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PoliticsRe: Recession Will Soon Be Over – Osinbajo Assures Nigerians by Moblord(m): 8:05pm On Feb 07, 2017
That's my president.. I believe you
PoliticsRe: 10 Insane, Fearful Things Happening In Nigeria Right Now. by Moblord(m): 1:59pm On Feb 06, 2017
gbam
Christianity EtcRe: Lady Mocks Women Who Think Attachment Is A Sin But Use Wool To Make Their Hair by Moblord(m): 11:40am On Feb 06, 2017
Even those criticizing male hairstyle like Mohawk. They can't tell you the sin in it. I'll address you soon
PoliticsRe: Worse Than MMM? The Most Dangerous Ponzi Scheme In The History Of Nigeria. by Moblord(m): 7:06am On Feb 02, 2017
so true
HealthRe: 24-Year-Old Kenyan Lady Living With HIV Narrates How She Found Out Her Status by Moblord(m): 11:23am On Jan 28, 2017
In my primary school one corper used to say HIV no dey show 4 face
PoliticsRe: Rumoured Death: NLC Denies Calling On Buhari To Address the Nation by Moblord(m): 11:22am On Jan 28, 2017
Is it not Nigeria? I'm not surprised, If they can be deceived by salt and Water bath scam This is nothing.
FamilyRe: My Ex Or My New Man? by Moblord(m): 7:24am On Jan 27, 2017
prestigiouslady:
Good afternoon Familanders.

I'm in dire need of advice hence my write up.
I'm a single mum of one, I got separated from my ex two years ago...though we are not officially divorced yet. After things got pretty nasty and he had to chase me back home (prior to this, my folks had wanted me to come back home due to his constant abuse)... I thought we could resolve issues, we both tried to but he's just like a smoke, he can't hide his character for too long..he's hot tempered, egoistic, and he can so mouth trash me(emotional abuse).he grew up in a home where his mum was the C in C, so he hates women trying to have a say.I must always do whatever he says not minding if I'm comfortable or not. I have my own share of the blame cos sometimes, he pushes me and I react back, so I'm not saying I'm a saint either. But my friends and family knows I'm not a trouble maker.

So I've been alone for two years, no date, no relationship cos I'm still officially married to him.. I went to see some of his friends and they told me to move on without him, its sad but they couldn't hide it anymore, he has moved on even so show casing a lady around as his new found love..but when things go down the drain between him and his gf, he comes back to me trying to see if we can make things work.

Now I have two problems here,
1. I don't want to be the one to sue for a divorce cos he will blackmail me emotionally (he tells everyone who cares to listen that he didn't chase me out of the house but I left cos I couldn't endure which is a lie from the deepest part of hell)... he doesn't want to sue for a divorce too.

2. I'm becoming too lonely, most night I cry myself to bed.. the last time we spoke, he told me "you're a very good lady, I love you but I really don't know why things arent working between us".. I know he loves me but I'm becoming too lonely and I don't want to cheat on him.

3. Around July 2016,a friend of mine (family friend) has been on my neck for a relationship, I've known him for a while, he was there for me all through when things was bad, he is a good man and he knows I'm separated (he's officially divorced to a white woman)...he's like everything I want in a man.

I really don't know what to do...do I sue for a divorce? or go into a relationship with my new guy for the main time..please help me.


Thank you

cc
Watch "Diary of a mad black woman" you'll find answers
InvestmentRe: MMM: 7 Reasons Why Real Entrepreneurs Are Not Interested by Moblord(m): 6:30pm On Jan 26, 2017
Even mavrodi don't give a Bleep about there interest
Christianity EtcRe: Those Attacking Me Now Kept Quiet When El-rufai Tweeted Hate Speech - Suleiman by Moblord(m): 5:41pm On Jan 26, 2017
You're right.. The government is biased; They are attacking shiites that are not destroying lives and properties but fail to see the crimes these Fulani herdsmen are committing. They're even defending them, justice should be done.
EducationRe: Abubakar Tafawa Balewa University Student Dies Few Hours To His Last Exam (Pic) by Moblord(m): 7:23am On Jan 26, 2017
after all the hardships in that school especially CE.. May his soul rest in peace
InvestmentRe: Can We Now Accept That MMM Has Crashed? by Moblord(m): 3:46pm On Jan 25, 2017
Can we now. accept that Buhari is gone?
FamilyRe: It's Stupidity To Divorce Your Wife Because She Cheats On You - Nigerian Lady by Moblord(m): 3:41pm On Jan 25, 2017
I think psychopaths shouldn't be allowed to use the internet.. sha I don't blame her but the rebroadcasters
PoliticsRe: See what Buhari satire account tweeted about death rumours by Moblord(m): 11:58am On Jan 22, 2017
why won't he come out publicly and disregard the rumors.. I smell something fishy
RomanceRe: (18+) Photo Of A Unclad Bride On Her Wedding Day by Moblord(m): 7:51am On Jan 22, 2017
OP go get a name for your blog
PoliticsRe: Thugs Attack & Brutalise Government Officials In Biu,Borno State(pics) by Moblord(m): 7:02am On Jan 21, 2017
Those people don't take shit from nobody. from beating PHCN officials to Chasing Sheriff, to attacking deputy governor now govt officials
InvestmentRe: Finally, MMM Nigeria Begins Payment - The Cable News by Moblord(m): 1:09am On Jan 21, 2017
Here's my own testimony. MMM pays

EducationRe: List Of Apps Every Student Must Have On Their Smartphones by Moblord(m): 3:55pm On Jan 20, 2017
1. Kingsoft Office 2. Quickteller 3. Opera mini 4. Firefox/Chrome 5. Adobe Sign 6. Cam scanner 7.HiperCalc 8.Shareit/Xender
RomanceRe: Should I Breakup With Her? by Moblord(m): 3:48pm On Jan 20, 2017
rawpadgin:
hi romancelander

am in a state of dilemma right now, been dating my girl for almost 18 months now & all has been rosy till few months ago


she started restricting me from touching her fone(same fone i bought 4 her)

she said we should stop making love(we made love for life 5 months now)

few days ago i was in Benin, she called me that she will be spending the night @ her friend's place that her friends baby is sick

I categorically told her not to only for me to return the next day to find out she actually slept there

what pissed me off the most was that i called her the same night she slept @ her friends place she refused to pick her calls

now she's about going back to school

don't know if i should break up with her right now or i should start backing out little by little

but one thing is certain, our breakup is imminent & inevitable

please ignore the blunders, i am so pissed right now
little by little Reduce Caring about her
Foreign AffairsRe: Jammeh Gives Conditions To Step Down by Moblord(m): 2:08pm On Jan 20, 2017
seriously
RomanceRe: You Are A Bad Boy/girl If You Did Any Of These Back Then In Secondary School by Moblord(m): 6:46pm On Jan 19, 2017
I'm shy i can't tell you
PoliticsRe: Revealed: The Real Reason Why Buhari Is Desperate To See Yahya Jammeh Out. by Moblord(m): 6:44pm On Jan 19, 2017
Oh no.. Another stupid post
PoliticsRe: President Muhammadu Buhari Departed Abuja For London (Photos) by Moblord(m): 6:33pm On Jan 19, 2017
Shame on you man.. You can't go to your home town for vacation. You can't stay in your country, there are many places to rest In Nigeria Or visit some orphanages. you are going to other people's country you can't lead by example.
PoliticsRe: There Was Nothing Accidental About Borno IDP Settlement Bombing – Survivor by Moblord(m): 6:28pm On Jan 19, 2017
more revelations coming
InvestmentRe: Most LOGICAL Proof That Mmm Is Gone, My Opinion by Moblord(m): 10:18pm On Jan 18, 2017
Thought is a reasonable proof
InvestmentRe: MMM Force Member To Provide Help(ph) Before they Can Get Help(gh) by Moblord(m): 11:09am On Jan 18, 2017
Look that picture is due to the upgrade going on.. That message used to display when you joined mmm and tried to GH when u don't have mavro or you haven't provided help yet. Thesame thing display even when ur mavro is not upto 2weeks
RomanceRe: This Goat Is Always Clean. My Boyfriend Keeps Goat As A Pet by Moblord(m): 11:23pm On Jan 17, 2017
Kai akwai wani baba behind it.. Are you dure he's not seeing any baba?
PoliticsRe: Nigerian Jet Drops Bomb On IDP Camp Mistakenly, Many Feared Dead by Moblord(m): 5:26pm On Jan 17, 2017
Mistake? WTF
EducationRe: Top 5 Implications Of University’s Non-teaching Staff Warning Strike by Moblord(m): 10:15pm On Jan 15, 2017
SWEP
RomanceRe: How To Get Your Friend To Have Sex With You by Moblord(m): 4:10pm On Jan 15, 2017
will it work on u?
EducationRe: Stop Using The Abreviation Lol by Moblord(m): 3:57pm On Jan 15, 2017
It depends on what's in your heart. Just like Matt. 7:21
RomanceRe: 11 Girls Who Look Totally Out Of This World by Moblord(m): 3:28pm On Jan 14, 2017
Thought Mo'chedda will make the list
RomanceRe: If Your Wife/girlfriend Is Not From Imo State, Forget It! (photo) by Moblord(m): 4:47pm On Jan 13, 2017
dyesebel

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