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If it was shola, then I don't see people in here landing in hospital bed na, hm no too get fans before . But why would geoffery be in bottom 4 when ugo and debbie still dey house..

Only Ruky has never entered probation list. She's always seated to save. Clement was once on probation-the week david left.

DailyNews: Do u know y Bianca married late Ikemba Ojukwu, a man old enough to be her father, in fact her father's friend and later enemy Or have u ever wondered y she did?

Bianca was so pretty and hot that many men then were scared to marry her, and it became worst when she won miss Nigeria....so when Ojukwu asked her hand in marriage, she agreed and her father was like WTF!!! Guess what Bianca told her dad

Dad, I have been single all these while with no serious young guy that u want me to marry coming, now I have one whom I cherish and u are saying this....the father had no other option.

Ask urself y most pretty and popular ladies are single or marry divorced old men

Check all the Nollywood actresses, past beauty queens...including Ibinabo, Agbani, Genevieve Nnaji, Rita Domnic, etc, etc.....men are really funny people when it comes to choosing a wife.....its mostly divorced old men that usually go for those super pretty ladies becos they have had so much xprence from their past marriage(s)

And the wives of footballers? Comedians? Artistes(timi dakolo, psquare n jude)? Omoni iboli, omotola, dakore, stephanie? you can NOT speak for all men, speak for yourself. Every one has preference, and these men seem to be happy and proud of their beautiful wives.

If beautiful women intimidate you, by all means go for the ugly one, but stop trying so hard to run down beautiful ladies.

iwakolewa: so then we can say that their beauty causes insecurity for the opposite sex,which puts them off from approaching them or asking them out

I believe it does, and also causes insecurity for the not-so-cute girls too. I don't know why people hate on beautiful girls and assume every pretty girl has a bad character or is intellectually challenged. Imagine the generalisation that beautiful girls are single? The ones they see getting married every saturday are all ugly ladies? Haba, make una dey lie small small people, we also witness weddings and see pictures every saturdays.

And why is everyone acting like they wouldn't mind marrying an ugly person and assume every ugly person is intelligent and of good character? Who says you can't have it all? Insecure people say that..lol

I watched reloaded before I watched mr and mrs, but I didn't even know it was the same nse in the former till I took time to rewatch it. I fell in love with her in mr and mrs, because she acted the movie so well and blended perfectly with joseph. After that, i decided to watch some of the movies she featured in, even the not-so-fabulous ones ; kiss and tell, phoneswap, broken,purple roses(this movie in particular is annoying but managed to watch because of nse) then this other shirley movie(the ghanaian producer of the contract), can't remember the title for now. *Its devil in detail*

She's one of my favourite actresses. She's too good.

I enjoyed ruky's performance mehn...the chic has got some crazy swag. She delivered! I see her as the last girl standing.

Debbie is becoming another flourish with her inconsistent performances. She deserves to leave next jare.

Daniella has a great voice but I think the judges and academy try to pamper her, maybe cos she looks sweet , I don't know o, but they don't judge her harshly at all.

sholay2011: Bimbo Akintola

Nse Ikpe Etim

Ramsey Noah

Gabriel Afolayan

I am not so convinced about gabriel afolayan, but the other 3 interpret roles flawlessly. They are raw talents mehn.

Just the poster's post and this is already on the front page

This thread go hot, no doubt sha..

Taiwo be like super star..looks less hungry outside the house

I liked flourish's voice the very first time I heard her sing and was on the look out for her, rooting for her and still supporting her on her days of poor performance but mehn, I can't deal with the controversial, attitude-stinking status. Who says 'if you like fall and die to a fellow contestant no matter the level of anger'..

Haba..na only she dey the academy ni. She has to be in the bottom 4\5 next week, that's the only certain way she'll leave cos I'm 100% sure no one will save her, not judges, not the academy.

Even if it is for the votes to be manipulated to make sure she is evicted. Such a negative vibe of hers is not healthy for the academy.

punintended: its crazy, I was noddin furiously in agreement to ALL the points you made

Like I thought earlier, daniella proved me right about performance. She left her comfort zone and didn't do well, just like flourish. They both have great voices, but are not versatile. You can't be a musician and not be versatile.

She and flourish had the same style of song where they had to sing 2 parts and they didn't do well, their performance was kinda clumsy, struggling with sensual moves..haha, it didn't come naturally to them at all ,like rukkie and debbie. I still commend them, cos they tried and like tymix said to rukkie, if anyone thinks its easy, he or she should go and perform it, lol

None of the girls did it for me sha.

Emeka, christian, clement , geoffery...thumbs up!

Yayyyy!!! Go clement! I was scared he wouldnt be able to put so much energy into his performance because of his legs but mehn he proved me wrong. I so like this dude. The guys are doing it for me tonight oo..

Awwww...up geoffery! This is beautiful. Dude has been the most consistent so far. He's always without hitch. Absolutely beautiful performance! These guys are going hard! Emeka, christian, geoffery!

All these academy girls this season ehn. I hope one of them manages to get to top 5 sef.

Haha..my own to froze..I nearly broke my remote..lol

Only emeka voted taiwo..the rest voted for shola..

Daniella is such a sweetheart. She smiles like a sweet 16. She's growing on me. I would like to see her perform too though. I have a feeling she's excellent with soulful songs just like flourish but might be a not -so-good performer.

Christian is crying..eeyahh..he keeps getting a loud ovation but keeps being on probation, and I echo joseph's thought, "what do his fans do with their mobile phones"?

I have watched series of flourish's episodes and I hope she gets a breather now. E don do biko. I see she is ready to take the criticisms too and I hope she works on herself, not just for the academy but for the outside world. The others ; the saints should take a cue from it too. Everyone needs a dose of it all. Building relationships alone will not give them the crown neither will voice or performance alone. Some do not even watch the academy and all the drama to vote, all they do is watch stage performance n drop votes.

So far, na only kofo's exit pain me pass.

Blockus: Lol..


You obviously do not appreciate the concept of marriage.

Wether she married you after you already had a fortune 500 job or whilst you were still chopping kwili-kwili.. A woman who has stood by you for you ENTIRE life (minus those when she didnt know you), raised your kids, kept your home, gave her best years to you has earned the right to be appreciated and not treated like nobody.

Its not only when the woman meets you when you had nothing that means she 'hussled' with you.. Everyday a Man goes to work, comes home and can eat and sleep peacefully, thats one day of hussle between him and his wife..




#Sometimes I wonder if many of these Nairalanders have Mothers at all?

So when your father passes, you deserve to get his estate ahead of your mother?! SERIOUSLY?!

You see why we have many bad marriages? What is a foundation that is based on zero trust. I find it disgusting reading sheets like "she'll squander the money, what if she kills the husband, what if she marries another person". Are we talking of wives here or roomates or baby mamas? Even women that are not left with anything give up their lives, struggling and hustling for their kids to become successful not to talk of someone who has the means available.

Which mother will squander the money that is supposed to be used to raise her own kids? I swear these guys talk like they have no mothers for real.

Some even talk as if the so called wives do not have means of survival without them. Everyone assumes the wives have zero savings and investments. In this age, how many women are even solely dependent on men? Why do we have single mothers, widows, divorcees who do well and manage their children without the any aid from men?

Too many paranoid men everywhere. Who can blame them, when their own hands are not clean either.

DeeMain: Is snazzylove a man?

Read her posts again. This time without prejudice. She covered all grounds. in fact, the point about pregnant women and sex or female attractiveness was an addendum on succeeding at home.

She came hard on the man and leaned heavily on the woman's side. Guess the spectacle of feminism wouldn't allow her attackers see that. I say she is balanced and didn't deserve the vituperations she got in this thread.

Here's her post:

When we women don't have our backs, you men would be the first to scream "women are their own worst enemies". What women are trying to make snazzy understand is she can judge marriages\pregnancies by her own standards which she seem to be emphasizing in her posts.

If this thread were to be a general light -hearted thread- the kinda threads jenny opens to talk about the marriage, sexx, libido, pregnancy, I mean threads not directed to anyone in particular, but just for married folks to share experience and advice, then her post would have been appropriate, but in here, that point of hers doesn't sound sensitive enough. In a way, it could make the Op think maybe she's not doing enough and that is why he hubby is cheating which is not meant to be so. What if she has been advised to keep away from sexx (irrespective of the position) for some time (eg those with placenta previa), is she supposed to force herself to do it and harm herself and her baby, JUST because she thinks she has a sexually Hungry man by her side who would go get it somewhere else if she doesn't?

No matter the libido, I believe a man's first priority is the health and saftey of the wife and baby, not how his intimate desires will be fulfilled.

For a lady who is placed on bed rest for 6months to her delivery, is it justified for the hubby to sleep around since he can't have it? Is marriage ALL about sex??

Assuming a man came here to tell us he just underwent prostrate cancer surgery or hernia or whatever and is trying to heal properly before sexx or even work, and then finds our his wife is about to go and have sexx with another man. Is it sensitive enough for someone to ask if he has been taking care of himself enough to look sexxy for his wife? if he has been managing to have sexx with her irrespective of the condition, or if he still provides financially for the home? And say all of these could have pushed the woman to another man's bed just within months.

Let's even assume the man is hale and hearty and he reads about his wife going to have sex with another guy while he would be home, will you as a guy ask if he has been keeping sexxy enough for his wife, if he shapes his beards weekly, if he goes 10 rounds and makes her climax 50times? if all his boxers are sparkling clean, if he still manages to give her a head the days he's too tired to have sexx?

The earlier we all stop making excuses for cheats, the better. There's a reason it is called marriage-it is for better and for worse, in health and sickness.

This kinda mentality makes victims of cheat think it is always their fault no matter how fit and 'foxy' in bed they are. They will always think they'll never be good enough.

Cut out the feminism crap, this talk is not good for any victim of cheating irrespective of the gender.

Aitee1: Wow...u're such a gd analyst, so on point with all ur analysis abt dem contestants, i really wish dey cld read this especially flourish and Debbie so dey can up their games cos what u said abt two of dem is exactly wat hv been observing, thumbs up nigga! niggaress

I doubt debbie's ability to up her game. The more she tries, the more she gets not so good feebacks. I have a feeling she might just feel her best will never be enough.

jasmine21: I don't like what they're doing to Debbie. I think she had a very good performance. Towards d end of the song I think she remembered something that made her cry. But Adebantu was too harsh.

Anyway nice performances today except

Taiwo- he spoilt that song for me I didn't enjoy his performance at all #DictionIssues
Shola- he tried sha but to me there was still something missing #DictionIssues

Honestly, I think she did her best too. Ade bantu just capitalized on her emotions at the end of the song and misinterpreted it to mean she wasn't sure of herself. The cry made her look vulnerable to them, but I think it was the song that made her cry, the tears were already building up towards the end of the song but let it out after singing.

Clement, geoffery, flourish, emeka and daniella were my top 5.

Flourish got me pissed for weeks mehn. She wowed me the day she sang in a long flowing gown during the 'fight' to be among those who would make it to the academy and I became a fan immediately. And as if she was under a spell, she started misbehaving. She has to be an all rounder to remain in the competition. She has to pull her weight for all performances and not just soulful songs. I'm still a fan sha.

Emeka reminds me of timi dakolo a lot. I love the texture of his voice. I like calm and cool headed performers. I'm a fan

Clement has a charming and endearing smile. I love his eyes too. His injury isn't painless and despite his condition, he's been upping his game. He doesn't come on stage to give us pity faces but delivers. I'm saying this cos I remember how he used to sing before the injury. His last performance where he rapped on his feet too wowed me. I wouldn't call all his votes sympathy ones yet. I'm a huge fan!

Geoffery has never fallen my hands. He's always on point. Although I felt he was a bit too forward on entering the academy, but I have grown to really like him. I'm a huge fan too!

Daniella has such a great voice and she performs well too, puts all her mind her soul. I just like her voice, but unfortunately, I'm not a fan.

I don't know what is it with debbie. She is such a charming lady who tries her best, but I guess its just never enough, there's always something not right. I love her so much, but I see her going home next. She'll definitely be in the bottom 5 and I don't see anyone saving her.

Ugo, ruky, shola, christian, *scratches head*..ruky makes me laugh sha. And ugo's nose? Eeeewooo....

Sloothee!
Redreact!

#okbye

Btw, hi delpee..I acknowledge you ma'am.

Congrats o Op, but the pictures are just

I believe They are better left for personal consumption.

And that is me being nice.

Na wa o. Why is this news? Or even gracing front page? .

Sophyrocks: The hypocrisy in this thread is Disgusting!! Only MizzD and Chaircover are speaking my thoughts. Married Women, the fear of Ebola and HIV is the begining of Wisdom.

My sister, it is very shameful. "Win his heart", "pack condoms", "don't offend him" "why did you snoop".

Ball is in Op's court.

cancerlib: Its nt too late, he dsnt leave d office till 6-7hrs time, il forward d chat to his phone.

Madam, don't forward the chat to his phone. That will give room for wuruwuru and you will not get to the root of the matter. You need a face-to-face communication to watch his body language, maintain eye contacts and express yourselves clearly without misconception from both sides. Tell your hubby he needs to come home after work before the trip, let him know its urgent and can't wait.

Ps -i have a deep feeling that you are scared of your hubby. And except you are exaggerating the content of the chats, I see no reason why you should not approach, confront and seek explanation from him.

chaircover: Personally I dont subscribe to sleeping with fire on the roof and it seems like many of us women are desensitised to thos cheating thing.

He is travelling, you found a SMS clearly showing that he is going to see another woman, and you happily pack his bag and he is on his way. What if he gets there and doesnt use protection and this is the one liason that will bring back HIV and other STD's back home to you?

He is your husband for Gods sake and you have a right to talk to him and take action. He is the one who did wrong but you are the one walking on egg shells.

I dont blame you, cos many of us no longer know right from wrong anymore. Many women go into marriage thinking its the norm for mem to cheat (we say so long as he comes home and he carrys out his financial responsibilities) and many men go into marriage with a thousand and one reasons why they have the right to cheat. The children are watching and think its oK and the cycle continues in their own marriages too.

As for "snooping" . . if you give me a reason to doubt your sincerity or your ways become crooked, then yes Snoop, so you know what you are up against. Dont be a victim of Last minute.com and be treating infertility from STD's or even put your life at risk from STD's just because you dont want to offend someone who doesnt mind offending you.

I know that you are pregnant and so I am not saying battle it out with him or stress yourself, but I dont really know why you cant discuss it with him BEFORE he goes off and dont really see the point of waiting to discuss it AFTER the deed has been done. If you cant discuss this, then what exactly are important discussions?

Thank you ooo..

Op, read the bolded again and again.

The hypocrisy on this thread is alarming. Who are the people asking her to win the heart of a 'cheating' insensitive hubby back? Asking her to pack condoms and all sorts of nonsense. Who leaves his pregnant wife home to go and have fun (whether or not sexx is involved) with another lady when he should be home pampering his wife and mother of his unborn baby?

Op already said she's pregnant and trying not to work herself up and I understand where she's coming from. It is a sensible thing to do. Your health and that of your baby is your priority. I personally believe you should have addressed the issue before he travelled. What if this weekend sex leads to pregnancy with the other lady, what if it is this same sexx that will bring sexual diseases to your house? What if it is this same sexx that will keep him hooked and longing for more?

You are not a kid and I believe you know what you saw. if you insist the content of the message was explicit, then you should have confronted your husband before the trip.

I don't like doing this, but the tone of comments would have been different if a guy read such chats about his wife.

If its not too much to ask for, tell your husband you want to see him urgently before he makes that trip and tell him exactly what you read and how hurtful it is. Ask him if he would tolerate such if situations were reversed. Don't let him blackmail you by asking you why you were snooping, that doesn't matter anymore. What he should address is the content of the message. Be firm, straightforward with your approach. No unnecessary emotions like begging or crying. If he is a good husband who genuinely loves and respects his wife but just got distracted, he will apologise and retrace his steps, if he doesn't, then you know exactly who you married and see if you can cope or how you can handle one-a cheating husband.

If he makes that trip without you addressing this issue madam, you are on your own.

django1: Its the car park, you know its always the place burning. The entire first row is gone and most of second row, it was still burning as I left around 11;30.

O ma se o. I feel really sad for the shop owners. Sigh.

Been a while btw, hope you are fine? Do have a good night.

django1: Have you opened a thread in the throngs of thousands of people before?


Anyway, the shop I came to rescue is already burnt.

Sorry about that. I keep looking at the pictures! What a loss! I bet the generators in each of the shops would have made the fire very difficult to control, coupled with the fact that it happened at night and this is nigeria.

django1: All gone.

Oh my God! is the entire market burnt? Which side exactly is this, carpark\front side, or the back (plastics) side, or down the pepper side? Everywhere? I intend to go there tomorrow to pick up a few things and this news just broke my heart because I have been postponing this for weeks now.

Do you know how it started?.

And those trying to tribalise this, trust me when I say more than 70% of those in that market are igbos, especially the front.

I av been a silent follower of dis thread.@tbaby, I was shocked when I read ur post. so sori abt d loss. May God Almighty God console u nd replace dem soonest.

Rukemi291: Sorry Mama-to-be. I think the pain is inevitable since our one time small and unnoticable uterus is now growing to visibly accomodate a growing baby. I will still suggest you go to the hospital, and maybe have a scan if you haven't.

Tnx dearie, had a scan dis morning and d baby is doing fine. Seems I jst av 2 adjust 2 dis changes lyk uv rightly said.tnx 4 d encouragement.

Hello everyone. I av been a silent follower of this thread. I am 20wks preg nd av had dis pains in my navel area and also 2wards d left side of my tommy. Its usually gets bad @nyt dat I hardly sleep. av bin havin dis pain since abt 6wks ago not frequent but av had it up to 3 or 4x now. Pls is dis normal?