₦airaland Forum

will like to lay down some facts ,that some of you people may not know,even thought we were all virgins before/

1. Virgins are not clueless about sex, (we know about it ,probably even more than you).

2. Virginity doesn't mean your Holy.Some people just do not want to get laid .(yet they are capable of stealing,lying and doing every other sin in the bible.)

3.Virginity doesn't mean i will not like to show off my body.(Hey i like to dress sexy,with tight ,short clothes,but that does not mean i will open my legs for you.)

4.Virginity does not mean i am ugly,( i just don't feel like sleeping with you without a commitment).

5.virgins are strong ,( the will to say no to temptation is very hard)

6.virgins are proud.

7.virgins can laugh at and tell dirty jokes( i do that all the time)

8.Virgins do flirt,and play around.( doesn't mean i will open my legs for you, i just want to have a fun conversation).

9.most virgins do not have clean thoughts,(probably even worse then yours,because some of us wonder about sex all the time.)

10.Finally,virgins are awesome .




so if your planning to date one keep these things in mind,were not in the 18th century where virgins were covered and holy, were in the 21 century where people can be who they want to be.

armyofone:
dem say if you bend down dey look fowl yan.sh, another person dey bend dey look your own ya.nsh .
see the way Moremi was crushed . Moremi Ajasoro   or Moremi Ajasco

carry on
SemperFi
God bless our troops.

dasparrow:
Here is my 2 cents. The bible commands the man to love his wife like Christ loves the church. The problem with most Nigerian marraiges is that the man does not do that. After all, if he did, we won't keep hearing stories of domestic violence, high rates of infidelity or men leaving their wives because she has not given birth to a male child. People forget that a wife being submissive and her husband loving her like Christ loves His church go hand in hand. Unfortunately, male-dominated Nigerian society is quick to talk about the submissiveness aspect while almost entirely never mentioning the part where Christ commands the man to love his wife unconditionally. Couples should strive to make each other happy. A happy wife who is loved so much by her husband will not hesitate to do anything for him and will submit to him without being constantly reminded or told.

However, what I see in alot of Nigerian marraiges is pathetic. How can a woman submit to a serial cheat who puts her life and health at risk for HIV/AIDS and other STDS? How can a woman submit to an abuser who abuses her physically, emotionally, and verbally? How can a woman submit to a man who treats her worse than an animal? Is such a man following the stringent rule Christ gave commanding that he loves his wife like Christ loves the church? My point is, Nigerians can talk about submissiveness from today till tomorrow. If the average Nigerian male has not learnt to love his wife unconditionally like Christ loves the church, then total submissiveness on the part of the woman will forever remain an illusion and the divorce rate in Nigeria and amongst Nigerians along with domestic violence will continue to climb.

moHot:
@TOPIC
i hate maths because i hate uncle Vitalis that taught me maths and i hate him because he hated the fact that i look more beautiful than his daughter

i have not finished hating maths they now brought another one called FURTHER MATHS.they want me to die of hating??

M---Mental
A---Attack
T---To
H---Handsome (and Beautiful)
S---Students

Find X, find Y, simplify, almighty formular. Hw many engineers sef dey use all these things for there work, abi na doctor go dey find X on top patient abi na banker go dey simplify for bank, I beg math na waste of time jere.

jamace:
My believe is that Maths at primary and secondary school levels are applicable/usable in everyday lives, but advance maths like Topology, Abstract Algebra, ODE, Complex Analysis, Real Analysis etc, are jargons meant for academic entertainment.

ThiefOfHearts:
On NL that's not true. See how moremi is ignoring richy. You think if it were a female member he wouldnt have thrown insults upon insults? The way it works on NL is when the guys argue, they will at most say a few words then ignore one another, if say na them vs a woman, be prepared to see pages upon pages of misogynistic abuses coming from them. Cant fight against their own, why not take that frustration out on the "weaker sex"


That is the cliff notes of Nairaland in a nutshell.

In fact on the contrary, ladies from broken homes have a better tendency to make better wives especially in Nigeria. Just like children from poor homes have a better tendency to be good financial managers.

They have suffered the pains of not being with both their parents. They have seen their friends from stable homes. They lived their lives wishing to have stable homes. They learnt the hard way what stable homes can provide to the psyche of children. They swore that they would do everything possible not to repeat the mistakes of their parents.

Children from stable homes are more likely to take too many things for granted. They are more likely to grow up not understanding the amount of sacrifice needed to keep a home together. Most people commenting so far are only doing so because in Nigeria, we have been conditioned to believe in the superstitions of ancient times. In Europe, America and other developed countries where divorce is very common, ask this same question and you will see a different class of opinions from respondents.

At the end of the day, it boils down to the individual and not the background of the individual per se! Too many things will come to play.

Arsenal is better than Man U!

Does this argument hold any sense? Depending on what your bias is, you can always make a case either for or against the above statement.

Eba is sweeter than amala! Depending on what you prefer, you can argue for or against.

Children whose parents did not beat them can never make good fathers! What nonsense! My parents never, ever, beat me, I am 34 presently with 4 kids, and I can boast of being one of the best Nigerian dads ever to pass through this world.

Some of my uncles and aunts once told me that Edo girls are all LovePeddlers and never make good wives! I married from Edo state, and she is from a double broken home, she did not even know her father until she was 21 years old, yet she remains a blessing and an angel to me. I am from not from Edo state.

I read some posts above and people were saying, "the girl is likely to follow her mother's footsteps and break her own home". For your information, men cause 85% of broken homes, either directly or indirectly. The girl's mother might have been an angel which her father never appreciated due to, say, drunkenness, womanising, gambling and all what not. Does it mean that her mother, having divorced the father for such irresponsible behaviours after enduring it for many years, will not be able to bring her children up properly to be good, godly and fit for marriage? No!

Guys, read my earlier post on this issue, there are things you look out for in a lady you intend to marry, and her coming from a broken home or not is certainly not one of them.

Yoruba girls are dirty, so don't marry them.
Ibo girls will finish your money, so don't marry them.
Calabar and Edo girls are promiscous, so don't marry them.
Ebira and igala girls will use juju on you so don't marry them.
Hausa girls will train their children to be bokoharamists so don't marry them.
Port harcourt girls will kill you to inherit your property, so don't marry them.
etc etc etc!!

Absolute nonsense, all these statements. Whatever characteristics you see in any lady from one tribe, you will get thousands from another tribe with such habits as well.

For as many girls who come from broken homes that make bad wives, you will see just as many from stable homes who are bad too!

End of discussion!

debrief08:
I bow for some of the shallow responses here. I come from a solid family parents married for 40yrs, my ex husband comes from a similar family. Even though his parents are together when we were growing up he used to tell me he wished they were apart. As for the response from someone who said parents who are together will not welcome back a daughter who is divorced, my parents were only too happy to have me back alive and divorced dan married and dead. When I think about the hell I went tru and and I hear from ma exes mum and d hell she went tru and is still going tru I am glad I worked away. That someones parents are together is not a guaranty of happiness, dat a couple stays together doesn't mean they will raise a great husband or wife, if I had kids with my ex, will I want to stay and watch them nurse me from constant beatings? Will I want ma boys to turn out wife beaters like their dad? No. My ex didn't understand why I left afterall his mom stayed and bared it all, so to him it was normal to cheat, beat and publicly insult your wife and expect her to stay and bare it. Now will I want to raise a son who thinks like that? No

Richvkunt:
It is true he wanted to kiss and make up with me-uggghh!
The sick fuc.k.

moremi2008:
You're smoking that good excreta, aren't you? I would never be caught dead with the likes of Shagamumu in real life.

ronkebp:
I prefer my hubby's natural perfume, i love to sniff his singlets and boxers (wierd me) but the for the artificial perfume, Lacoste Green, love it.

Princek12:
Whether she is wifed up by another hoe is of no consequence, as she is being wifed up by the man she desires. It is not your business to determine whether he is a hoe or not. I never said being married is better than being single, but that being married to the person of your dreams is better than being single.

My point remains the same: if you like a man who desires you, playing hard to get or hoarding the punny from him will impede your the chances of you being married to him. And because a man desires you does not mean that the man is a hoe. Bottom line, if you like something that presents itself to you, don't make shakara. Rather, go after it. Girls who understand this stay winning, while girls like you stay losing.

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eGuerrilla:
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