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How old is the baby?any sex preference or age limit?A live in nanny or work and go?

I might be able to recommend someone but i need answers to the above questions

Tanks.my baby is about 4 months old.female within 16-20.could be a live in or wrk and go

Nobody was 2 assist me in d nanny stuff?

Dear NL's am lookn for a nanny dat can travel down 2 enugu wit me to assist in doing some house chores and takin care of my baby while I attend to my studies.pls if anyone can be of help because I ve really searched for and its not forth comin thru.Tanks alot

Not advisable 2 be friends wit ur Ex.a lot of temptations and wen u re not strong u might end up having sex which after everytin u might regret.me in particular wen I got married my ex was still disturbing and pleading wit me to leave my hubby.he wanted us so close,I just had 2 be strong not 2 accept his friendship because its definately going 2 spoil Tins

fresh_dude: Well have you decided yet?

Well if I say ve decided not 2 flirt would I be telln lies or not.

zignor: you are a disgrace to ur family. why marry in the first place. you must be cheating ur husband b4.

why did you call it flirt instead of cheat.

If I was cheatin B4,y do u tink I would come 2 nairaland for opinions.mind you am one of d most beautiful girls in my dept in sch,dis is my 6th year(final year)so if I wanted 2 cheat I would ve slept wit a thousand guys.Do u read well?pls read over my posts again,and 4ur question,I love my hubby dats y I got married

Dyt: ^^ ma'am
v u decided on wat u wanna do?

Hw can I decide?when 95% of dem re rainin insults on me.

IYA NGBALI: instead of wasting your time flirting online,why not use it to work & improve your grammar. U are just a cheap LovePeddler looking for dikS online.

Did u say grammar?u re so funny.so u tink u speak well.one or 2 typing errors is wat u re pointing at.

freecocoa: If you had any sense you'd understand the op's post and realize she's made up her mind to do what she talked about,what kind of wife takes flirting as a way to ease tension in her marriage?you both are stuppid,nansense.

My dear na u stupid

Babaggio: @OP: Perhaps it's all been taken out of context by most people advising you here. But have a quick read below to understand what you said/want better:

Noun: flirt
|flurt|
1. A seductive woman who uses her sex appeal to exploit men
= coquette, flirter, minx, prickteaser, tease, vamp, vamper

2. Playful behaviour intended to arouse sexual interest
= coquetry, dalliance, flirtation, flirting, toying

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Straight from the English dictionary!
I agree that you might not plan to cheat, but what you won't eat, don't taste else it might be irresistible.
Now think about this: what if your hubby stumbles on d romantic exchanges btw urself & ur 'virtual lover' someday?
You seem to have a pretty damn good marriage there (believe me, it's scarce), don't blow it. My 2p worth.

Tanks a lot.I knw he is going 2 be so shocked if he stumbles into sumtin like dat,will change my mind

All of u,re just crucifying me like am d worst wife on earth.for sum of ur comments,am not lookn for sex,am still student in d university,if I really wanted 2 cheat I dnt tink I would come 2 nairaland.Ilove my hubby yeah and we re very close.I dnt intend us having issues all d time,buh as humans issues must suffice.wat am sayn is probably because we re so close and share almost evrytin together am so into him,so if we ve a little ish,it affects so bad,dat I can't even do anytin,And its tearing me apart,dats y I thot of flirtn online to get my mind off him a little.

freecocoa: Instead of you to focus on how to resolve\minimize having misunderstandings with your hubby,you are thinking of flirting as a solution?you really are not ready for marriage,btw it seems you plan on having steady misunderstandings with him from the tone of your post,so much for someone who claims to love her husband and him being her best friend in another thread,you really are not wise and i mean that with no remorse.

My dear u re not a saint oh,or rather d most prefect on earth.Ilove my hubby yeah and we re very close.I dnt intend us having issues all d time,buh as humans issues must suffice.wat am sayn is probably because we re so close and share almost evrytin together am so into him,so if we ve a little ish,it affects so bad,dat I can't even do anytin,And its tearing me apart,dats y I thot of flirtn.u can say wat u like sha.

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Wen tins dont really go as planned,or ur spouse is not living upto to expectations.in ur quiet time,one could wish.I myself have wished I married my ex boyfriend because he was more of a fun 2me and looks good,dat thot crossed my mind wen my hubby was becoming too busy.everytin was just work and nutin more,buh after some few hours I was still glad I married my hubby,a very good friend of mine.

My hubby calls "Ayemena"in his dialect it means My sweet or precious wife.he also has a love song he sings 4me also.dat mu hubby is so sweet.

dasparrow: So what would you like us to do? Would you like us to go and beg your hubby on your behalf to make love to his own wife? He probably decided not to touch you for now so that he does not get you pregnant again after merely 3 months of you putting to bed. Even though you claim to feel ok, the insides of your body need to heal. Allow your body to heal and give your private part a break from the constant pounding and concentrate on taking care of your new born baby. All the best lady!

dasparrow: So what would you like us to do? Would you like us to go and beg your hubby on your behalf to make love to his own wife? He probably decided not to touch you for now so that he does not get you pregnant again after merely 3 months of you putting to bed. Even though you claim to feel ok, the insides of your body need to heal. Allow your body to heal and give your private part a break from the constant pounding and concentrate on taking care of your new born baby. All the best lady!

Re u not been too harsh and insultn.pls try not to be silly.Tanks

Hi NL.I gave birth december 26th thru ceasarean section.before d birth I laboured for 2 good days witout any sign of progress,so operation was d wayout.2 cut d long story short,we passed thru a lot dat nite of my delivery.from Lagos traffic(because d hosp I registered didn't ve a gynecologist on board to perform d operation)so I was referred 2 Lasuth.on gettn deir dey said deir was no Bed space to accomodate me,dat everywhere was full.Finally I was referred 2 a good private hosp where it was finally done.so am very ok now,am back 2 shape,my tummy is flat like I was neva pregnant BUT my hubby said he won't sleep wit me Till six months time.D doctor said my wound is finally healed and I can ve sex buh my hubby is insisting 6months.so my worry now,is he feeling 4me,all I went thruy cos he was present or he wants to get it outside.cos I miss him in Bed a lot.my hubby loves me dearly and we re good friends.Advice pls

Naked wire,do u read very well.stubborn towards d type of cloths I want him 2 wear.

@ ronkebp.yeah I might him dat way,buh wen I told him I didn't like d way he looked,he told me to assist in his looksof which I started doing.buh afta our wedding he just got tired of my assisting him.@ chaircover Tanks.dat way might really work

Good day nairalanders.I ve. Dis issue dat am not proud off.I got married early last year.B4 I got married while I was dating my hubby he promised to change a lot of tins especially his dressing.he dresses so shaby and untidy.he can wear just 1 tshirt for days.so Igot sum good cloths 4him den we were dating and he was alwyas hapi wearin dem.buh after we got married he has been provin so stubborn.he does not even want to hear d cloths issue.he even warned me to leave his appearance alone.am not proud of him @ all especially wen we go out because of d way he dresses.he looks like a mechanic or a driver.am not even proud showin him 2 my friends.pls hw do I change dat aspect of him because he is a very loving husband.he is my best friend.I love him a lot too dats y I want him 2 change.