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Etophikisi:
U just spoke my mind nigga.in a world of ours where women wants to be of equal status with men then the onus also lies with them to attain the feet which men are known for.not when the sit there lazy ass at home all day long and also expect to be of equal status with men when they do virtually nothing.

did you mama sit her lazy ass at home all day doing virtually nothing? Your papa came back to a filthy house? You got your food from the bush? U bathed yourself from 0-4yrs?

ZYZZA:
K I blame buhari he is the president this kind of thing should not happen in his administration

God help u

harrysterol:
I support uncle Alex 100/100

after all all those her boyfriend's could not give her a job even after giving them bj's

May God put your daughters in the same position and may they feck their way up, shout amen.

euromilion:
@mizzochocinco
Thanks for ze compliment,yes the lady has massive butt.

On adventure,sky diving.

so its Sarah Baartman. The first big booty chick Europeans ever saw

MRBrownJ:
please care to educate us all on what is the RIGHT attitude that men should have towards women and marriage?! lol

That you just as old as those women.

wake up and look around you, many women in their 20s equally settle for MADE men that are sometimes twice their age; many women in their 20s would rather have a financially secure man than a man their age; what does age have to do with brighter future when women are willingly marrying older men? most women in 9ja are driven by money and a hard working successful man would mostly start being settled in life by his late 20s early30s (at best). if you do the math you will understand that you are failing.

Since i am dreaming tell me more on why every saturday you see more couples who have a 3-5yrs difference marry more than men your age and women in early 20s?

sadly there are many older men who cowardly go for trophy wives due to mid life crisis (who do you think they are marrying, if not younger babes?!), but it take a strong older man to date a younger babe in the real world. the good thing is that there is NO shortage of younger babe looking for an older man with experience (in and out of the bedroom) to sweep her off her feet. your problem is you think that an older man will/should automatically be attracted to an older lady, as if the definition of beauty (and what these men desire) changes as they grow older, lol!

older men normally marry women in their 30s, which are the same women you mock, dispite being your agemates.

REMEMBER: a nasty looking rich man can get any deluded broke aass desperate younger golddigger out there (and there are quite a few), but it take a special kind of older man to date a 20something babe and keep up with her (in and out of the bedroom). if you believe that MONEY is the only reason why a gal would settle for an older guy then you certainly live in lalaland.

how many broke older men do you know that marry younger women if its not about money? Im not talking about forced or child marriages.

btw: how can you put pot belly and going to the gym in the same sentence as something wrong with men?! ahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
men go to the gym because they care about their health AND most importantly, they care about their appearances and do NOT want to have pot bellies. so one cancels the other one, duh! how is it now wrong for women like you if a man goes to the gym?would you rather he has a pot belly?! abeg make some sense here!

i never said there is anything wrong with gyming i dont know why you got that twisted. I just stated that some of you use that delude yourself that you are young, but really the rest of the world sees you the same way you see women your own age.

do you actually believe the nonsense you write?! good sex is ALL down to EXPERIENCES, and therefore only an EXPERIENCED man would do the best job here, not automatically the younger one....but, if you can just look at a man and automatically believe that he is good in bed, then you must quickly wake up from you dream. also, i hate to tell you this but if you also believe that a younger man would automatically have a bigger dikc than an older man then i suggest you e-smack yourself for me. i wont even bother to educate you on the fact that good sex as nothing to do with big dikc anyway, lol!

this is just like a cup AA girl screaming her size is bettter than a C cup just to feel good about herself. It is all a lie stop fooling yourself. A younger guys gets a strong erection and lasts longer in bed. When you go 30+ it slowly gets weaker and weaker.
Keep lying to yourself that experience is what matters when you get a weaker erection as you age.

now look at what i have done to give you valid points to reply your claims about older men....i came up with intelligent points. this is what you should DO instead of automatically busting a vein because you see yourself in what i wrote, and get offended....BUT, the gravy here is that it would never make any difference to the fact that....the points i raised are valid TO ME in order to evaluate a +30 woman, whether you think that older men have pot bellies and tiny dikc (or not), lol!

but you are the exact same there is so much of what you see in ladies that are 30yrs old that everyone other younger people see in you. Thats the point i making all along. Whether you want to delude yourself with thoughts that you are in better position or not

1stola:
This your lies is annoyingly just craving my attentions
I'm happy and very confident about my age.
When are you going to start being honest? Then I may consider taking you seriously

I have been honest about my age, when you start acting your age maybe i will respect u

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MRBrownJ:
now you are making some sense!!!!
the important question IS: should i not give my humble opinion on a subject because (you believe) it may reflect negatively on me?! my post was based on my experiences on the subject and this is some of the points i think are important to think about before settling for a +30 lady. i dont write posts to be viewed positively, but simply to give my truth on any subject.

and all i simply said was the same reflects on you and you claimed that mem and women arent the same? And i argued that you are the same.

From what i have also seen the reason why men over 35 are not yet married are very much similar to those of women their age who are married at that age too.

1.) men over 35 and unmarried usually have a bad attitude towards women and marriage. Exhibit A look at any other guys your age on NL who is unmarried and you see exactly what im saying. Many women in their 20s would rather settle with men in their own age category because they still have a brighter future and they havent had a fair share of bad relationships as you have. Most of you clearly have trust issues when it comes to women, no decent 20something year old girl wants an insecure man to age her before her time.

2.) Going to physical appeareance, most guys start going out of shape when they have knock 30-35years, big bellies, saggy skin, deflated cheeks and grow bald (some start going bald even in their 20s). Whether you hide behing gyming 24/7 and hide behind designer clothes to make you more appealling. Fact remains when all of that is taken off. That 20year old boy has a more appealing and youthful body to look at, whether it has worn gucci before or not.

3.) put a 25year old next to a 35year old guy and best believe me, the 25year old would probably give more memorable sex. A penis becomes more weak and it shrinks as its ages.

did i wrote it was wrong to age?! did i wrote that i will stay looking 18yrs old for the rest of my life? i am just giving MY own humble opinion about the subject at hand. now who are you trying to fool?! women often hide under make up, fake hair etc and therefore when a lady is +30yrs old, you need to CONFIRM her true state before settling for her..... not just age but also state of mind, toto quality, etc

no one denied you to express your opinion, all i said is it simply puts you in the same category.

MRBrownJ:
well i am just telling my truth, if you dont like it, fair enough..... you are entitled to your own opinion.




the fact that you believe that men shouldnt have an opinion about people, for ANY reason is LAUGHABLE (to say the least). this is my humble opinion on the subject, accept it wisely as JUST THAT, instead of showing how hurt you feel about my words that described you.

tomorrow i can have a negative opinion about black people even if i am one, just like i could have a negative opinion about Nigerians if i was one...... what you write make NO damn sense whatsoever, if you actually think we cant have a negative opinion about people that may share similarities with us.



read the above in bold i wrote and educate yourself, if you dont want to then fair enough.



ahahahahahaha now i can see that you are truly hurt by my words and that it hit a nerve. i never wanted to hurt you in such a way and please accept my apologies BUT THIS REMAINS MY OPINION ON THE SUBJECT. i wish i could lower myself to play your childish game and derail this thread, but i cant. you can believe whatever you desire about me, wont change anything about my life.
BTW: if you have nothing to say on the "subject of the thread", why are you still writing anything here?

I did say something on the topic. And i completely agree with you. You can have a negative opnion about people the same age as you and younger than you, but just remember that the same negative things reflect on you too.

You can give your negative opinion about how a woman's beauty fades with age, but i can also tell that your facial appearance has changed over the past 10-20years, and it has not changed for the best either. Like i said it reflects on you too

yinkeys:
@mizzochocinco 0ur bros here @MRBrownJ is a misogynist. Confirmed 1. Lol see his dp

Those deflated cheeks is where all that smack is coming from o

MRBrownJ:
i do feel sorry for any man who needs to drink OR eat anything in order to get in the mood for sex.... i guess we come from different world, i just need the right woman and the right state of mind to be in the mood for sex. the day you need anything to get in the mood for good sex then that is the day sex is no more pleasurable but a stressful burden.

given your age right now, you probably have reached that stage you drink that herb Nigerian men drink to enhance their skills. You are not fooling anyone

an understand that you feel hurt by my words but you dont need to be...... as for my "expired" goods, you should know that men can be sexually active (without the need for any BS drinks,pills etc) up till their late 90s. dont hate the players, hate the game!

you didn't hurt my feelings. Its rather silly to mock people your own age, because it reflects on you too because you are the same age.

i am a MAN talking about WOMEN, how can you remotely think we are the same?!?!?!?!??! lol!

You are a human being over 30 so that puts you in the same category.

i can feel that my words have hurt you in some ways, as you certainly take what i wrote personally, lol..... dont despair, i was not talking about you when i wrote what i did, even if it described you.

again i can only be hurt by your words when I reach you current age, in lets say 15-25years from now. If im still unmarried and lonely like you that is.

mirexxx:
keep typing nonsense

Yeye girl she got proposed to in Dominican Republic, you cannot even get a guy to take you to Mama Adaku's eatery for pepper soup!

Yes they can so long its just that, friendship.

1stola:
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Cheap lines
I will beat you black n blue anytime
Old cargo

uncle, if im old cargo when im in my 20s, that makes you ancient history.

bellong:
Most of these cases are actually not because of sexual dissatisfaction but for greed and extreme lust.

When a person is deprived of something at some point they will go looking for something new. Its not greed or extreme lust.

The article is not about husbands but women who have created a big stumbling block in their hearts against reaching climax or enjoy the act. Irrespective of new thing you try, once this block is not eliminated, the new thing is a waste. And I think the author wrote it in the article.

a woman doesn't just wake up and decide that she doesn't want to enjoy sex. The so-called block can be removed by trying out new things. Not every woman orgasms from actual penetration some requite MouthAction and some require intimacy gadgets.

xynerise:
And why are you taking it personal? Not that I was specific about the age. I said above 30 which can be between 35-39 years and technically, that is the biological age for menopause. Why are you sounding like I am dissing 30+ ladies? Please, respond to people's opinion wisely.

It is only in rare cases that a woman experiences menopause below the age of 40. This is normally known as premature menopause. Get your facts right.

Im not taking it personal, just a friendly reminder that you are hanging around one closer to menopause

xynerise:
@Op. Mehn! Nobody ain't gonna kid with near menopause Lady. Your age doesn't guarantee a good attitude

Making a joke of it wasnt the wisest thing to do.

Sommyangel:
Where is malia Obama

USA is an African country?

1stola:
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Wow! Thank you lord that i could guess this Ngweke's age correctly
who wrote this rubbish earlier

Bloody Pathetic liar! She wants to deduct 10 years from are age by force. You think that will make you look younger
Continue to live in delusion. Just 5 years remaining for you to clock menopause

Issokay by the time i reach menopause you will be 108yrs old

Why are you making a silly guess about how long i take to fvck a girl? Is it your business if i last just 2 minutes

so you know you carry expired goods

The last time i checked, I did 4 rounds with my bae which lasted 8 hours

was this in 1991?

You are just a silly sex-starved dumpy flabby ugly bltch
The clock is ticking!!!
The remaining sun out there is still enough to dry a wet cloth...

i may still be growing older but you are already old as fvck though

Kingsleyinfo:
It's common sense. cleaning up after eating is not being civilized.

I clean up after eating, so what stops you from doing the same huh?

Did you read the first part of the very first post you quoted or you have a problem with comprehension?

My dear, I agree, am a village champion, city champion leave us villagers alone to wallow in what we know to be right.

See as she dey shout civilized like say she know wetin the word mean sef
Dirtiness is now being given a new name "Civilization"

Since it's civilized to eat and leave your plates unwashed then you can continue in that civilization. I want no part in it. Am perfectly satisfied with my 'clean' village.

twist my words all you like i said you deal with the situation in a civilized manner. If you still go on to misinterpret what i said, well thats your baby

Tapout:
do u know me??

We know your type

Kingsleyinfo:
No it's rather very foolish not to pick up a shirt on the floor and then call me to come and pick it.

you didnt read that properly obviously because only intend on arguing with me whether or not its necessary. I said i would pick it up and when u come back i will ask to do the same, next time it happens again, like a civilized human being.

It's your house, so if you like talk to your husband to stop litering the floor with his shirts, or simply pick it up yourself.

thats usually what civilised people do

My elder brother can't even try that nonsense the guy in the story did, I trust that guy gan... e go teach that girl proper manners.

like i said it requires common sense and a good upbringing to handle it in a civilised manner

Some my house come eat, come dey leave your plate for my sink, wetin guy nor fit try, na u wan come mis waka

Park well oh.....

this is the difference between a well-mannered man and a village champion.

Tapout:
op u didn't even mention wearing of butt pads. ...ladies involved in this act should be arrested on sight ....tell me what offence is more treasonous than someone possessing something that doesn't even exist, let alone theirs

You also should have arrested for the number of times you lied about your penis size and what you do for a living.

Kingsleyinfo:
Why did you quote part of my statement, and ignore the other half.

Why don't I give you a better option?
How about I wear my shirt and stroll out so you can come pick the shirt when you like.

Nor be who dem see dem dey argue with

Yeye dey smell. Selective reasoning.

you ignored my entire post thats why i had to repeat myself before saying anything else to you.

Being a child born with common sense with a good upbringing i would pick the shirt up and when you come back i would ask you to like a civilized human being. I will not die from picking a shirt up and putting in were it belongs.

It is only a fool who thinks its more logical to argue over it as opposed to just getting it over and done with without being difficult for no reason.

xynerise:
So I shouldn't say the fact because of sentiment? I married her when she was 26 and not 30. She is a mother of 2. We are talking about getting married to someone about 30.


Hmmm....it seems you are above 30? No fear

No im actually a good 7years younger than your wife. You are married to a woman who is not below 29, so its puts her in the same category, because her body is going through same changes as any other 30year old woman, married or not. I will say it again choose your words wisely.

I have nothing to fear about because she will be going through mid life crisis by the time i reach her current age.

xynerise:
She never pass 30. She is 30

So you better be wise with your words or she might become one of those ladies that start menopause at 30

If she has a big butt it might be Sarah Baartman. You have lovely children.

koyyes:
Don't think you made any sense up there. I bet you the kids who liked your epistle can't even afford 3 square meals on their own.And yes, you are included. Come back when you are much older and stop watching p0rn moviies. It produces imbe#ciles.

When he is much older? you are talking to someone who has probably reached 40 oooo lolz

xynerise:
. She is 16

It was a wise comment until you realised the love of your life don pass 30 abi?

MRBrownJ:
so, if i understand you correctly, a person who is NOT 30 cannot have an opinion of people who are 30?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

you are making no damn sense and i think you are the one who should keep quiet. let any person give their opinions on any subject on NL (whether it hurts your feelings or not) and each and everyone of us should decide whether they want to read/understand/believe it or not.

here is a simple clue for you: if i want to learn how to drive, i want to do so with someone who have EXTENDED experience in driving, and not someone who has never driven a damn car...... so when it comes to women, i equally would rather listen to an old 90yrs old playa than some 12yr old kid who has never kissed a female, but hey, to each their own!

*Yawns* okay since we are talking about your AGEMATES at 30, how much Ikawe do you drink before having sex with a woman?

Can you give use more advice on how women should handles your expired goods uncle? and im being very genuine

Talk about pot calling kettle black.

Kingsleyinfo:
Young lady advice yourself before I reposition your thinking.
How am I supposed to be a woman?
Your argument lacks basis. What is wrong is wrong, there is no common sense in encouraging bad behaviour. A stitch in time saves nine. Get things in the right perspective please.

Just give a simple answer to the question. Which one is more sensible arguing over who will pick a shirt up and place it in the washing basket or simply picking it up and placing it in the washing basket without a quarrel?

1stola:
Aunty Ngweke
Sweet 16 wannabe.
Why are you taking things personal?
Is it me that frustrate your life?
Na me say make you never marry even at 33?
You that will soon clock menopause
All your mates don born finish.
Why did you waste your youthful 20s fûcking around?
So you think me in my late 20s will take a Nigerian lady in her 30s seriously? When I'm not insane.
When there are thousands of young beautiful ladies out there praying to have my type as partner.
Who likes abandoned and used products?
Tufiakwa!

i went to check if the 1992 on my birth certificate changed to 1982 after reading with comment but it didnt clearly you are one of those overage uncles with no wife cause you just went psycho crazy on me when i was giving you advice.

Most young girls only find you attaractive if you have money to spend on them not that you are someone they would want to show you off to the world. Note i mentioned greedy girls not decent girls. Every other decent 20something year old is busy helping a guy, in her generation, make his dreams come true.


You ever asked yourself why every girl who is not enough for you never introduces you to her family or post your pics on the social media? instead she will post your toe, a quarter of your head or shadow? Here is your answer there are never proud to be seen by the world with your tired asss.

Let me advice you going for someone who is born in the generation after yours will not make you younger and or make your prick function well like it used to 20yrs ago.

You calling your agemates used goods? And what are you with your prick that has tasted every curable STI known of in science you better keep quiet because out there there are 20something year olds laughing at your old ass and foolish comments. You cant go for more than one round without using herbs or medicine, what does that make you? Expired goods

You all need to grow up and act your age. How many of your mates weddings are you attending next month? How many of your mates legitimate children will you be posing with this year? biko you better act your age ooo, even God dey pity you.

teasel:
Those married to Nigerian men are in the best position to answer this.

Where is your husband from?