But the circular isn't on the CBN website...

Abeg...Which Nigeria!?

IME1:


Didn't you see baby papa there
What's the matter with you

Goodmorning

The photo is what I'm objecting to oga...
And, since you asked, I'm fine. Thank you

mrpaedo:

There are many things people don't tell men in our Nigerian society. If men knew these things, they would NEVER marry the way they currently do.

They don't want men to know that men have all the bargaining chips in the marriage deal. Yes, marriage is a deal and not a love thing.
Men increase in value (in the eyes of women) over time while women decrease in value (in the eyes of men) over time. Women know this and don't want u to be aware of it. If you become self aware, you will avoid women until you realize your value. Note that it takes time and investment to be valuable. Women want marriage with a valuable man but they don't care that marriage to a man who isn't realized yet, makes the realization for him HARDER. This is what happens generally and there are exceptions.
Men don't age as badly as women. We actually become more good looking as we mature. We will attract younger and hotter women at out prime. Which married woman wants this?? None. They don't want you to know earlier in life that if u take ur time and build yourself, you can have your pick of ladies

Of course... The women carry the pregnancies, have the birth (VD or CS), breastfeed for years and still manage to work through it all. But trust me, if both genders are on same pedestal, everyone would age equally.
Plus, it's not just men doing all the self-realizations these days. Both genders are....and it's good for us all. These days, women themselves are valuable and men now have the option to either pick an economically valuable woman, or a woman valuable in the homefront.

IME1:
How can ones aspirations be to be a baby mama, baby papa and irresponsible partner

And what about the man!

That's how you people blame only women for the promiscuity of both genders.

Acidosis:

For a girl that sees nothing wrong with sleeping with a total stranger because she's hot? Well, I won't encourage you to stay alone.

Mheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeed ohhhhhhhh!!!!

LedRock:
Really? Dem dey hide inside cave?

Hiannn...cave fah!?

LedRock:
I read your post on that thread about poor girls not being appreciative, I was angry with you because you left something special.

For your question the answer is No. To meet sensible and goal oriented ladies is really hard, like 1 in 500 girls.

I don't think they're that scarce. I believe it's a function of environment. Them dey where them dey jaree

spyglaxx:


I will encourage you to seek God the more. The Holy spirit has been given to us to act as our informer and a stand-by,without which we are like a speed boat without control.

The human mind has been so messed up with the corrupt contents springing up everyday. Its the Holy spirit that can help you find the find right now , because those guys out there are more satanic than satan.

I read your diary B-E.

Ohhh..that's good to know..

And thank you for your advice. I agree minds are really messed up. God help us.

Thanks again!

DanTunde:
So my fiancee told her elder brother about our discussion, he invited me and was threatening me that he won't let me marry his sister unless I sign an undertaking before our wedding can go on. I reminded him of his sister that said she would poison me, he shouted and told me I deserved it if his sister should poison me for beating her.
I told my fiancee that i am calling of the wedding, she hasn't even returned my call or said anything about it. It is like she moved on so quickly like I meant nothing to her even though we have been dating since 2 yrs.

And why didn't you sign the undertaking?? Could it be because you have plans of panel-beating someone's daughter?

Oga, abeg waka. The babe has seen what's behind the mask and I congratulate her heartily