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So you never see am you dey. . . .dey. . . . abeg, comot from my road jorhttps://smileyjungle.com/smilies/fighting5.gif

Deads? se irun ti a ma npke ni "irun dada"? oti o. . . .Ify, make we see picshur na https://smileyjungle.com/smilies/character57.gif


Mehn, toyosi, I love that costume.

myndofgold:
ok, i just saw Toyosi's pic, now I'm confused

wetin dey confuse you? You no get eye?

TOYOSI20:
@ Ruby Pearlicious

Thanks babez . . . . . . .me when I grow up sha o I want to be just like Ify. . . . . . . .

gist me now, what does ify look like?

and why iz you hiding in a closet? Is yicob stalking you again

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=190608.msg3029846#msg3029846 date=1225683391]Thats the name smoking me out its a rap/r&b song i don't know if you listen to that

Who says? you guys are getting pretty close a woman almost became prime minister in France the president of Germany is a woman even Hilary Clinton was this close to becoming a Democrat nominee for the presidential elections thank God she didn't win it because if she did in 50 years time women would be getting men pregnant

The society has no problem with single women the acceptance has more than improved we have baby-mommas and stuff now and it has almost become an institution[/quote]Naa, if it ain't rock or gospel, it ain't interesting wow, am weird!! rock and gospel ke? lol.

Getting close is not the issue. Getting there is what matters the most to those feminist
hehhee, pregnant men, that'd be so cool No stretch mark, no uncontrollable hormones or weight gain. That'd be awesome.

Lol! It depends on the environment and culture o. The last time I told my mom I want to stay single, she was like "Not in his life. You must have lost your sense"

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=190608.msg3029835#msg3029835 date=1225682789]Lol most guys would do that not just me

That was what i was about asking you girls how do you do it? i mean when you look at a guy and just roll those big eyes up and down at break neck speed that stuff is very hypnotizing i always try to look away before she tells me to go and sell my mom's house or something

Lol you can't even speak it so all you speak is Yoruba? or do you use Google translator?

Please learn that day dream and do it for me when you are mad at me i would apologize even if you where wrong [/quote]Lol! Am not only talking about that. You make sense, period

Lmao! hehhe, I used to roll my eyes, but when I got here, ppl thought it was so weird. So I stopped doing it. now I just hiss

Lol Google translates Yoruba? help a sista hout I can understand Ekiti, but can't speak it

_{lmao, you're freaky. But as long as you apologize, no problema. am even rolling my eyes right now}

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=190608.msg3029800#msg3029800 date=1225680232]It is not and even if it was some of their stories are from real-life experiences.
Your case is not as bad as i thought just when i thought you where totally biased.Hard times yeah i agree but nothing goes for nothing
The most common na accommodation that one is not even a biggie again and the most annoying part is you are probably not the only one she would ask for money probably like 5 or 6 other boys to keep her options open
Once i meet a girl and she tells me all these things i carry my bata and take to my heels .My love is not blind it has 20-20 vision

You like i when i get mad abi? Ok no problem i have a feeling you would look even better when you are angry with the little wrinkle on your nose and your eyeballs rolling at 300 miles per hour not forgetting the way you would hold those sexy hips and probably cuss in Ekiti.Chei i would pay top-dollar for that sight [/quote]@ bolded part https://smileyjungle.com/smilies/laughing9.gif
Dude, you've got common sense. Compared to most of the men on this board. That's nice to see.

ehrrrm, eww. which kain eye balls rolls at 300mph? lmao, and how does one cuss in ekiti. I can't even speak ekiti talkless of cussing in one
Aww, I just messed up ur daydream abi? oya, for you, I'd do all that

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=190608.msg3029794#msg3029794 date=1225679736]You are smoking me out!! have you heard that Ron Isley song?[/quote]No, what song is that?

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=190608.msg3029794#msg3029794 date=1225679736]How is it worse for the woman now? ohh if only you women know how good you have it more like its worse for the men in the good old days there was no such thing as gender equality and all that that's why there is so much confusion in the world today the woman thinks she is better than the man

Is that a crime? Is like a woman Posting a thread saying I want a Working-Class guy or a man that has a job that's generic most girls want that

If not for who oya tell me [/quote]Lol, as much as women wish, there'd never be gender equality in this century or the next.
So, that issue is just a dream away. It might come true, but am sure this generation or the next wnt be able to witness it.

Lol, it's not a crime. All am saying is, romance is not marriage, it just leads to marriage. JUST LIKE AGE IS NOT MATURITY.
Most women have this mentality that they're not complete without a ring on their finger or a round belly. Who can blame them when their society rebukes single women.


If not for ehrrrm

No

I'd so love it if you revise/edit your post

You know, if I say naija men are stingy, that'd be an [i]under[/i]statement

JJYOU:
educate me. tell me how our women love and care please. how do you cater for a man's needs my dear sister

^{Ask A-40, he'll tell you how I cater to him.}

I hope you're not expecting to to reveal my secret or to claim to know how our women care for their man. Each individual to his/her thang.

JJYOU:
you cannot give what you don't have or know nothing about. i think the concept of love and caring is alien to most of our people. for the girls having a pair of child bearing ribs is all they show for being a woman. i will not go into the boys today because like many are saying here taking her out - bla bla is is equals caring.
God help us with boys like these however i think many naija girls deserve some of these boys because they don't have anything to show for being a lady too.

That is so wrong. Unless you meant the men

The best way to keep a man is to cater to his needs

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=190608.msg3029714#msg3029714 date=1225676426]If only you could be a boy for one day like Beyonce you would see how hard it is for us.Girls can be harsh ooh they wouldn't just go alone they would drag their friends along so they could see how deep your pocket is lol i am just kidding but most girls would find the flimsiest reasons to empty your pocket e.g Accommodation,Tuition the list is endless jare am i her father?[/quote]lmaoooooooooooooooooooooo!! oh gosh!! This sounds like a Nollywood scene!

It's so sad o, what some Naija women have become. But you can't really blame them. Hard times, you know.
Asking a man to pay for my tuition, for my clothes and food when he's not my husband? God forbid So he canlater on come with his trashy mouth to ask for his stuff back once we break up? Sorry, I don't like to owe a man anything. Bye means bye. dnt wanna see ur raggedy@$$ sef again

keep dreaming about it

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=190608.msg3029714#msg3029714 date=1225676426]Just when i thought you where improving [/quote]why na? you know I like it when you get mad. so sexy seeing those wrinkles dancing salsa on ya forehead.

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=190608.msg3029694#msg3029694 date=1225675572]Chei i must keep this in an archive somewhere this is the first time i have heard you say or see you type something sweet about Naija men
Infact this is for you
https://smiley.onegreatguy.net/kiss4.gif[/quote]Lol! Well, what can I say? I've had the opportunity/ pleasure and LUCK to talk to a sweet naija man.

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=190608.msg3029694#msg3029694 date=1225675572]Chei i must keep this in an archive somewhere this is the first time i have heard you say or see you type something

Yeah i agree and thats why y'all have to give us some credit for changing with those times
Truth is it is not about the genitals sef there are some little girls in women's bodies some can hardly take care of themselves let alone another man or a baby

Unfortunately that's not the case nowadays

Its always been a cliche the entire concept is a mirage a lot of girls have a very warped mindset when it comes to that R word they think its the guy that has to do all the romancing

Yeah it is rampant on NL of course the way some of this girls go on about us Naija guys you would think they wouldn't touch us with a 10 ft pole

I didn't say you where fake boo it was just a question [/quote]Lmao! The bolded part got me laughing. You're so sneaky!
Well, I guess. People change with time, worse for the women. It's not fair that we're finally standing on our lil feet only to lose our "respect". Such a sad world, it is.

https://smileyjungle.com/smilies/angel9.gif Marriage marriage marriage. Every woman's dream or every man's nightmare. So how about the men on NL putting up "I want a God-fearing Naija wife" thread? It's becoming so rampant on nl its getting disgusting

If not for ehrrm, I wouldn't touch a naija man with a 500ft pole

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=190608.msg3029671#msg3029671 date=1225673106]You see what i am saying besides the fact that its the truth do you know how many boys bank account would still be in good standing if they had girls like you that where not into the whole eating out thingy

How many girls even cook for their boyfriend's these days? very few they would ask if you where there husband or something? you say Naija men are not romantic abi i no complain now i am saying Naija girls are too materialistic so its tit for tat

_{Aww you never told me you would give me a parachute, and all this time i was thinking you didn't care will you ever forgive me} [/quote]Lmao! So take-outs/ restaurants bankrupts bank accounts? lol, oogbadun

I may not be sure if I'd still think this way later on, but right now, I wouldn't mind cooking for him his special meals. On valentine/Christmas/thanksgiving etc, he doesn't even have to worry about anything.

Lmao, but seriously, naija men are not romantic. Am not saying it to get on anybody's nerves, but gosh. They suck
uncaring bunch of apes



^{It's not up to me to forgive you. Just to let ya know, I can't stay mad at ya}

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=190608.msg3029671#msg3029671 date=1225673106]When you really like a woman it comes naturally [/quote]awww, lol. Naija men and their sweet tongues
That's sweet https://smileyjungle.com/smilies/smiling7.gif
lol https://smileyjungle.com/smilies/smiling28.gif

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=190608.msg3029671#msg3029671 date=1225673106]Of course it counts hon,
Go around and look at newly wedded couples or guys that got married say within the last 5-10 years and compare them to the guys that have been married for 15 or more you would be suprised at the number of guys that have made some compromises on the home-front
Guys are cooking now,changing diapers even baby-sitting the kids when the woman is not around what we went is some appreciation and encouragement not the same old cliche Nigerian Men Are Not Romantic

I don't have a bad mentality towards you girls its just a front i use it to scare the fake girls away the real ones recognize. .Are you one of them?

Besides you girls do have your flaws but you tend to enlarge ours and ignore yours[/quote]You can't expect things to stay the same na.
Times change, women have changed with it.
I really don't think it's all the woman's fault. Maybe her mother was not always around to teach her how to be a woman.
No no no, one does not become a woman overnight. and No, you're not a woman just because you have that female genital, you're a woman in your actions and characteristics. Mehn, the woman that wants her husband to replace her woman duty is not serious at all.
But this does not automatically mean that the husband can't help one in a while lol.


rotflmaooooooooo, So "Naija men are not romantic" is now a cliche? You know, some stereotype may be true

Me thinks you're talking bad about naija girls b/c it's something rampant on nl, not because you had a bad experience with one

Am I what? fake? lol, if I say no, some may disagree with me. If I say yes, some may still disagree with me.
You know what, I'd like to say no, because I don't think I am

Gabby, so, did you find out abt moi?

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=190608.msg3029615#msg3029615 date=1225670189]@Morenike
Naah i don't share ooh its you or no one else [/quote]awww, see? was it so hard? what woman wouldn't want to hear that?

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=190608.msg3029615#msg3029615 date=1225670189]We do care its just sometimes you girls don't know what you want and as a guy we also like to see our gestures reciprocated there are some girls that even have the fortune of meeting nice boys that are willing to do anything and more and what do they do they take them for granted so what do you expect?
Are you telling me you don't know any home that the husband cooks sometimes takes care of the wife or do stuff that ordinarily the wife is suppose to do? You girls have it good nowadays go and find out from the older generation if their men did half of what they are doing now?[/quote]I dnt think so.
But my S-dad cooks for himself when my mom is not home. does that count?
I barely cooked for his @$$ mehn, am so awful

Yes, I guess. Some girls do misuse men's nice gestures. But why should we pay for their action?\
A-40, you have this mentality about naija girls that its so painful sometimes when u post. it's not fair o.

And caring is not a one-way traffic. It goes both way. If he/she can't show that he/she cares back, then one loses interest in showing care. abi?

ibkaye:
Sister mi, you know sey i don conisder you to be the most correct babe on the planet

lolol, thanks baby

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=190608.msg3029590#msg3029590 date=1225669154]Of course i can cook!! was just winding you up i can cook better than 60% scratch that 70% of you girls nowadays[/quote]It's ok baby.
Even if you can't cook, I'd still recondiser you for Ibk.

But seriously, what scares you men from caring for your woman?

You know what I love the most from a guy? WHen he does sth for me, something small, yet special.
Not sth bought, or sth ordered. Just that sth.

An example? Getting home late but letting me know you're aiight. Dnt make me worried about your well being when you could have called or texted that you were coming home late.

Or when am feeling down and sad, tell me sth to make me smile or laugh. Dnt come crying to my face that I'm a sadist.


Things like that. The little thoughts and action counts more than this outings and gifts. Lol, now dnt get me wrong. am not saying, dnt take me out. But be a little creative, ya know. Put some love and caring into what you do for me.

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=190608.msg3029579#msg3029579 date=1225668683]E be like say na Oyinbo you go marry ok i can cook once a month lol if you are ready to have some gastro-intestinal problems [/quote]Oyinbo ke? lai lai!! emi ko!!

hehhe, so you can't cook? https://smileyjungle.com/smilies/laughing14.gif

lol night.

Ibk, you too. Go and sleep


Who dey follow follow you?

lmao

milknhoney:
I use to think that a man should cook for his woman just for the sake of loving her. But now. . . . . I noticed that the woman has to pretty much bend over backwards for the guy just to take her out to eat.

But not to talk down on those men who are actually caring. I just wish all guys held this criteria within themselves but I guess that is just wishful thinking.

Abi o, seriously.
Scratch romance out, scratch special treatment out. A man should be willing to cook for his wife, atleast once in a while.
It's just plain outrageous that she has to do sth to get special treatment.

Can't a man just tell his wife, atleast once a week or month or once in a well that she "shouldn't worry. I'd deal with the cooking tonight. You need the rest". That's caring. or am I wrong?

Men, we're not saying it has to be the man's job, all we're saying is, show her that you care.

Brash, na u dey follow follow Ibk

Femmace,
Lol, night

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=190608.msg3029511#msg3029511 date=1225667162]Ohh stop it already this romantic thingy is so cliche.Its not a taboo but she has to be worth the trouble thats all i am saying
That's the issue most girls would rather like you to take them out! most of them can't even boil rice nowadays its so sad and some of them be serious Aje-Pako so they didn't and can't claim to have the luxury of having a maid as an excuse for their culinary ineptitude

_{I can't jump over no bridge boo.If the Atacama walk is not enough for you then too bad.What would you do for me sef? This our love e be like say na one-way traffic}[/quote]What kind of girls have you been hanging out with?

I'm not into restaurants because the food are so tasteless. Most of them. No spice, no Maggi, not enough salt etc. I'd rather he cook for me on valentine

Ok, maybe I'm being too selfish. Or am I? I mean, cooking for me does not even ave to be romantic. Just do it as a "caring" b/f, husband, etc.


_{Oh babe, but if you go to the desert, I'll miss you too much! You think I'd let you jump over the bridge without a parachute? Then you do not know me}

ibkaye:
Baby mii, you know I could never try and steal your man
Tumfulu is for you and you only, fight the power!

lmao!! ture "I got the power". . . .the power to marry you two

femmace:
@Renike
Baby, Missy don go bed, Ibk would follow soon

Let the game begins

what game na?
rem. the last time my hubby caught us? I cant do it o

Missy B:
I'm going to bed jare::::::Your answer wasn't forth coming
so I had to do a serious google search and I have it now.
night sweets::::::::Ibk

Am sorry. Ouch, that hurts

ibkaye:
[size=35pt]OLORUN MA JE![/size]

lmao!!! you this lil girl.
u dey deny am?

ibkaye:
@More
That's my husband and I in your profile

lmao!! That's you and tumfulu

femmace:
sweetheart

hey, babyyyyyy.
wassup? sorry, I just wanted to rhyme tonight

Missy B:
You no dey answer your YIM:::::::::::
Na you make me enter Nland this night.

Do you know the music that was played in the movie GHOST?
B.T.W:Have you seen the movie? It's old but it's lovely.

Lol, am barely logged on to YIM. Unless I need to check my email.
Oka, gimme a sec, sorry

The movie ghose ke?

bravado:
You should be the greater fool for calling guys who fall in love a full,if you do not believe in love some others do.You should also know that you are a disgrace to ENGLIST LANGUAGE, Guy You No Go Even Primary School.Olodo

So what do we call men with bad ingilishi? https://smileyjungle.com/smilies/laughing9.gif

Femmace, you so fine you so fine

You so fine I can't decline https://smileyjungle.com/smilies/celebrate0.gif