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AmiLaHoit:
U can imagine!
The annoying part is that the girls are too dumb to notice it rather they refer to the guy as being stingy.
End time children

Exactly.. Well I don't roll with girls like that unless I jst want to smash. Then I won't really care and once I hit it. Am done

AmiLaHoit:
Hahahaha...no Kay. There may just be different species of Grace in our friends

Apparently there is... And the babe isn't really a friend though. Jst a babe I tried asking out she made it a habit of collecting money or asking me to buy her things whenever we met.

I jst had to cut the girl off

AmiLaHoit:
That was how I introduced this church member of mine to my colleague and all she did was beg him for money for hair, money for keeps, dinner etc. Until the guy gently walked away from her, found a decent gurl and had his traditional marriage last week Saturday.
The other guy I also tried to match her up to, recognized her and said he sees her at CMS waiting for a lift rather than take a bus to work in d mornings. The very first day she also met him in my house, even in d rain she requested to be taken to a nearby pepper soup joint. I WAS SO SO ASHAMMED
The idiot gurl wants to come to my house and spend d weekend and I have been avoiding her cos I am upset with her and embarrassed.

Planning on when I will seat her down and tell her why those guys walked away without asking her for even sex. because they are decent and does not need such girl around them. She is even lucky they are focused.
She feels being slim and fair will give her a man. Her life style won't!!! Never!!!

She sounds like someone I knw.. The way u described her. Is her name Grace?

osedvgirl:
What if i say you are the one

I know it can't be

pinceprinz:
This one attends Mountain of Fire... bet!

So u pipo are falling for this... Smh

Ladies and gentlemen another feminist in the house.

Am sure dat dude most have been trying to be nice. But no. The socalled feminist will read meaning into a harmless gesture.

Well na ur concern

Your playing with fire.. Your trying to paint up a picture of u coming up harmless which is not the case. Ur spend to much time with him which isn't appropriate. He made a pass at u twice and still u did nothing.

Here what I think.. You like the attention u get frome him infact I think u have developed feelings for him. Now ur feeling guilty cos u knw he is a married man. If u know what o do stop all communications cos its definitely goin to lead to someones bedroom

Op even you don't belive ur story. U keep on saying he drugged u. What's ur proof that he did? U have no one to blame but ursef.

Hhere's what I think really happened. Op uve been Hot for sometime now and u wanted a release. U saw the opportunity and u went for it now I belive ur jst feeling guilty.

PHLastborn:
Spot on bro, you just nailed it, but I still care about her, just thinking I could get some encouragements from nairalanders to keep on though

Well all am going to say is if choping her is worth the stress den carry on. But if its not my guys save ur strength for someone else

My brother ur jst pouring water on a big stone. I sense dat u'v invested a lot of emotion into this so called relationship dats why ur still thinking on what to do. U knw she's not going to change any time soon so why u still sticking to her.

She jst keeping u as a back up plan just incase something bad happens. Becos belive me if that man decides to propose to her she's going to say yes in a heart beat

Also my mind they tell me say becos u never chop am yet NA em make u still stuck on her

Eddygourdo:
hahahaha hahaha. You won't understand bros

Ook oo

Eleven years in the University

My brother are u studying the university as a course

Bbsharon:
not every guy value chasing kitty cats.

Yea right.. And its not really a chase cuz she's not even running..

If he wasn't interested he shudnt have spent 3k5 on something of no value. That's a waste of money

So what I go here is u paid 3k5 to collect a girls phone number and u still don't won't to shine her Congo... Boy is dullard ur middle name?

U shud have jst given that money to an orphanage

Since when did relationships turn into employment?

Am confused

If she wants all those tell her to go an look for a job.. What kind of girl is dat. Its a relationship not a business deal for goods sake..

Oh plsss.. Is she the only blogger in Nigeria

Hmm popular bloggers.. I don't know them

Ur already putting too much pressure on urself bro..

Calm down marriage isn't something to rush into.

U knw what they say.. Karma's a b*tch.

Ur use to playing guys and have nevr been In a real relationship. Ur scared that he might be playing u the way u use to play other guys b4.

Well sis u'll jst have to trust him or quit.
#chikina

There's an atom of truth in this.. And the girls would never want us to knw

Guy.. U sound like me and I think its a problem we need to work on.

Let me guess ur gf is ur 1st love.. She was or is ur 1st everything. Ur 1st kiss, ur 1st hug and probably ur 1st F**k. Cos from experience its only a 1st love that can actually cloud our judgments like this.

Op u knw she's bad for you, she has changed and its affecting u. Sit her down talkt to her let her know ur not happy with th way she's acting now.

If she still doesn't change then my friend u need to break up with her.

Personally I know when a girl might not be interested so I jst get the hint and back off.

but if she say no and her body reactions say otherwise there's no harm in trying harder.

Konji is a respecter of no man..

In summary... Men love all the sex positions.

Cuz those are the basic positions..

Its obvious she's not into you. Move on bro.

And next time try to read the signs of when a girl isn't into u. So u can jst jejely find ur way b4 it get to the level of insults.. Some Naija girls can be mean

In the words of Sia "I've got a thick skin and an elastic heart"

Oga pls give me the number of ur babalawo.. We need to talk.

Ps: ur babe tried, she's really inlove

Ur not married to her yet so my guy don't be overprotective until u put a ring on it.

She has an active social life and I suggest u should have too. She not urs to control until she is offically married to u.

If u feel u can't cope with it then jst end it.

sonofananimal:
THAT'S IS A TYPICAL NAIJA WOMAN MENTALITY.

ME ME ME AND ME WITH ME NOT WITH ME MORE OF ME ONLY ME JUST ME.


I CALL THEM THE ME GENERATION, WHO ONLY THINK OF THEMSELVES BUT NOT THINKING OF OTHERS

Yea.. Dey can be so selfish atimes, she has not stop to think what the guy might want.