₦airaland Forum

sexymum1:
Gud am to everyone, hope we are great dis morning?

PLEASE am in need of job,i just completed my NYSC last month,please mamas in warri Delta State shuld pls refer me to any job opportunity weda teaching or any legal work because i dnt really want to be a stay at home mum, am a BSc holder in public administration with second class lower division.TIA

cc:all mamas and most especially warri mama

Cc mummy Mofe @tyconcepts

BritneyStacy:
Oh boy! These mothers can talk for Africa!!!! Ewoooooo! More than 15pages in less than 48 hours ? I trowey cap for all of you!!! Plenty plenty sweet gist wey I miss....Subscription expired on Friday midnight....I refused to subscribe on Saturday because I wouldn't be able to exhaust the call bonus I will be given by Sunday midnight and by Monday,they take their bonus ....so wanted to chill and subscribe by Monday so i have more days to use the bonus before weekend. .
I just dey read pages dey go....e no gree end!
Thanks to all mama's that keep this thread warm!!! YOU are 'B' in Bae .
@cutenik, @ mitchyy @cute999 and ALL that asked of me: Thank you for asking of me...I love you like I love Chicken Sharwama .

Hehehe. Welcome back dear. Pls don't run off like that again o, else we go find you reach house

@maureensylvia, there is no solution template for this kind of issue. What worked for A might not work for B. But the best template to try is prayer and when you pray, be specific. Tell Jehovah exactly what you want and how you want him to help you.
Seems my dad was a little bit like your dh too. He's very generous to pple outside and himself but stingy to his immediate family and i'm happy he even turned out that way, else i would have been a silly dependent spoilt child. It taught me to hustle. E nor get where i nor work, just to save and train myself. Today, i'm reaping the results.
It also taught my mum to be independent too, because when your kids grow and he still hasnt changed, na dem go suffer am pass. And you can't bear to watch your kids being neglected or wearing rags. So why you try your best to make him change, still find some side hustle. But don't make him feel you can now take care of yourself else he will just abandon the family responsibilities for you totally and even tell pple you're trying to be the man of the home.
Just calm down ehn, and take things easy.

ajuwarhodes:
Abeg oo,make una help me, I started having cough last night, it's beginning to get uncomfortable for me, in fact I am beginning to have cough and heart burn just as it did me when I first got pregnant 7months ago. Can somebody tell me what I can use? Scared to take cough syrup cos of my pregnant state, too much cough makes my side begin to pain me. Has I go sleep tonight now na issue

And I was just rejoicing here that this 3rd trimester is treating me well, maybe I shldnt have talked oooo

Sorry dear. For the heartburn, i guess you already know you can take antacids, either gelusil or some others. For the cough, i really don't have any info on that to help. Let me see cc other mamas who might have an answer.
@zaynie, kaffy4bill, ginababe, ozycy, feddy27, enkaydewdrop, britneystacy, lovinam, iyabetajos, cutienik, raptor2 and all other mamas, pls help my teamie out with a response. She posted this yesterday. Biko

olatebony:
I sell baby things oooo tho I'm in ibadan but I send a lot to pple in lag. Any ib mama here? Abeg signify oo! Me I want to meet a mama from this thread oo. Laziness to type no gree me contribute often. But I can gist and talk with mouth ehnnn

Do you have a website or social media account to view your products? Hope the delivery charge to Lagos is not high?

Elhayjay:
OK no wahala.expecting

@Elhayjay and Ozycy, as promised here is the link to my dropbox folder that has some pregnancy relaxation audio for mama and baby. This is what i currently use for my LO and we both sleep calmly and peacefully without those regular taekwando kicks. Just open the folder and download them

https://www.dropbox.com/sh/7w5scwhjqscwghf/AAD9iP7REaUZs-qQ7-08oRzqa?dl=0

ginababy:
Mitchyy, u own beta true true. Zero libido go make one no demand for once n wen dh demand na vex go d catch u secretly + while in d process u will just b calculating finishing tym. Somdays I will b browsing while dh is ontop d show. I d pity d guy no b small ooo.

Haaaa! This one is really serious o. Have you tried searching google to see if there are suggestions to keep your libido on the high side?

This is what i do and you might try it out:
Everytime you pass dh, reach out and touch or kiss him. Don't allow these moments to go beyond the kiss or hug. Simply increasing the amount of physical contact you have with your partner will help with desire to have s*x.

So there's no Lagos mama that sells baby things here in this thread? See business opportunity and we're just dulling

CheeryChy:
Happy Sunday Beautiful Mamas. This lovely weather finally dragged me out. How go dey go? Congrats to all the mamas that have offloaded, more grace to the waddling mamas and peace to the bereaved. Kudos to you all for keeping this thread active. Thanks to zaynie and mitchyy for the mentions.

Hahhhhhh! Finally! I was wondering when you'll stop peeping and at least say hi. Hope you're fine dear? We really missed you

feddy27:
Orirebaby, thanks darling


Chiwendym! Where art thou?

I've been asking of her too o. She and mum ahnie just disappeared at once. And funny enough, mum chiwendym lives in my vicinity. I just hope they are fine.
August captain BritneyStacy you too want to join them? Pls come back o, we're missing your liveliness on this thread

Gaily04:
@mitchyy, see enjoyment o

Nor be enjoyment o. U know that feeling when you see food wey you like, but u nor fit chop am? Thats my case now. Libido dey but no strength or energy. I be like elephant for bed. Thank God for 4play that manages to compensate.

Oya make i face my front before dem go say i don spoil

enkaydewdrop:
My God!!!
You people should stop mentioning all these food na...
I dey hungry

Una tempt me too much with food. So i vex cook banga rice and assorted meat this afternoon. I don chop am, lick spoon to the extent that i'm now battling with heartburn. But i nor send. On to the next craving... Cucumber and fresh groundnut

zimunachimdi:
Mitchyy dear,thanks for helping out in sending the book to those in need of of it. You try wella.

Happy sunday to all mamas!

When will i start enjoying kpekus in my life?? This weather is just perfect for it. I don dull my dh well well. I am not even happy about it.

My dear, my own libido is probably still present because i've been staring at dh without doing any bad thing for 9 good years since we started dating until we finally got married last year. So both of us never chop am belleful yet

Wendy80:
U welcome. Pls edit d email name b4 ds scammers start adding all the @ . Com. Thanx

Okay dear

cutienik:
yinmu!!all dose weight u mamas dey carry inside bedroom nko..libido mamas...na dat place dem dey fight taekwando

Bed ke? Na bag of cement we be for bed o. Unlike those days we dey throway leg up and down . Now na dh dey do all the work

Prettyhurts:
Please can I get the supernatural birth book. chidimmaudogu@yahoo.com
@mitchyy

Okay, done!

babythug:
I didn't say she should go and carry weights oh!!!!!

Hian

You don't know our wonderful mamas here. As long as you don mention weight, dem go try am. That's why i'm repeating it

cutienik:
@Godmother there r exercises for each stage of pregnancy dt u can try..jst try to google d images nd enjoy ur sef bt as adviced by Ada243 pls dnt strain ur body if it reacts wrongly to any style..d one i do often is kegel exercise which helps d vaginal to b more flexible durin delivery..wish u a safe journey nd delivery.

My teamie, don't be a lazy mama o. Kegel exercise that you can even do when driving. Lol. Get up and exercise well jare

Godmother:
You sell babies No let people hear you o. Lolz

@ Mamas in the house
I'm in my 15th week and have added some weight cos I'm always indoors. Is there a safe exercise I can do? I was thinking taking short walks of 15 -30 mins daily. Is it okay or shud I drop the idea completely?

Cc
Zaynie
Mitchyy
Cutienik
FINA4804
Ada243
Ginababy
Other sabi mamas

You can start short walks at anytime in pregnancy except you have complications like an incompetent cervix or threatened MC and ure on bed rest.
Its not compulsory for you to do it daily. It can be thrice a week or as your body allows. You can even move around in your compound.
Like another mama already suggested, do it under cool weather and take water with you. And don't walk too far away from home, incase you get too tired to walk back.
The aim of this walk is to help you keep fit and maintain your weight not to lose weight o.
Other safe exercises are dancing and swimming. Don't go and start carrying weights. Its only meant for those who have been doing such exercise before they got pregnant, as seen in the case of Kaffy the dancer.

Elhayjay:
OK thanks... can u epp me forward some of the songs to my whatsapp no..even if it three.tanx or give me the site to download them..tanx 07061943752...

I work with dropbox. So i'll just upload them there and send you the link to download them

kokolet007:
@ mitchy u are not alone jorr
Please sis help me forward the supernatural delivery to my mail jeezmariam001@yahoo.com thanks so much!

Its done sis

Only me just dey this thread dey talk this midnight. This one na madness o. Let me force myself to sleep jare

ekeminiabasi:
@ozycy.....did u use a private hosp? Then did sitting down make the labour more bearable? My pain threshold is -10. Sometime I jst sit down nd think of this labour thing. God help us all.

Make a thorough research on ways to manage pain in labor and delivery dear. Trust me, you'll even be looking forward to it

Elhayjay:
Good evening.please,I need someone to answer my question now cos am too curious to know what's hapenning.my baby who is 31 weeks in the womb have been kicking my wife from morning till this very moment non stop.this is to 10pm.hope there is no alarm and why is the baby doing that please?that's the complaint my wife have for me just now.

Teamie, in almost all cases its a good sign. It shows you have an active or healthy baby. When baby kicks get unbearable, she can try changing positions, or play a soothing relaxing song for her. Try and download some of mozart songs and play them close to the baby.
There's a particular song my baby is gradually loving, its titled 'Bridge of light' from the animation Happy Feet 2. When i play it, he only moves slightly and not those taekwando kicks he usually gives me.
Just tell her to bear ehn, very soon he/she wont see space in the womb/uterus for those mighty kicks.

olatebony:
Hello Mama Zimunamchidi, pls kindly send me d supernatural childbirth too. Thanks
Olatebony@yahoo.com

I hail all mamas ooo. God will reward us all IJN... My team july mamas hope d ministry is moving oo

The ministry is moving slowly o. My dh is busy enjoying the countdown but i'm the one suffering all the aches and pains and vjay pressure and vomitting. But who am i to complain? Ders nothing i wont go thru for my baby

lovinam:
All the mamas trying to avoid pain!! Hahahahah I laff in greek. Child birth no be beans, if you don't feel d pain during delivery(epidural tinz) then you go feel am aftter( vigilante tinz) so just jejely prepare your minds. Rotfl!

Hehehe. The pain can be lesser now. Everyone's childbirth doesnt have to come with terrible pains without epidural and that na my goal o. Less pain in labor and delivery

Sorry for the late response mamas. Was sleeping. I've sent the book to all the mamas that asked for it cc adorablewifey, fearless07, limsycutey, onyxgem10, brownsmoothie, ladymessi, ugochiada, evacroft, olatebony, christybabe. Enjoy!

creamchiccb:
Greetings to everyone in d house!Sabi mamas please help a sister out having shortness of breath,its worse wen am lyn dwn..its realy uncomfortable,is dere any remedy for me?am 31wks,tnks y'al

When i told my doc on wednesday, he said when i'm breathless i should sit upright and take deep breaths. Its all part of the package as our uterus gets bigger

Wendy80:
I sent it to both of u but hers failed. Think somethn is wrong with her email but 4got to mention it to her though

Thanks for sending it dear

Malizzy:
I just thank God am okay now even though mama's here wont answer me,i pray i dont av any serious issue dat will make me start running to this thread.
Thanks @babythug once again

I saw your post dear and when i scrolled down i saw @babythug already gave you a suggestion which you said you'll try. So i was happy uve gotten a response.
Not every mama has experience in this as i've never purged before, maybe thats why some didnt answer. You're not new here now, you know we are not like that. We try hard to respond to everyone but we are also human and sometimes we might skip some questions here. Pele dear! I'm happy babythug's suggestion helped.
What about the feverish feeling?

ekeminiabasi:
On a lighter note mitchyy......how many Nigerian hospitals would allow you try other delivery methods asides lying down.....i read about it too and when I talked to my dr about it,he just laughed it off.

Lol. My dear, as long as the delivery position has no side effect, my doc must allow me o. If e like make e laff, i nor send. Everybody must not go thru terrible pains in labor now. I dey do my research now

I wish there was a functional authority in Nigeria to report dog abuse and maltreatment to. This dog is almost going blind on one eye from the beating she got this morning with cassava sticks.
Can't wait to move out and stop seeing this. I'm trying hard not to interfere anymore but it just keeps breaking my heart