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maasoap:
Many parents in Nigeria can't provide for their children at the moment but they're not killing them for eating the last meal in the house.

the above in bold are sane people, while the father in this story is an ignoramus driven by poverty and madness... thus why i wrote in my 1st statement that ignoramus shouldnt have children. if he thinks that its ok to kill his hungry child because he/she ate the last portion of food, then something is seriously wrong with that person's sanity....

maasoap:
Your first two points were off! Third is fair because to me, that man is mentally unstable

yes, a mentally unstable person who has children and who cant provide for them.

if you'd raised your daughter right and instill in her the proper values of life, you wouldnt be here asking for yeye advices.
if your daughter wants to marry such yeye person thenthere is ABSOLUTELY NOTHING you can do about it....and just marry her off and wash your hands for her matter.

OYA, one bullet to the back of the head, no questions asked!

whatever he is smoking, must be WAY TOO STRONG for him.... abeg, give it up!

all these SIMPS sef!!! he got exactly what he deserved so that he can finally get some sense...

lets ALL wait for the 1st race of the season before making any predictions....we saw nothing valid during last week test to suggest anything. we will all be set during next saturday's race.

as much as you are right on some points, many of your points make absolutely NO goddamn sense!!!

EconomistXplain:
...this is the most common question among ladies in self denial...because i strongly believe ladies know and are just lying they don't..

many women simply cant read the signs a man is sending because MEN and WOMEN communicate differently.

1. He doesn't buy you gift without your asking

first of all, not all men have the means to buy gifts and therefore would rather show women that they care for them, rather than buying gifts. if you believe that you can only show love by buying gifts, then you are clueless about the world. but most importantly, many people out there are DEAD BROKE, yet that doesnt mean that they cannot love someone wholeheartedly. is it?

2. Hr calls scantily

are you saying that if you see each other everyday, a man should still call his woman for no goddamn reason whatsoever?!?!?!?!? to tell her what exactly?! are you saying that there are some things that a man should tell a woman, that cannot wait until he gets back home at night (to tell her to her face)?

4. He visits you only at night and usually with a face cap.
5. He likes to leave your apartment very early in the morning whenever he sleeps over

you do know that some men have a JOB and therefore are too busy "working" during the day, than to visit their woman at home (or stay all day in bed), right? ...and this has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with love!

6. He hardly discuss about your job especially he doesnt initiate the asking and even if he raises the topic relating to your job activity he is ok with your reply of "fine"

thats because generally, we men dont care about her job because we all know that a simple question like "how was your day?", can end up being a 2hrs monologue of her talking about what so and so did at work and/or how this other person ate garri for lunch bla bla bla.
most men would rather talk about anything else than ask a woman about her day (because we all know there is always some "women drama" happening in her life).... and this has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with love!

7. He takes you out but like to b in the car while you step out to shop, most times

i love my woman, but i cant shop with her because we men shop differently than women. when i go shopping, i know what i want, i know where it is and its a straight line to go and get it, while a woman can spend the whole day shopping with no aim in mind, just window shopping for something that she dreamed of (that she probably already has in abundance)! if you see a man tagging along a woman shopping, he is probably only there to make sure she doesnt waste his money away, but if its her own money she is spending, then why would a man want to waste his whole day following a woman around shopping? i can find a million better things to do with my life... and this has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with love!

8. When u guys go for outting, he doesn't walk in a horizon line set up with u, he usually walks with u in the vertical set up

oh lawd!!!! sometimes you walk horizontally and some times vertically, no big deal here....and this has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with love!

10. He is too protective about his phones and also says he doesnt care if u akso guide urs like its gold

as much as many women believe that men are guarding their phone because of other women, there is much more private things in their phone that their women shouldnt see. sensitive work material (aka lawyers/doctors) that it would be illegal for anyone else to see. what about if he is trying to get her a surprise? what if it is a personal family matter that doesnt concern her? so if my brotha calls me and tells me his personal/private family issues, i should let wifey see it for what reason exactly?! there are many things that can be private in a person's phone and there is nothing wrong with it.....and this has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with love!

frankyychiji:
Their bastard family? There was no need for you to be uncouth?

as their bastard family are all in on it, i dont discriminate when it comes to these satanic people... or you think that the child that was suppose to receive this church is innocent?!

LOOK WHAT POVERTY AND MADNESS HAS CAUSED!!!

A) thats what happens when ignoramus start having children
B) thats what happens when you have children but cant fend for them
C) abortion (of the father) would have been a better choice!

all these yeye women trying to emasculate these men SIMPS... but then again, if that man hasnt found a job in a whole 10yrs then something is seriously wrong with him (but still doesnt warrant the sexual starvation)

wifey should fukc this man well well so that he can wake up in the morning fresh and fit to go look for better employment, instead of having him waking up all stressed out with sex on his mind.

their gateman or driver have be doing double duties (extra bedroom duties with madam) for so long, wifey dont care any longer about the husband... oh well!

BTW there is many health implications, the biggest one being FINDING A YOUNGER/SEXIER SIDE CHIC TO QUENCH YOUR KONJI!!!!

some women need our attention BY FIRE OR BY FORCE, so in order to compete with naturally endowed women, some are ready to do anything to get that attention from men....

the sad thing is that, the minute these women get plastic surgery, they need to showcase their new sexy bodies and unfortunately/fortunately they start dressing like sluts, thus more men come their way and start sampling them left right center. these babes love the new attention they get, but forget that within a short period of time, when all the big boys and ogas at the top have sampled them, they are discarded as spoiled milk. in no time, they become evening newspaper with a slut reputation, and whether they look good or not, nobody will ever settle to marry them (too many skeletons in their closet). good to fukc but definitely not good to marry.

as for some of the deformed baby hippo looking women with BBL, i really feel sorry for them. BTW have you ever seen a babe with BBL naked, sitting on a bed? DISGUSTING SIGHT!

to each their own miserable life!

Drjones109:
If you discover that your partner lied to you, manipulated you, made a fool out of you, or tried to cover up the affair, ending the relationship might seem like the obvious answer. But what if your partner is usually reliable?

are you saying that because a partner is reliable, we should forgive their disrespectful/deceitful/untrustworthy act of betrayal?!?!

What if they regret cheating and promise to be faithful? What if you're convinced that the two of you do love one another?

cheating people only regret their act BECAUSE THEY GOT CAUGHT... if they werent, they would still be cheating. the words/promises of a cheating partner are worthless.

Only you can decide if you should stay or leave if your partner has cheated on you. Cheating doesn't have to mean the end of the relationship, particularly if it was truly a one-time thing and your partner is genuinely regretful and remorseful.

how do you know it will ever be a one time thing? if they could disrespect the r/ship once, they can do it again and again and again.... btw, majprity of cheating people are regretful/remorseful simply because they got caught.

Ask yourself important questions about what it means for your relationship

what it means for your r/ship is that your partner had no RESPECT/LOYALTY/CARE towards you nor your r/ship.

Does your partner understand the hurt they caused?

they dont care about it, thats why they gladly cheated.

Does your partner recognize the cheating as a problem?

even a 10yr old knows that cheating is wrong in a r/ship.

Has your partner accepted responsibility for being unfaithful?

whether he accept it or not is irrelevant to the problem at hand.... only one person is responsible for cheating, and thats the CHEATING PARTNER.

Regardless of the reasons for the infidelity, will your partner accept that changes are needed in their behavior?

lol, their disloyal cheating behavior is the only problem in that union...

Has your partner apologized?

saying "i am sorry" while not meaning it, is worthless. many cheating partner out there who have tasted the forbidden fruit, can NEVER be rehabilitated.

lacapine:
Please house help me. My sister has been in a relationship with a guy for the past 10 years and the relationship is sexual. The boy is 37 while she is 34. The boy keeps claiming he doesn't have money to marry her, my sister will say why am I pushing marriage,will I give them money to sustain the home? I have called the guy and asked him questions and he said if I have 100k, I should give him, so they can marry. Abeg how do I handle this issue?
My sister works but she is always broke. The guy is an artist who does art work but sales is poor. Not that I ever knew when sales was good.

keep your money, as 100k is never gonna solve this problem, you will just lose your money!

here is a simple clue: for 10 long years this man has been mounting your sista scott free, and subsequently this is solely a sexual r/ship. the day he finds what he is truly looking for in a woman, he will do the needful (but that woman definitely aint your sista). this man has NOTHING to prove to your sister/you or anyone out there. what is "getting married" gonna change to their lives?! is 100k gonna miraculously turn that sexual r/ship into a "lets get married and spend the rest of our lives together" type of r/ship?! better yet, your sista is always broke, that man is always broke too, and you think that giving them 100k to WASTE on some yeye wedding is the solution to their problem?

as the saying goes:"why buy the cow when this dude's been getting the milk for free FOR 10 LONG YEARS?

How should I handle it?

your sister doesnt seem to mind, so why should you?! let them live the life they deserve for themselves, as they have more important issues to solve in their lives than "wedding"

Immatex:
These things only work this way in Nigeria/Africa.

true, and this question was posted on NL isnt it?

BTW, what happens in the west is a completely different ball game....
- women thinking they are men;
- women thinking they dont need men;
- when getting older, these same women going to Gambia/Jamaica to pay for sex to be with younger men etc
- women wanting equal treatment in the workforce yet they never want to have equal number of women in the military NOR equal number of female plumbers or female firefighters lol;
- women challenging men's authority but then again, not minding having their whole womanhood belittled/challenged by trans women (aka MEN in skirts)
- and the list goes on...

Elidrisy20:
The other one don already carry belle

- sidechic don carry belle and is not aborting (see her smiling sef),
- GF dont want to leave her rich BF during these difficult economic times.
SOLUTION: bobo forced to marry both of them, let the war begin...side chic 1- 0 girlfriend (BF red card)

these "desperate to marry" people will never know peace!

SavageResponse:
This is good, such marriages should be encouraged so that we can reduce the number of unmarried ladies

sadly, majority of these women are unmarried because they are useless/worthless/liability to a man, not because of lack of suitors!

omochelsea004:
Hi... I want to ask, what perfume / body spray & roll on can you guys recommend for me to smell nice (abeg not too expensive brand though) I mean affordable ones, presently I use cool river (perfume), & Nivea dry impact (roll on) please mention along with the current price, thanks

they ALL smell nice, it just depends on what "you" prefer...

religion today is a BUSINESS...and they are all in it to ENRICH THEIR OWN SATANIC SELVES AND THEIR BASTARD FAMILY!!!! how dare they want to take away this couple's cash cow?!

all these fake post to trend at any yeye cost.... so how do you think that same BF will react when he sees her post?

OPEN YOUR MIND AND BLAME THE RIGHT CULPRIT HERE....aka the fool who sent 100MTN card to fine babe (aka total stranger) but if it was a brotha asking, you wouldnt send shiit. they just used your kryptonite.

why are you even surprised that "she" blocked you?! you thought that after sending her the recharge card, she will start chit-chat with you as if you guys were friends or something?!

BTW how is it a scam if they begged you for free recharge card and you send it to them?!

some naturally dont; some lie that they lost their virginity during gym classes in school; and some are just lying about it all as they've been fukced left right and center.

BTW as to all the ones who will tell you their virgin rape stories (some are true, others are fabrication to hide their wh0ring nature(

yeye masquerade!

Kaycee2000:
“Why musicians dey collect people babes” – moment Blaqbonez brings female fan on stage to dance 2024

why shouldnt they?! the REAL problem are HEdiot/simps who are fooling themselves dating these 2$ oloshoes, pretending that these animals are their GFs, while its just your turn (until she finds someone better)

again, the rules are very simple: "no matter how good looking sexy that animal is, you chop your own, then bring her right back where you found her so other brothas can sample her too!"
the minute you try to play bf/gf (and want to selfishly keep that community toto just for yourself), thats when you've failed in life!

yeye woman... as much as sexual satisfaction is very important in marriage, there is SO MUCH MORE important points that are equally important as sex (in marriage).

- so because the sex is good, would you advise women to marry ABUSIVE men?
- so because the sex is good, would you advise women to marry DECEITFUL men?
- so because the sex is good, would you advise women to marry DISRESPECTFUL men?
- so because the sex is good, would you advise women to marry UNTRUSTWORTHY men?
- so because the sex is good, would you advise women to marry men WITH NO FAMILY VALUE?

essentialone:
The high increase of Gay and Lesbianism in Nigeria: What are the Causes and Effects?

who cares?! why should we care how/when/why these deranged people are doing what they are doing? same as we shouldnt care how/when/why evil people do rituals and/or why pedos are attracted to children! the important point is that homosexual acts are a crime in Nigeria so if you see one of them doing such act, REPORT THEM TO THE POLICE and let the police deal with it!!!!

but here is a more important clue: if a brotha is so deranged and wants to mount another brotha's nyansh, then wetin concern me with these people's life? straight women wouldnt want them and straight men dont want lesbians either! to each their own miserable life!