Logobenzz:
Only a poor man will cook for the wife.simple!
I want see I go visiting and see one of my brothers in the kitchen.
God knows I will be pissed.
How I go buy house with my money,run the house and take care of all real bills then come back home to cook?
E no go funny for the woman weh go tell me that BS o!

Why not try carrying pregnancy to term too, staying awake all night cos a sick child, doing school runs all day and catering to oga all night...


Marriage is a partnership.. But ultimately, the choice is yours and your wife's.

A lot of selfish views here...

I went to spend the weekend at his place, saw movie tickets. I asked "brother" who he went to the movies with, he said his friend dropped it at his place. Baba slept and I checked his WhatsApp chat with his best friend. Turned out his sick "school daughter" came to spend the weekend, the same weekend he didn't let me come cos he supposedly went to visit his friend in another town. Guy even called me that his car broke down on his way to meet that his friend.

I was o damn hurt that I just left the room and was just going and going with no idea where I was going to... Chai!! Babe don suffer!
Laslas, he said his gal came true true but then he didn't have sex with her even though they slept on same bed for two nights.

He apologised. I "agreed" and broke up when I got back home... 2 years later, he's still asking for a chance to make amend... A Chance in Hell Nife!!

Since then, you ask me out, I ask after your school daughter. If You've got one, it's over before it started...Ain't doing that shii a second time!!

chloride6:
Nigerians no be life be this ooh.

Choi, Xtaah.

Nawa ooh. Just small lowdown you deactivate account.

Anyway, congratulations.

Why you set go call him name naa...this is a no-face zone. You shouldn't have. That maybe why he ran!.

I see you sis.
my man has been trying to fix a date with me too. All I give are excuses.
Do you think getting married will fix this fear?

Windflower:
You are not alone o,I get goose bumps mere thinking of it including pregnancy and childbirth. Sometimes,I wonder if am up for it. When my ex mentioned that we should be planning for introduction soon and I wasn't giving a favourable reply,he felt I wasn't serious. I just ran and started crying and that day marked the beginning of issues. Its scares the shit out of me

Thanks for this. I understand my issue better. Mine might be rooted in the fact that I've seen too many marriages go wrong.
Thanks again.

SUPERPACK:
Marriage is a scared bond that binds two individuals together. While many people wait their whole life to be together forever with the person they love, the story may be different for some others. For some people however, the foundations of marriage are scary as hell. Any such irrational fear of getting married or committed is known as gamophobia.
Ithas been derived from Greek word “gamos” meaning marriage. Gamophobia is signified by intense, irrelevant and constant fear of marriage and commitment. The person is specifically scared to get into a marriage which implies spending the whole life with a single person. A gamophobic person’s fear of marriage is similar to the fear of dying. A gramophone person may be in relationship with someone, but drift away and get nervous if the topic of marriage comes up.
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CAUSES OF GAMOPHOBIA.
1. Related Distressful Incident.
Gamophobia can also be associated with any unwanted and distressful event that implanted a negative image of marriage in a person's mind. These incidents can be divorce of parents during childhood, abuse from parents, seeing one’s parents or other married couples fight and quarrel, a previous marriage failure, betrayal from partner or hearing about unsuccessful marriages extensively. Any such related distress can be responsible for gamophobia in people.
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SYMPTOMS OF GAMOPHOBIA
Major symptoms that can occur with someone having gamophobia (both in men and women) are: Irrational and extreme fear of marriage and commitment ( Even a thought of marriage or seeing someone else marry can trigger the fear) Complete avoidance of marriage or related events and discussions Aggression, panic attacks upon the thought or discussion of one's marriage Realization that the fear is irrational but unable to control Lost self esteem Panicking follows physical signs such as trembling, crying, racing heartbeat,trouble in breathing, nausea or vomiting, dizziness or fainting, sweating and abdominal discomfort
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How is Gamophobia Treated?
Gamophobia can be treated using different psychotherapies and medications. The effective psychotherapies for successful elimination of the fear.

I'm so confused right now.
For a long time, I've noticed that the mention of marriage sends me running. I'm a lady for crying out loud. Why do I have this issue?
I've a job...and my man has a good job too. I love him a lot and He wants to marry me soon but each time he starts talking about it, My heart starts racing...and I feel like I want out.
Tonight was the height. I almost closed my ears when he started.

Is it just me? What could be wrong? What do I do?
P.S-no insults please.

I have the same challenge o. Got an offer on Lagos Island and I need a place to stay. Please dm me if you need a room mate....Yaba, surulere, ebute meta and places close to Lagos Island.
Please...it's urgent
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I'm seriously in need of accommodation. Anyone needing a roommate anywhere close to Obalende or CMS( Yaba, surulere, ebute meta, etc), please lets talk.
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