Family › Re: What Were Your Concerns Before Marriage And How Did It Turn Out After Marriage? by mrjojo: 1:37pm On Mar 14, 2019 |
EngrBriggs: I am in this same situation as you. I am currently dating a lady who is a graduate and will be 25 years this year. She is loving, caring, industrous and very generous. She is well accepted by my family even though she is from a totally different tribe.
I had planned settling down with her, until I began to realise;
1. My physical attraction to her was waning by the day. She is fast losing her good physique to belly fat and this is really putting me off.
2. She has suddenly become rebellious and will not accept her faults 50% of the time. When I notice something she does wrong and draws her attention to it, she will give excuses and rant about how excessively demanding I am.
3. My mum has never treated her badly. But on one ocassion, my mum extended her anger to her after a disagreement I had with my mum. This lady took it personal and even threatened to stop calling mum. All these because of just one incidence in about a year.
4. Despite coming to my house almost all the time, this lady has never cooked for me. I dont know if she is a good cook or not, although she cooks in her house.
5. She takes offence too quickly. Any little or prolonged joke and she loses her cool. In contrast, I am a very playful person and I cant cope with too much seriousness.
6. Finally, the cultural difference which wouldnt have been much of a big deal except for the fact that she is not so willing to adjust to changes and take simple corrections on how things are been done in my culture.
Weighing her good side and not-too-good side, I became confused. I dont want to settle down with a disrespectful, rebellious woman even if she is the nicest and most generous person in the world.
I can cope with most of her wrong-doings cos I noticed when the chips are down, she is soft-hearted. However, I find myself always thinking, why not be a bit patient, you'll meet someone who will complement and understand you better.
I really do not want stress after marriage and even if there will be, it shouldnt be from things I have noticed and could have avoided before marriage. almost exactly same ish as me. LIFE.. hmm |
Business › Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals➜ ➜ ➜ by mrjojo: 7:46am On Mar 01, 2019*. Modified: 9:06am On Mar 01, 2019 |
100$ btc available @355. Blockchain.
sold |
Business › Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals➜ ➜ ➜ by mrjojo: 12:30pm On Feb 20, 2019 |
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Business › Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals➜ ➜ ➜ by mrjojo: 8:31am On Feb 20, 2019 |
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Technology Market › Re: USA Used HP Folio 9470m With Keyboard Light For Sale. by mrjojo: 11:44am On Feb 18, 2019 |
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Business › Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals➜ ➜ ➜ by mrjojo: 7:27am On Feb 18, 2019*. Modified: 8:01am On Feb 18, 2019 |
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Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by mrjojo: 11:45pm On Feb 17, 2019 |
kiekie1: Note:I don't skip questions here as an old Nairalander seeing the thread topic , you can search so many of my past dealings / transactions on solar forums ! I noted where you mentioned friend calling me in past like so many do call and he must have gotten an idea of our online modus operandi just like those on Xiaomi phone thread , if not suitable to him based on personal reason , we also have flexible transacting options! I have clients who do installments , who pay bulk , who pay in part percentage before delivery and balance after delivery . We also have few with trust issues after reading online remarks, we deliver items to freely ! I am not supposed to post pictures of numerous transactions or type long just to prove a point Sir.. I posted and reposted mobile contact when you said you couldn't reach me via "whatsapp", so we don't derail the thread with lengthy explanation ... Thanks Sir ! oga it simple question, Do you have a physical office or offer pay on delivery, Yes or No.!!I quoted because I'm interested too. No need for long story, yes or no will be enough |
Technology Market › Re: Hp Folio Corei5 16gb 500gb NEW STOCK by mrjojo: 1:50am On Feb 16, 2019 |
MrAnoTi: Around 6 hours 90k for the 16gb 256gb ssd- 105K, where is your location |
Technology Market › Re: Professor On Any Type Of Generator. by mrjojo: 12:14am On Feb 16, 2019 |
So I bought the tec junior max last week at their ibadan showroom, for 59,250. So far so good, it perfect. |
Technology Market › Re: Hp Folio Corei5 16gb 500gb NEW STOCK by mrjojo: 7:39pm On Feb 15, 2019 |
What is battery life, 14inches correct? |
Technology Market › Re: Hp Spectre Core I7 6th Gen 8gb 256gb Ssd by mrjojo: 5:37am On Feb 15, 2019 |
100k serious buyer |
Business › Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals➜ ➜ ➜ by mrjojo: 11:59am On Feb 11, 2019*. Modified: 1:26pm On Feb 11, 2019 |
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Business › Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals➜ ➜ ➜ by mrjojo: 10:07am On Feb 11, 2019 |
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Business › Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals➜ ➜ ➜ by mrjojo: 2:28pm On Feb 08, 2019*. Modified: 3:01pm On Feb 08, 2019 |
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Business › Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals➜ ➜ ➜ by mrjojo: 9:35am On Feb 07, 2019*. Modified: 10:21am On Feb 07, 2019 |
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Business › Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals➜ ➜ ➜ by mrjojo: 7:06am On Feb 04, 2019*. Modified: 7:30am On Feb 04, 2019 |
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Business › Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals➜ ➜ ➜ by mrjojo: 7:36pm On Feb 03, 2019 |
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Business › Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals➜ ➜ ➜ by mrjojo: 11:40am On Feb 03, 2019 |
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Business › Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals➜ ➜ ➜ by mrjojo: 11:27pm On Feb 02, 2019 |
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TV/Movies › Re: Bbnaija 2019: Crowds Storm Enugu Audition Ground As Early As 6am (Photos) by mrjojo: 9:31am On Feb 01, 2019 |
OK, we have lost it finally in this generation. The "future of Tommorrow" who are suppose to be at forefront of taking our country back from these ancestors are chasing meaningless ventures. I'm sure 90% of them have no pvc |
Politics › Re: Atiku Abubakar And Peter Obi On "The Candidates" Live At 8pm Tonight. by mrjojo: 9:55pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
Hmm, |
Politics › Re: Atiku Abubakar And Peter Obi On "The Candidates" Live At 8pm Tonight. by mrjojo: 9:28pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
Rubbiish: Shut up! They have never been yes yes for u! See how u are flooding this thread with your senseless and pointless posts! Senseless paid zombie!
Please allow us to read neutral comments & stop posting nonsense! oga, if you like yourself don't come for me. Share your view and pass as I'm gently doing. |
Politics › Re: Atiku Abubakar And Peter Obi On "The Candidates" Live At 8pm Tonight. by mrjojo: 9:26pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
Is this some kind of joke? What is with the unnecessary humor? Your wife is from Akwa ibom. Smh. Why are these zombies audience screaming and cheering exactly?? |
Politics › Re: Atiku Abubakar And Peter Obi On "The Candidates" Live At 8pm Tonight. by mrjojo: 9:21pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
Kusetic: When she got buhari stammering and told osinbajo not to speak for him she wasn't biased. I love kadaria!! don't mind them o |
Politics › Re: Atiku Abubakar And Peter Obi On "The Candidates" Live At 8pm Tonight. by mrjojo: 9:17pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
uzohrome: This woman is too useless and APC planted her. Rubbish because she is asking the tough questions? Have you watched Amanpour before?? |
Politics › Re: Atiku Abubakar And Peter Obi On "The Candidates" Live At 8pm Tonight. by mrjojo: 9:16pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
Bluetooth2: O boy see answer
Nigerians are in trouble  like really, so clueless and disappointing |
Politics › Re: Atiku Abubakar And Peter Obi On "The Candidates" Live At 8pm Tonight. by mrjojo: 9:14pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
Atiku response to the Obasanjo quote is clueless and really dumb. |
Politics › Re: Atiku Abubakar And Peter Obi On "The Candidates" Live At 8pm Tonight. by mrjojo: 9:11pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: Atiku Abubakar And Peter Obi On "The Candidates" Live At 8pm Tonight. by mrjojo: 9:08pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
sinaj: Why is the woman sounding so biased
Im not thinking that Keyamo wrote those questions and gave it to her why do you think she is biased? |
Politics › Re: Atiku Abubakar And Peter Obi On "The Candidates" Live At 8pm Tonight. by mrjojo: 9:08pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
This is hopeless. Atiku - obi is no no for me now going forward. |
Politics › Re: Atiku Abubakar And Peter Obi On "The Candidates" Live At 8pm Tonight. by mrjojo: 9:05pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
No questions have been given a simple direct answers. They are both defensive. Answer the dam* questions. Ha!! |
Politics › Re: Atiku Abubakar And Peter Obi On "The Candidates" Live At 8pm Tonight. by mrjojo: 9:02pm On Jan 30, 2019 |
So far, I'm really not impressed. Expectations were so high |