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Aroboi:
2 wks is enuf tym bro.i av a frnd who d8ed nd Had s** wit a gal in 5days...nd hw do kno sm1 personally witout seein her?

and is that your friends relationship still on?.. you see different strokes for different folks.

unless ur jst looking to hit and run the proper way is to get to know her 1st on a personal level.

you see why we get disappointed is dat we expect to much from people.

you met her at a club and your taki g the relationship serious.. come on mehn grow some fvckn balls. I would never trust a girl am dating if its just for dating sake.

and to top it all of she is putting up attitude and all dat.

don't brake up with her just yet... don't show that much interest in the relationship either. meet other girls, mingle and have fun.

your in the university for Pete sake don't let one daughter of eve bring u down mehn.

the word love is a strong word to use just under Two weeks.. what would you expect that in two weeks she's already head over heels in love. nag mehn try and get to know her beta.. change ur approach invite her out on a date.

get to know her personally not just on phone b4 you can invite her over to your house.

the thing is girls need to trust you and feel comfortable around you b4 they can consider coming over to you crib.

asking a girl out and expecting her to give you an answer immediately is weird jare.. I for one won't want that I'll feel there's a catch or the babe has something wrong with her.

I think the thrill in having a gf is the initial chasing around. and its even more fun when you know she likes you.

NB': ladies I don't mean y'all should take the whole damn year to make up your mind.. highest a month or so. anything more than that is just plain torture.

OP to be honest the both of u didn't act mature.. in fact that babe should really have insecurity problems. she was claiming to be mature, mature ladies know how to turn a guy down politely and not try to insult them.

bro on the other hand your approach in asking her out was childish.. no mature dude would ask a girl out that way.

I've come to understand why it isn't really proper for a lady to ask a guy out..

they can't handle the emotional aspect of being rejected. instead of them to accept it the turn that love to Hate and hold a grudge..

its true... the quiet ones have the Wildest imagination. I have a female friend who is like dat. very quiet outside but has a wild side..

germainediva:
You cheat on her many times,she cheats on you once.......then you go about calling her a LovePeddler......Abeg who be the original LovePeddler?you are looking 4 a faithful partner meanwhile ur not near the word "faith" tokless of "ful"...........cheating is not acceptable on any ground but why do men(African or Nigerian especially)kip tongue lashing women when they(men) are the main cheaters..........let's kip deceiving our selves"what goes around comes around".you are out dere fvcking someones wife or girlfriend....thinking ur own is safe....think again.

awww... honey did he breaks your heart?

missclasssy:
The fact that your profile picture doesn't reek of attention seeking, makes me want to believe that you are a new member

But how the fvck did you learn how to open a thread in less than five minutes after you registered?

either say something nice or shut the fvck up.
wats the big deal abt her opening a thread so quick. it isn't rocket science.

this is called emotional torture.. she knows how she feels but doesn't want to date you and she still wants you around as a friend.. girls can be so mean .

I had a girl dat wanted to do the same thing to back on school. I was so into this girl dat it took me a long time to get over her. now I've moved on I'm meeting other girls.


op move on and meet other pipo. I think one of the reasons why your feeling it much is cuz you haven't gotten a job yet. trust me when u get busy it comes easy

I actually believe for one it is true.. any guy dat says otherwise hasn't found that person.

there's always that one girl a guy would want to give the whole world to. they may not date.. heck they might not even get married but when there's an opportunity to make that special one smile he would be glad to do it..

talking from experience.
the thing is dat most girls don't believe it when a guy is really sincere with them

winnieberry:
I have been single for over a year now,and my friends both in my hostel,dept,home have been bugging me over why am I single,am I normal,am I a lesbian,do I have a spirit hubby preventing me frm being in a relationship.Its seriously annoying ,they have hooked up wit guys number of times but have turned them down with flimsy excuses like not tall enough or too smallish.Am a pretty tall lady though am not interested in height or physical appearances ,those are what I used turning down toasters so they stop bugging me,this made my friends to think am being selectively main reason for me is I haven't met a guy I feel a connection or a spark with, most times I try but I end losing interest in them. My older friends I confided in think I should start a relationship first and love or feelings will come later But what I end up dating a guy and the love or feelings doesn't come,do I end dumping him or continue in a loveless relationship?my friends don't understand my reasons so I just keep it to myself.But for now am content with being single for now.My friends are the ones making it a big deal out of it like being single is a crime.Abeg nairalanders is it a big deal or abnormal to be a single?

miss I see your still single after breaking up with your said Bf.

now I know there are times you feel lonely and wished you had someone close. it happens we are all humans and there's this longing for a companion.

you said your friends try to hook you up with some guys but for some reason u don't love them. well I can't jsr fall in love with someone like dat. I for one believe love has to grow it just doesn't happen overnight.

look for a guy u like and try and see if you can develop it to something serious. if it doesn't work out try again... who ever said you must have one relationship b4 u find that love of your life.

in the process those relationships would have taught you a lot.

Roseey0:
Immaturity at it's peak
How dare you post a gals pics without her consent....not like she's even your gal. You never even toast am, just one week of meeting
Go see a shrink. You definitely need help. All your thread is filled with confusion
How old are you

something tells me your ops ex or are you related in anyway to the said ex.
why the thing con dey pain u ni

just take it slow bro.. don't have much expectations.
since she said she doesn't have time to chat. just call her up and talk. don't over do it b4 she starts to see you as a pest.

again lower you expectations in other not to get disappointed. the reason why we cry foul is cuz we always expect too much from dat person.

here's an idea.. try to see if u guys can hangout during night class again. since us aid she was more open then.

I think girls do this intentionally to either scare us away or. piss us off.

my advice tell her you'll think about it don't contact her for abt a week. then you can decide to give her or not. if you do give her don give her complete then see hw she reacts..

wat a waste of a perfectly good bottle of champagne.

Blackett:
[color=#200000]. . .I'm still trying to figure out how that is your problem. [/color]

your right its not my problem but I still find it annoying

Blackett:
Rubbish.

What are you feeling like? Gtfoh mehn.

basically no one ever put up a good thread that you won't bash.. they are all rubbish to you.

merit12:
I have no comment for you since I learnt you gotten more power bank .

Beside I don't do e-fight ,check my moniker on nairaland, I have been here foor a long while .


I think I have a good reputation here ,if it were to be so I wouldn't have use my username and beside some peeps on nairaland knows me personally


It because of people like you that some moniker or people wouldn't want to share there problem instead of finding solutions you reasons to criticize the username.it a very bad one.

If you got nothing to say,read and don't comment.in other world mind your business
And don't hurt peoples feelings please.

don't mind that ass its a faceless forum that's why he is all tough and barks up in here. I'm sure in person he's one weak ass introvert..

rokiatu:
If you was dumb enough to have unprotected sex when you are not ready for a child yet then your stupidity is beyond measure. My only advice is to stop wasting time thinking so much and go look for any kind of work for that matter even if you have to clean shoes. You are going to be a father congrats in advance. When you was hitting it raw and enjoying yourself, you didn't think about this day abi? When you was c..umming in her, you had no idea there was a thing call,pregnancy right? And the morning after you and your dumb gf couldn't think of a thing call "the morning after pill" ni? Well you see God give us a brain for a reason, if you can't think and make logical decisions you will be left to face the consequences.

Welcome to the real world.

why are you taking out ur frustration on the OP.. are you in anyway related to the girl. what the OP said happens all the time am sure you've been guilty of the act too. don't be all out insulting the guy.

yea.. OP it happens in fact it happened to me yesterday.

while I was taking a stroll around my estate yesterday. I tripped and fell on a girl's lips and we kissed mistakenly..

Blackett:
I beg to differ.

Why treat a girl like someone you love if you don't love her, and then, you blame her for falling in love with you, and you also blame her for getting hurt when you introduce another girl to her. . .

Can this stupidity be compartmentalized?

its a crime to be friendly?

swtme:
no I didn't..... I really enjoyed d attention

and did u finally say yes to him

Nokialumia720:
my guy this girl wil make me find it difficult to love again.

exactly the same effect mine had on me.. she taught me a lot though. now I use my head beta the my heart when dealing with the females now. I'm more in control of my emotions

Nokialumia720:
dont mind girls that how they will loose the right guy bcs of getting attention frm us just as this girl will loose me, though i love her but i cant chase her anymore.

yea I feel you brother.. in my own case she told me she is attracted to me.. but just cudnt date me. I felt so bad I actually stopped calling her and all that. its taken me sometime to get over her.

and the worst part is I really did care about her.

swtme:
Its so true...I actually did it when I was younger

hmm wat was the outcome.. did u regret it?

[quote author=swtme post=31653436]Trust me u still do....she's d type that likes attention n a man to keep begging 4 her love. ...she misses all those times u kept on chasing her, when she was playing hard to get

a female friend of mine told me this same thing when I had a similar problem as the OP... so some girls just love the attention for the fun of it and would want you to chase them around. I find this hard to believe.