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3 years of that girl in Unilag will most likely guarantee you’ll never have the second. The probability of that happening is way too massive for your to wait out to see the result.

If she is indeed poor the school will teach her hustling skills n from their long throat. Give her a year more to see the signs. If Na Yabatech now you get hope but lag so long the girl fine small.

CsRockefeller:
Let me be very honest with you and everyone here.

I don't give a hoot, whether she is a virgin or not as long as its in her past. She is a very nice girl one who can be trusted.

However, my concern is with her Life goals, she is about 23, a hair dresser, her mum is late, her Dad is somewhere in Cotonou, her brothers are in Abeokuta, only her stays at Ota.

Right now, there is no plan for her to go to school, not even NCE or OND, she is fending for herself, which is very noble, but, I don't want to shoulder any heavy responsibility right now, If in d next 3 years, I want to settle down, where would she be career wise?

I don't want to use that as an excuse, so that she doesn't feel bad. So this sex thing can be my escape route. Tell her I can't be in a relationship without sex since she wants to abstain, then we all go our separate ways.

At least d Unilag girl has something going on for her. In 3 years time, she will be a graduate of Bio-Genetics, shes younger and smarter.

Even if we don't get to date, at least any investment on her (which wouldn't be high) would be worth it, to herself, her family and the society at large.

What a foolish narration of what happened ? I swear to many fools now abound of NL opening senseless thread.

What a foolish comment. Na so e easy to give head for your village ?!

rOsy247:
So what do you want people to tell you? A confirmation that your wife is cheating? No one here knows her but you do. So u should know better. Stop looking for external confirmation. Go to her and discuss with her like husband and wife should do.

If its head she wants go down there and make her feel like a woman, then the rest is history.

Stop looking for trouble where there's none. Other marriages are facing worse things than this yet still trying hard to make it work. Ur own is giving head and u there complaining. What many men enjoy.

You are more foolish in the head if you can not understand Buhari should fight one half of the corruption battle when PDP take over the federal government the can then finish the remaining half off.

Wiseandtrue:
No suspense here!!!

You can't arraign Saraki then people like Tinubu, Ganduje, Babachir Lawal, Baru are walking free!!!

Whatever happened to Orji Uzor Kalu's case

You see, anyone that takes the fight against corruption in this Buhari's administration serious, must be sick in the head!

But you don’t want to know when

Patience
Ekeweremadu
Abinibio
Theodore Orji
Wike
Bart Nnaji

They will help to investigate the followings as well ?

SLAP44:
They're welcome

Still patiently waiting for the day they will arrive to help EFCC probe

Tinubu
Rotimi Amaechi
Akpabio
Rochas
Burantyre

Plus all the crooks hiding in apc

Why don’t I believe u ?

Patriotician:
Sometime ago, i created a trend about my girlfriend acting all strange and how i later discovered she was cheating on me and in love with another guy. She later made a fool of me.
https://www.nairaland.com/5238413/love-girl-she-doing-me

I also wrote about how she was a good luck charm to me. Yes, she has a wealth magnetic personality and i told her about it. When she left, she told me she would want to see how i will make money.

.......................

After months of frustration, i finally decided to work things out. Although she apologized, she is now dating me and the other dude. My friends were all advising me to play along in as much as things get better, so am on .

When we reconciled, i notice things started working out for me. She calls and acts to care about me, although she keeps contact with the other dude even when am around.

So, today we were together at her work place talking when she told me she would be coming over to my place that evening. In the past, that would have been a good news but currently, i don't want to share a bed with her ever again. Mere looking at her bleeds my heart as i pretend to be smiling to her. I tried telling her i had plans for the evening but she insisted and wanted to be malicious about it so i finally concurred.

The truth is that, i love that girl but i don't want to pretend. I want to be able to express myself and have my girl all by myself. She is my good charm if not, I would have looked somewhere else for true love. I already made up my mind that no matter how things get fabulous, i will never marry her, even if she repents. God forbid!

So, she is coming and i don't want to strafe her. I can't strafe a girl that is shameless to that extent as to be strafing someone else and expecting me to always strafe her without contraceptive. Several pastors already told me i should work things out that she is connected to my destiny and without her things would get stuffy for me.

Right now, am confused and angry. Have been so tired with life that i have decided to commit suicide on Sunday(mind made up) not because of her but because of what am experiencing in general. I can't even tell her about anything, so of what use is she to me ?

I want to make the best of my two days on earth. Please advise a confused brother

How come none of you ladies is addressing the STD issue ?

solasoulmusic:
Father Lord let my husband be open to us satisfying each other Amen

It is well find her love language try pre-intimacy not just straight to the do. I’m shy and I can’t beg someone for sex I can hint o but there’s always someone out there who can do us in the way we were made to be done o ...like the song by psquare

QueenSekxy:
Oh My!! She's obviously cheating with a woman that gives her the head she needs.
How does she know you weren't doing it well if she has not been receiving it from professionals.

And you said she gave you STD, did you bother asking her where she got that disease From? You need to stop overlooking some things before she gives you a deadly and incurable disease.

The bottom line is that she's a lesbian!!!

sweerychick:
I suspected as much! The main culprit is her friend she said that thought her how to do head

It is not possible, I expect the OP to be smarter judging from his write up but I guess he’s lillylivered about confronting the wife on her adulterous ways. One reason a lady married or not will get tired of a sexual partner is trying another partner not necessarily a better one but different.

I think the OP should look harder to see the signs of a cheat, people are smarter at hiding cheating trails than the other. Imagining thinking it’s only SM signs of cheating can be discovered ?! What if she cheats with her married boss n they both have profound understanding of restricting any communication outside the office to avoid slip ups ?!

osato45:
is it possible that two females grinding their pussy together during the act can transmitt std to the other lady?

Several years after surrendering the foolish tribe is still wailing for what it coward should have stood for n ensure it got. Eritrea Montenegro Kyrgyzstan etc are samples of countries less than 20 million in population that fought for their freedom unlike foolish Biafrans expecting Yorubas to wage war to free them.

QueenSekxy:
So, after fighting against Biafra and going through butt shootings where are they now? Are they not crying all over the social media?
The fulanis they helped to fight biafra are kidnapping and killing them?
Obasanjo has recently realised he is being fulanized and islamised.

I laugh, cos they are all drowning in shame. Like Ohamadike will always say, you can never defend or support fulanis without coming back in shame.

Biafrans are taking over education, entrepreneurs, entertainment, technologies and innovations, winning political positions in saner climes. While their people are lavishing in peanury/hunger, backwardness and ritualism, voting an incompetent buffoon to spite their neighbours but are all suffering for it.

No statistics surprise me from foolish Igbos anymore.

Johnnyessence:
you can breathe without calling ipob this ipob that. it shows vividly that ipob members are more successful than you. keep living in your ignorance.

Another foolish Ipob that believe he as a right to an opinion in a country he want freedom from.

Car scandal thief you do well.

See foolish PDP Igbo supporters praising the thief that refused to resign until Ebele constituted a committee that found out she over looted the ministry before she was disgraced n booted out of office.

Fun foolish set of people they’d rather insult Tinubu that EFCC prosecuted n found nothing unlawful to this rogue Ebele Jonathan who stealing is not corruption found guilty to ascertain the level of the fraud n foolishness this bastard orchestrated to perpetuate such inglorious act.

Ipobthat each n every of it member don rotten for mud after the albino fool eloped with their contributions ?!

Johnnyessence:
you can breathe without calling ipob this ipob that. it shows vividly that ipob members are more successful than you. keep living in your ignorance.

At least it is beta than the drunkard that won’t even show up for the meeting, then was when we were in a shithole for real.

Temptee101:
Just see the huge gap between these two

One looking so presidential, confident, bold, articulated, focused, fearless and ever ready while,

The other looks so dull, fearful, hungry, dejected, hopeless, lost, intimidated, abandoned, clueless and dead

...and we wonder why we are where we are. God have mercy

Says an Ipob without an iota of intelligence

Johnnyessence:
Ambode will always be remembered in Nigeria politics. kudos to him for the great he did in the last 4 years he spent in power.

What will be Atiku’s punishment for making a false calm should he be given right to the server only to discover there was no foul play or showing his ingenuity will wash away all the disparaging he is presently doing to the election which is many times beta than the election that brought in Obj first n second term n the one that brought in Yardua, remember Yardua declared he was ruling with a stolen mandate n never got punished for it.

tuniski:
Let INEC allow access to its server. It will only vindicate INEC and rubbish atiku's claim if, they truly dont have result banked there. On the other hand, it will show the ingenuity of #teamAtiku if it turns out to be there.


However,denying access to the server will impunge on the legitimacy of Buhari/apc govt.

That is not the case, your father is the only one I know. We both know he is one indeed.

Lovelive:
So you know yourself as a fool; that's good.

Fools are allowed to comment on NL so your senseless comment is not surprising.

legitnow:
BUHARI CANNOT POSSIBLY EXPECT TO RETAIN HIS INTEGRITY AFTER THIS, IN THE EYES OF THE WORLD.


CRYING CROCODILE TEARS ABOUT ABIOLA BUT REFUSE TO CONDEMN ABACHA, IN FACT, PRAISE ABACHA.


NOW REPEATING ANOTHER ABACHA RIGHT BEFORE ALL OUR EYES. U DID NOT WIN AND YET REFUSE TO STEP DOWN.


WAT IF GEJ HAVE DONE ALL THIS WOULD BUHARI HAVE BECOME PRESIDIOT HE IS TODAY?


INEC LIED TO THE WHOLE WORLD THAT THEY DON'T HAVE SERVER, WEN DEY DO.


NOW TRIBUNAL IS JOINING ISSUES TO COVER UP INEC LIES.


SEE HOW THE WORLD WILL EVER RESPECT THE BLACK MAN.


U CRY FOR JUSTICE IN USA BUT CANNOT UPHOLD JUSTICE OR VALUE IN AFRICA.


INJUSTICE IS YOUR SYSTEM, YET U EXPECT THE WHITE MAN TO GIVE U JUSTICE IN AMERICA.

Why don’t you let the mother come tell us her instead of disgracing your entire foolish tribe here again ?

Validcode:
So a hookup of less than 5years can produce a boy that old?
The woman used the children to punish the father and it got out of hand.
Nigerian women in America have a new game, marry a man and take all he has, dump him and move on to the next guy. In another year or so, she'll be with another man.

Biography of the Cambridge lunatic that was beaten blueblack by a goro chewing / kunu siping aboki only to elope to Ivory Coast in woman attire. The brave clown the Igbos call Yoruba coward over. Abeg I no fit laugh over the foolishness of this jesters this morning, I get work.

So the cursed Ikpeazu is not owing salary n pension ba ? E be like say Na daily you de take 3 bottle of foolishness just to stay mentally foolish on NL everyday.

olril17:
sharing kerosene is not worse than owing salaries and pensions...
is owing those not also a curse on we SW and will u not also reject that?
lol

You are being fooled, if anyone love or loved you genuinely he or she will never leave you to try another. Women de always gentle after them turn single mother I have tonnes of such as friend. They’d be more submissive than the average girl due to experience so you need decide what u want it is not necessarily bad thing but you are definitely not her most loved or most desired. That fact I can bet on.

hesilo:
You know this babe was the kinda girl everyman would want as theirs, i felt lucky back then school days cos she accepted me while the rush on her was way beyond her. I was like a king back then too cos every nigga den saw me like i was Leonardo Dicaprio with Kate Winslet. It brought me so much reps then. She loved too well then too. I got some genuine love for her. She was stubborn then sha, but her sturbborness wasn't when i was with her, she summits all to me. We had minor issues and the sturv we had got sour and she moved. Even after she left, i knew she wouldn't be an easy person to handle by anybody she ended up with cos i knw how i managed to control her(She needs High level of intelligence to control). When we "re-engaged", she actually told me, i have been the only person she loved genuinely all her life. I kinda loved her too cos she got all a woman should have(Brilliant, shapely, and smart). I would have loved to marry her, but the issue is just the Kids.

An opinion filled with nauseating bigotry hate and extreme foolishness just as expected of every foolish Igbo PDP supporters. Your lives have been completely ruined with nothing but irredeemable bigotry n hate, shame on your soul.

SarkinYarki:
Where did I hate on him ? I only brought my opinion to light . I have given up on all you because every member if APC is a born shameless criminal

Waiting for your to address the part where the foolish PDP lunatic was sharing kerosene to win re-election, is that the same curse you wish the Yorubas ?! It will not happen your people are the ones that must die from the plaque the PDP as imposed on you.

olril17:
hahaha...what a teacher u are dude..a teacher that schools his students by abuse and curse..
take a bow sir.
I understand your frustration.

The devilish party that ruined n milked Nigeria for 16 goods years with only extreme looting poverty Boko Haram kidnapping militancy to show. May it never be well with every member of that party.

Where is that fool sharing kerosene in Abia ?’

simonlee:
Where Ganduje my man?

I want to believe your father need that more than I do.

ZombiePUNISHER:
Go toilet

A fool can not be stopped from being foolish, you have chosen to walk the path of foolishness, the path of treacherous lies n deceit, the path of eternal damnation, a path of no glory. It is sad you shall never return from it as you sold your soul to walk such path. The only thing left for you henceforth is shame n disgrace till you quit NL like your shameless mates in likes of barcanista pachukwuddie77 n co. Your walk via the path doom, a path of no return starts now.

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