₦airaland Forum

mimimile93:
This ur response shows the kind of a woman u are. I pity that innocent man.

Sooooo you curse her, she curses you in return(in many folds lol) and that has made her a bad woman

My father, My father... may I never encounter boys like this in my life.

Amen!

worworbabe:
Mumu People full this thread especially page 0.

Your relatives can't have their own homes abi. They must come and live with your wife and impose stupidd expectations on her.

You forget that the family you create with her will bear forth Children, your own Children.This is how some of you die young, creating unnecessary problems for your families in the guise of being 'men'.

No one is saying that you should stop relating with your parents and siblings. After all your wife has them too but there must be boundaries.

Your Mother as well as all of your siblings have their marriages to face and see as priority. You have to prioritise your own marriage and family otherwise you would be making grave mistakes.

If you say your siblings suffered with you, didn't her own siblings suffer too. This is the lamest line of reasoning I ever heard. Was she eating sand before you met her?

Many of you are better unmarried and I pity the unfortunate women that end up with you

God bless you!!

Laslas, we will all do exactly what we want. TBH, most of those claiming supermen here answer "Ma" thrice when their wives call them once looool

cybriz82:
Seriously u miss road abi u borrow person phone to comment here.what is wrong with all this oversabi children sef i was only praising d guy for helping iz couz.so why are u here spittin on my comment

Osheeeeeeeey... praise and worship leader

More grace!

engrelvis:
u dnt update ur diary again

Iz laziness o loool.

I'll get to it this weekend at most sha.

Thanks boss!

cybriz82:
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Nice one bro thank God u didnt listen to any of those bad belle people.ur couz got a heart of gold.n sometimes we shudnt help people cuz we want them to help us back.just do it for d love of God.

What the f is wrong with Nigerians?? Is it a crime to say NO??

You can go about helping the whole world but don't condemn someone who isn't. You're not in their shoes. Laslas, na their money...they earned it and can choose to spend on whatever. If you wan open charity home sef, go right ahead. Stop condemning others on how they spend THEIR own money. Haba!

P.S: The man even promised to give his brother cash after his wedding. Did you guys read that part at all?

gabazin080:
I have a big shop in front of my house and I will like to know if if 150k is enough to start a gas refill business. I will also like to know the requirements and how to go about it plus how profitable the business is.

also thinking of selling gas cylinder and burners. help a bro please

Are you aware the government intends to close unapproved gas stations? Please, research before you go on o.

Fumiex:
had this roommate. the boyfriend comes as early as 6am in the morning and leaves 9pm in the night because we usually lock our lodge gate by 9pm. the 8 months I stayed with her was like a torment. no privacy. I had no option than to dress inside the room coz her boyfriend was always around, still they couldn't get the signal. if u know u want to live long, don't ever get a rommie.

Looooool. Ikr. I have learnt too o

merahki:
I don’t think I would like your kind of person
You were unkind and seem to not have empathy

He just got married naaa. Guy has obviously spent plenty money. Plus, it's insensitivity to bring your entire family to a newly wedded man's house.

What if he wasn't in Nigeria? Would his brother not have found a way?

ViykeNairaland:
...for your mind now you be better brother....you never marry dey live for duplex for Abuja....I'm sure that your wedding na make all man see sey you don arrive....your elder brother with him wife and children dey for your one room wey I can bet your gate man only dey occupy...the pant na just excuse to pursue am. No dey call the man your BROTHER....you no know wetin e mean! Imagine this nonsense....Your brother disparing situation na him you come dey showcase for social media! Devil purnish you dia! Na your type wife go turn to vegitable no body go come help! Monkey man. Your time dey come!

What are you saying Oga? It's obvious you're a person that would rather dump his problems on another instead of sorting it out. The guy in question just married! The insensitive brother should be a man and hustle for his family. No one has it easy.

Nigerians and their entitlement mentality sef .

Gaggi:
I'm not judging or anything. I'm just saying some memories do stick. Most men will feel more at ease knowing a lady is in her fathers house at 12am rather than being in a man's house or in a club. Personally, I hardly let such things bother me. People will always find a way to misbehave if they want to.

Now that is the point!

Interesting stories

philsbaba:
is this a true life story??

Do you even need to ask?

It's a fantasy naaaaa. Isn't that obvious ni?

Heheheheee

Kekereekun123:
we can always get a maid. I married a wife not domestic staff

Good then.. I rest my case.

Danzysb:
Women should atleast help in something......

Of course... childbearing, home keeping, laundry services and catering are nothing right?

Bozzyironlady:
Its starts with please help! Soon you'll turn it to her duty.

Married women if your husband asks for your help in paying for anything that's clearly his responsibility, assist with 20 to 30% and tell him with a sweet and a very calm voice that's all you have, don't go beyond this or I promise you you'll regret it.

That's how a woman called in on a radio show to explain how she was being drained.

She and her hubby got a mortgage. Plan was that, she will pay 50k monthly, hubs will pay 100k. Oga ran into an ish at work one month and madam had to pay the 150k. A whole year later, she was still paying it o. Oga refused to pay and madam didn't want disgrace. The woman was very bitter.

Laslas, wisdom is profitable to direct.

Kekereekun123:
This is why i can never marry a woman who doesn't spend or have her own money. Many guys are being scammed . When my father was very broke we had to beg our mum abroad for more than a month before she paid part of our fees. She was building her second house then. I am still pained today. Any women dat doesn't believe in sharing bill should go to hell

And any man that doesn't believe in sharing chores should f off

Gaggi:
Most men are insecure and it doesn't help that most girls ain't faithful either. In the university, we knew how easy it was to lay our female neighbours who lived alone. Let me borrow sugar or let's watch a movie and one thing leads to another even when she has a boyfriend.

Even though I consider myself liberal and didn't bother myself much about what a girlfriend might be up to, sometimes thoughts always crop up about what she's actually doing. It's easier for a girl leaving alone to 'escort' a friend to a club or to go see a movie etc.

I will advice you to be a bit patient. Most men will always have their doubts. If it becomes such an issue, find another man.

I get your point... but then, it's not fair to judge working women who live alone by what bored students do in school.
Plus, where the time dey? Sha iz when somebody has been in traffic from 6pm till 10pm that she'll have the energy ni loooool

Cut working women some slack abeg. It's not easy

JasonScoolari:
My ex has done worse..... Or should I say I was "slut shamed" by my ex when things where not going smoothly.... Don't bring gender into this.


The truth is, we have no business with you transferring money to his account. He has trust issues, that's the bone of contention here not transferring of funds.

Hmmmmm... I hope you'll take the same stand when some boys come here to say they paid their babe's school fees and her rent blah blah blahhhh

Besides, she is free to say what she wants, it's her story you know. You pick your facts, advise her and move on.

Phonescreens:
So I should go to prostitudes ? Is that what you are advising me?

So if I were your son you tell me to go to the a harlot house and ease my urge?

Pele oo, commando.

That HIV you're looking for, you wee get it by the dozen.

Shabi iz only you that has urge...Waa wa okay.

Opeyemiebun:
Thanks alot, I believe you know how these extended families behave ..
I will let her have hers but I also desperately need one.
There is this feelings that come with my job when a client sees you dropping from a bike or Uber. A job they should offer you for 1m,they will look down on you and negotiate you for 400k.
Aside the economy side of it, Families will believe we are so much in money and the responsibilities will increase

Take Uber naa..and share the car.

Biko why are you still there??

Loooooooooool

Actually, men approach women with cars..men with bigger cars lol

Heheheheheheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Na wa oooo. So mycotem fit cause this kind wahala?? Issokaay!

@OP, No make mycotem send you go prison, or worse, grave.. I don talk my own o.

Let he who is without a sin...

marttol:
nothing...gonna free her

Please do. Thank you!

marttol:
I don check am already...


But the girl go suffer for my hand o

Really? And what has she done wrong?
SMH..

Na wa ooo...

Hamachi:
Dear Ladies/Gents

If your standard is 'no sex till marriage' then keep to it, any person that can't respect your decision is not the right person for you, any friend that can't respect your decision, certainly can't make you happy.

Don't be deceived by thinking that breaking your rules to please a man/lady is love. Love is obedience to do the right thing. If he/she can't obey your rules then he/she doesn't worth you.

Don't be afraid of losing anybody because you're keeping it real with yourself, the right person will stay when you do the right thing.

Don't apologize for taking the right step and don't adjust your values to a lower end because you're desperate for love.

True love starts when you obey your rules!

If you can't love yourself enough to keep to your values of 'no sex' then a man/woman deserves to receive sex from you.

Mind you, the right man/lady is not necessarily the person you love, but the one who respects the values and decisions in your life.

But if after all you've said "no sex till marriage" but yet you get it outside to quench urge, just know you've failed.

..and always remember that, breakup becomes very easy after sex!!!

Hope the Volume is OK.

As much as I agree with the whole write-up, the whole idea is overrated.

Someone told me last night that "A man always knows what he wants". If you like, be a virgin that has never seen a man in her life, if you do not have what he wants, ya still going to be dumped.

I think it's time we take our eyes off this sex thing and focus on what truly matters.

Like I earlier said, I agree with the post. However, there's more...way more to relationships than sex.

I rise...Coooooooooooooooooooourt!!!!!

Well, I asked for a pencil. I had walked all the way from my hostel to school to study and realized I left my pencil at home. I cannot study without one.

I asked. I got it.

24kmagic:
I can't believe I'm saying this but I will do worse than this to any girl that decides to keep a pregnancy I didn't approve of.

The only thing is I will love the child. But the mother? No chance! I will frustrate her life I swear.

Shebi you want trap am? E don shock you.
22 and 24 years? Kids everywhere!

To the 24years old Kid....

Love your child. She's innocent of this mess her mother has put you. Always try to check up on her. Once she's of age, collect her and boot her mother out of your life so that you can refocus.

God punish any girl that wants to slow down my life with pregnancy.

Rubbish!

What does this even mean? "Trap him"? Both were parties to it. There's no trapping anywhere. Or why did he not buy condoms? Why did he not ensure she took morning after pills? Why was he that irresponsible?

Oga, make you sef use wisdom... If you don't have sex, no lady will get pregnant by you.. So don't blame any woman for getting pregnant. Heaven and earth know that when sex happens, there's a chance for pregnancy, no matter how slim it is. If you don't want it, then don't do it. Chikena!

I'm sure OP was expecting a different reaction to his post

Nairalanders shocked him.

Pele