Education › Re: Reactions As ASUU Calls Off Strike by mistyebby(f): 8:44am On Feb 08, 2019 |
My Governor( Rochas)will be all smiles now. He needs students to be his thugs in the coming elections. They should have called off after the elections. I see more harm than good. |
Politics › Re: Buhari Says Edo Central, Forgets He's In Ondo by mistyebby(f): 1:44am On Feb 06, 2019 |
iamJ: people be acting as if, their fathers dont make mistakes
hypocrites, may whatever you wish for buhari, befall your family 100% and more We need a mentally fit president that will rule millions of People, not people's father. This unnecessary sentiment you have for Buhari will take you nowhere. Even a kid knows that this man isn't in charge anymore, hez just like a robot whose been controlled by a remote ( cabals). |
Celebrities › Re: Comedian Ogus Baba’s Wife Hospitalized After Disturbing Instagram Post by mistyebby(f): 6:50pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Jaysolu: There would be a very juicy story behind this Maybe she was caught cheating with bovi so he took all hus property nd left her and this followed anyone else hava theory?? Ode story  |
Politics › Re: Judges Are Not Permitted To Speak To The Media - NBA Boss by mistyebby(f): 4:52pm On Jan 27, 2019 |
Built2last: Hmmmm
But what is it with this bag Lawyers in da building, please what does this bag signify? |
Politics › Re: PDP suspended Presidential Campaign to 'save face' - Lai Mohammed by mistyebby(f): 4:53pm On Jan 26, 2019 |
Peacemaker5128: Remove IGP Remove INEC chairman Remove service chiefs Remove Aminat zakary Don't remove thief CJN
PDP is confused Why all the recent appointments/ dismissals, don't you think all is geared towards rigging the elections? |
Pets › Re: Meet Lagos Monkey That Understands Pidgin English And Yoruba by mistyebby(f): 6:48pm On Jan 20, 2019 |
EmekaBlue: hehehe...before the monkey became this obedient,d trainer must have flogged it tire...see d cane d trainer is holding na,d monkey dont want to be flogged so must obey d words. Lol, well trained o, I met it at the beach. A cute little thing. |
Celebrities › Re: Why I Stopped Going To Church – Falz Explains by mistyebby(f): 11:41am On Jan 19, 2019 |
Catholic Church is best for him then. No pressures, no special recognition. |
Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh Stuns In Figure-hugging Jumpsuit by mistyebby(f): 9:45pm On Jan 18, 2019 |
See now resembles Toke, I guess its the same surgeon |
Politics › Re: INEC Releases Final List Of Candidates For 2019 General Elections by mistyebby(f): 8:12pm On Jan 17, 2019 |
oldtime: Even his WAEC is better than that of a NEPA certificate He only mocked those flaunting degrees without Idea You know Sowore is a time Bomb He graduated from University of Lagos And had a Masters in Colombia University He told the world why he presented a WAEC at least that is Nigeria s minimum standard Good to know, because I really expected more. He should have presented all. |
Politics › Re: INEC Releases Final List Of Candidates For 2019 General Elections by mistyebby(f): 8:08pm On Jan 17, 2019 |
deepwater: Are u surprised ? With all the hype especially here on Nairaland, I was expecting a PHD |
Politics › Re: INEC Releases Final List Of Candidates For 2019 General Elections by mistyebby(f): 7:57pm On Jan 17, 2019 |
So Sowore's only qualification is WAEC?? |
Politics › Re: Constitution Says Erring Judges Must Be Investigated By NJC Only — Afe Babalola by mistyebby(f): 11:02pm On Jan 13, 2019*. Modified: 11:32pm On Jan 13, 2019 |
All these palava just to ensure they secure next term.
They want a case where by any petition that reaches the court is judged in their favour. Power thirsty vampires. |
Politics › Re: FG To Borrow N823b Through Treasury Bills In First Quarter 2019 by mistyebby(f): 9:44am On Jan 11, 2019 |
alezzy13: *facepalm* Olodos all over.
Just to state here that I'm not in anyway a fan of this govt, however. The fact that you *hope* FG pays back the TB shows you have ABSOLUTELY no idea what the process entails. Well, as I have let me indulge you illiterates this once:
Taken from a TB thread: What are treasury bills: https://www.nairaland.com/878880/treasury-bills-nigeria
In simple language, TBs are nothing new and its a NORMAL way of FG raising funds on shortterm basis. Regarding the issue of "paying back", its virtually unheard of for FG to default, hence its usually called zero-risk. The only possibility is if (in the very unlikely event) all our oil dries up and Fg becomes totally broke. Good you mentioned the possibility of a very unlikely event. Deficit funding got worse in this administration.I guess you are one of the few benefiting if not, use your knowledge to figure out how these borrowed monies are used. |
Politics › Re: FG To Borrow N823b Through Treasury Bills In First Quarter 2019 by mistyebby(f): 7:57am On Jan 11, 2019*. Modified: 9:56am On Jan 11, 2019 |
[quote author=maxzzo1 post=74650900]Borrow again |
Politics › Re: FG To Borrow N823b Through Treasury Bills In First Quarter 2019 by mistyebby(f): 7:55am On Jan 11, 2019 |
9japrof: Can you just sit down and listen to the bullshit you are reeling out this morning...
Must you defend financial recklessness, I know you love buhari so much and view him as a mini-god, can't you just "Waka and Pass" where there is indiscretion in his part like this one instead of defending stupidity Don't mind the goat. |
Politics › Re: FG To Borrow N823b Through Treasury Bills In First Quarter 2019 by mistyebby(f): 7:48am On Jan 11, 2019 |
Stakeholders: Good move by the Central Bank
Nigeria shall be great again
All politicians who corrupt this country be ready for revolution Olodo, You think it is World bank abi. Treasury bills are citizens hard earn money. I hope they pay back. |
Celebrities › Re: Soundcity MVP Awards: Peruzzi Shades Teni Over Winning "Best New Artist" by mistyebby(f): 9:08pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
oluwadabira111: Its a tight race between the two of u based on my own opinion u deserve the award more than teni, They have both worked hard, but Teni is more favoured because both old & young can relate with her music. |
Politics › Re: "You Are A Rogue And A Fraud!" - FFK To Amina Zakari by mistyebby(f): 12:36pm On Jan 06, 2019 |
post=74496282: He is just so lucky that the President is just too lenient. He and his ilks should be in prison at this time. But look at them still blabbing. Baba, should start using the Iron hand after this coming election..... I thought you were sensible. |
Politics › Re: Criticisms Surrounding Zakari’s Appointment, Unnecessary- IPAC by mistyebby(f): 3:20pm On Jan 04, 2019 |
nastyesco: Imagine, see how shameless these people are? Anyways Happy New Year to all my wakandans Very shameless!!! Comparing a country's national elections with football. Its a pity |
Politics › Re: Amina Zakari: INEC Putting Nigeria’s Democracy Under Threat – Ohanaeze President by mistyebby(f): 6:19am On Jan 04, 2019 |
[quote author= post=74431166]Nuff said in all these.....
Next news please....
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Politics › Re: INEC Appoints Amina Zakari As Head Of Collation Centre For Elections by mistyebby(f): 7:48pm On Jan 03, 2019 |
From commissioner to collation officer, smh upgrade or demotion. That woman definitely has a Phd in election rigging.
They want to rob us of our votes from the grassroot. How shameless they can be. |
Family › Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by mistyebby(f): 9:21pm On Jan 02, 2019 |
Psoul: Bros, I could not finish reading this ur post. I will like to advise u here and I have to be frank. U have the right to hate me or like me.
I saw immaturity in you and I will kind of blame you for what is happening in ur home. You told us how nice this woman was while u guys were courting. 3weeks into your honeymoon, she turned to devil. Whaooooo
Those periods she was so nice, how nice do u reciprocate to it? Do u always wait for her to always come to apologize whenever there is issue between u guys? I beliv this is what u do. The area I blame u much and see immaturity is the area of running to ur inlaws and parents at any slightest issue u had with ur wife.
She would never say sorry. So called her elder brother and he begged me and begged her to apologize, still she won't.
You are the man of the house. You should should that your house is under ur control and not under the control of ur inlaws and parents. Lack of this may make ur wife misbehave. Always making her look like a bad woman before her people or u before ur people will make even a good woman turn devilish.
U were also childish by creating more problems in order to solve problem in ur home. Real men stand up to make their homes what they want it to be. Real men don't run away from responsibilities or sweep them under carpet.
Tell me how this action of your will bring solutions to ur family problem. Read the quote:
Those were the time u created a great opportunity for devil to take over ur home. What do u expect that woman to think about you those hours u were outside? You gave her opportunity to look for happiness from outside. You left her to have much time in the hand of another man that will be telling her how foolish you are for not treating her well. You left her into the arms of another who pretends to love her more than u do. She has no other choice to pay back the man that is always there for her with much calls and stuff like dat.
Real men don't think of divorce as a first solution to family issue. They think of how the issue will bring them together. In every marriage, there must be a point when each partners will feel like just running away from the marriage. Real men become the real captain of the ship and make sure they steer it out of the stormy and turbulent ocean. After that moment, see as the marriage becomes stronger and the knot tighter.
Guy, go back and put ur house in order especially for the sake of that pretty innocent child. Wishing u a happy home. Wrong analysis, bad advice! |
Family › Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by mistyebby(f): 12:16pm On Jan 02, 2019 |
Swagtrills: hmmmm, am actually short of words at the moment cos am also going through a similar scenario, though we are not yet married. she tells me virtually everything even without asking, but recently when i visited her on Christmas day, some of her friends also came around and was asking her in my presence that awon boyfriends yen ko (pardon me cos i dont speak yoruba much), but i know it means how are ur boyfriends. After they left, i asked her what that was all about, and she said, shes a crazy friend and that is how she talks. There is no denying, she's not materialistic and not too demanding. It's normal girls talk. Op saw all this coming for him.If you feel she is a good person, go for her. Just follow your instincts. |
Family › Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by mistyebby(f): 11:16am On Jan 02, 2019 |
femijay8271: Hello sir, send me a mail on Aikbeatz@gmail.com let's talk We can learn from your private advice sir. |
Family › Re: How Can I Divorce Expressly? See My Reasons by mistyebby(f): 11:08am On Jan 02, 2019 |
EfemenaXY: Divorce. Divorce. Divorce.
Divorce isn’t always the answer to marital problems and should never be taken lightly especially when there are children involved.
This should only ever be the last resort if all else has failed.
Besides, there’s always three sides to every story:
~ His side ~ Her side ~ The truth
Based purely on your side of the story, you need to do some serious soul searching and ask yourself why your wife changed overnight.
The first few years of marriage are the honeymoon stage. You courted this woman for 11 months. That’s quite a while to have studied her. There is no way a person can keep up the pretence for 11 long months (unless yours was a long distance relationship?). There must have been red flags. You just chose to ignore them.
Nonetheless, there HAS to be a reason why she’s suddenly turned 360os on you. Obviously there appears to be:
1. An emotional black hole in your relationship. The ex turning up is a symptom of the underlying issues with your marriage. A woman would only turn to an ex or another man if her emotional needs aren’t being met. For example when discussing with your wife, do you seek her opinion / input or do you wave aside her views? Do you say “Thank you” to make her feel appreciated when she gives / does something you are a recipient of? What is your sex life like with her? Do you take the time to satisfy her needs? Or is it all about you, you, and you? Is life with you one endless boring routine? Or do you make efforts to spice it up?
2. Trust Issues. When a wife starts stashing away huge sums of cash in secret, it means she’s preparing a nest egg for herself and her kids without you in the picture. Most times this action arises from betrayal or if she perceives you to have betrayed her. Have you ever cheated on her? Or done something to make her feel insecure in your union?
3. Immaturity. A refusal to acknowledge one’s fault / mistake and apologise accordingly is usually down to misplaced pride and immaturity. Wisdom comes with age. How old is your wife?
For a marriage to work, both parties have to roll up their sleeves and get stuck in. You have to ask yourself if there’s any part of you that wants to salvage the marriage. If you do, then you need to ask your wife if she’s still interested in the marriage too.
If the answer is “yes” from both of you, then both of you need to make the effort to save it. Start by seeking help from a neutral third party such as a marriage counsellor. Book a couple of sessions with them so you and wifey can talk through your issues.
Your problems didn’t start today. They’ve festered for over four years so you need to be patient and not expect everything to be miraculously resolved in one day. A lot of patience, perseverance, and constant communication will be needed to get your relationship back to a healthy state.
It is well. No three sides about this story! The woman doesn't deserve this man. Its a harmful relationship, quite unfortunate. |
Celebrities › Re: Denrele Edun Shares Bathtub Photos To Celebrate Christmas by mistyebby(f): 9:21pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
Ogbanje  |
Romance › Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by mistyebby(f): 8:36am On Dec 16, 2018 |
franzis: Of all the places to take your march to its yaba market not like most of.them are not aware of such things happening there , i wont be suprised if the march was taken there on purpose just so this could happen and use it to get sympathy/ attention from the media and populace Don't forget Yaba is surrounded by 3 higher institutions or more. Students go there to buy their wears and food items. If they don't put a stop to this it might turn to a menace, your sister or wife might be a victim. |
Romance › Re: "Stop Touching Us" Campaigners Assaulted By Yaba Traders (Pics, Videos) by mistyebby(f): 8:24am On Dec 16, 2018*. Modified: 8:47am On Dec 16, 2018 |
Jayslicky: How can a group of women go and meet working people and start shouting don't touch us, that's an insult of the highest order, it's like telling the men they're rapist, women and the stupid things they do. Don't judge these women if you have never been to Yaba market. Those traders will rape you in daylight if care is not taken. The harassment is part reason I don't go to Yaba market after I left school. The worse is you perceive cigarettes, marijuana oozing from various corners. The match was needed! |
Celebrities › Re: Linda Ikeji Breaks Up With Sholaye Jeremi Her Baby Daddy by mistyebby(f): 11:09am On Dec 14, 2018 |
*yawns* Ijaw boy  |
Celebrities › Re: Bovi Apologises After Insulting Daddy Freeze on Twitter. He reacts by mistyebby(f): 10:32am On Dec 09, 2018 |
 Ambber: I guess He thought Freeze was referring to Akpororo’s wife as a child or minor. But is Akpororo's wife a minor?  |
Politics › Re: 'law Enforcement Agencies Should Fish Out People Who Make Hate Speech - Buhari by mistyebby(f): 6:56pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
DICTATOR!!!!!! We are civilians under a democratic government. FREEDOM OF SPEECH!!!! |
Celebrities › Re: "I Am Battling With Food Poisoning" - Banky W by mistyebby(f): 9:25pm On Oct 22, 2018 |
jmaxjohn: The illness resulting from eating food or drinking water containing poisonous substances including bacteria, viruses, pesticides, or toxins, is known as food poisoning.
Doesn't mean his food was poisoned. Read the first page, that's mentality of the majority. Not trying to defend Nairalanders, but I'm sure the majority was joking. So don't take them serious all the time. Inbetween, all points you listed that led to the poisoning revolves around what he ate(food). This can be avoided with a little bit of care in his choice of food or eating. *  * when a married man gets poisoned(whatever the cause) who gets the blame  ? |