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Foreign Affairs / Re: First-Person-View Of Afghans Clinging To Kabul Plane As It Takes Off by mrgbenga1: 5:40pm On Aug 17, 2021
It is well.
Romance / Re: Why Do Guys Want To 'do' Before They Say 'I Do'? by mrgbenga1: 10:24pm On Aug 16, 2021
Don't you taste garri before you buy it?

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Religion / Re: Who Is The Head Of A Christian Home? Christ Or The Husband? by mrgbenga1: 11:22am On Aug 15, 2021
The husband is the physical head while Christ is the spiritual head.
Education / Re: UNILAG PG Master Admission 2021/2022 - Make All Your Enquiries Here Apply Now by mrgbenga1: 5:41pm On Aug 09, 2021
I have B.Sc. (Ed) Computer Science (2.1) and I would like to confirm if it is possible for me to do M.Sc. in Computer Science.
Education / Re: 2021/2022 Unilag Postgraduate Admission Guide: Questions & Answers by mrgbenga1: 5:36pm On Aug 09, 2021
I have B.Sc. (Ed) Computer Science (2.1) and I would like to confirm if it is possible for me to do M.Sc. in Computer Science.

Also, I think applicants with original certificates do not need to send transcripts.
Education / Re: Unilag Postgraduate Information Thread 2021/2022 Session by mrgbenga1: 2:05pm On Aug 08, 2021
I have B.Sc. (Ed) Computer Science (2.1) and I would like to confirm if it is possible for me to do M.Sc. in Computer Science.

Also, I think applicants with original certificates do not need to send transcripts.
Education / Re: 2020/2021 Unilag Postgraduate Admission Guide: Questions & Answers by mrgbenga1: 1:54pm On Aug 08, 2021
I have B.Sc. (Ed) Computer Science (2.1) and I would like to confirm if it is possible for me to do M.Sc. in Computer Science.

Also, I think applicants with original certificates do not need to send transcripts.
Crime / Re: Indian Hemp Packaged Into Knorr Seasoning Cubes To Be Delivered Abroad (video) by mrgbenga1: 2:03pm On Aug 02, 2021
It is well.
Career / Re: Bsc In Computer Science, Is It Still A Lucrative Degree? by mrgbenga1: 9:16pm On Jul 26, 2021
Highly lucrative if you are well grounded in programming

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Business / Re: How To Sue A Bank by mrgbenga1: 6:12pm On Jul 14, 2021
What about a transaction that wasn't successful as at the time of the transaction but after four months. The bank deducted the money and claimed the transaction was successful.
Romance / What Else Can You Offer After Sex by mrgbenga1: 7:00am On Jul 04, 2021
What Else Can You Offer After Sex?
(A Must Read For All Ladies)

Have you ever imagined why a man would today be all over you when you've not given him sex, but tomorrow after the sex, you'd be the one chasing after him?

If you haven't thought about that, think about this: why is it that a man no longer has many feelings or his 'love' for a lady disappears after sex?

The reason isn't farfetched. I've found the following points to be the answer.

Some men see some women as sex objects because, from their perception, all that those women can offer is sex, nothing more afterward. This is why some would rather have a baby mama it a girlfriend than to have a wife.

Bear this mind, the major purpose why most men are after women is for sex, not love. When a man lusts after you for sex, he'd do everything humanly possible to get it. And when you "mistakenly" satisfy his desire for fun or sexual pleasure, he'd no longer be interested in you.

Any man that keeps having sex with you has only made you his object of sexual pleasure and when he's done with you, he leaves and moves on while you're still busy craving for his commitment or engagement ring.

Hear this, when a person's intention for getting a thing has been met, his interest or desire would obey the laws of diminishing returns. The same happens to most men when it comes to women and sex.

Second, the lust for sex by an average, natural or carnal man is great. Most men lose control when they're under the influence of sexual urges (konji). But after you give him sex, he'd regain his senses to discover that he needs more than sex.

Sex is what most men want from women, but their needs from women are way beyond sex. If you think giving a man sex would make him stick with you or become yours, you're living in a fool's paradise. Wake up! Don't ever think that kind of mindset would make a man committed to you after sex.

You must have heard that a woman must keep a man, and many of you think it's through sex, well done; or that it's not a man's duty to keep a woman because it's men's world and they're polygamous in nature. That's hogwash.

A man who wants to be kept (stay committed and faithful to you) would keep himself without your input because he has made up his mind to do so. But it's an effort in futility to try and keep a man, especially when he has gone down there, and has not made up his mind to keep himself.

More specifically, some people believe that a man must attain a woman, but the woman must retain the man after sex. This is why some men conclude that they do you a favor by marrying you. But the truth is you do each other good by marrying each other because there's what a man can't do without his wife, and vis-a-vis. Our completeness is interwoven in our dependability.

Now, please pay attention to this. If you'd be a lady or a wife that a man would stick with after sex, or you want to offer him something great beyond sex, you need to do this: BE EXCEPTIONAL, BE DIFFICULT TO BE REPLACED OR INDISPENSABLE IN HIS LIFE. Please read that again and muse over it.

The exceptionality or indispensability of a lady (or woman) is not in the size of her breast, the curvature, and protrusion of her buttocks, or the irresistibility and flawlessness of her beauty; it's in something deeper than that.

To become an indispensable woman in the life of a man beyond sex, add value to his life. Biblically, be a virtuous woman (lady, or wife). The gap between a good wife and a girlfriend is as wide as the gap between life and death.

Be an asset to a man and not a liability.

Giving him sex before marriage, cohabiting with him, doesn't make you an asset, doing so only shows that you've got no value and dignity.

You're an asset when you spur him to greatness, but a liability when you depend on him for your sustenance. Don't think a man would make you his wife if your demand from him is greater than your supply in his life, not in monetary or material terms.

What good has your coming into his life done to him since the day he met you, and vice versa?

When you're an asset to a man, his interest in you, beyond sex increases. But when you're a liability to his life and destiny, or the only thing he can get from you is sex, he'd get the sex, and after then, moves on.

Women can control men's access to them for sex, and also, men can't be influenced to commitment or marriage if they do not see anything special about you. If you like give him good food, crazy sex styles and all that, 'kole werk'.

Many ladies out there cry that all that most men want is sex. That's true! What can you offer without or beyond sex? And if you put the cart before the horse, you alone would bear the brunt.

If you do not give them what they want, they'd be forced to douse their erection or calm their sensual desires. But men know that if you refuse, they can get sex elsewhere. And many of you think if a man walks away from your life because you refuse to have sex with him, your life becomes dull, disadvantaged, and deficient. That's a great delusion!

If all women could zip up, they won't be crying that men are after sex because there would be no lady out there to give them what they want; but this is impossible until ladies wake up and be indoctrinated with the right philosophy.

I'm sure you know that some married men lose interest in their wives after sex, but why do some stick to their wives?

See, it takes two to tango. Most married men stick to their wives because they were mutually indispensable, committed, adding value, and irreplaceable.

My dear ladies reading this, don't make your selling point your beauty or those mundane things most of you esteem. Be a woman whose price is far above rubies (sex, sharwama, barbecue, material on monetary gifts).

Beyond having a good character, add value to a man that without you, he'd feel like something great is missing in his life, and make sure you're that kind of woman, lady, wife, or mother.

Remember, sex doesn't influence a man to cleave with you, but your enviable character, indispensability, and irreplaceability do the job perfectly without you having to open your bra and pants.

© Oluwamayowa Adeniyi 2021
Celebrities / Re: Peter Okoye Receives Honorary Doctorate Degree From Escae-Benin University (Pix) by mrgbenga1: 2:32pm On Jun 26, 2021
Congrats. I wish you more contribution to entertainment industry.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Is The Npower Batch C Biometric Verification Really Ending Tomorrow? by mrgbenga1: 5:12pm On Jun 05, 2021
Send a mail to them.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Any Npower Applicant Shortlisted For N-creative? by mrgbenga1: 7:41pm On Jun 01, 2021
Shortlisting is by grace and not by what you scored.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: A Typist Needed For A Weekly Basis Small Gig by mrgbenga1: 5:00pm On Jun 01, 2021
Interested
Education / Re: WOW! These Are The Mostly Deadly & Expensive Construction Mistakes In The World by mrgbenga1: 4:38pm On May 29, 2021
Truly, nobody above mistakes.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Please Is This Job Interview Genuine, I Just Got It Now by mrgbenga1: 9:14pm On May 28, 2021
Job interview is now the latest scam trending.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: See The Fake Job Invite My Mum Got by mrgbenga1: 9:13pm On May 28, 2021
This phone still dey. In those days, when Nokia rocks the market.

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Agriculture / Re: An Overview Of Ekiti State's Ikun Dairy Farm by mrgbenga1: 4:46am On May 27, 2021
Good job to Ekiti State Govt and Promasidor Group

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Food / Re: This Big Bush Meat Could Worth More Than #20,000 by mrgbenga1: 9:09pm On May 26, 2021
Food is ready.
Business / Re: Eleme Petrochemicals Gives First Bank 48-Hour Court Notice by mrgbenga1: 7:32am On May 25, 2021
Nigerian banks need to be professional.
Religion / Re: Has Life Circumstances Made You Complain Bitterly Against God? by mrgbenga1: 9:34am On May 23, 2021
Everything happens for a reason.

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Travel / Re: New Drone That Allows Humans Fly Launched (Photos, Video) by mrgbenga1: 8:42pm On May 22, 2021
Technology at its peak.

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Politics / Re: Nigerian Airforce Confirms Plane Crash Near Kaduna International Airport by mrgbenga1: 8:50pm On May 21, 2021
Outdated aircraft
Family / Re: Single Working Class Lady... And Searching by mrgbenga1: 1:01pm On May 14, 2021
What is your religion view?
Romance / Re: Guys: Stop Dating Mentally Broke Girls by mrgbenga1: 11:24am On May 13, 2021
Naija girl and money are like 5&6.
Career / Re: Realities Of Retirement. by mrgbenga1: 10:41pm On May 08, 2021
Retirement is good when you plan ahead for it.

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Family / Re: Why Are Guys Not Getting Married? by mrgbenga1: 5:39pm On May 05, 2021
There is nothing in marriage except responsibilities. Money is required to take care of the responsibilities. And the money is a scarce resources. What should son of man do?
Family / Re: Bill And Melinda Gates Announce They Are Getting Divorced by mrgbenga1: 3:40pm On May 04, 2021
Divorce!!! Nothing lasts forever. Nobody reigns forever.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Salary Of A Staff In An Audit Firm by mrgbenga1: 9:32pm On Apr 29, 2021
Your soft skills will determine your salary.

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