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TrapQueen77:
who's paying the flat? is it u or him? if he's the one paying ,then give it back to him with those receipts and go back to ur family or get ur own flat..and how the hell he became ur fiancé when he's even married to another woman? are u oryt gayl?


i bet ur new bobo doesn't know u keep paddling in different strokes

His wife doesnt know me so why must he know my new bobo? Im asking for serious advice here please. If you know thing else to do, kindly go back to bed abeg

Freciprocal:
Let's assume what the poster below says is false

You want to get rid of your fiance... who is married and has a son

The nonsense man (your fiance) wants to rob u of what u worked hard for.... what exactly is that?

This same baba Junior (your fiance) is an elder that needs to be respected...


I had tried to replace fiance with finance trying to see if I could get u better. Seems to me your problem is lack of education.


Your can start by purchasing a very good dictionary

i went up to postgrad to get an education. Did your mother and sister simply end at buying a dictionary to get an education? Ode!

I met my boyfriend a couple of months ago and we have been inseparable since. We talk everyday. He is in London and I am here. He visited twice already. Things have moved so fast that he wants to come back more often and hopefully get us our own plave we will settle down in because right now he believes I am renting.

I however have one very big obstacle in my way and this is my fiance that I have been trying to get rid of for sometime now. I have told him several times before that I want to end it with him because he will not leave his wife for me. He has been disturbing my life simply because he got a flat in my name and he is threatening me that if I leave him I will have to leave the flat too. Imagine this nonsense man trying to rob me of what I worked hard for! Mtcheww this thing is annoying sef!

My boyfriend is sweet, young and hot and my fiance is quite the opposite. He has opened my eyes to the extent where I now call my fiance papa junior (that is the first son with his wife) and it irritates him because he says it makes him feel old. I do not see anything wrong with it because I feel the elders should be respected.

Now lets go back to the issue at hand, how do i get rid of the fiance without him giving me headache over the flat he freely gave to me. We never agreed in the beginning that I would give the flat back, so i do not know why he is trying to spoil my future for me. Please help.

obontami:
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If your were born of a Nigerian woman, is her pussy weak too?

SHE LOVES EXPERIMENTING

She will freely go down on you, twist and turn over in bed to make sex much more exciting for the both of you. She does not have to consult her pastor to get permission to suck you or bend over


SHE LEARNS A LOT WHEN SHE IS OUT THERE

If she is wise enough she will take time to learn how to make new dishes when she goes out. She will not cook for you her mother ogbono soup recipe for the rest of life. Learn new dances and maybe languages too.

UNDERSTANDING FREE TIME

An adventurous woman will understand your Friday night or Saturday night out with the boys once in a while. She will understand you need to be left alone to enjoy whats left of your youth so long you can behave yourself out there. She will not drag you to every all-night prayer, midweek service, married couple's service, moneygiving service and pastor's grocery service.

SHE IS NOT TOO JUDGMENTAL

When you wrong her she is more likely to forgive because she has understood the fact that to err is human and from her previous mistakes she has also learnt that some mistakes are simply part of growing up as well. She will not tell her pastor or his wife about how you farted in your sleep last night or how you refused to pay more than pray 10times a day.

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#0099ff].....⚡I LIKE yer dp. You make that GIF yerself?[/color]

lol no i got that back in the BB days

I like a nice guy, i do not care about the looks because i believe there is more to man. He can be tall or short, fat or skinny, handsome or challenged, bald or with hair. All I want is a big heart with serious cash

masseratti:
why cant you be a rich girl? are you that lazy? or money hates you?

money loves me a lot

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#ffc400]Ah he wanted to be the only cheater[/color]

Haba na! Do me i do you

LIFE WILL BE EASIER

You do not have to look and ask for T-fare because if he leaves close by he can come and pick you up to go on dates. No dangerous okada rides or seating next to smelly people on a bus.

THERE IS MORE TO DO

With a well to do guy you get to go on different dates. Not just eatries, he can take you out of town to holiday resorts or you go out to comedy shows and concerts.


YOU WILL KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GETTING YOURSELF INTO

They say a man's loyalty is tested when he has money. When you date a broke guy usually he will be loyal to you because he knows that not many beautiful women are ready to be with him. You will always been uncertain if that lotalty will still be there when he finally finds money, if he does at all.
When he is already rich at least you will know his true colours right from the beginning.

YOU STAY BEAUTIFUL

Let us not fool ourselves there is no woman who has been able to turn heads looking like a village girl with a 5months old hairstyle? You need decent looking clothes, stunning hairstyles and quality make-up to always look amazing. Post your pictures looking like you just came back from fetching water in your village and a picture of you looking like Beyonce on stage and see which one guys will respond to, even the brokes ones.

YOU LOOK FORWARD TO A LOT

Would you want to put on N80,000 weave, designer clothes and make-up to go eat indomie and eggs at a face me i slap you apartment? Obviously not! You get to dress up for different ocassions, from holidays to fancy weddings to VIP seats at events.
You get to be showered with gifts. I know the broke guys will call you a prostitute and what what, but was his yeye ex-girlfriend not spreading her legs for free? How is that more dignified?

THE SEX IS MUCH MORE FUN

Where do you think you will enjoy the sex more? On a matress on the ground in a hot room with no AC and his sweat all over you or a double matress bed facing the beach outside with the room smellling like lavender?
Forget all those who scream non-virgins are cheap, when her husband starts cheating with experienced women barely 6months into the marriage (which is usually the case) that is when reality will hit them.

ruggedboy01:
U are here forming smart girl meanwhile u want the guy to fall mumu so u chop him money.... u even call him small boy

Seems u are under sixteen

nccccah!

My bae was cheating on me and has been begging me for 2weeks now to forgive him. I decided to have an affair as well so that we can be even, so after sex with the other guy i invited him over and told him that the only way i would forgive him is if he gave me MouthAction, after hesitation he did and he gave me heavenly feelings twice.

After my best friend had a fight with me she called him and told him what i had done and now he wants to kill me what not. Why are guys so annoying?

Today i am boiling so so so hot! This thing is very irritating sha! Some guys sef ehn! Mtchewww.

So i met one guy in primary school and fast forward years later he left for Yankee and he started messaging me. I saved his number as "Yankee tohbadt" because he does not use his real name on facebook and frankly speaking i forgot it.


Anyway, this small boy started gisting me and professed his love for me. So you know me I am a sharp girl I told him I was single and stuffs. Which is true because everytime i fill in an application form I always tick Single because there is no engaged or in a relationship option.

Today i called him to wish him a happy 4th of July and ask him what he got for me to celebrate. This boy just acted confused. He was like but you are not in Yankee and I was like so, did I just not say happy 4th of July?

I started boiling inside because I have never met a man so selfish in my entire life, how can you celebrate anything without exchanging gifts with a girl you claim to love? Why are guys like this?

henrydadon:
this is what happens when two smart ass are in a relationship

U are coming here talking about a nagging fiancee when it obvious you are not the submissive kinda woman.

please free that bros and go back to your new toy boy who is ready to spend for u.

Who said I cannot be submissive? So because i refused to cook for him because I wanted to have some fun out of town it means I cannot be submissive? Mind yourself!

She is a water mammy

chelseabmw:
Anything for u my babeza

small boy I got busy, but are you ready now?

topgear:
Your Fiance who is married came to your house to spend days with you to see that your not double dating.

So you want be a second wife....or you are just one silly dude behind this profile??

Me? Second wife? Am I mad? Who gave me juju to become second wife?

Tell your aunty to do HIV test in front of everyone if she is negative apologise and if she is positive slap her!

Ernesty20 your face looks like its stuck in shitting mode. You are not ugly at all but you look like you are always trying to push something out.

I have been engaged to this guy for sometime now but you know as a sharp geh I make sure my car always has a spare tyre I recently decided to leave him because my other guy has been showing me more love. Taking me out and stuffs.

My fiance has become suspicious and he does not let my phone rest with messages and calls. Every time i'm with my other guy I have to switch my phone off because this bastard wants to pour sand for my garri! This thing is very annoying!

Today this man had the guts to come to my house with a small suit case. He told his wife that he was going on a business trip and other nonsense like that. This man said he wants to be close to me because he wants to make sure that I am not seeing other men! I was very annoyed because I was planning to go out of town with my other guy. I had to lie to the other guy that my sister was sick so I had to go to her school to take care to nurse her back to health.

This my fiance is annoying he expects me to cook for him and hold him and pat him like a little dog! Why did he not bring his maid to do all of that for him, or better yet stayed at home with his wife and frustrate her instead. I have never bothered him, why is he bothering me? I want to enjoy my life and I do not want to all this wahala because my father has not received any bride price o!


How do you deal with a nagging partner, mature advise only.

tomquest:
Just suck it up lady, you are busted ok!

That sim WAS BOUGHT well beyond June 17th, SOLELY FOR THE PURPOSE OF SELLING MY IPHONE ON NL. The phone numbers had been displayed on my profile where you STOLE it from, pretty liar.

NLers would have to judge if it's a crime to "follow" male and females NLers who make intelligent contribution to the forum, not me or you ok. Maybe the guys I follow too qualifies me as gay since my following ladies made you come up with a pathetic lie which shall stand against you on judgement day unless you publicly renounce it.. This lie will guarantee you h3ll fire when you die plus karma on earth. Of course your bitterness won't allow you state here that there are followers on my profile as well.

GOT YOU BUSTED, EMBITTERED LADY

But you will not be the first married man ashaworizing for nairaland. Its a trend amongst married men on this forum. I really had to stalk your profile and see for myself. Haba! Following 21females in 2weeks? You are not joking with your mission o!

iamkingzlee:
hehehe! someone wants to play with my head

The white girls, Obviously. It's also not a common case. Soo till when the lord blesses me with 8 Light skinned ladies in a room, I"ll come back to tell you how I took care of that!

i will have to agree with this, walk into a room with 2 white guys and 6 black guys and definitely you will have eyes wondering around those blues eyes and dirty blonde spiky hair and those perfect arms and legs.

owagbeba:
Don't other women in other countries go through pregnancy and childbirth too?

The truth is our women overindulge in eating the wrong kind of food; and they rarely exercise.

and for how many days can you maintain without eating typical Nigerian dishes which include red meat and fatty oil?

ehix89:
Watch this new guy break his promises like ceramic plate, guys!!! na so we dhey do

i rebuke you!

Stephandeswardt:
Are they both married?

how will this question epp me rich Dubai?

MCeeShort:
I don't care if u are being sarcastic or not, its ur conscience that'll decide that for u.

And my mom isn't fat, neither is she slim.

okay very well then

MCeeShort:
My mom's day starts by 5am and she doesn't stop till 7pm. She's almost always on the move.

its rather unfair that she still isnt the same size as someone who only jogs 2miles a day for a couple of minutes a day. Why do you think she never got rid of the "baby fat" if she is always on the move 14hrs a day?
Im not being sarcastic, Im trying to get a better understanding. You shouldn't get sensitive over this, remember they are women too and I am trying to figure out if they are meet the expectations every other women is meant to meet.

MCeeShort:
This is one nonsense I hate...u can't have a genuine exchange with a Nairalander and that person remains objective. They must always attack ur person or ur family.

May the peace of the Lord be with u.

i am sorry if you felt attacked but that was never the intention. If you do not mind me asking, why are they all not the same size? who has been reckless with her weight and who hasn't? I am just trying to get a better understanding, because you gave me an impression that its illogical for any woman to gain weight and not loss it after marriage.

MCeeShort:
Really? Thanks for the direction. What about Diana Rose? She did a tummy tuck too? Or our very own Kenny St. Brown?

If your mother and sisters are all the same size, then there is definitely no excuse for any Nigerian woman to be fat. I'm sure Diana and Kenny can afford granola for breakfast, caesar salad and fish for breakfast and butternut soup with ciabatta for dinner, and how many times have you cried out blood of Jesus over buying apples or popcorn for your girlfriend?

vicchi12:
Don't I just adore you. Using myself as an example, when I'm stressed, I crave junk food. I'm an emotional eater, but I've been able to recognize that and just consume just protein and vegetables. I try not to consume over 30 g of carbs n fat in a day. And drink lots of water! It helps a great deal!

Try to detox as well it helps keeping you stress free, my favourite is warm water with cinnamon and honey mixture. It doesnt taste amazing but it will definitely help you sleep well at night have you feeling like a princess when you wake up in the morning