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We all know the rule: don't ever "try again" with an ex because it's just not going to work. Yet time and again, we do it — in the vain hope that this time it will be different.
To set the records straight, scientists have gone out of their way to show that the success rate of partnering up with an ex isn't good.
If you're in what Amber Vennum of Kansas State University calls a "cyclical relationship", you might want to pay attention.
Vennum and her team of researchers studied how couples ended their relationships, as well as their reasoning behind getting back together. Often this was because one or both partners felt the other had become a better person. Other participants said that their reason for reuniting was because the relationship hadn't ended properly to begin with.
"So it can be unclear to one or both partners if they broke up and why they broke up, which leads to them continuing the romantic relationship. Other times the break-up won't be unilateral, so one person pursues the other until they get back together."
While popular films and stories might romanticise the on-off relationship, Vennum found that in reality, the opposite is true. They tend to communicate poorly, frequently make bad decisions, have lower self-esteem and generally feel more dissatisfied.
They're also more impulsive about major steps in relationships such as moving in together or having kids. The reason for all this, says Vennum, is a lack of genuine commitment by both parties. "The thought is that, 'I'm not committed to you, why would I work very hard for you?'"
Marriage can also prove more challenging for a couple who has endured several break-ups and make-ups. Often these couples were more uncertain about getting married and were also more likely to show lower satisfaction in their marriage. Most notably, couples who went through a few break-ups before getting married were most likely to go through trial separation in the first three years of marriage.
"The more you are cyclical, the more your relationship quality tends to decrease and that creates a lack of trust and uncertainty about the future of the relationship, perpetuating the pattern," she explained.
Her advice to couples who undergo a break-up is to avoid getting back together as being unhappy in a relationship often results in poor performance in other areas of our lives.
"If it seems necessary to get back together, make sure the decision is carefully considered by both people and that specific efforts are made to establish clarity," Vennum concludes.

echo- bee:
face pls. i need to see her face, before i comment

, 11 Pastors go on dry fasting and praying to break lovecharm.
, Loverboy takes to his heels after prayer session.
, wedding plans cancelled.


What you are about to read is not a script from your regular nollywood movie,it is a real life event however the last names of the people involved will not be mentioned because I no fit shout. This is what the olofofos squealed


" she used what she did and materially she gained a Hummer, Toyota Camry O9, travelled to 13states in yankee, Rented an apartment for herself in Marwa Gardens and started her line of business.


His name is Jack and he is into oil business and has a study foundation,he is very single and wanted to marry her


The guy got carried away by her TV personality of being cool and and they started dating but alas loverboy was alerted by his pastors that he had been jinxed and a strong prayer session was organised for him


And he got saved but by then the actress had milked him almost to the last drop.


Interestingly the actress is best friend with a notorious well known former unilag girl called Tolu (T-jazz) who has used jazz to get houses, cars, lands off men.


The pastors told loverboy he had been infected with the love portion via food and lovemaking"


The olofofos also reveal that loverboy was setting the ground to marry this actress when the lid on the can of worms was taken off.


For those interested in knowing the lovergirl actress. She has dated a footballer,a comedian and a musician.she is very shapely,very pretty,light skinned,great legs,beautiful smile and a lousy attitude.


Her first name ends with the fifth alphabet.

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It appeared to be a movie script for the fast-rising Nollywood actress,Annie on Tuesday,February 14,2012.Coincidentally,it was Valentine,a day set aside for the celebration of love at the popular upscale JJ Okocha’s Club 10, Lagos,when 2face and Annie stepped inside around 11pm.
An insider told us that Annie didn’t know 2face had a plan until that night,adding that the whole arrangement was between 2face,Mary Ann Bassey,Annie’s cousin and former ex-beauty queen,and one Ayeri,2face’s best friend.
According to the plan,the source said, 2face was supposed to take Annie out on Valentine Day while Mary Ann Bassey and Ayeri was to make proper arrangement at the Club 10 and Prime Chinese Restaurant,where the engagement party was held.They were also to invite 2face and Annie’s friends and family members,which they did perfectly,all without Annie’s knowledge.
Some of the notable people at the club were P-Square,Kaffy,Tiwa Salvage,W4,Ruggedman,Annie’s families and friends.
We learnt that Annie was surprised seeing some of the notable faces,especially her cousin,Mary Ann because she did not expect seeing her out so late that night.
Annie was busy discussing with her friends because she didn’t understand why she’s seeing almost all her people,including her own brothers sources revealed.
Speaking further,our source narrated what happened.She said At about 1am,the music was stopped and Innocent Idibia has a mic with him and started making his speech,saying he met a young lady 12 years ago and they’ve have been through a lot and he apologized for all the wrong he had done in the past.
By then,he was already walking towards her…and said he really loves her,nothing that he had just one question to ask her.Then,he went down on his knees and asked her calling her full names,Annie Uwana Macauley,will you marry me(him)? she narrated.
Our source,who was also at the club said 2face was so nervous that he thought Annie would say No.
Annie,however,didn’t believe what happening,she cried all through before she finally said YES,YES,YES, she added.
We reliably gathered that 2face was so happy that he made a statement saying,he should have done this a long time ago.
According to our source, 2face was very happy,as he pulled Annie to his chest.He then gave her an engagement ring,took pictures and everybody started showering encomiums on them;
The party ended at about 5:30am before moving to Prime Chinese Restaurant where they had the engagement party till about 9:00am on Wednesday,February 15,2012.

Outstrip:
Maybe you should start by understanding what you are writing about

They have been deceiving us for too long now, All these annoying advertisments you see on the internet about weight loss by a gym instructor and so on, sign up for programs and also do rigorous work outs at the best gym, its all marketing lies, Now they have been exposed.
In less than 5 hours this guy manages to take the AFTER picture first, and then drink a ton of liquids and eat a ton of food to take the BEFORE picture next, and in just 5 hours look at the amazing transformation that can happen. Unbelievable!