DailyNews: @op, u are correct and the major reason is this; most beautiful ladies get carried away by their physical beauty and fail to develop their inner beauty- their character, such that it scare most guys ready to marry away, leaving them with fun-seekers looking for flings, dating and part-time affairs.

Some pretty ladies who have good character too do send the wrong signals to potential suitors.

Men are insecure, more insecure than u can think of, especially when they want to settle down- they want a reserved and not-so-bling lady.

Now, how do some pretty ladies scare potential suitors away while attracting numerous boyfriends and sugar-daddies

1. Via what they wear- leg chains, tattoo, nose ring, tongue ring, belly ring, etc.

2. Big wig like masquerade
3. Too revealing clothes, etc.

I am not trying to be religious here o, I am being frank o...and I know that some very enlightened guys and ladies will come after my head now, so let me be on my heels before they arrive

kingk:

Me and cococandy

lurvy:

[size=16pt]@OP, Please what is the meaning of the above phrase in bold??[/size]

cococandy:
Nna you must be a new-comer around here.

That's all.

cococandy:
Nna you must be a new-comer around here.

That's all.

Eyop:

iwakolewa:


so then we can say that their beauty causes insecurity for the opposite sex,which puts them off from approaching them or asking them out

justi4jesu:
Real love and romance is timeless and limitless,set your mind to it and you will achieve it
Pray to find the love when you are actually ready for marriage.

Kinkybraids: Well I think that they could be single for the following reasons:

1. They know that they are beautiful and dont want to settle for any guy that approaches them so they would rather remain single. The so called 'ugly' girls may not get many suitors and realize that offers may be few and far in between so they accept more easily when being pursued as they play less games. A beautiful woman feels you need to earn her beauty.

2. Maybe they have more important things to pursue right now rather than a relationship. Maybe she sees that beauty fades so she also needs to build her wealth

3. She could be trying to avoid the 'chop and clean mouth' kinda guys because she has been hurt by them before.

4. I have realized that beauty attracts a man but it doesn't keep him so some beautiful ladies are not very nice people. They dont have that selfless personality that's required for a long term relationship.

5. Some beautiful women dont end a relationship and start the next just like that. Its not a job vacancy that needs to be filled. Some women like to take breaks in between relationships just to breath and find themselves.

kingk:
Choi! See falling hand......

iwakolewa:


so then we can say that their beauty causes insecurity for the opposite sex,which puts them off from approaching them or asking them out

iwakolewa:


But really, you are on point.

cococandy: Falling hand ke
Are you the only one that doesn't know I'm a married girl?
At first I thought you were just jokingly teasing me like Dreyl does.
Now it seems you really didn't know.
Awww.

Welcome to nairaland.

cococandy: Falling hand ke
Are you the only one that doesn't know I'm a married girl?
At first I thought you were just jokingly teasing me like Dreyl does.
Now it seems you really didn't know.
Awww.

Welcome to nairaland.

perry2020: Lol. smh.i no that there are so many other qualities that matter more than beauty.
What if they where lying about their relationship status because they want you .

cococandy: Falling hand ke
Are you the only one that doesn't know I'm a married girl?
At first I thought you were just jokingly teasing me like Dreyl does.
Now it seems you really didn't know.
Awww.

Welcome to nairaland.

cococandy: Falling hand ke
Are you the only one that doesn't know I'm a married girl?

AbuMikey:

I'm afraid, what You call reality may just be fiction.

I don't know of any cute guy, yet single around.

lomaxx: Men have upgraded. Beauty with no brains is a liability. No beauty with good brains is an asset. The good thing with beauty is it can be worked upon. The bad thing about brains is- once you don't have it, you don't have it.

DailyNews: You have very good points that I agree with. Take Kim Kardashian as an example, she went round, couldn't find a guy to marry her until Kanye did...its not always easy for a pretty lady to find a husband...until she uses her head and stop waiting for Pope John Paul Michael Jackson Bill Gates

Kim K as pretty and popular as she is, settled for an ugly Kanye....Beyonce used her head and went for ugly Jay Z but some of my very pretty cousins are waiting for Pope John Paul Michael Jackson Bill Gates to come by, that's the problem most pretty ladies have aside character/etc issues

MizzD:

I believe it does, and also causes insecurity for the not-so-cute girls too. I don't know why people hate on beautiful girls and assume every pretty girl has a bad character or is intellectually challenged. Imagine the generalisation that beautiful girls are single? The ones they see getting married every saturday are all ugly ladies? Haba, make una dey lie small small people, we also witness weddings and see pictures every saturdays.

And why is everyone acting like they wouldn't mind marrying an ugly person and assume every ugly person is intelligent and of good character? Who says you can't have it all? Insecure people say that..lol

Olusanya333: @holyboss, its because guys that are virgin have a goal that cannot be losed like that easily.

MizzD:

I believe it does, and also causes insecurity for the not-so-cute girls too. I don't know why people hate on beautiful girls and assume every pretty girl has a bad character or is intellectually challenged. Imagine the generalisation that beautiful girls are single? The ones they see getting married every saturday are all ugly ladies? Haba, make una dey lie small small people, we also witness weddings and see pictures every saturdays.
And why is everyone acting like they wouldn't mind marrying an ugly person and assume every ugly person is intelligent and of good character? Who says you can't have it all? Insecure people say that..lol

tejpot: Well they are looking for a man that will be boxed enough to service the beauty. You don't expect them to patronize poor guys eeh? The more beautiful they are the more expensive they are to maintain

DailyNews: Do u know y Bianca married late Ikemba Ojukwu, a man old enough to be her father, in fact her father's friend and later enemy Or have u ever wondered y she did?

Bianca was so pretty and hot that many men then were scared to marry her, and it became worst when she won miss Nigeria....so when Ojukwu asked her hand in marriage, she agreed and her father was like WTF!!! Guess what Bianca told her dad

Dad, I have been single all these while with no serious young guy that u want me to marry coming, now I have one whom I cherish and u are saying this....the father had no other option.

Ask urself y most pretty and popular ladies are single or marry divorced old men

Check all the Nollywood actresses, past beauty queens...including Ibinabo, Agbani, Genevieve Nnaji, Rita Domnic, etc, etc.....men are really funny people when it comes to choosing a wife.....its mostly divorced old men that usually go for those super pretty ladies becos they have had so much xprence from their past marriage(s)