₦airaland Forum

chibic:
so this is why you talked about desperatetion?mtcheew!...you forgot that majority of these guys are already married to white ladies over there.they are only trying to marry a home-bred woman.some of them are scared of white women and had to come back to look for wife.the girls who marries them are the desperate ones because some of them will be left lonely in Nigeria while the hubby will be in yankee with his white woman.the women will be sex starved and eventually start sleeping with low lives like gate men and drivers.and when their bubble bursts,they'll be fired and ridiculed.

who cares about their cheating habit?...these days women cheats a lot in their marriage so don't make us believe that only girls who are married to older men cheats.cheating is already in women's DNA and they cheats on their young husbands everyday.btw,the old men are also catching their fun too.if you doubt me,take out time to visit one bar or club..you'll see 70yr old men with their younger mistress every where.infact,their young wives can not have fun more than their older hubbies.how will the girls enjoy their bfs when they are hiding it from everybody while the oldman will be flaunting his girlfriends every where he goes except that he wont bring them home.abegi!

Enegod:

Enegod:
I have no problem with it..
But if she uses one larger than my konda then there is gonna be a serious problem

eddyland:
Well, this question can go for both husband and wife but one thing I am not certain about is whether there are intimacy gadgets for men! Now comes the big question:

Will you allow your woman use intimacy gadgets like Love Machine and the rest to satisfy herself sexually when you are away from home for sometimes, maybe as your job demands or for certain assignment?

alberto2k:
A man that has faith will raise this plate up and pray and you know the rest

crackhaus:
Now that you bring social demographics into it, I quite understand where you're coming from.
And yes I personally know at least five dudes who have gone this route, and a lot more from stories.

But while you call these guys desperate, I prefer to term them auspicious.
It's not like they can't get women in their locality, they just prefer having traditionally home-bred women...at least that's what they think/expect of such women.
It's the women who marry them that are desperate to run away from poverty or a less-than-average quality of life.

crackhaus:
Good thing you're a female saying this - if I or any other man had said this, I'm sure you know how it would hurt the fragile feelings of some of you ladies.

That aside, I actually called you out on your opinion that a man at 40 is desperate to get married, this is not true especially when he has money.

crackhaus:
Lmao...are you sure you're still in tune with reality?

chibic:
are you insinuating that men are desperate for marriage more than women? Stop decieving yourself!! If any man sent you a pm or promises marriage,he's only trying to take advantage of the fact that women are easily decieved with marriage talks to get you laid.you think men are really that desperate about commitments? Pfft! What they want is your p.uss.sy and after that,you'll start opening threads to complain that you were used and dumped.

Even at 40 or 50,a man, whether a widow or divorcee can still marry a young and beautiful girl of his choice.so, that marriage thing no dey worry men.the only thing that worries men is how to make a good money.as for women,we can get them any time.but you cannot say the same for women,once you are above 30,problem don start and desperation will set in.she'll start making mistakes and falling for the wrong people.if she reach 40,smh case closed.just don't make mockery of men when it comes to marriage issue because we have it under control.we marries when we wishes but you cannot marry when you wish,except when a man proposes.

rationalmind:
I'm wondering what makes you feel I'm not yet married

CFCfan:
A Sprinter (train) stop at night

player007:
Thought you said need just the tooth? Abi na how many you say you need again?

spyder880:
I don't think that colour is bad, look at the last pictures. I think I will post more pictures of the outside later.

player007:
Chie..you want me to die early? Abi na how you want make I get all you have mentioned?
Am sure there is another way to go about this.

Amefrica:
You may wanna do some research tho.

Amefrica:
What are you on about?

Amefrica:
Nope. Scotland is the most beautiful country. Tho, New Zealand and Canada are both in the Top 5.

MrCork:
...which case u resting??...u never dated light skin female in yor life and then u come to Nairaland givin us advised on how to chase women?? You hoe base people meeennnnnn!!! (no oofeinse)

Amefrica:
Lol. New Zealand is undoubtedly one of the most beautiful countries in the world, but definitely not #1. I sure will like ti visit there someday tho.

simonsays:
@Moana, nop, the medical process is after the assessment of application. I was told they will notify me when to do the medical