Madam,flirting is flirting whether its online,inline,offline or outline.sort ΰя issues wt ΰя husby nd mk ΰя home a happy one.

@OP: Perhaps it's all been taken out of context by most people advising you here. But have a quick read below to understand what you said/want better:

Noun: flirt
|flurt|
1. A seductive woman who uses her sex appeal to exploit men
= coquette, flirter, minx, prickteaser, tease, vamp, vamper

2. Playful behaviour intended to arouse sexual interest
= coquetry, dalliance, flirtation, flirting, toying

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Straight from the English dictionary!
I agree that you might not plan to cheat, but what you won't eat, don't taste else it might be irresistible.
Now think about this: what if your hubby stumbles on d romantic exchanges btw urself & ur 'virtual lover' someday?
You seem to have a pretty damn good marriage there (believe me, it's scarce), don't blow it. My 2p worth.

Seems u don't knw wat marriage is bout that's if u are truly "married"

Babaggio: @OP: Perhaps it's all been taken out of context by most people advising you here. But have a quick read below to understand what you said/want better:

Noun: flirt
|flurt|
1. A seductive woman who uses her sex appeal to exploit men
= coquette, flirter, minx, prickteaser, tease, vamp, vamper

2. Playful behaviour intended to arouse sexual interest
= coquetry, dalliance, flirtation, flirting, toying

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Straight from the English dictionary!
I agree that you might not plan to cheat, but what you won't eat, don't taste else it might be irresistible.
Now think about this: what if your hubby stumbles on d romantic exchanges btw urself & ur 'virtual lover' someday?
You seem to have a pretty damn good marriage there (believe me, it's scarce), don't blow it. My 2p worth.

Tanks a lot.I knw he is going 2 be so shocked if he stumbles into sumtin like dat,will change my mind

MLS12:
Tanks a lot.I knw he is going 2 be so shocked if he stumbles into sumtin like dat,will change my mind

Its nt even 12hrs yet, u havin a change of hrt
Cmon, let's do dis

brainchild78: i will hit u hard strate 2 d point. marriage is a sacred institution dat needs 2 be preserved unless d issue of adultery or physical tension/abuses arises. flirtin can cause damage dan harm. believe me i hav had 1st hand experience!

thank you

neyostica: I feel for the unlucky man that is married to you

thank you too. In fact, oloriburuku ni gbogbo awön girls yii nisiyin!

@ OP: flirt'n wit out cheat'n? i am try'n 2 figure out ur type.... Hmmn!
Ur typ is lyk d typ dat wen she got married no one heard a word.
IF U WANT 2 FLIRT DO IT WIT UR HUSBAND SIMPLE!!!

Don Carlos: You can befriend some of the ladies in this forum if u don't have friends outside but pls perish the tot of flirting with the guys here. If you live to regret it, that is.

every girls here na total bad company!

OP,
Why would you want to flirt? You want to make your husband feel the loser when there is a disagreement perhaps by your non challant attitude that would arise knowing well that some other guys appreciates you right? You are running faster on the route of destruction because when it gets to that state and the man starts looking out, ladies of nowadays may cease him totally from you and they it would be too late as it would wreck your marriage.

flirting in a bad step into sloving marriage problems rather it wrosen things. Every relateships has its ups and downs not flirting. If one need to flirt why not allow God into the maarriage and allow Him take control of the situations.

i feel u gurll, flyyyy high buh dnt get hit.

ASHAWO don marry MUGU; God dey sha.

MLS12: All of u,re just crucifying me. am d worst wife on earth.for sum of ur comments,am jstnot lookn for sex,am still student in d university, I really wanted 2 cheat[/b]I dnt intend us having issues all d time,buh as humans issues must suffice.wat am sayn is probably because we re so close and share almost evrytin together am so into him,so if we ve a little ish,it affects so bad,dat I can't even do anytin,And its tearing me apart,[b]dats y I thot of havin sex to get my mind off him a little.

oloshi. oloriburuku. Na who dey marry student pupil sef?

ASHAWO don marry MUGU; God dey sha.

maadam,to be candid with u, it is d worse decision u re about to take. PLZ DO WAT U KNOW WILL NOT HURT U IF DAT IS BEING DONE TO U. BE WISE COS ONE THING LEADS TO ANOTHER.

@ OP,
It is not out of place to feel the way you feel. It is absolutely normal during the marriage life cycle.

Monotony may set in after a short while. It can be really nerve breaking especially when associated with incessant cases of disputes.

What everyone here has said is totally correct because flirting will temporarily steer you to divert attention to another man. Nevertheless, if you truly love him, you would retrace your steps after a certain level of adultery perhaps after a bout of sex with another.

A state of remorse will set in and you will cool down for a bit of time and may revert again and again and the process will continue until perhaps caught.

What you need is state of absolute control and if not helping, seek for a male friend to confide in and not flirt with. Healthy friendship can be built. It has its consequences but is better than a base thought to flirt.

In conclusion, I reiterate you are perfectly in order to feel how you feel and must commend you for sharing on this forum.

NB

Guys, this is a lessons learnt that our women are no logs of wood. They should be treated with dignity at all times. We should be sensitive to their needs and avoid causing havoc at home always. It creates yearnings for another. Please if married, endeavour to treat your woman right henceforth! as

KINGwax
U dey vex oooo

Dyt: KINGwax
U dey vex oooo

i swear! *hisses*

freecocoa: Instead of you to focus on how to resolve\minimize having misunderstandings with your hubby,you are thinking of flirting as a solution?you really are not ready for marriage,btw it seems you plan on having steady misunderstandings with him from the tone of your post,so much for someone who claims to love her husband and him being her best friend in another thread,you really are not wise and i mean that with no remorse.

typical nigerian,she was asking for an advice,she never said she has done it,hypocrites.......always quick to judge

Sam xiu lee: typical nigerian,she was asking for an advice,she never said she has done it,hypocrites.......always quick to judge

If you had any sense you'd understand the op's post and realize she's made up her mind to do what she talked about,what kind of wife takes flirting as a way to ease tension in her marriage?you both are stuppid,nansense.

freecocoa: If you had any sense you'd understand the op's post and realize she's made up her mind to do what she talked about,what kind of wife takes flirting as a way to ease tension in her marriage?you both are stuppid,nansense.

My dear na u stupid

MLS12:

My dear na u stupid

Nah I'm sure you know that's just you making yourself look sillier,did you even read your first post before clicking on the"submit" button? Jeez you are just very immature.

madame married woman you are trekking on a slipery slope mind you dont fall oooo

Come flirt with me offline. I am a problem solver.

slimyem: flirt but be careful how you manage it so it doesnt bring you trouble at last.
Goodluck!

Ur man is so unlucky,

MLS12:

My dear na u stupid

How old are u?? U tink dis is mills n boon?? Will u go to bed!

Red alert, not cool not cool! lol

Flirting when natural is fine- this however my dear lady is not! resolve the issues you have with your husband and dont let me see you here flirting!!

Wow I was not expecting this kind of advice from you. Something is wrong somewhere. I am suprised.

I only pity your unlucky husband provided he himself is not a player. Feel free to flirt oo-what goes around will surely come around.

casket: I only pity your unlucky husband provided he himself is not a player. Feel free to flirt oo-what goes around will surely come around.

She is even a student, so the guy is likely paying for her school too.
The poor maga is probably slaving off his arse to pay her through, and this is the nonsense this yeye thing is scheming behind his back.

MLS12:

My dear u re not a saint oh,or rather d most prefect on earth.Ilove my hubby yeah and we re very close.I dnt intend us having issues all d time,buh as humans issues must suffice.wat am sayn is probably because we re so close and share almost evrytin together am so into him,so if we ve a little ish,it affects so bad,dat I can't even do anytin,And its tearing me apart,dats y I thot of flirtn.u can say wat u like sha.

flirting is a baaaaaad idea. Not all that glitters is gold. You have a man that proved he loves you by marrying you. A word is enough for the wise. Flirting results in divorce.