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You are the kind of guy girls call "an helper from above". In a relationship you must protect yourself first. don't be too nice, give a little, take a little. na guys like you dey make girls dey demand anyhow from guys while still in a relationship. Spend on your mother and sisters, anything given to a girl not yet your wife is a donation.
Always look out for yourself first, some girls are beautiful physically, but ugly at heart. don't be blinded by love. any money you spend must be enjoyed by both of you. Guys should wise up, a girl that loves you won't even stress you, things will flow naturally between you guys

nawa o, water Don pass garri. see campaign...
by the end of the show/programme, Bbn organisers would have spent only 10% or 20% of its total income including feeding and other expenses from day one. the viewers are the ones paying for everything. misplaced priorities. we have so many issues to campaign on in this country.
they are all Nigerians, and it's just a game. Let's those who watch the show vote for whoever they like, not forcing them on people like this.
I tire for this country. you will buy fuel to power ur generator, pay your dstv/gotv subscription and later vote massively with ur own money... issorait

Piercy:
my sister's wedding was coming up me and my brother who was a year older began celebrating the rice and chicken we were to eat.. God knows where the spirit of WWE came over us and we started doing Wrestling oh.. Up till date I can't remember what happened after my brother did the famous undertaker rest in peace smack down.. I woke up after 9 in the evening.. Three hours 45minutes after the incident with a thunderous headache and a very nice long neck... Seriously kids make una no go do.. Wrestlemania for room oh and no oh I wasn't able to eat the rice because my neck was Hospitalized

that's a tombstone piledriver, deadly move. You could have broken spine, neck or skull. PLEASE DONT TRY THOSE SMACKDOWwN MOVES AT HOME

guardsman:
It'd be sweeter on Sunday when d Cougar's hope will be raised & then dashed. d 15 minutes of fame of d talentless Tbore who wanted to be famous for being famous, without any particularly identifiable talent will come to an end like those of many talentless BB HMs b4 her.

haba she is a good chef, she prepared the meals for the wedding ceremony. so you havenkt identified that since you've been watching Bbn. she is bossy though, but she ain't bad at all. to prepare tasty, delicious meals day in day out is a talent bro, it ain't easy to be consistent like that, she even did minimie chinchin dessert. the babe get talent. identify other house mates talents abeg

To be honest, I never expected marvis or debie-rise to make the final. team efe saved marvis. If Only TTT was honest about his family, he would have made the final he was the best among all of them. TTT was the real game player, but viewers judged him based on how he denied his family. debie-rise and Tboss are now strong contenders, they've got massive fan Base right now due to been consecutively nominated for eviction...

keep the updates rolling.

false accusation is a really big burden on the accused. you keep wondering and asking yourself many questions. you loose trust in people completely. no matter what, suicide is not a solution to a problem.

I don't condone any form of sexual assault, but I feel Tboss is taking advantage of this whole thing, because women do use this kind of issue to nail guys. he may have touched you without your consent, but you initially allowed a lot of things between the two of you. he kissed you, he saw ur nude, he massaged your body and u enjoyed it and he felt you guys should settle score late in the night when everybody is asleep.
it happens, babe comes to your house to sleep over, she tells you she does not want sex after you made sexual moves, as a gentleman, you agree and sleep off, only to wake you up in the middle of the night by touching you, as guys you wake up and you both enjoy yourself.
guys should just be careful, when a girl tells you NO, respect it and try talk about it with her, if she still insist PLEASE accept it.
Though, she fit kan dey call you Mumu after that day, it's better than to be accused as a rapist. you can't predict ladies.

Eleniyan15:
it should be northerners am very sure when the shit happens we Yoruba go first run but the coming no be child's play. 99% of your intelligence makes you a rugged that what dies fvking Hausa don't know then no get common sense...I still dey wait for the war wey go happen for alabarago one day that the day you will know that Yoruba and Igbo be 5&6

that's how we yorubas act. Though, I don't like tribal arguments with any tribe, but some people saying yorubas are cowards show their lack of wisdom. we don't draw the first blood, we wait and hope trouble can be avoided, but once we are pushed to the wall, we go all out. this is not the agberos collecting money at bus-stops fight. this is a total destuction fight. we are slow to anger, unlike a tribe that always wants to fight cause of their muscle. once you make us vex, it's destruction you are inviting upon yourself

I love this idea, great move by the government. Those looting live among us, so we should snitch on them. it must not be onesided, cos people will blow whistle on Apc members to.
all past office holder should explain how they acquired so much property after leaving office. pikin wey say make him mama no sleep, the pikin no go sleep. they've looted this country to bone marrow. we the citizens must snitch on them ole
kudos to GMB on this, a bold step in tackling corruption

I stay around ikotun, where scoan is located. I've witnessed an incident which changed my opinion about T.B Joshua. a factory that manufactures paints around the area was on fire around 1am, the inferno was so much that resident of nearby houses ran out of their houses. Fire services didn't come on time. T.B joshua came, hoodlums forcefully opened the gate, cos it was well locked. he entered the compound, believe me guys nobody knows what he did while inside, the fire calmed immediately. Fire fighters did their job.

stealing is stealing, once you take what is not yours, either forcefully, deceitfully or smartly. all your actions have consequences. you take someone's hard earned money, and you expect peace.

Chelseafan1:
What are we going to do about all these yahoo guys sef, that was how one of them snatched my sweet but greedy Adanna last year and ruined my almost 3 years relationship, one of my cute friend's friend also lost his very pretty gf to a yahoo guy that kept on spending on her lavishly.

Shey guys wey never hammer are not allowed to date pretty girls again ni.
If u have a pretty gf that was able to resist a yahoo guy, abeg, treat that girl right, infact, wife her already.

my ex-girlfriend too left me for a rich yahoo guy about five years ago. The sad thing is he turned her to a baby mama, after he spoilt her with money. girls and money, yahoo guys spend generously

Say NO to Jungle Justice

Its obvious that Nigerians are deeply divided. See tribal-war on internet. Wahala dey

Nice

Lalong, Dalung. . . Who are these guys?

After reading about the lecturer's wife that left her husband, for Alimi the bricklayer, it reminded me of a man that shared his plight with me regarding his marriage.
We were both at a bar relaxing on a weekend, and i noticed he was frantically making and receiving calls, from his conversations i was able to make deductions that it was about his wife. I was still eavesdropping, before he suddenly came to sit beside me to strike up a conversation.
He told me since his wife became friends with an igbo lady in his area, she started portraying strange attitudes at home. First she became a party freak, she alongside her friend goes to all type of party no matter how far the venue is.
Secondly, she started dressing seductively. He even pointed to a girl that was passing by as an example, that he does not understand why a mother of three will be dressed in such seductive outfits.
He also told me that she constantly pestered him to get her an android phone, that she told him that's the phone she wants, but after he got her the phone she opened accounts on some dating site and was now active on facebook.
He said he got home like three days ago, only to find out that his wife had left, leaving the kids behind and her number was unavailable. He contacted her family to know her whereabouts, but they all claimed to be unaware.
She spent the money she gave her for the children's school fees, along with the money he gave her to boost her business.
He lamented that how can yoruba and igbo be friends, but i corrected him that your wife's friend happens to be a bad influence, some igbos are good. He said there is no way he will accept her again, cos someone would have been sleeping with her by now. I guess the wife's family were trying to pacify him, but he already told them his decision, they should go find their daughter by themselves. It was obvious he looked frustrated and angry. I'm not sure if they were legally married.
Some women are unpredictatble and can't be wholly satisfied...

chigoizie7:
Heiyaaaaaaaaaa.


When one of my uncle came home 2015, he was discussing with my father, in the course of the discussion, they started asking themselves about people, old time friends and their whereabouts, my uncle started talking about people who have been in Europe b4 him and has never touched naija because of shame, because there is nothing to show for the long stay on their sojourn to greener pastures, meanwhile their other family members and friends who remained here are living large, like kings and queens.(btw. My uncle left 1993, incase u might wanna ask, he is financially ok).


And then I ask myself,

What is the need? Why leave?

If I want to leave now, na through back door visa which will cost me nothing lessthan 1.5million + my ticket and then an extra $2k which is almost a million naiara, put them together, no be almost 3mill? And these people no de hammer immediately oh, give them 5yrs up, most of them no go skul, so they keep hiding and running and wasting the better days of their youths for nothing.



Give me, 3mill + 5yrs. I might not be the richest man, but I sure will be better than u wey go abroad financially.


My cousin just came in after 3week vacation to SA. She told me of a place called "location". And the funny thing is the young boys are still trooping out on daily basis.

I call it misplaced priority.

A friend was also killed in UAE, the othe jailed in Qatar. Na my school mates oh, them no even wan make we graduate, zaaaaa. They are off, they didn't even try life after school, they didn't even hustle small for here, dem zap. And na so many of our youths de behave. Let me not talk about girls wey I know wey full dubai now, de do wetin? Ashawo, one was deported around august, empty handed, what is the gain of all the toils? Nothing.

My younger brother(in final year now) friend and course mate was deported from turkey few weeks he touched down.




Make we look b4 we leap. For every 100 successful guys wey hammer for yankee 100k dey suffer.

How come you only highlighted those that tragedy strucked. There are some that are doing fine abroad.
People must migrate, because its human nature. We all want greener pasture, and will try everything to better our lives.
There is an adage in Yoruba which says "Ise aje lo somo nu bi oko", meaning "pursuit of a better life, is why man is thrown faraway like a stone".
Within Nigeria you will find each tribe all across the country, even in remote places and you begin to wonder what could they be doing there.
So many people have travelled abroad and are successful, while some are not. We all cant stay in Nigeria, other citizens will immigrate to Nigeria, while Nigerians will emmigrate to other countries.
Life itself is a risk, and its worth taking the risk. If i give you the 3million you said, how can you assure me the the business will thrive as an entrant in this current this current economic atmosphere full of uncertainties.
Its worth a try, its left for the individual to know what to do, rather than just staying abroad, because of other people's impression. You can switch states, try something else or come back home if things are not working as planned

Amelian:
Pure lie.. Most families will tell him, his life history and how inconsiderate he had been all those years of not sending money.. Only very few families will understand , that's why he camped with a friend, thinking of how to present his case to his family,also added to his stress. When family make meeting untop ya head, about ones failures, one would wish he can just disappear into thin air. Their own worse pass.
Rest in peace Ogbein.
At least you will rest well.. Without hearing people and family trying to lecture you on how to succeed and how u were lazy not making good use of your stay abroad.. People are good at lecturing. If they were in your shoes with such opportunities they would have gone far.!
As if to succeed na Mai Mai.

Go rest jare..

Exactly, every Tom, D*ck and harry will be giving you lecture/advice on how to succeed, when things are not working as planned. They will turn themselves to special advisers. To succeed in life is through grace.

Brymo should win atleast one, cos the guy is the true definition of talented nigerian artiste. We should learn to appreciate good-music, we need to broaden our Genres of music. Brymo is damn good

We handsome guys go through a lot. Some of the points are true.

Mimzyy:
It was still fine at this point, as friends.



You should have respected him a lot more at this point cos not so many men will open up to you about their relationship status when there's a lady(you) giving them the green light somewhere

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This was you being very selfish and manipulative, the guy obviously did not see you as anything more than a friend, he was never in love with you but you allowed yourself to be blinded by your emotions and greed. Why on earth will you even ask him to choose between you who he just met and barely has feelings for and his long time girlfriend?




He only told you what you wanted to hear, so what if she is an OND holder, did he tell you she has no plans to further her education?



You moved in with him because you wanted to keep a tab on him 24/7!!! Of course, why will he break up with her? The devil you know...



He asked you for an abortion because he is not genuinely in love with you! You practically shoved yourself down his throat. He is frustrated and angry that you messed up his plans. He agreed to live with you cos he wanted to use you as a house-help! Not cos he had any future plan to spend the rest of his life with you. Now you have an innocent baby on the way , deep sigh!!

Well, there is nothing prayer and counselling cannot do. Call for a family meeting and table everything . For the sake of the unborn, i hope things work out well for you.

You must be very good at analysing cogent points. You should come share a cup of coffee with me...
Regarding this OP's issue, she was brave to tell him she loves him, but greedy to cunningly try to snatch him. The guy only enjoyed uninterrupted free punany(only few guys will reject it anyway). I dont know anything about marriage, cos I've never been married, but i think the guy neither loves you as a lover nor wife.
Never mix business with pleasure. I'm sure you had suitors, but your greed led you to this.
You can be a PHD holder, if a guy is in love with an SSCE holder. he may find it difficult to leave her. You felt you can use your qualification to lure him? no, it does not work that way for guys. We all know what we want. He will be unhappy if you guys eventually marry, you know what that mean.
Anything can happen, when you give birth, it gives joy to men...
You tell a lady you are single she will say its a lie, you tell her you are dating, they'll find it interesting and want to find out or possibly have you for herself. women love challenges. Some of them are just confused.

Senorprinz:
yes babies are fruits of marriage but they aren't the only reason for marriage, what about companionship? discontinuing a relationship on the basis of inability to give birth early in marriage tells a lot about the emotional capacity of the man, he made it look like it was the only reason he needed her as a wife, moreover, i've seen countless girls who take in after performing more than one abortion, he should have taken her to run tests on her womb to confirm her status first before making any decision, except he had other reasons (moral or cultural) of which i have no idea. it's not everyone that has the luxury of giving birth when they feel like, i still think he should have stood by her a bit, at least for the time and emotions she's invested in him.

I.Agree.

Senorprinz:
i don't know why some people see women as baby making machines, if your fiance can't see that the role of a woman in marriage encompasses much more than making kids, maybe he needs to leave you so someone better can take his place. the most important thing is that you've made peace with God, i know you love your man but don't chase after him like you're desperate, if both of you are meant for each other he'll see reason to stick with you, if not, occupy your thoughts with productivity and educate yourself on how to be a better person, with time, you'll have no regrets whatsoever. BE STRONG, THE LORD IS WITH YOU.

The lord said go ye and multiply. Populate and start a family. So babies are the fruits of marriage. #fact
Be realistic

I know a girl who aborted like four times for a particular guy. Thats stupidity not love.
I support pregnancy before marriage, because most of these girls have had an abortion before.
Why put unnecessary pressure on your future husbands Thats unfair.
Its better to end the relationship, than to be thrown out if doctor reveals that the abortion you had some years back affected your womb. It wont be funny at all.

Its.happening.for.real.
It.could.be.your.Son,Brother,father,Nephew..
Men.should.be.protected.too
I've.witnessed.one.before

Ok

Newnas:
I don't regret describing you with that! Probably you have a 8second memory like the Regal Blue Tang. Go back and read the first part of your first comment, you will see how well you deserve the qualification.

Yes I'm a core Muslim, do you have a problem with it?!

Then you've got no brain at all to help you think, like a jellyfish. cos only a fool will take other people's opinion on this platform here personal. Your own type of mUmU is legendary. Go get a life, your priorities should be beyond arguing over the things you read on nairaland.

Newnas:
I don't regret describing you with that! Probably you have a 8second memory like the Regal Blue Tang. Go back and read the first part of your first comment, you will see how well you deserve the qualification.

Yes I'm a core Muslim, do you have a problem with it?!

Then you've got no brain at all to help you think, like a JELLYFISH. cos only a fo0l will take other people's opinion on this platform here personal. Your own type of mUmU is legendary. Go get a life, your priorities should be beyond arguing over the things you read on nairaland.

larrrymore:
the way Christian camp redeem sisters in redeem fellowship Secretariat @ faj block one basement.
I know v.well those so call xtian sis sleep in there various Secretariat in faj

Ok. As we have it in christianity, its also in islam. Majority have a soft heart when it comes to religion, easily convinced.