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Story! Who has ever worked with friends? Even as an individual we face so many challenges, thats life for you

shakur11:
[b]When I went to see her, She told me It an error that her ex put something in her drink.

Na you be the friend ba

And why wont it be when you stole govt money to build up ur private business

This is what happens when you abandon the primary work of being a messenger of God for other things. People still need to knw more about Christ than about who rules America.

All three kwarupt fifle?? it is a coincidence Are you za only worker in WAEC obis?? Where d hell have u been since this issue came up during baba's campaign and why the hell are you telling us this now?? Biko stay one side

Ok its jst for 3weeks...

Why did I get married should be on the list. Enjoyed warroom and fireproof.

idrisalomagold:
Removing age bracket or not, where are the jobs? If at all that will be done, what about the 2 figure years of experiences and some other unnecessary professional certificates used to screen people out? They should stop deceiving themselves.

Exactly!

Mtcheeww even with the age brackets how many applicants have gotten jobs advertised lately under this administration. Y'all be talking about building castles when all youths want is a simple bed to lay their heads on every freaking night!

What good have the others before him whose services you also engaged done for our decaying country mbok

What about the others like Nitel. This ill treatment is the reason why present directors in govt parastatals are looting all they can while still d office, govt abandons you after u retire

Atleast una admit say hunger dey

^^ You took the words right off my mouth. Thats the problem with this government, work is yet to start...

Should this be an issue in this day and age? Are we going forward or backward? Why im i even asking the obvious?

Kai these people don see nigerians finish shaaa. Truth always reveals itself!

nairaman66:
Anytime this man buys her gift she comes alive on social media to rant! I never knew the new definition of a good marriage is gifts!! Tonto should learn to keep her mouth shut and her house in check.

Trust me she will get tired eventually. Whats real and true is skin deep...

Rock01:
Kai!!! How so feminine you are. That baby is almost the smallest in that picture and that's the only thing that touched you(smiles), you are truly a woman.

thanks

Why cant they at least dress the baby up as well haba

So that is the swap? At least the govt was careful to come up with a figure this time around 21 girls for 20 fallen soldiers. What a price to pay! Let the show continue....The truth will always prevail at the end!

'Let the government take her to America'. Yea same government that always had the girls. We know the drill play along and get compensated

We all know that this is a circus show even the Boko haram themselves have kept mum on their release. We still dont have facts as to how the dropoff was made only in nigeria will such happen. Lies lies lies what amazes me is how they tell it not even minding that we know they lying

So many things to be thankful for but the one that tops this moment is the strength He gives me to pray and commune with Him #breakthroughisclose

[quote author=sonnie10 post=50169761][/quote]I understand much better how it all plays out now. Truelly the actions of these men are understandable but does not justify the killings. Its well!

cyrilamx:
did you comprehend what you read? Did you read where it was stated that after divorce, the men are thrown into the street and the wives inherits their lives savings? The men didn't just plan the murder cos the women earns more than them...after all they knew nurses earn higher before they sponsored their wives to become RNs.
It is the impunity and pro-feminists American laws which the women seize upon to oppress their hubbies.how can you be deprived of your life savings only for a woman who oppress u psychologically to earn all. Worst still you lose custody of the kids. Though I never condone the murder...it is the last resort of an already battered man.

Ogbeni go back and read my comment. Divorce, disrespect, murder and all can be avoided. You are right its not cos of the money infact money is the least of their problems. All im saying is that most of these things happen cos the men allow it. You dont need to sink before learning to stay afloat. Take a stand before you take a stand at the box...

ponti93:
plz what is RN

Resident nurse i think

sonnie10:
Unfortunately, the system is not set up that way. Take for instance if the man is earning $12hr and the woman is earning about $40hr as an RN, they surely would want to get a mortgage of about $300k. The monthly payment will not be less than $2k. This amount is more than the man's entire monthly income at $12hr/ 40hr a week job. Considering that they certainly would have other expenses and bills, how then will the man form boss with his little earning?

The truth is that, it takes understanding between couples to live with such difference in earning. The man must relinquish, get down from his high horse and find ways of coming to terms with reality. On the other hand, the woman must also understand that situation warrants threading with caution. She must make every effort to make the man feel like he is still in charge, even when in actual sense he is not.

For instance, she should never give out large amount of money to her family members without prior discussion and permission by the husband, even when it is her money.

Truely the system gives room for lots of rubbish. There are many other ways a man can substitute jare. Once the basic needs ae met the man can go to bed with a smile on his face. Black men are not lazy and are very versatile. Forget bills will be paid somehow. If the woman sees his effort na her conscience go judge her to do the needful. How are homes where the husband is the sole breadwinner surviving? All im saying is such women should be shown that their help is not ncessarily needed.

Such impunity! Im just here wondering and imagining all the promises baba must have made to these guys during his quest for power. May Nigeria not be sold at last

neocortex:
That doesn't still guarantee long term happiness together.
Friends killing friends because of money is not a new story.

True but theres this level of comrade and understanding if u marry ur frnd that no matter how wicked the mind plays trick on u and forces u to lash out that bond of frndship creeps in and forces one to keep it together. Truefriendship is for a lifetime my brother.

I blame the men. No matter the money a woman makes men should never make her feel superior by leaving key responsibilities to her just cos she earns more. Even if the man is dead broke. Never ever get intimidated, or rely on a woman completely with your small jobs and little income you can still be the boss, run ur home and make her come drooling. Respect is earned!

What where they expecting? Why is she saying all these now? What like hez never heard of dining with the devil with a long spoon? Sycophants always always fight for their pay. Its business baby thats what you get when you get into power with the support of people who lack credibility...

But u just did

This is confusing. Why play reverse roles when u can both be who you originally are and still be together. Cray cray!