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ekemini84:
You be very funny old mama!..lol

Y i go shame to admitted?
Even Chris brown was at one point rejected by what's DT craze girl name sef?...riri!

na come me_ ordinary mortal.
Abeg no let me laugh, I de turn soup.

dave2meek:
FTC hahahahahah...
Moral of the story you need to be weary of the people you employ as domestic workers be it househelp or drivers for the days are evil.

veave:
So all those indian and cowboy outfit was to catch her attention eeh kwa? Good to know it paid off. For all those 'go and pray' advisers I hope you learn from this. Nor be everything dey dey pray oh. Know your partner well and press that button.



Ngwanu ka o di.

ekemini84:
Eya! Poor you!
Well I CNT say I have not been rejected..but then again I can't say I noticed!

Timbuktou:
Let's be sincere. Nigerian men will always come out on top in situations such as this for the simple reason that men and women are different and require different approaches.

What exactly has this woman gained by this move and what exactly has the man lost? Like Emaprince has maintained, this woman is a closet slut who's been given a reason to fvck around. As a man, her husband will simply move on to another pusssy, she has to be in her situation for another 8-9months. And it does beg the question, will she be going for another child since hubby has got two outside? What will she do when the results of any potential paternity tests come to fore? And any man who neglects to have the paternity of his 'children' verified in today's Nigeria deserves to daddy the neighbourhood agbero's kids.

ekemini84:
Reject me..How?

ekemini84:
I CNT argue with you, cus it will be sought of like parking in an handicap spot. Just wont feel right!

I guess all I can do right now is wish you all the best in this mental/ psychological challenge that has place such a huge demand on you.

mirexxx:
around where? do u know her?

ekemini84:
I discussed this oshomole marriage thing with some female friends of mine and I was surprise the number of support I got in favour of this woman.

To me it reveals the predominant consciousness of many women in this day and age hence, the overwhelming support for her. The obssessesion for money by women for me is reaching near tipping point to say the least. I want someone to convince me that this marriage is about "love".

Many girls I spoke to seem not to see anything wrong with her actions- but when I asked them if they would marry the same man if he was broke?. ..well let's just say they laugh it off as joke!

I guess all is well that ends well.

tearoses:
@ Moana

If he was an abuser then she shouldnt leave the kids with him at all, and she should be fighting tooth and nail to get them back.
I havent heard her say that and that concerns me more than the money she is talking about.

tearoses:
No its not normal
Neither is your situation normal
From experience, I read between the lines when I hear accounts from one side.

You said you ran away from abuse, but you left your children behind with the abusive man . . That is not normal
You are here seeking advise on payment towards their upkeep and said nothing about rescuing them from an abuser . . .that too is not normal

You are however seeking for advise, so I will give you some
1. First of all, if you have left your kids with an abuser and their lives are at risk, ensure that you do everything ASAP to remove them from danger.

2. Yes you are a parent and have a financial obligation towards your kids upkeep. . . Both parents are responsible. If it were the other way round and the man wasnt paying, he will be a very irresponsible man. In short, you both need to pay towards your kids upkeep regardless of where they are.

3. If its not as dire as you have said, and there is no need to hurridly remove your children as their lives are not at risk and its just a breakup becasue you two cant get on, You still have a right so see your children, regardless of if you pay support or not, so get a lawyer and get that sorted. Someone here has offered to help you so get in contact with her.

emeify:
No court involved yet. The cause of the separation is not important. We used to jointly pay their upkeep.

I am suggesting they stay with me certain times and the upkeep be taken care of jointly at that time as well

emeify:
Am in Lagos Nigeria.
Man was abusing me in addition to so many issues and threatening me to leave or else....

So I left. I had to stay with a cousin so could not take d kids. He has threatened over his dead body about d kids and well, they can stay with him as long as I can see them too.

pinkiberry:
am happy for u Gov . its not an easy thing to meet such a pretty woman a virgin. u r lucky. i pray i meet my husband a virgin.

mirexxx:
hian! so no grown up female can be a virgin anymore I hate the way some of you reason jare

dinachi:
As usual women are defending a deadbeat mom! I am not surprised. @Op go an check into a mental treatment facility. Gosh, you don't even sound like a good mother at all.

Orikinla:
[size=18pt]She is not a virgin.
Alhaji wan marry beautiful virgin like Oshio Baba's wife.[/size]

wewe1:
I will invite two of them for dinner

Followed by questions and answers.

After which I will explain into details the meaning of being responsible.

Follow by another round of cross examination questions and answers

Lastly communicating our resolutions to the parent of the guy in bulleted points through conference call.

Blackbeauty:
Am a lawyer serving with the citizens rights dept. of the ministry of justice Ekiti state..I treat divorce and custody cases as a mediator.You can give me a call on 08164977854.Would be ready to give you free legal advice only because I can understand what you are passing through.