₦airaland Forum

lomprico:
dem never kidnap your pikin b4 ba?

That happens only if you choose to get domestic help without due process. A lot of families use domestic help naa

24kmagic:
Teaching job is the best for a wife.
She leaves 7am and comes back by 2:30pm

She can use 1hr to rest or sleep, after which she enters the kitchen and prepare something for the family.

During holidays, she will be at home all through.
Wives/mothers should be home anything 4PM, not all these nonsense Carrer ladies that will be having board meetings even as late as 6PM.
Having a teacher as a wife and mother is bae.
All ye NCE and B.Edu girls, I'm coming for you..


NB: Im talking about reputable or public schools, not all these 15k private school ooo.

It's CAREER bro. If you want to insult us, at least do it properly

And just so you'll know, the men who have us appreciate us so damn well and thus, we need no validation from you sir.

Finally, a man experiences what a lot of women have experienced...

What does "reacted as a man" mean o? Biko give us the full story...

@OP, why are you guys using your wife's relative as a househelp sef? Not good o.

TBH, if you would get a domestic help, it is much better to get an "outsider" so you are under no other obligations asides what's on the contract and no sentiments will show up in your dealings with her.

About the issue, you should probably ask your wife what exactly is the issue cos it doesn't look like this has been a regular occurrence. I'm not in support of her attitude also but the, there might be more than you are seeing...especially since she's her relative.

Soooooooooo since 5.30am wey accident happen, na 9am fire-fighters come? And they say Nigeria is the worst?

RIP to them..no one deserves such painful death.

And once again, almost everyone think the woman should grovel...smh

One thing I know for sure is that, when my brother eventually marries, I'll be too busy to spend more than 4 hours with him and his family. I'm quite positive also that I would NEVER be the one who will call my brother to report his wife to him...shay its when I'm waking up at 5am and getting home at 7pm that I'll have time to put people's matter on my head?

Like someone told me yesterday, we Nigerians have too much time on our hands...

@OP, laslas, it's your home. Try not to take offense at what they do anymore, instead, focus more on yourself and family. If indeed they are bad, they'll leave you when they see you're no longer minding them. If not, you'll give them more peace and complain less.

Kaymaxine:
That's statement is so annoying.
You want him to expose his wife to his family
My wife doesn't go to my family if am not there!!!
Please, respect your partner,don't treat her like a slave or maid.
Please,don't mind this guy o.if you can afford it,take a mini flat,at least you can still manage it with 2kids...till you can afford bigger.
BTW,be planning towards having your own house,no matter how small!!!
Your marriage will be a fruitful one.
Am dead sure the guy that made the comment am talking on is not married!!!
"Move her to stay with your family"...like she's a piece of furniture!!!
Which planet were you born abeg

Looooool... The guy just wants attention. We all know him on NL

Okaaaay... We've seen you . Next!!

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Babaken:
Is He the one that send her to school.

Well, no. But he will be expected to pay anyway lol

They don't want to pay school fees

scovic33:
Mine didn't say a word, just a guy picture via whatsapp status accompany with cute love messages...I asked her "who's this?, "my friend" she answered, I replied with "can I meet your new friend?..read and blocked..it's been 5months now✌

Wooooooooooow! Epic! Sorry bro

Guy came to my hostel(2016) the day before he was to go for NYSC. He solemnly told me that his family, who I hadn't met then, didn't like me. You know that hurt that defies tears? The one that just cripples you from the inside... That is what I felt.

Toor, me I said "Okay", saw him off and proceeded to my room to watch movies all night. It was few weeks to my final exams and project defense. I aced both tho cos I had learnt early enough never to mix "Boy" with "Book".

He had his introduction recently. I wish him a good life loool. .

The end!

DonroxyII:
If I sensed a girl is gonna break up with me , I just withdraw all my attention and care .... This usually drag the about to end relationship more and if she keeps complaining , I will just say "I'm sorry , I'm pretty busy ... I will get back to u" .... I will never get back .... at this point, if there is another guy, That one will be playing his A game while me will be playing my Z game .... She will definitely leave for A ... I will move on with my life without hurting anybody!!

Looool

What if it was her period causing her mood to swing when you thought she didn't want you anymore? What if she had issues or whatever? What if she was a sincere girl going through some bad times? You just assume and let go abi? Koda ooooo

ArticleBeast:
No babe has broken up with me yet. I remember breaking up with one babe on valentines day. We exchanged valentines gift then I broke up with her on the spot. That was the first day I saw a girl kneel on the road with tears in her eyes. In fact she begged me to cheat on her but not leave her. Damn! I have never felt helpless but I just couldn't help myself but go through with the breakup. Anyway, she is now with the daughters of Jezebel (runs girls).

Hmmmmm... You know, I personally think people are a product of their experiences. Who knows if the break up drove her to becoming a "runs girl"

And if all men take the "red pill" and all women become "feminists", what would Love look like? What would marriages be like?

Going through this thread made me sad. Looks like there's no longer "Selfless" in Love. Everyone is calculative, trying to know and counter his/her partner's next move. To those who do it, is there peace in it for you? I'm just wondering sha o. Looks like we all are always on our toes with this love thing. I'm not sure that's what it was meant to be like.

Anyway, OP, like I do say, Ticket wey go cut go cut...E no geh watin you wan do. I wish you all the best!


P.S: I'm a lady...Sue me!