₦airaland Forum

princfred:
Igbo women usually have big personal (to go abroad, higher institutions, climb to the apex in carear or business, have their own car, mansion, train her siblings, build a house for her mum etc) projects/ambitions (which in itself is not necessarily a bad thing), the tenacious will, self-believe and know how to pursue it. When the collective ambition does not align or serve with the personal perhaps not fast enough its harder for them to jettison it and they more easily become inclined to sacrifice the collective quest or employ some underhand manoeuvres to go about pursing the personal projects.
Sure women from other tribes can have such ideas but the will, self believe (that she can achieve them with or without the man cum the collective ambition) and vigour in pursing them and not relegate them in the face of unaligned collective ambition is more pronounced in the average Igbo woman.

These ideals and orientation they can induce in other women in their company.

I find it difficult to understand where you coming from.and where you are heading to, initially don't want to comments on this issue because of how SENSITIVE & DELICATE it's and for the fact that I have seen some wonderful advice giving to him as well but was caught on the part of the question I asked you from your statement..... Without been bias Sir Igbo both their men and their women are extremely Ambitious, they aim high , vision the impossible and also believing that's possible to achieve , Sir God always to crown their efforts with success because they do work hard ......

Don't tag or generalized it on association with Igbo women makes the OP wife to start her new behavior, for crying out loud sir 10 YRS old marriage is not a beans, nobody has the tendency to force her to do what her heart hasn't longed or crave for... Or better still let him OP call her wife to know what's wrong PROBABLY he has over used a particular choice of words that might make such an open minded person to change.

It has happened to me I almost lost my woman/fiancée because of my choice of words simply because I was so mad with the way she goes on a particular issue thou I blame it on myself and the distance will not like to go into details ..... But it's very bad and can turn anyone to monster it only take Grace of God and my persistent to make things right irrespective of who was initially wrong......
Sir generally Igbo women are not OVER AMBITIOUS, they are just generally AMBITIOUS like every other serious person.

P.s
Averagely or 70-80% of Igbo man no matter what he's doing as means of survival TAKES SOLELY CARE OF THE FAMILY WITHOUT INVOLVING THE WOMAN BECAUSE THEY BELIEVED THAT WOMEN CAME TO ENJOY AND TAKES ABSOLUTE CARE OF HER HOME NOT TO REALLY WORK , AVERAGE IGBO MAN WILL WANT OR PREFER HIS WIFE TO SOLELY STAY BACK AND TAKE CARE OF HIS HOME FOR HIM WHILE HE DON'T MIND TO DIE WHILE HUSTLING FOR HIS FAMILY WELL-BEING.

@ OP I don't really like the idea of you FORCEFULLY DEMANDING HER SALARY FROM YOUR WIFE , PROBABLY BECAUSE OF MY TRIBE ANYWAY BECAUSE AVERAGE IGBO MAN DON'T CARE OF HIS WIFE SALARY ONCE THERE'S RESPECT AND SUBMISSIVE FROM HER ENDS, BUT BECAUSE YOU ARE ALREADY ONE BODY AND SOUL WITH A COMMON GOAL FOR THE FUTURE OF YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN I WILL ADVISE YOU TO DO ANYTHING HUMANLY POSSIBLE TO WIN YOUR WIFE BACK, FROM THERE YOU CAN AGREE AND DECIDES ON HOW AND WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR BOTH SALARIES BUT PLEASE KINDLY LEAVE SOME HIGH PERCENTAGE % OF HER SALARY FOR HER AND ALSO KINDLY CHECK AND EXAMINE YOURSELF VERY WELL AS WELL OF CHECKING HER CIRCLES OF FRIENDS .
We can ONLY WIN if we play as TEAM player's not as INDIVIDUAL player GOD WILL HELP YOU WITH A BETTER SOURCE OR ADDITIONAL INCOME AND ABOVE ALL GIVE YOU WISDOM TO GO ABOUT IT , IN THE NAME OF WHATEVER OR WHOEVER YOU BELIEVE AMEN.

toyin03:
oga, not every area is like yours o. Over here in Ikd we have nothing less than 21hrs uninterrupted power supply in a day.

Am sorry to disappoints you because where I am today i enjoy 24 hours steady uninterrupted power supply , day to day , month to months which can't be achieve in that your locality and country at large.
Let's learn how to call a spade a spade irrespective of our tribes , difference in ideologies or different on political views because is the Future of our generations we are destroying in the name of being blind to the Truth.

SHALOM.

Iamgrey5:
No wonder Ibedc Refused to give us our usual 18hrs of Electricity on Friday and Saturday.

We have only been managing 8hrs

You are deceiving yourself.

princfred:
Of course and that's very fine.
Yet a non stingy wive; a fine compliment otherwise the man can be made a goat if things go south for him financially by the very woman he made a queen.

If I may ask, is your wife from Rivers state and has she started associating with igbo women which precipitated the change ? Beware of her latest company.

Please why Igbo women?, can you kindly shades more light on association with Igbo women here.

Thanks in advance.

AroleOduduwa2:
I hope he doesn’t quit his club because of his baby mama. He should make money while he can and invest as much as he can, Olga is there for the money, like most white ladies married to Africa footballers, they wait for the perfect moment to destabilize you and then take everything you’ve worked for.

Olga father/ family is ×100 richer than Mikel obi , she's not there for his money .

Macelliot:
Photoshoped picture of Buhari in Japan..
visible pics of a man's leg in the circle.

SHAME.

Please can this be true because I can't believe my eyes.

For me this fees are on the high side.

aolawale025:
I wrote. And it was replied
A good way to get public opinion

Show us your screen shot of both your message and his reply.

Awo APC internet soldiers.

Lexusgs430:
The increment is simply..... Do me, I Do you..... God no vess........

You nailed it.

Lexusgs430:
Are you now happy with the increment in US visas? You pay 59K to apply and when visa gets approved, you pay the remaining 40K balance......

If visa is not approved, you don't pay the 40K balance.....

Sir why na , but they for reduce the already existing 59 to 20k if not approved then with approved visa to pay extra 39 totalling to the sum of 59k.... BTW @justwise stated it all boil down to our federal Government inability to reduce ours for other countries citizens AND now USA Consulate stating the same , of which they have draw the attention of Nigeria Government since 2018 about 18 months ago .

P.s
This is sane country that care for it's citizen well-being.

0temSapien:
That's what they wanted the shop owner to believe and it worked as planned.

Sir/madam I'm once like you take it or leave it's exist and I will not like you to learn with from your own experience. ..... Some people have gone far spiritually that that it only take Grace of God or higher powers to get them EVEN me done see matter for this life .
#Stay safe.
E.O.D.

0temSapien:
Do you know that our world is a smart world? People working in a supermarket can plan together with somebody to take things out and blame it on juju. Then they'll go behind to collect their share of the drama while the supermarket owner watch in bewilderment. It has happened before that I heard of.

Lol not everyone you can play smart on , immediately the owner of the shop walked in he asked eldest of his workers to stop panicking about what happened because he was aware already , that it's wasn't their fault.

Kingosytex:
That was back then in 2008 in my SS2, camera phones weren't everywhere then. I was using one motorola phone. The event happened in Aro chukwu.

People are still doubting the potency of juju but the truth be told it's real in fact what happened their was pure demonstration of juju it has happened to one my big aunt back then at Akure to be precise, this man parked his car in front of their electronics shop and walk into the shop, picked for whatever he wanted went to one of the counters of cashiers they accessed his goods with the price quotation WITHOUT PAYING KOBO TO THEM , HE ASKED THEM TO CARRY THE ELECTRONICS HE SHOPPED TO HIS CAR AND THEY OBEYED HIM WITHOUT PAYING ANY MONEY OR SAYING A WORD TO HIM , after some minutes their eyes clear , they started looking for the man who have already left.

That one na small things for kind things weh dey happen everyday jare.

Nice one

justwise:
Does Nigerian embassy around the world do the same?

I now understand the reason behind it because I was so surprise and mad when I realized it.
THANKS

Lexusgs430:
People seem to forget that a logistical process is involved in all applications ............... They have not forced us to apply for visas, we are willingly giving them our application fee .........

Other countries such as Kenya you only pay visa fee when your visa is approved, so why Nigeria own different and Fed Government aren't saying anything about it.

[quote author=GAZZUZZ post=81513929][/quote]MY OGA WHY YOU WAN SHOT AM

ezenwajosh:
EYC ENUGU YOUTH COALITION

THIS IS THE PAGE OF THE EYC HAHAHA THE GROUP THEY CREATE IN DESPERATION

Just to cover up the Fulani's.

[quote author= post=81490172]Simply present your documents and receipts.

Oshisko.[/quote]What's the essence of publishing their TIN NUMBER, stop all this in the name of defending APC, not necessary you quote every threads even when you don't have any reasonable thing to say .


SHALOM.

Femich18:
Lols. Too harsh you say? But him saying it won't be better for over 150 Million people isn't harsh?

I get you sir but I still believe that it weren't what you are thinking.

PEACE.

VillagePipu:
Nigeria would be better, na you e no fit better for.

Too harsh for his comment .

olatilldend:
This one is even good. The immigration officers at int'l airport departure are worse, they will jokingly hold ur passport, negotiation go come begin.

They do fling it out immediately if you refuses to pay, I almost the day they forced one guy to part with his $50, probably $50 was the least money he was having at that moment.

anonimi:
Do you need to see a doctor for amnesia?
Below is your first comment in response to my post that was a reply to someone else.

Some Nigerians are dolt , these man in question was not caught with any prohibited goods , they didn't even sue him , they just send him home straight BTW why are they rushing to send him back he was caught on Sunday and deported on Monday , I just pray that he's Kenya wife is not involved in this mess.

calculator123:
Sad.
I am ibo but I am not happy with this constant show of shame by my brothers and sisters.
Why not channel this same risk taking in a legal venture?
^{They really need to stop disgracing Nigeria}

He's not dealing in any drugs ..... They just add that to him , what he actually does is helping most Nigerians both Igbo and Yoruba to renew visa and if anyone has issue with police he will go and bail him/her because he's well Known , he's married to Kenya woman with kids of over twenty something years...

uuzba:
Kenyan's know all the stress they are passing through to maintain their democracy.
They too were colonised.
They don't need any nonsense African to come and spoil the little development that they are managing.
If you can't do good works, respect their laws and their country, abeg, go to your own country.

All this nah wash , you people don't even know what actually happened BTW he's not a drug dealer that's one I'm sure.

helinues:
You see say Na you no really serious..

Me no serious ke , No o na you and your said Baba likes no serious o because hunger dey country and you are here promoting lies and propaganda of evil APC.

Sir on a serious note those politicians no worth am no matter how much they are bringing to your table.

helinues:
You too like money..

Trade
Mpesa

Abeg make you no mind me joor ... THREADS...

Sapphire11:
I know all the pictures are real, except for the new stadium.

I also doubt that of stadium as well though I haven't been around for a while now but I doubt if AKETI can concentrate / focus on building new stadium where by there's a lot of issues confronting the development of state.

helinues:
I think Elzakzaky is demanding too much

You are not serious BTW why you mastubating the whole trade just to justify evil in the name of your pay Master Fg .

Sapphire11:
are you serious? Na Akure I dey o

Sure they are real, I can attest to the fly over /bridge and mosque at Oja Oba market along Oba Adesida Road, Anglican Cathedral at Obile, Redeem church, Dome and shoprite at Alagbaka, Captain cook and Fontaine water at alagbaka round about opposite to first bank besides Tisco company etc and as well of identifying some building in the photos but ain't sure of the new stadium if they have commenced work but I know it's still very much open as a field mainly used as a crusade grounds for some Churches though that's was about two years ago .



P.s

I can also identify on the photos St Michael church at Alakare and nico insurance at (Isiko) can't spell well but along Ondo road before Isiko market. ..... But why repeating photos when there's a lot of nice and decent place in Akure to show off including Ijapo estate, clubs etc

My condolence , take heart bro.

Emyo:
Remita owned by Remix & Tinubu. Paystack by Yemi Osibanjo. Na them get this government.

Please is this for real