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Wow this is simply amazing

EfemenaXY:

whats wrong?

Toks2008:
This is why I weep for many Nigerian LADiES WITHOUT BRAINS...please what correlation does this gibberish you posted has to do with the topic of discuss?

This is how you will continue and latter blame your hubby for landing you a terrible deafening slap on your face...THEN START CLAIMING VICTIM...

this is how you go around blaming every Nigerian woman for you misfortune because they do not want to marry you? do not worry you might find the one soon when you move into a retirement home.
But i think the boat has already sailed you should leave that one alone. Imagine what your child will have to go through when you go for the prize giving day and the teacher mistakenly says, " your grandson is a very bright boy" just imagine the embarassment the child will face when you have to correct the teacher

Toks2008:
I seriously pity you because it is apparent that you are far from being educated...please always read first before commenting and stop constituting nuisance.

this thread was created by a senior citizen without a wife claiming to have a PhD in marriage. At least you know why you are an old unmarried bitter man. *laughs her way out of the thread*

Strahovski1:
Useless...

No matter what. You have no right to hit a woman. A man abuse you would you punch him? NO. But a woman you will.

*pulls out dick and start masturbation on threaD*

uncle, it is not well with your soul today

Stop listening to all these women screaming nonsense! Love your MIL....get along with MIL...! Biko who gave these goats grass?!

Listen to me very well! You need to strategise and execute properly ehn! Go inside bush, pick up dry dog poo... crush and sprinkle am into her soup. Before your serve her, speak inside the soup. Say that she must never offend you!

Haaa my friend, things will go sweetly for you ooo. All this humble yourself....eeeeh cook....eeeeh clean....eeeeh kneel down or don't kneel down will get you slapped o! You need supernatural powers for this kain MIL. REMEMBER we fight not against flesh and blood but principalities and higher powers! Who will good character help when you are dealing with a possessed being? So you see, you need spiritual solution for this kain of a thing!

sinaj:
I think you are the one that got raised by an irresponsible illiterate parents!


That why u go about displaying stupidity inherited from your parents!



The stupidity has made u so dumb that u can't comprehend a simple write up nd I wonder how u gonna cope in a harsh environment like Nigeria.


I guess your mother would have gone out to look for her in every hotel so she can sit with her and talk because she is wiser downstairs

Just maybe tho.

Fool!

well my parents are well educated so you see i can't be born of irresponsible illiterate parents But from the way you sound, i do not know if you ever had anyone intelligent that influenced your life.

Like I said a wiser and responsible woman looks at the bigger picture, if that child has her son's blood in him/her she will be more concerned about protecting his or her wellbeing. No one said Burna boy must be forced to marry the mother, but simply put the best interests of the child if it's his. That's how a wise woman would be expected to think anyway.

But i guess you will be much happier if an innocent child suffers for the mistakes of his/her parents, because according to you thats how responsible and literate people reason right?

abhim:
Hello all, my 2.5yrs old toddler is a picky eater.she loves golden morn,bread with honey,jollof rice,fried eggs ,smoked fish and fried potatoes,she eats well at school but at home all she wants is golden morn,are there better cereals for kids as I want to stop the golden morn.I think it causes constipation for her,bowel movement is like 3-4 days she doesn't like beans but at times takes moin moin or akara.,once in a while,her brother eats well and he's chubby.Thanks for your kind input

You main concern should not be making her gain weight but rather make her eat healthy. Stop buying golden morn and start introducing other healthy foods to her diet. She may cry for golden morn at first but with time she will get over it.

Start making nice meals like marshed potatoes and mince or spaghetti and minces....maybe add carrots and peas too, most children i know love it!

sinaj:
pls point out the bad thing his mum said there

maybe you also weren't raised by a responsible woman, but let me help you out. A sensible mother would be the bigger person and sit down with the girl because she is older and wiser. If that girl is really pregnant for Burna boy they would figure out how to care for the child jointly. Burna boy is forming baddst boy ever liveth now but with time he may decide to be part of his child's life. A wise woman looks at the long term effects of the actions she take now.

kikayboss:
i created this thread in order to know what to do in such cases since its not an occurrence in my home...but since you are used to seeing your parents locked in combat lyk wwe wrestlers,i expect nothing less from you..continue ur display of stupidity.. its your type that chases away prospective husbands with your bad behaviour and when you notice old age knocking on your door you settle with the next object in trousers and think you are married.. i advice men to flee from your kind...won't even wish u for ma worst enemy... SMH for you

uncle you are probably 20yrs older than and you are saying this to me when you cannot even keep a relationship oya continue! I see many elderly men like you all over NL forming baddest boy everliveth at 40, when you do not even have your own house. Abeg go get sense, some unfortunate woman might one day consider your old flaccid diccck for marriage

lezz:
I like the word " probably that preceded your submission.

You aren't too certain. Lolz.

A woman is raped every 2hrs in America. That's 500 woman a day according to 2008 statistics.

Do you still believe it's down to statistics?

yes, derived from the number of reports made and recorded.

lezz:
Your story seems to stem from a larger experience you didn't state here.

There's no justification beating a woman in so far that the woman did not strike first or initiate violence.

And why do you tag Nigerian men to this?

Violence against women has higher occurrence rate in the West than in Africa!

probably because stastitics in Africa are not recorded properly

kikayboss:
my dad never hit my mom neither have I done such and for your info i am not trying to justify such action...if you had made an effort to use ur brain while reading the post you will see i justified nothing...well from your post i can see your mom actually abused ur dad physically and emotionally that's why you see nothing wrong in such actions....
NOTE:i was referring to your type in the note of the first post...

well you have resorted to insults... I guess i was right. Its okay anyone in your situation will be ashamed to admit it too, but its simply obvious in your post.

pretydiva:
Say no to babymamaism. There's absolutely nothing hot bout it

so what makes you better is that many boys enter you and leave their sperm in a condom instead abi? Too many hypocrites out there.

Toke Makinwa, Tiwa Savage and Omotola

Melancholy:
Omo, good sex is the way to get to woman' s heart mehn! Reminiscing on those good times can make her eat her words afterall we all human being nau.

its called being civil and besides she obviously has interests in the company. So because she put 323 it means she is going back to him? Smh!

kikayboss:
fellow NL members...the increasing cases of domestic abuse is alarming, where men beat their wives and some even beat to death.
women everywhere are telling fellow women to leave abusive husbands the first time they get slapped and stuff.
But I've been wondering why no one looks at it from the male angle,some wives and girlfriends push their partners to this.

PLEASE WHEN SHOULD A MAN KICK HIS AN ABUSIVE & TROUBLESOME WOMAN OUT OF HIS LIFE

#FEMINISTS in the house please i need ur opinions on this ((because na only when una hear say man beat him wife we go see una headlights))

note::ANY WOMAN THAT PUSHES A MAN TO BEHAVE LYK AN ANIMAL BY BEATING HER IS A BLOODY WITCH FROM THE PIT OF HELL

men be wise and don't bear a woman till she makes you a **Lekan shonde**...flee from her

i bet you N145 per litre petrol that the OP grew up watching his mother being abused left right and centre hence he believes spousal abuse is acceptable and justified. Correct me if im wrong and insult me if i am right

zeongeon:
Reading some comments on this thread and you will pity for the institution of marriage in the future to come. Marriage is for mature minds and any one who understands the institution of marriage wouldn't be quick to divorce or cheat...as some girls on here are all screaming " I will divorce him" " I can't stand cheating" yes you can't stand cheating BUT always have in mind that if you most stay married then patience and forgiveness should be your core value.

Some people have seen worse in there marriages and have been able to pull through and are best lovers/friends for IT. For example on BBC life I was so touched by the comment of woman whose husband was a cheat and ended up giving her HIV and they still together and best of friends and lovers..Here is some of the woman's and man comment as I remember..

Woman: I just had to forgive him, I mean he is my husband, I decided to marry him, though it was hard at first but my love for him saw us through and we are better for it, I can't do without him and he can't do without me.

Man: Not a single day passes by without me being so ashamed and sad...I hope I live to get over what I have done...

Now that above is marriage.

If you want to marry and stay married use patience and forgiveness to sew agbada/ eru and buba.

Cheating is wrong but then again in marriage you are dealing with an imperfect person be it a man or a woman.

God Bless your aunty soul.

when your wife infects you and you start taking a billion pills for the rest of your life please come back and share with us what marriage is really all about

dearestaramide:
WHAT I LEARNT

all men are the same only thing that differentiates them is fear of God and self control.
Women need to be wiser and more matured than men.
Never act immediately this enables you time to think and strategise
shouting doesn't change men but pushes them away

why did you leave out the part that she could not take care of herself financially thats why she decided to stay and make it work with her husband?

Flexherbal:
These married women should try and hold themselves. If your husband is not satisfying you, help him out. Get out herbal tea for him. You will be supprised the wonders the tea will do in you love life.

are married men getting herbal teas for their wives or are they looking for small girls to satisfy them?

UIA04:
Get a life Bic.th

if you are going to swear at some have the decency of spelling correctly , its _bitch not _bicth. Lord help this woman!

UIA04:
It's sat not seated lol

and didn't listen in english, you can use either of the two slow poke. Its not a grammar error

UIA04:
I know he is a child but I'm sorry to say this boy always looks dumb like mumu in all his pictures. I hope all is well Academically with him. He might have looked better if he looked like his dad.


It's funny


How some people will read my comment and feel offended but when tiwa savages son's picture was posted here last people called him UGLY or in previous posts calling this boy a big headed boy. Or calling oshiomole the father of grown kids a beast married to a beauty



I'm unapologetic about my opinion and I might even be wrong he might be smart but that doesn't change his look. appearances makes first impression always.




So take your opinions and shove it into your asses

this comment is probably coming from someone who seated for WAEC more than 3times.

richyblink1:
Assuming you read my post to comprehend and not to attack me, you would have noticed my points were in paragraphs. The hubby cheating has nothing to do with women being selfish. Was addressing the aspect of the hubby not buying her stuffs during celebrations.

yes i read and understood your rubbish of a post. The OP already said she buys him gifts whenever she can afford to do so but you continued to ask mumu questions. By his actions he is clearly the one who is selfish and self-centred but goats like you will defend such rubbish and put the blame on the woman! He cheated he should be the one making an effort to mend the relationship, but then again this world is full of sorry excuses of men like you who believe that if he makes a mess she should be ready to clean it up for him!

richyblink1:
Let me start by asking you what you think or feel made hubby to start cheating on you? Your friend is busy encouraging you to cheat whereas she won't be there when the sky starts falling. A rat that joined the Lizard running in the rain will still remain wet long after the Lizard must have dried up.

Solution; why not talk to hubby about your feelings and how it has made you disconnect emotionally. Make him understand how is pushing the very woman he swore to stand by away, make him feel your pains. Explain to him what his actions is making you go through. Tell him how you would love to restore the first love you guys shared and how you miss the sound and caring advices he always gave you. Make him understand you are going through pains because of the neglect and lack of attention from his part. Let him know how he has always been your champion and warrior in all things.
If you can't get his attention to pour out all you have up your sleeves, then put them in writing and turk it in in any of his suits or shoes. Trust me, he will return from work broken and eager to make things straight.

As for his lack of affection by getting you gifts during celebrations. Let me ask, when was the last time you got him gifts maybe on his birthday or father's day celebrations?

Often, women tend to be selfish and self centred. All they think about is what benefits them alone. Believe me, hubby did not just stop buying gifts for you all of a sudden. Something is wrong somewhere. Look for the loopholes in your home/marriage and patch them. Only then will peace, love and unity start prevailing again.

okay so the husband was thinking about his wife and their marriage when he cheated since women are so selfish and self-centred?

Mindfulness:
I am 55 and single. Is it a problem?

kai 55? can I get you a walking stick

Onegai:
See wisdom! This truly is the solution to every marital issue.

Husband: (hmmm let me ignore my wife and message that cute single corper at my office. Her chest is perky!)
The next day....Husband comes home, sees a ripped young fellow, with melting brown eyes lined with curly lashes.
Husband (in alarm): "who's this??"
Wife: "that's Ibong/Tunde/Nedu, our new houseboy. You know you're always on your phone at night and I needed help to fill up the gen and queue for fuel."
(Houseboy bends over, muscles bathed in a light sheen of sweat, turns to smile and shows his perfect white teeth. Wife sighs softly. Husband sucks in big stomach).
Husband: "well I can change my bloody gen!" (Throws away phone, young corper and all other distractions)

THE END

sharp geh!

johnson232:
what is it with u and sexy houseboy?
are u okay?

why do you have problems with sexy houseboys?

Randyhot:
far from being a tribalist...just stating the obvious, i will never trust a yoruba man with my wife for two seconds alone.

eeeeh? In that case i pray you have a yoruba landlord for the rest of your life

Get a sexy house boy and quit your job so you can be home full time to spend it with your lover, by the time your husband comes back home from work, you will be happy and satisfied. When you are done with the houseboy, frame him for stealing and have the police remove him from the premises before your husband gets home. Then get a new one

Cheund:
It is painful, really painful. Here I am thinking out my next line of action. My husband slaps and tries to strangle me at any little provocation. Whe he has a date, he looks for a quarrel and sleeps out.

I am tired of both physical and emotional humiliation. I have 3 kids-6/4/24mnths, I bring the food to the house for him and the kids. He works with a private firm but often come back home saying no money. I work for the government and takes care of family bills. The cars in the house are all mine and he drives any at will.

He has no value or respect for family / wife or mother. I am ashamed of complaining to my mum or the church. DON'T SAY HIS MUM OR DAD, he walks out on them and have no respect for anyone.

When you see him out, he looks calm and nice but believe me he is a wolf in sheep clothing.

I have been thinking out what to do when he returns home today. This is 6:33am he left the house since about 10:pm last night without a word to any one. I overheard his mum(she's been with us for Omugwo) asking where he was going to , he ignored her and drove off.

I am tired and thinking out my mind what to do when he returns.

I have no strong bones like him so don't advise I fight him, but I am thinking I should lock the gate and do not allow him in. Pls nairaland family help me out. What should I do?
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Wait o! Drives your car? Lives in a house where you pay the bills?And you have not packed his bags yet? Abeg let him go leave off his concubines or are you waiting for an HIV positive result to take action?

Knightngale:
I can smell the influence of weed in this post.

okay let me keep to my " weed" and you stick to doing the chores yourself then continue