₦airaland Forum

princfred:
Not in Imo state. Once he mentioned osu I knew it will be in Imo state.

Op better find way appease the land then marry your heartthrob it not easy to find a mentally compatible mate o.

Originalsly:
I do understand that.... the reason I said if...if his parents consent... it has to be top secret. That tradition cannot be overturned overnight... but a start must be made somewhere... a precedent must be set.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Thank You. Though I think we should start separating ourselves from such traditions. This same silly tradition stood against my getting married long time ago too... Happy it did though.

Apination:
Issues like these are really dicey, you can either damn the consequences and follow through or just roll over. What are the repercussions in marrying an osu?

Originalsly:
Hmmm...... don't be in a rush to break any news. Yes you alone can't break the system... but you can try to at least crack it by fighting back instead of just rolling over. You are 21st century generation.... do you or your mates support it? Some traditions just need to be dropped... this is one of them. Your parents are deep into it... you can't convince them. I guess they are Christians.... use the Bible to fight them...

He who findeth a wife findeth a good thing

Let them know you found a wife... and they agreed... were happy... so where does the Bible say at shouod rule her out? For your part.... show depression.... don't eat at home.... say you're not hungry. Don't involve in any conversations unless is about your heartbeat.... just be sitting and staring... and in a few days if no shifting.... then start with basic suicide talk... arrange phone convo with a friend..... let your parents overhear parts of the convo like .....what'sthe point of living if you can't be happy?....and later on.... don't worry...you don't understand... I can't continue like this... when I do what I am planning to do... you will understand.... but that will be too late.

No parent wants to lose their child to suicide... especially when they know they would be the ones responsible. That fear will make them really reconsider their position... and challenge the practice. Don't ever go down without putting up a fight....no fight no change.
After all.... you may get the blessings from your parents... period.... and it would have to be top secret.

AwkaetitiBabe:
This has nothing to do with his belief though. Many forces will b against that union.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Sorry old tradition wanna deal a heavy blow to your happiness. You simply gotta let go unless you man enough to brave the consequences should you decide to go along with everything.

You both can choose to elope. Issa common something in India. If u can't, better cut off from her cos any kids she bears you will be termed Osu.

Blackivy29:
i like you but he's typing the truth. Dear take charge of your life. What the west teaches is, "do what makes you happy". Majority of there rites we have to undergo are terrible. If we had the choice they wouldnt exist. Bride price paying, this out cast stuff. Our ancestors put this laws in place. With development, we've come to realize how unimportant they are.


her great, great, great, great grand parents were slaves, fine but that doesnt make her one. Shes a free woman with as much rights as you. Why judge her for sins that aint hers. Thats local. Embrace developement.

Christopherrrr:
It's quite unfortunate my community still takes cognizance of it.

PapaBaby:
Even Tinubu's newspapers got in on the act. But you won't see it. Check out this headline a couple of days ago. See image below.

Anyway from starboy to house boy.
PDP dey learn work from APC. No one is left in the corruption, not even Pastor Osibanjo of RCCG.

Kapeter:
no mind am. Make he go ondo go form some warri levels for the wrong place. Na body go tell am. Even me wey i be from ondo self, i no dey do anyhow with ondo people. Anywhere you come from, once you be ondo just forget am, i no go ever try am.

Kapeter:
There are some places you don't joke with in ondo state sha. Infact almost everywhere. Go to akoko(most especially arigidi and irun), witchcraft. Go to ikale, ayelala. Go to idanre, they will speak it into your life and immediately it's working, ondo/ile-oluji will hit you with ring.

Don't dare Ondo people.

PureFace1:
You are a Fulani man

I know you in this forum, you are a Fulani defender in this forum

Kapeter:
ok i hear you. Go arigidi or irun and go do anyhow, you go know wether na today yansh dey back or not. Or go break any ikale/ilaje girl heart and see if your stomach no go swell. Body go tell you.

Elton01:
the gods of Ondo are wise...more to come

xnsandrxns:
I don't need to know him in person to know you two are drinking from the same mud

xnsandrxns:
Now you are sad Nigeria is finally getting a way out of this mess.
You all are bad news addict
Because you hate Buhari, you wish your country bad
No wonder your life is as it is

Nwodosis:
Deep down inside her, she will be regretting for not given the man her number! She will be crying for missing an ATM personified!

bellotaofeek:
Shillings is even heavier than naira ?!

Sonofthunder9:
So even shillings pass naira too

JONNYSPUTE:
..lol. The first time I no run sha but the second time,o boy na bailing o.

JONNYSPUTE:
..lol. If na you,wetin you go do?

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Wetin I wan pray? Abi nah to bless the dick or kpekus?.

JONNYSPUTE:
. I no dey join her for the prayer bros.

JONNYSPUTE:
Hmmm. I once dated a lady who always insisted that we have to pray before strafing.The first time she did it,I no mind but later on,I couldn't take it anymore.

Sannisege:
Why do Easterners like killing themselves just for the sake of money. Later they will blame herdsmen.

ikorodureporta:
so fg no fit go carry all of dem @ once? as if dem no go pay air peace later

gypsey:
I asked you a simple question, did you witness it? You Avoided that question carefully.



I lived with A chinese family for Nearly 3 years they ate snake always, i don't remember them ending up with swollen whit lip.

Again, if truely your guy ate a snake and ended up with a white lip, can you confirm that it was as a result of consuming a snake? Even in Nigeria, some people have eaten snakes and they are fine.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Yes. He's a long lost frd.

gypsey:
Yea Right! Did you witness him eat the snake? Chinese people eat snake All the time with no problems.


Even if your guy ate snake and ended up with a white lip, perpharps he didn't cook it properly.

AwkaetitiBabe:
M pesa and Okija? Could b coincidence Sha.

AwkaetitiBabe:
For real? That's crazy.