I'm also critical of myself because I don't know if I'll be any better. 605 Likes 36 Shares |
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