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PastorOlokonla:
Brother Brownjay, its not like that, God can even bless you when you help me. Remember It is more blessed to give than to receive and the Lord loveth a cheerful giver.

PastorOlokonla:
Sir, I am on my knees praying but I believe my God can use you to bless me.

PastorOlokonla:
Dear Nairalander,

I am so sorry for bothering but I need urgent help. Just N2k to take korope bus to work tommorow.

This afternoon, I had only 24k in my account and I was visiting a friend in the VI when I saw this Asian Vietnamese restaurant "The Saigon",
I honestly have a weakness for vietnamese food so I decided to go inside and eat something.
After eating, they brought the bill and I fainted, the total bill came to a total of N24,000.
Can you imagine, these people are reaping us of in our own country and not acceptable at all.

Now the problem is I need an urgent 2k to make up my transport fare from Ikorodu to VI where I work.

Please, help me so I don't lose my job as I have a wife and 6 children to feed and if I miss work I will be fired.

Sir/Ma, If God lay it in your heart, I will send you my account for 2k and my God will richly bless you. Sorry If i abused you before on NL.

Remember, the Lord Loveth a cheerful giver.

Below was the food that got me into trouble.

GeneralKoko:
I had sex with someone at exactly 7 of February. Her period was supposed to come by February 14 but she missed it and by 24 February she had started having symptoms of pregnancy. Is it possible that I'm responsible??

Please I need urgent answers.
Lalasticlala Mynd44 Roctation Farano
Please front page.

AngelicBeing:
Hian, you have started again oo, my hand no dey ooo, l will call Tinubu tomorrow morning to arrest and detain you for 700 years in Abuja without Bail

Krankhead:
You never say anything good about your country

naija4life247:
To whom brain is given, sense is expected

Seun:
When I started Nairaland, I operated it all by myself, but by 2007 I was overwhelmed. Mukina2 swooped in and volunteered to be a super-moderator. She also helped me to recruit section moderators. This enabled us to move forward. Initially, she worked for free, but over time she became a paid supermod. One of the best.

Last month, I gave her a particular instruction which is the most basic instruction you can give a moderator. Clean up ALL the sections you've been assigned to and report to me after EACH one. She steadfastly refused until the month end. She felt that she was doing her job and there was therefore no need for me to tell her what to do.

I insisted that she must choose between resigning and following this particular instruction. She eventually chose to resign, saying "let's go our separate ways". We will miss her a lot. I will miss her a lot. I wish her the best in all her future endeavours. She will do great. She may return if she changes her mind, but the show must go on.

coputa:
1. The less you share, the less people will be in your personal life... as much as not everyone should be in your personal life, your close friend/family should be in your personal life, unless you wanna end up a sad loner

2. You'll slowly stop caring about people's opinion on you. as much as the opinion of total strangers is irrelevant to you, the opinion of your close friends/family/loved ones should matter

3. You won't have to seek validation to do what feels right for you. making someone aware of what you are about to do is also a security feature in your life, so people know what you are about to do and where you are about to go, regardless of how they feel about it.

4. If everyone is your friend, you've a problem. You can't trust anyone with personal information. in life, you have to trust SOMEONE with your personal information. like your close family members and close friends etc

5. You'll attract peace into your life. You'll experience less drama, toxic energy and more time alone.some sad loners need to be by themselves and live a lonely life, while others dont. to each their own misery in life

6. The real flex is being private, staying low-key and telling no one about your life. with some business moves, yes! with more simple things in life, why exactly? if you believe that everyone is your enemy then you have a very sorry life.

7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths alone to achieve your personal goals. as they say: if you wanna go quicker then by all means go alone, but if you wanna go longer, surround yourself with caring/loving/positive people in your life

8. Privacy teaches you independence and how to connect with people on a deeper level. YES, and when you finally connect to the right amazing person then get with them and share an amazing fantastic life with them...and if/when its over, do it again with another amazing fantastic person. life is to be lived with someone and share together amazing time, but also to have someone with whom you can open up emotionally and let them know when you are down so they can cheer/lift you up etc

9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to be alone and not feel lonely.the idea is not to NEVER be alone, the idea is to live a fantastic life and create fantastic memories with someone, regardless of whether they will leave or not.

10. When you build in silence, people won't know what to attack.not everyone in your life is there to "attack" you. some are there to uplift you, others to support you, and some even to care/love you regardless of how you feel about them

11. People will want to know more about you when you talk less about yourself. thats what normally happens when you start to be all quiet/mysterious for no damn reason

12. People don't care so much about you. They only care on what you can offer. LIES coming from loners who have difficulties interacting with people OR trying to impress the wrong people. the right people DO care about you. if not a single person cares about you then you have a sorry life and should probably look within yourself to figure out what is so foul about you that nobody gives a damn about your being

Dtruthspeaker:
Does behaviour not affect finance?

Mranonymous50:
I love both women. I will not be the one to initiate the breakup. Your are attacking me for no reason. I am Seeking constructive input. It's ok, I know there will be people like you.

MrBrownJay1:
HERE IS WHAT I THINK YOU SHOULD DO: stop having sex with your married ex until she divorce her husband, dump your GF, then marry your divorced ex... and then when your new marriage turns to shiit because you were driven by flimsy emotional BS, find another woman to use as a scapegoat to feel good about yourself, and do the above again and again for the rest of your life.

Meektunz:
So we just got divorced with my wife yesterday after being married for 7years with 3 children.

Please how can one handle the life after divorce such as what neighbors will be saying (gossip), children involed & the depression.

Your inputs will go a long way to help me. Thank you.

The thing is, the first day she packed some of her stuufs from my house to her parents house, nobody called me from her house to ask what the problem is, then yesterday she packed the rest and left with the 3 children and still nobody has called me in her house to know what happened. I'm sure they are all thinking I'll come and beg after w or 3 days.

NEWBIN:
So u think my brother has lost the case?

Mranonymous50:
Appreciate your input.
Maybe I didn't make myself very clear or you rushed through the story. I've never cheated on my fiance all the while we were together, I am not that kind of man. You should realize that 2 years of relationship definitely brings with it so many obstacles, both of us are matured and have so far resolved many issues together. You should realize that me and my fiance are currently not seeing each other and have not spoken for over a month 14th of this month will make it 2 months since we last spoke. Since we had the disagreement I have been the one to call on 2 separate occasions trying to make peace, it's not as if I was even the one at fault here but I know she is proud and will rarely accept her fault rather she will give you signs that she knows she's at fault and sorry but you will have to be the one to play the fool and approach her. Last time I tried to initiate a reconcilation on valentine's day, she said she needed time and that I was disturbing her. Mind you this woman is very beautiful. I just feel the money isn't coming as it used to for her so she's like not happy with the way things are. You expect me to continue to wait for someone that have not even bothered to call after over a month, I might play the fool most times but I ain't no fool. The way I see it, she let my former lover back in to my life by her actions.

There is a lot behind the story of my former which I can't go into here. What I wrote is like just a summary. But she is not evil.
it's easy to point fingers at others but even you sir ain't no saint but I truIy appreciate your advice.

NEWBIN:
Even when they stated on the dismissal letter that you have been fired for sexual harrasment?

NEWBIN:
But reason for dismissal is not probation

NEWBIN:
Why are they not proving the alleged sexual harrasment

Nicenancy:
When I was 13, a man defiled me
Can I sue him now and win damages?

Thanks