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Emaprince:
the type that breeds who.res? And where adultery is welcomed, bastards are born etc etc. Carry go.

my mum has been married to the same man for 32yrs with a dentist, auditor and architect born of the marriage. Im sure thats not something your parents can attest to so yes i want just to be like my mother and thank God for my father i know a good man, so its easier to identify fraudsters like you who never had anything good in their lives
If you grew up seeing your mother being mistreated and living with it, its obvious that you would think its a normal way of life when you grow up.

Emaprince:
Like mother like daughters!

amen! i would want my parents marriage anyday any time

Emaprince:
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whoever has seen you has seen the son of a who.re who had a dog for a husband that mistreated her. Since its all you know, its probably all you grew up seeing in your life.

Emaprince:
the dude was a player. But you know most of these girls will know that they are not the only ones seeing the guy, yet they will remain ther. What will you call these type of people? Aren't they stoopiid? But then, I found out that most women in this type of relationship are also seeing one or two other guys, so no need to even pity them. Sistercaro's cousin's wife was probably seeing her husband and the colleague even before they got married and she continued the relationship after marriage.

But the question is; a woman that sleeps with multiple men at the same time should be called what? An angel? Abegi. Call a spade a spade. I know it hurts women when they hear it but its the truth. If you can't accept being called a who.re, then don't behave like one!!

you know so much about who.res maybe you were given birth to by one. One can only know so much from his surroundings.

dre11:
Nigerian ladies.........




Can you now see that we guys are faithful
When you compare us to those oyinbos you normally see on TV and wants us to emulate their lifestyles...... Can you see that if we do, then their is tendency that we also take the bad part of them....

Which is what the topic is all about

it probably has something to do with the fact that research cannot be carried out properly in Nigeria because Nigeria cannot even get its own population right. It has nothing to do with Nigerian men being faithful.

SisterCaro:
These comments got me laughing. Reminds me of a cousin that i work with.
He used to like forming Mr Hardcore acting like he knew women inside out and no woman can fool him. All manner of things like that. Long story short he got his 2 women pregnant at the same time. The one the whole family knew had a miscarriage and the other girl no one knew of was introduced as his wife to be. Turns out wifey was double-dating him with another colleague but i never bothered telling him because i felt since he thought he was so smart he should have figured it out. Anyway now they are on kid number 2 and i still question the partenity of his first child.
Matter of the story is what goes around comes around. Be careful of how you treat others because you will surely face consequences for it.
God is not blind, he sees your heart and when its dark and poisoned and he gives to you according to what you have.

never under estimate the power of karma

TV01:
Such "men" are not civilised - more like "feminised".

I heard the worst story this summer; someone who contracts for us said he was moving to Eastern Europe.

- Why I asked.
- Nothing for me here he replied
- Are'nt you married I asked
- Divorced he responded.
- Kids?
- Two daughters, and I miss them terribly as my ex won't let me see them
- How can (so shocked I reverted to my bushman persona )
- They are not actually mine, they are hers from a previous relationship, I basically raised them, then she left me for another man

This woman used him as a provider and to help raise her kids - then left him when something better came along. Note how she didn't have any kids for him? I was like huh? She used him as a "side-husband" to raise someone elses spawn.

When coaching young men I always advise they forcibly avoid divorcees (with or without children) and pretty much write-off wilful single mums.

Why be a cuckold in a buyers market


TV

this what people like emaprince will onky be good for, food on the table not a man you can actually call your husband

hustla:
Work? How come and where are you?

surrounded by chincos

[quote author=Emaprince post=33934665]

One thing is certain- you are the woman!!!

still using your ass more than your brain and making up you own facts? Clearly you had challenges in basic primary school comprehension classes.

you just wanted to see if people will support you. And I don't see what will make an adulterous woman to tell her hubby's neice about her promiscous life let alone revealing to them that she is pregnant for another man. Such secret, if revealed, can crash the marriage forever.

and how is it our business if their marriage falls apart? We asked him to cheat on her? We begged her to act out of anger?
I believe in measure for measure. Dont give what you dont want to receive in return, its as simple as that.
A good man deserves a good woman. Anything opposite, deserves exactly what it has to offer.

You are the woman. And I wonder which kind advice you want.

I asked for opinions not adivse. Again with making up shiiit out of your asssss. Where did i ever ask anyone to advise. Simple english you dont understand! I wont make it my headache.

You want us to clap for you? Well, I'm good in condemming evil vocally.

failing to comprehend is your other specialty. Who did i beg to support what i think?
Your problem is that i dont agree with your view and i dont remember forcing you to change it.

Even if you are not her, then you and your sister are her type. That's why she deemed it safe to confide in y'all. Make una carry go with being promiscous. But the woman in this story, is the most foolish woman I have ever read about in this forum.

Emaprince:
you are a who.re just like her. No doubt about it. No wonder she easily revealed the secret to her fellow cheap slluts who will keep her secret for her. And I also have this feelings that you are the woman. And you only came here to get support which didn't come as you expected.

Cheap slluts like you are meant for brothels and not a man's home. Stop preaching to us that a woman should start giving out free sex because her hubby had a girlfriend. You were even making it seem like all women are who.res just because you are one. That familly of yours must be filled with kids whose fathers are known only by their moms. What a house where who.res are trained. You and your sister are even working closely with your uncle's wife to make sure she give him a bastard to train. What a cursed familly. And some men will be unfortunate to marry from there. Smh

working closely with what? you are the biggest idiot on the this thread. First you started making facts out of you asssss and you still continue to do that. Someone comes and tell you about their story. Its automatically means you are like them abi or you are their allie?

Let me not even bother myself with you. Your clearly use your assss more than you use your brain!
For all i know all your mother's kids are not even from marriage but you want to go around calling other women names. Smh!
Illirate fool im sure your WAEC are not something to smile about because you seriously lack comprehension skills.

Emaprince:
if you are like your aunt, then speak for yourself. Not all women are like you. I wonder when aultery became something to brag with or threaten one with by women. Women that speaks this way are the loose ones. They know what they are capable of. So quit the bullcrap about the do me I do you shiit. No genuinely decent woman will turn to a who.re overnight like your aunt. She's been that way and only came out to open up to her type- you and your sister because she has excuses to make and also because she trust you guys to keep her secret. You are birds of the same feathers. If not, I don't see why she should leak such secret which can be exposed to anybody. You all are the same and you thought you could come here to get support. No, some women here are not whor.es.

Truth is that, any woman that does this have been promiscous even before the betrayal. Your aunt is a who.re and you and your sis are her type ,that's why she confided immediately in y'all. Any woman in her position could have kept the secret to herself. So I'm. Not surprised.

and it is only idiots like you who think they can deservea good woman they do not know how to treat well. And its your type that deserve a beast for a spouse. A decent men would never go about making kids anyhow and expect his wife to be calm about it.

pickabeau1:
If you are interested in other peoples' opinions, you will be more accommodating of dissenting ones and less aggressive of yours'.

At bolded... Being salty does not make you smarter

you had your opnion on what i had to say so why cant i have an opnion on what you have to say?

pickabeau1:
So you have answered your own question

It is fair to get back at your spouse

Oya tell the mod to close the thread

i asked for other peoples opinions if you are done with it kindly unfollow the thread. Its not by force to keep revisiting it.

Emaprince:
shut up your mouth!! What do you mean by no decent women? Not all women are like you and your aunt.

i mean exactly that, keep living up that delusion idea that a decent woman can never change if she is deceived no matter what. You are the people who will be the husband for 25yrs when she has another lover for 30yrs and you will die thinking you are the only one.
You have lived in a female body before to know what a woman can and cannot do?


Only a virtuous man deserves the best out of his wife. And devil can as well expect the worst out of his wife.

Emaprince:
your aunt was a runs girl.that's why she easily became adulterous. Stop making excuses for the who.re.

was he not adulterous himself? Why should devil think he deserves an angel?

pickabeau1:
That they deserve each other is out of the question.. That much is agreed

I ask what do u advise they do now

live with the foundation they have based their marriage on. They live with their choices

pickabeau1:
Yes they will

I asked you what your own opinion is on the issue

From your posts, You seem to be inclined to the direction that they should move on as whatever has happened has happened

they deserve each other. No decent woman would not bring the inner b* tch out of her in the same situation. Same way i wouldnt expect my uncle to be calm is she were the one who cheated first with 2 different men.

Emaprince:
if the husband is an armed robber, the wife should do that too. If he commits suicide, the wife should also do it. Foolish woman. And some innocent kids will grow up with the ediot as their mom.

example of that child being you

danot1030:
If this story is true, the man should throw the evil woman out his house and his life permanently.

what happened to for better or worse? Give and it shall be given unto you

pickabeau1:
So what is your advice now?
Should the marriage continue or be scattered?

they will figure it out themselves

tiredface:
ARE YOU PEOPLE YORUBA?

we are from your tribe

Emaprince:
hmm. That's bad. To have upto two kids while married??..smh

I can see that you support her 'cause she's related to you.But here is the difference..

He had the kids with another woman but he never brought them home and never told the wife that the kids belonged to her. Ofcourse it can't be possible

But...

The woman wants to make him believe that he's the father of the bastard in her womb. Why don't the woman give birth and leave the child with the father? Oya!!

The woman is a fraud as far as I'm concerned. I just hope she is prepared for the consequences and stigma that comes with being thrown out for promiscuity. Plus, the baby father may take to his heels when kasala burst. I trust nigerian jobless dudes who goes about looking for unhappy wives to take advantage of. He won't be there when she's all alone. I've witnessed a simlar case but here, the husband didn't get another woman pregnant. He only cheated and starved his wife of sex for 4months. Within this period, the woman started dating one dude and got pregnant. Today, where is she? Where is the ediot that impregnated her?


Her little secret? She's giving her husband a bastard to accept as his own kid and you are calling it her little secret. After birth, there will be every kind of celebrations. Husband will think he fathered another child while the evil woman will be smiling pretentiously.There is enough reason to believe that this aunt of yours have been this way before and after getting married. Buncha promiscous lot!! Her type is the reason why marriage seems hopeless. What a wh.ore!!

im related to her husband not her.
Clearly you are in support that what my uncle did was excusable im not for any of that. You play your wife and she plays you back, you cant cry foul. When you base your marriage on deception dont expect your spouse to give you anything more less than that.
People like you are the ones who make marriage hopeless, you think its normal to cheat and have extra-marital children and you wouldnt want your spouse to do the same to you. You cannot have your cake and eat it. Birds of a feather must flock together. No one deserves loyalty when they cannot be loyal themselves.

GoldenDr:
How was your flight? You going to see many Hindus, Muslims and few Christians. Where in Indian are you?

lol im not in India, i live a 2hr flight away from India.

dulux07:
Dull woman, its already in her blood, shes a cheater, u cant jst because u found out ur husband has kids out if wedlock, so u decide to pay him bck by slipin with anoda man.

one cheater deserves another. Dont think life will give you more than you deserve when you take advantage of others.

Opiosko:
Floodgeter will surely approve this and ask that the family forgive each other and move ahead like nothing happened.

would there be anything wrong with that? There wasnt a problem when they were just 2 extra-marital children and now its a problem because they are 3 and the last one happens to be her little secret.

Emaprince:
I think what she meant is that the man had the kids before marriage and he never revealed it to her until she heard it through gossip. Any woman in this situation will be angry for such secret but it shouldn't be the reason to become promiscous.

Reason why every man needs DNA.

you came up with your own conclusion and went with it, didnt you?

Emaprince:
Did the uncle of yours had those kids before he married the woman? If so, then there's nothing like getting even here because he never cheated. But the wife is only looking for cheap excuses to sleep around. There's nothing she can come up with that will be enough to convince any one that she is not a slu.t and I suspect she have been that way. Now she is pregnant for another man and wants to put it on her hubby's head. She may as well kill this man. I hope the man finds out, then we shall see who goes through shame and pains at last. Even her own siblings will be dissapointed in her.

I'll rather accept a snake than a sl.uty wife.

he had the kids during the marriage not before. And im sure no woman wants a slu.ty husband either.

GoldenDr:
yes, it does count. What are you there for? School or business? Welcome.

work and school

190theclown:
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ok

Im a 2hr flight away from India. Does it count?

She resembles keke palmer