fresh_dude: Well have you decided yet?

Well if I say ve decided not 2 flirt would I be telln lies or not.

MLS12:
Well if I say ve decided not 2 flirt would I be telln lies or not.

You must be mistaking me for Prof. Xavier, I wouldn't know unless you told me.

OMG! See as adults are raining curses and abuses on one another. Unbelievable!
Moderator, Abeg lock this thread afterall the original poster got her wish in d form of good advice and has decided not to flirt.
Some of the comments, sorry, curses & abuses here shouldn't be read. To think that these are 'would-be' parents is quite worrying.

Flirt online without cheating? How she want do am? Women these days are beginning to think men are stupid. They will go to a guys house and tell you he is just a friend that nothing happened. Have we not heard the comment he is just a friend more than a thousand times? Abi the guy na her brother?

Focus your emotional energies on your 3 month old baby who needs all the maternal bonding he or she can get from you at the moment.
And the above advice holds if your story was true in the first place. And why do I smell a rat ? Because you say that you are one of the most beautiful girls in your Department and that if you wanted to cheat you would have slept with a thousand guys ?

Now that is not the mindset of a young mother with a 3 month old baby to constantly think about and that is why I smell a rat with your story.

freecocoa: Instead of you to focus on how to resolve\minimize having misunderstandings with your hubby,you are thinking of flirting as a solution?you really are not ready for marriage,btw it seems you plan on having steady misunderstandings with him from the tone of your post,so much for someone who claims to love her husband and him being her best friend in another thread,you really are not wise and i mean that with no remorse.

ouch! You really can be blunt

whyowhy: Hmmmm! please note that the men who flirt online are experts. It's just a matter of time before they get their hands on your thighs then beyond. Your innocent flirt would meet a desperate pervert lurking online to mess up your mind and your life.

In summary - if you like your self dont even start.

Well..... u r absolutely right.

apocalypse:

ouch! You really can be blunt

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Well I feel like no one can say n e thin, unless they are currently in her shoes. Oh humans r So easy to cruxify the next person.

IYA NGBALI: instead of wasting your time flirting online,why not use it to work & improve your grammar. U are just a cheap LovePeddler looking for dikS online.

Lekwe nu m'anya oh. Ndi madu jus na gari ngari na chu nsogbu. Mschewww!

Our pple talk say!!!!ASHAWO wey marry,na HOLIDAY She go!!!she go still come back!!!#gbam...

No probs girl, flirt. In as much as you wont cry your eyes out if your hubby too does same

Wow.this is how my flirting online turned into a real cheat.I actually started flirtng online with a moslem dude tho he didn't grow up much in naija.he is not a stranger I have always known him.it started off harmless but then things took another turn.it got to a piont where I had to get another BB secretly so I can do all sort of dirty stuffs with him without my partner having a clue.after series of lunch I had with him,we were willing to meet in a hotel.our sex was so intense.I loved every bit of it.now the painful part is why don't I feel guilty.its not as if my husband wasn't satiafying me sexually but then I just want more from this guy.we have had sex like 3 times.am not a gud person at all.what if my family finds out.what really happened to me with my nice upbringing.

MLS12: Wow.this is how my flirting online turned into a real cheat.I actually started flirtng online with a moslem dude tho he didn't grow up much in naija.he is not a stranger I have always known him.it started off harmless but then things took another turn.it got to a piont where I had to get another BB secretly so I can do all sort of dirty stuffs with him without my partner having a clue.after series of lunch I had with him,we were willing to meet in a hotel.our sex was so intense.I loved every bit of it.now the painful part is why don't I feel guilty.its not as if my husband wasn't satiafying me sexually but then I just want more from this guy.we have had sex like 3 times.am not a gud person at all.what if my family finds out.what really happened to me with my nice upbringing.

In 2013? Na God go punish u! Hoe!!

Moderators who moved my thread from the family section to romance.pls move it back to the family section

Is there anything new under the sun? The point is you dont love your husband so why did you marry him. He is rich rite? Typical naija girl. God saves us all.

Poster is probably male or just plain crazy either way.

Who does anyone want to flirt with here- do any of the guys sound like they're not extremely street savvy and most of them are probably observing you in your bathroom, unbeknownst to you, while you think you're flirting with them!

@ whoever wants to buy the op's crap.

Will read the thread later.

Idowuogbo:
In 2013? Na God go punish u! Hoe!!

You gotta love love NL

cube63:


Were ni iya re ati baba re! Idi le were! Oloriburuku!

What do you stand to gain? You want me to pay you cos you're a prostitue? It's better to be a cheat than a p.ro.s.t.i.t.u.t.e oh my sister. Good night!

Olopa Ewo ni epe I don laf tire for eia my belle dey hurt

I dont believe she actually did that...