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biggirloya2: i wana. but how? please give me tips

Try extract of african mango

It will help you burn calories if you want to fast intermitently

Also have diluted cranberry juice or lemon juice preferably fresh

This will help counteract dizzy spells and lethargy caused by toxins released during a fast.

My dear disipine matters so does your diet cut out sugars and processed foods completely and try and get an aquired taste for any bitter herb they are great for depression and anxiety.

like bitter kola, bitter leaf, bitter melon or ven aloe vera.

They will help adjust any hormonal imbalace and also supress appetite for unhealthy foods, just chew on little pieces throught the day like I said an aquired taste.

Finally a tablesoon of Moringa leaf powder twice a day in a shake or even water while fasting from food will boost you with energy and keep you refreshed.

Sound like a lot but na from clap den dey enter dance, take your time and school yourself you know you can DO IT

And we draw closer to the end.

bukatyne: It is women like you who make marriage sound like a bondage. 'She is no longer single, it's a reality she must face.'

It's always good to compare oranges to oranges. Your husband told you before you got married that he loves trousers; the key word is before marriage. He didn't wait until after marriage b/4 shifting the goal post.

Their relationship is already ruined. If the husband loved and respected his wife, he would have told her his feelings on her dressing b/4 they got married.

P.S. You do not have a mind/conviction of your own.

On the contrary she has spoken her mind clearly.

bukatyne: Is the husband reasoning with the wife in this case? Or is it only a woman the sacrifices in marriages?

The OP mentined nothing of beatings,blackmail,coercion or any such disgracefull behaiviour from the husband

It sounds more like a request.

bukatyne: can't the sacrifice this time be from the man's side?

If you read the post again you will notice I said self sacrifice should be encouraged and practiced by BOTH PARTNERS.

Princess zoe: [b]SINGLE PEOPLE SHOULD BE CAREFUL TO OPEN THEIR EYES WIDE DURING COURTSHIP. ANYTHING YOU SAW DURING COURTSHIP AND IGNORED WILL BE DIFFICULT TO AMEND AFTER WEDDING. ANY MAN THAT COMES HOME AND START GIVING A COMMAND TO THE WIFE ASKING HER TO CHANGE FROM WHAT HE KNEW THAT HAS BEEN SINCE THE DAY OF THEIR COURTSHIP IS SELFISH. YOU NEED TO APPLY LOVE, LOVE AND MORE LOVE BECAUSE IT WAS YOUR FAULT AT THE FIRST PLACE SINCE YOU WERE THE ONE THAT WENT UP TO HER FOR MARRIAGE KNOWING QUITE WELL THAT SHE HAS BEEN THAT WAY. YOU DON'T GIVE COMMAND OR MAKE DEMANDS ON THIS TYPE OF ISSUE BECAUSE IS A HARSH WAY TO GO ABOUT SUCH ISSUE WHICH IS VERY SENSITIVE. BIBLICALLY A WOMAN IS MEANT TO BE SUBMISSIVE(IN THE LORD AND NOT IN SELFISHNESS) WHILE THE MAN IS MEANT TO LOVE LIKE HIS BODY. BUT SOME MEN DO NOT KNOWN THAT ONE CAN ACTUALLY BE SUBMISSIVE WITHOUT LOVING AND ALSO THAT SUBMISSIVENESS IS ONE OF THE INGREDIENTS OF LOVE. WHAT AM I TRYING TO SAY? IF YOU WANT YOUR WIFE TO JUST GO AHEAD AND AGREE IN SUBMISSION IN EVERYTHING YOU DEMAND(WHICH IS HARSH) SHE MIGHT DO THAT AS A SERVANT AND NOT AS YOUR PARTNER(BECAUSE PARTNERS DO NOT USE COMMAND NOR FORCE, THEY USE SUGGESTIONS AND EXERCISE PATIENCE) A SERVANT WILL BE SUBMISSIVE TO THE OGA BUT HE STEALS FROM HIM. A SERVANT WILL BE SUBMISSIVE TO HIS OGA BUT HE CAN BE SLEEPING WITH OGA'S WIFE. A SERVANT CAN ALSO BE SUBMISSIVE TO OGA BUT CAN USE CHARMS ON HIS OGA. REMEMBER WE ARE DEALING ON SUBMISSIVENESS AS A SERVANT HERE.BUT SUBMISSIVENESS BY LOVE AND BY WILLINGNESS CAN NOT AND WILL NOT BE HARMFUL. THAT IS EXACTLY WHY YOU DO NOT ORDER YOUR WIFE OR DEMAND FROM HER OF A CHANGE BECAUSE IT IS HARSH. THE MAN WAS ASKED TO LOVE HIS WIFE LIKE HIS BODY. NOW IF YOU LOVE YOUR WIFE LIKE YOUR OWN BODY, YOU WILL BE SOMEHOW SUBMISSIVE TO HER WITHOUT YOU KNOWING IT. LOVE IS WHERE THE WHOLE WORK LIES YET SOME MEN DO NOT KNOW THIS. THE BIBLE SAYS THAT, LOVE ENDURES,LOVE IS PATIENT, LOVE DOES NOT SEEK HIS OWN (I.E DEMANDING THINGS FOR HIS OWN REASONS OR PLEASE HIMSELF), LOVE FORGIVES ALL THINGS, IN FACT BIBLE LISTED A LOT OF QUALITIES OF LOVE WHICH AUTOMATICALLY PLACES THE MAN AS A GATHERER AND AN ENDURING AND MORE FORGIVING IMAGE. KNOWLEDGE THEY SAY IS POWER. SINGLE LADIES SHOULD MAKE SURE THEY MARRY A MAN THAT UNDERSTANDS THE INSTRUCTION GIVEN TO HUSBANDS AND WIVES BY GOD AND ALSO KNOWS THE RIGHT INTERPRETATION TO IT IN WHICH THE HOLY SPIRIT IS SUPPOSE TO BE THE ONE SHEDDING THE LIGHT OF INTERPRETATION. THIS MATTER HAS BEEN FLOGGED AND OVER FLOGGED. I GUESS IS TIME TO QUIT POSTING TO AVOID DRAGGING. GOD WILL HELP US TO BE GOOD AND SELFLESS HUSBANDS AND WIVES.

Words of wisdom.

Vanneni: How does wearing trousers make a woman wayward? And calling me a potential concubine means I'm gona be wayward in the future See your head. Stay there and be typing gibberish.

Its not the trouser that questions waywardness, although most men will use it as a yardstick

Its the obedience issue

And regarding your future Na only you know your innermost thoughts

But some form of character always simmers to the top

Vanneni: Mstcheeew.

Na you get your mouth.

Vanneni: Stop calling every one concubines or potential concubines you troll.

Correction not everyone only those that go against the rule of the father

you know

those wayward types.

Vanneni: r u Obadia777

Freaky isint it?

To imagine there is more than 1 obadiah like individual.

Imagine how many more are out there.

Yeah Obadiah is my Brother and we break the exact same bread.

Care to break some bread?

lorretta u: oh common, dude I'm just messing with you ok?
Now don't cry I'm sorry if that hurt you.but you have to agree that your posts here are hilarious . Really.
Anyway You're mistaken I don't have vile thoughts.my head is full of sweet buttermint sugar candy thoughts.
Gudnyt u.I don't know about where you are but It's night here.
I gatta get some sleep.

Judgement!

Vanneni: Yours?

No way!

milehigh06: are prostitutes not such?

By the words of your mouth you are judged

For all you know your great great grandma on you paternal side could have been a prostitute

And before you go all self righteous remember that even yashua was a friend to prostitutes and sinners

Who are you to judge them as left overs

lorretta u: Dude called mosthigh has a screw loose.
I mean the handle is enough evidence.
Who in their right senses equates themselves to God almighty?the Most high being? Abi na most high on weed?
We need a yaba left branch on this nairaland.

Its not as if Loretta u is any better

On the contrary no screw loose here, All faculties are in order

But it seems like you are suffering from shaking of the brain with all this thought projection you are doing

Also never did I equate myself with the most high God but it is you that has done so from the words of your mouth and you shall get your reward.

PRESUMTIOUS individual

Always seeing what is not there

Always Projecting your innermost vile thoughts on other people

Vanneni: Shut up joor!

Look at this potential concubine.

jaydonv: Well, without adopting the superciliousness of a compulsive chauvinist, I think the wife should try and put off her own dogged beliefs in yielding to her spouse. On one hand, wearing of trousers by women is considered a norm where as in another it is a thing associated with opprobrious immorality.

By no measure should this frivolous matter result in incendiary disputation between the couple. It is an issue to be resolved amicably while defenestrating any domestic skirmish into complete oblivion.

Thanks

Spot on Sire.

milehigh06: WHERE DID I CALL A WOMAN LEFT OVER which is leading you call people names.
are making words up where there is none?

Is this not your post below

lmaoooo
its people like u who will get out of Nigeria and will start running after left over women in other countries.
lord my foot
when did God make u his prophet or a lesser god?


Does that refresh your memory

Coward.

prickly: What a steaming pile of hot shiit, does this place look like Sunday school to you?

Theocracy has nothing to do with sunday school

It is real life

But a woman wrapper would not know anything about that

Right?

Shollypopz: The MostHigh dude is just a troll, don't get worked up over his posts

Leave the silly pomo seller alone y'all.

LWTMB true

Never sold pomo in my life I tell ya

Not that selling pomo is bad

I mean its a living abi?

milehigh06: how long ahve you been married.giving u advice on how to live happily for a long time with your wife,you are busy calling me a feminist......wow!
do you know the definition of being a feminist
and come to think of it,did you not just type somewhere on page 2 that I was heathen with the words i waws using and you were called by God Himself?and you just used a degrading word against women right here
guess hypocrisy runs deep in your blood
No feminist but at least i have a mother,sister and most importantly a daughter and if a deranged village fool like you comes near them,I will F#$K YOU UP

Blah Blah Blah...

Theocracy means rule of the father

Feminisms counters Theocracy and pushes for democracy

I called you a heathen because you speak like one, (left over women)

knowing now you are a man even makes it worse

How can you call women leftovers and then sit there and blow your horn about your sister, mother, daughter, wife and even the whole matriarchy being precious to you

You are more the a hypocrite you are deluded.

Dolly-Parton:
Thank u. Normal people don't marry deeper life members. So don't bother, u'll marry one of those sisters with floor-length-sack-looking-skirt with scarf covering their ukempt dirty hair.

Kai which kind mumu talk be this one sef?

milehigh06: ARE YOU THIS DUMB,,READ ABOVE WHERE I POINTED OUT THAT I AM A MAN WHO IS HAPPILY MARRIED,8YEARS AND COUNTING
YOU NO FIT READ?

Could have sworn you were a B1tch, come guy you sound like a man hater

Wao a man that's a feminist

Who would have thought......

Well there is a first time for everything though.

alexis: We are getting somewhere and you are changing your tone My point is simple - if it was a deal breaker for him; he should have told her before they got married; all this wahala would have been avoided because it is better to have a failed relationship than to have a failed marriage. From all evidence, it seems the one that is not flexible here is the dude, not the babe.

Why he has the right to ask her to stop (something he should have done when they were courting), she has given a valid and acceptable reason.

Are you married?

milehigh06: according to you abi
do you know what she does when you are not busy oppressing her?

Spoken like a true leftover human being

LWKM OOO

Only a left over woman will call other women left over

WHERE IS YOUR PRIDE?

You have none

Feminism has its limitations

Theocracy is the only way

The Rule of the father

no need for Hedonism

Larry Sogo: My wife can put on trousers any time she likes

Top man


Lets get the children proper confused

LWKMF.

Shollypopz: I weep for the woman that married you

Maybe she was just an ugly chic with very low self esteem. Only that will explain why she agreed to marry a scum.

Don't know bout that

But she definitely wont run her mouth like some heathen folk over here

Keep on weeping though.

LWKM OOOO

alexis: Couples should always talk and communicate, I agree. My point is simple - why didn't he communicate on this subject when they were courting? Surely, it wouldn't have escalated into a thread on NL.

Why should it be the woman that should ADAPT? Why can't he adapt? Why does he want her to stop wearing trousers? Is it a moral or religious reason? Did he make this known to her before their marriage? Those are honest questions he should answer instead of playing the "ADAPT" game.

Never said a man should not adapt.

read my post again.

Both should agree. It is a home

milehigh06: according to you abi
do you know what she does when you are not busy oppressing her?

Its just like saying your father is oppressing you when he tells you the right thing to do

My point is if you don't want to be given instructions then pls remain a concubine

That way you can eat your cake and have it

alexis: You mean you married a wife that came with a MANUAL?

LWKM true...

Well luckily for me again she didn't life would have been proper boring

That being said regarding life and its ups and downs she has held her own quite well.

Let me try again...

Can you depend on her in times of.....

Is she the kind to adapt to life changes and still come out strong?

The husband in question is asking his wife to adapt to changes he feels are important and has even given her REASON

ARE COUPLES NOT SUPPOSED TO REASON TOGETHER

alexis: He asked her to marry him; she didn't. He SAW her wearing trouser, why didn't he object then? He should have mentioned it during courting if it was a big deal for him.

My father asked me IS SHE DEPENDABLE IS SHE ADAPTABLE TO CHANGE?

luckily FOR ME SHE IS.

lefolksy: My sincere pity goes 2 d women folks,jst because u did a man favour by acceptng his porposal 2 marry him,will automatically turn 2 be like a relationship btw a father and child wit a lot of don't do this or dat,wasn't not d trouser dat she wore dat attracted u 2 her,plzzzZz Mr man,dn't listen 2 what pple or family member thinks,u should knw what u wnt.dn't stress dat wman

Pity,favour??

You should have remained as a concubine and allow a virtuous woman to occupy the home.

One day na one day monkey go go market e no go return

alexis: Will he die if he stopped asking her to stop wearing it?

The must always be a captain on the ship

Not all men can endure a rocking boat for too long

why did she have to marry?

She should have chosen to be his concubine instead and practice her DEMOCRAZY in the guest house AND NOT THE HOME