₦airaland Forum

Banditry and UGM are the new boko haram factions. I expect some technical and logistical knockout like high level infiltration and intelligence gathering. The senate should also should implement a very strong kidnapping bill, minimum sentence for kidnapping should be 150 years !

jogojogo:
O my God
So sorry about the experience.
I am worried how poor our health care system is. Aplastic anaemia though very deadly is also very much treatable. I don't know why those options of treatment are not explored in Nigeria

lost my Dad to this same Aplastic anemia almost 2 years ago, still haven’t had the chance to process this. There has been an avalanche of events and happenings

Get out now when you can! You’ll be drained.Enough said

I wouldn’t say change. It a paradigm shift. Priorities are now different. The kids come first now,conversations are kid’s centered now..Most couples who start having kids just months after their wedding will most likely experience this.

Chronic mood swing, To deal with stress/life . I shutoff from the world,everything(phones off,like no one can reach me).Trying to change now ,but its quite hard,

tensazangetsu20:
One would need to mail the universities here to find out but I doubt they will agree. Spanish is a language you can learn anywhere. It's like telling the German embassy you wan go Germany learn German when Goethe institute full everywhere.

Tensa, which country will you recommend for child birth please, with a future plan of parents becoming permeant residents. I'm looking at mexico/brazil..

When they were telling you to face your study, you no gree. You were busy jumping from pole to pole . Now look at you, no full stop, paragraph , nothing.

For a guy still trying to figure out life, you are pretty pre-occupied with s.ex

lol, I am beginning to see all these Anti-japarian has state sponsored. No country is an eldarado, but atleast they can live like a human being where the basics works. I will taking you people serious when Nigeria has atleast 20hours stable electricity.

Nigerians are big money worshippers, women, men, old, young.. The decay in the moralily of the populace is alarming . A boy of 19 with no verifiable source of incomes brings home a GLA and the parent goes to church to for thanksgiving, no question ask, not even from the "men of God" The average salary in Nigeria is not even 100k per month, yet people are paying 2 million per annum house rent in Lekki How

Nigeria is the only country you automatically become a hater when you ask for someone's source of income..

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How can you be broke and cheating at the same time. I can never understand ..Dude is a pervert!! Keep your daughter safe from that animal!. Smh

Tinubu or whatever he call himself should declare a state of emergency on insecurity. Surviving daily life in Nigeria is a miracle

if she can afford to pay then I see nothing wrong, a lot of people with two masters are running around picking shifts "cleaning bum bum" all over the uk, so?

There is no wall nor limits for Nigerians, Push them to the brink they'll dig a hole and tunnel through.

Shinny1:
My dear if you have tried going through dialogue with her and it didn't produce any results..why don't you try taking it to God and talk to God about it and pray for God to touch her heart to start loving you
Please keep showing her love no matter what cos one day, you will be shocked that deep down in her heart she really appreciate everything...
And also I think she has a high expectations from you but you need to focus on God to be able to achieve it cos by strength shall no man prevail
Please keep loving her cos love covert all things

smh! The mother need a therapist . A lot of Nigerians are broken, smh, Everything is not God

You'll be a better improved version of yourself!! like a 2.0

Africans and black people need to drop this 'victim' mindset. There is serious tribalism going on even within people from the same state in Nigeria .

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Afodot0022:
thanks so much for your inputs so far, it has help me to navigate what am passing through at the moments, i will still appreciate more inputs for wider knowledge

Hey, I apologize for being a bit harsh, but I want to be honest with you.
It's only been 8 months since your marriage ended, and it seems like you haven't learned from the experience.
Here are some key points:
Your wife, whom you are not officially divorced from, cheated on you not once, but twice.
She didn't have a job for 5 years, and as soon as she got a low-paying job, she didn't hesitate to leave for it, without considering the impact on your family.
Based on this, it seems like you got married at a young age, and she may have married you for financial security rather than love or respect. It's likely that you saw signs of her lack of respect towards you.
Now, you're facing a similar situation with the current woman you're involved with. Her comments are disrespectful, and it's important to recognize that she is showing her true colors. Even if she apologizes, the damage has already been done.
By the way, why are you in such a rush to enter another relationship? It has only been 8 months since your separation, and you're already dealing with the aftermath of your wife's infidelity and taking care of two daughters. That's a lot to handle!
If I were in your shoes, I would take some time off to process and reflect on my life. Ask myself some difficult questions instead of seeking love as if you were deprived of it in your childhood.
Consider the reasons why your wife left you and why she chose a low-paying job over her family.
Remember, you are a man! If you need to relieve sexual tension, take care of yourself privately. Focus on officially divorcing your wife and establishing a plan for custody of your kids. Then, look for a mature woman who has her own business or career, rather than someone under 30
Mistakes are meant to make us wiser and develop better judgment.
Lastly, remember that you can give your all to a woman, but she may still cheat with someone who can barely afford his rent. So, prioritize yourself and be with someone who will respect you atleast.

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Candidlady:



When you had sex with her your Brain didn't see the red flags bah


E reach marriage na then the dead cells for your Brain wake up

Wicked beings

what are you saying? so becuase they've had sex means he shouldn't be cautious and critical about a decision that will greatly affect him and his kids? And why did he mention sex? and even if did, they are both consenting adults, they had sex with each other! When will some of you ladies stop seeing sex as some kind of 'favor' to men?

dlawsamesq:
So I am very confused right now because of all this red flag I am seeing.

I lost my wife early last year when she was birthing my third child and only son, I have had my family taking care of the boy since then and now there is need to move on.

There is this lady I am currently seeing, we are both serious with the relationship, infact I have met her family to disclose my intentions and we are planning to get married this December.

Now, this is the issue, this lady is very stingy to herself. She is an entrepreneur, she runs her own business and is doing averagely well, she can afford to cater for need without anyone's support. She has been complaining of body pains and body weakness for almost 2 months but she refused to take herself to the hospital and when I complaint she told me that I should give her money, I am not trying to say it is bad if I give her money to do that but she is quite aware that things are not very rosy for me now.

I am really confused now because I don't plan to wife a liability, I think I will opt out of this relationship.

it's a red flag, If she is stingy and nonchalant to herself even when it covering her own health, imagine how "supportive" she'll be to you and your kids. When people show you who they are, take it serious!! she can't and wouldn't change, don't hope for it.

You need a selfless, caring, and empathetic woman for you and your kids, if she doesn't bring that, then hire a nanny! and in my opinion 1 year is kinda too early for another marriage. Focus on your kids and finances, it doesn't make sense adding more responsibility

Evidence, Voice, video recording , tell her to play along, and caught him pants down

The mother never wanted the man right from the start. The Yoruba people that said " it's better to have good in-laws than a good wife"(rough translation) know what they are saying.

I left a 5 years relationship when I realized the matriarchy of the family doesn't like me for no just cause

why is this even a question? She is carrying your baby, why are you married to someone you can't help? She doesn't even need to be pregnant to do these. Display of Weird a.ss toxic masculinity from men with esteem issues.

You have a problem , a very serious one at that. You an addict, and broke. You addictions cost money. No matter how much your family help you with , or you manage to borrow, you'll always squander it on betting and oloshos.

First liberate yourself from these addictions or you are totally FCK.ED

Keep that 200k locked with piggyvest , lock it for 6 month and throw away the key, don't withdraw or break this saving no matter what, this might be your last life line.

Breaking addiction is easier said that done, you need to muster all the might you have to succeed.

- Delete all the oloshos number on your phone, delete michat or other apps you have to find olosho,
- IF you are religious , report your issue to your pastor or Iman,you need to me acccountable to someone,
- Replace olosho with masturbation(you might not be able to go cold turkey) , masturbation wouldn't cost you money atleast, maybe a few brain cells and data , but it relatively cheaper.

Now betting!! You can't win with, forget sure odds and them mr Bayo, ekitipikin and other betting aficados making 2million+ every week, you wouldn't . You are 42(No skill, No Job nor experience, battling double expensive addiction) , a middle aged man for goodness sake.
Your village people are almost ready to start popping celebration champagne
You need to stop this like yesterday, delete all betting apps, betting group, twitter, infact if it your hand that's making you bet, cut it off literally!

You have 6 months to take your life back from these addictions, start now!! then we'll talk about what to do with the 200k then

and you have somehow survived to fund your addictions and feed yourself all along, Again, leave that 200k locked up for now!!!!

Meritjoshua:
My uncle has up to #30million in his account and he doesn't have a car. He is into oil and gas business, one of his children is in canada while the other two are g in private universities. so not buying a car doesn't w mean yeah broke.

30 million is not exactly rich

Chimarto:
They want to suffocate my guy .......more than 5 ladies who are above 30 years are running after him for serious relationship.
Most of my colleagues (ladies) at work who are above 35 years old are single.
The married ladies are the ones advertising those single ladies to men.
What's happening in our society, are we running out of men?

the domino effect of "japa" , this is just the beginning, wait 4-7 more years it's going to be a case of national emergency

What’s this? How old are you again?discipline her ??because she’s your child?weidos everywhere