₦airaland Forum

canada2022:
But he never said Nigerians should vote for him. He only told Nigerians what was revealed to him. He said i see Buhari winning, that he tried calling Jonathan bla bla bla bla...........

Theonlysonofher:
While others are celebrating the new year today I am here sobbing because my marriage is at the verge of breaking.

I loved my wife with all my heart but I don't think I will ever forgive her for what she has done to my mother.

I am the only child of my mother. I have three sisters on my father's side.
I am married with two beautiful daughters. my mother suffered from diabetes, bp and high cholesterol. She is on a special diets strictly no salt or too much sugar.

She came to stay with me because the person who was taking care of her wasn't doing her job properly so I had to bring her to my house so I will be monitoring her health.

I have a house help who prepares all her meals with less salt and she also makes sure she takes her medicines on time without fail.
Everything was fine, my mother is not a troublesome person, she gets on well with my wife and most of the time she is in her room resting.

On the 20th of December my house help had traveled to the village to see her people and she will be back in January 4th so my wife and I have to take care of my mother making sure that her foods is less salty and medicines on time.

Since I am always working so my wife had to take most of the responsibility. It is only for a week and fews days until the house help is back.

She had agreed to take care of my mother during this periods of time and I thought everything was fine but I noticed my mother become distant and tired unlike her and I had no idea that she was actually dying and I have never suspected that my wife was maltreating her.

So Thursday being 30th December I was at work when my wife called and asked me to join her at the hospital because mama had a seizure.

I rushed to the hospital and my mother was in a coma state and I asked her what happened to mama, she said mama woke up that morning complaining about shortage of breath and she told her to go back to bed and rest hoping she will be fine by the time she will wake up.
Only for mama to fall off the ground and started shaking with foam coming out of her mouth.

I was in panicked I couldn't stop praying for my mother to get better and I didn't leave the hospital, my wife went home to take care of the children because she has left them with the neighbour and I had spend all night prayer vigil at my mother's bedside and glory be to God my mother woke up yesterday being 31st but the doctor report was not a good news for me.

Actually my mother was poisoned with salt and guess who did it? My beloved wife couldn't bothered to cook a different meal for my mother, she used to feed her the same meal we ate knowing full well that mama cannot eat the same foods as us because we are salt lovers, especially my wife, she love eating too much salt which I have warned her over and over again because it is also not good for her health.

I confronted her, she said she only fed mama the same meals we ate twice only but according to the doctor it was more than two times.

I am hurt that my wife doesnt love my mother or treat her like her own mother because if she truly loved her like her own mother she would have put her diet on consideration and not allow her to eat the same meal as us. I love her mother and u treat her like my own mother.

It pains me a lot when I remember five years ago when her mother was in coma state and she was staying with her at the hospital, she is her only daughter amongst three boys.

I used to visit them everyday after work, I will bring foods and I have even washed her mother clothes with my own hands, I have done with love because she is my mother. I called my mother in law this morning and I have informed her about what her daughter has done to my mother and she couldn't stop apologising and she is very disappointed with my wife.

But see how she has repaid me by hurting my own mother.

She has apologised to me and to my mother, I have forgave her but I don't think I can stay with her again because one day if I become sick or bedridden she might treat me the same way.

Honestly speaking I am not even at home with her and the kids, I am at my cousin brother's house since yesterday I left the hospital and my mother is still in the hospital because she needs more treatment and hopefully she will recover by next week.

I don't feel like going home today and I don't know when I'll go home but I will always be there for my girls because they are the best thing that ever happened to me.

What other advice would you give me on this situation? What are your thoughts? Thank you for reading all I love this community.

illicit:
Them no know d meaning of Para

HelloWriter:
I think that the burden of the responsibility would be on anyone acting in loco parentis (in parental position). If they did it while at home, their parents would have been the ones to hold responsible. But, now that they did it while at a boarding school, the school managers are to be held responsible.

A case in point relates to the minor involved in the recent school shooting in Michigan, USA. His parents have been arrested because he came to school from his home with the gun on the day of the shooting.

Even in Late Sylvester's case, his real parents may also share in the responsibility as many Nairalanders agree on this thread https://www.nairaland.com/6880945/opinion-why-blame-oromoni-snr

debbydams:
no corpse was exhumed stop spreading fake rumor..

ThatFairGuy:
How true is this please

ThatFairGuy:
How true is this please

Newton2024:
It is false. Fake news. The trial court would have used it to nail him and the appellate court wouldn't have released him if such evidence exist. Nigeria is the headquarters of fake news.

Jayzel:
My gf can never cheat on me i trust her more than i trust myself. U won't understand me bro
Our relationship has been a solid one up~till date

olaniyiYAH:
I know this case has not end with him, the church has renovate there structure putting banners out side in other to welcome him back before pronouncement of his freedom
A woman who was sentence mentioned date they will be free before the pronouncement of the judgment to free him when she's giving testimony

dfrost:


He's even saying that Santa should bring more ammo.

Consiglieri:
April 2022 and you only have 50% of the investors!!!

Have you even ordered the planes that you want to be using in 5 months time

STORY!!

yungkels:
haa!!
i pity the Dagana family

daddytime:
Okay.

It's so unfortunate that this paper ranking isn't reflecting on the citizens.

Such a shame.

Na this one be original audio money....

Kingsley123456:
I met my first love when I was driving from ikole Ekiti to Osogbo osun State in early 2012, we started dating and we loved each other, she always sing it to my hear that she was lucky to have me, but after about 3years in the relationship which I had relaxed and believed that I have found the mother of my children, she came up with a story that, her pastor said we are not compatible and that we will regret if we dare marry each other, I didn't force or persuade her, she left in 2015.

I got into another relationship in 2016 March, this one was really ready to marry cuz she advised me to rent a 2bedroom apartment she even gave me money to get a set of chair and put in the living room for us to start living together... She came back home with the same story in 2017 Feb on her birthday that her pastor said, I'm not the man for her, she left without looking back.

To cut the story short, I did an admission for a girl in 2018, and we ended up dating, I gave her close marking until she had to travel back home cuz of the Corona outbreak, she called me from home and told me that her pastor said, she should not marry me cuz it may not augur well, I begged and persuaded for about one month but she insisted...

I still didn't see it as anything untill last night when the girl I've been dating after Corona break, we met at the teaching practice, we spend most of our time together she literally lived with me ...but she went to Abuja, her parents place last week Saturday, she's been giving me attitudes until last night when she came out bluntly with same story, that her Mom saw it in the dream that her current boyfriend is not the person she should marry, that cries await her if she dares to..

What is going on with me... I'm confused, this one is affecting me.

zangaozanga:
Fine woman, but I can't see why she wants to go back to the alaafin

Easylion3569:
This thing just happen to me at the very wrong time.. I need to do something before people find out

SportsHD:
Abokina didn't plan well

Coupled with the fact that he knew kidnappers? Damn.

If it were in saner nations now, the dumb aboki would've turned informant, cops would've busted the kidnapping gangs.

But, our irt which Abba 'jack bauer' kyari groomed are just all about the money.

Coupled with the fact that bubu has directed them not to interfere with his kimsmen's doings.

DontBullshitMe:
Murder - Suicide.

No better explanation but let's wait for autopsy.

JuanJO:
We Don dey honor our own since. We dey pay random steady. I hear say we want include banditry and kidnapping allowance for we national budget.

Iyaebe:
It's good to obey and worship God but don't be foolish as well because God will not like the fact that you were foolish for not seeking justice over case of a murderer.He should be arrested and made to face the law.

erico2k2:
bro thats wrong if you say HUb, I think u picked up the wrong part to drive home your views. Let me tel you the gospel truth,JAP car parts are not cheap rather fake Jap car parts are cheap!

Holybwoy:
Why should mechanics now lie that their parts are expensive or that they break down easily..

Can I go for a BMW as my next car then?

Aren't bimmers strong and rugged?

EzeAro:
I mean you could argue Nnamdi Kanu was wrong on every other thing, but definitely not this one... because Buhari is actually an idiot with the lowest type of IQ for that matter.

tillaman:
People no dey ever dey contented he ordered for Mickey and He got Mukaila so what’s the fuss

richidinho:
Talking trash as usual, did all what you just said started now?

The real problem is people are hoarding farm produce

I know of one kogi lady Oveiza or something she used to buy more than 500bags of egusi, beans, rice and others, she will keep it for one or two months and sell it at 50% profit

Naijabad:
Obaseki accused the Federal govet of printing money late last year or early this year. what you see today in the market is one direct consequence of printing money without commensurate production capacity.

As I speak with you, Buhari's Govt is planning to obtain another loan from foreign financial institutions without plans on how these would be paid back.

Bros, dont cry yet. You will understand what hardship means when crude oil prices drops from next month.

daddytime:
A very sense(full) post.

Davash222:
The world is yet to experience sanity.