Kobojunkiee:
Do better as in try to meet up with your standard as far as what you call decent dressing,
obviously not theirs, right?

Why are you trying to twist his words to fit your narrative.
Argue constructively or leave the discussion, let those who can be objective see space to talk

USDT will not survive the coming bear market. DYOR.
Buy USDC instead.

eliok:
Any questions?

None yet. Please go on...

One thing life and the redpill has thought me is that LOGIC will always out perform EMOTIONS in the long run.

Most people don't understand why some guys were vehemently against Mrcoldsweat.
His submission comes from a nihilistic perspective, this is even more dangerous than Modern Feminism.

Nihilists don't believe in correcting a faulty system, to a nihilist, the best way to correct a fault is to let the system degenerate into total chaos and anarchy, from which only the strong will survive..

If Men start behaving like modern women, then the fabric of society will collapse, the strong will prey on the weak, the smart on the stupid, till we find our way to the brink of extinction as a species, then whoever is left will be very wise with experience, thus becoming better.

Those who survive this process will eventually do better than their predecessors, the end game is similar to that of the red pill, which is to make the system better than what we have now.
But the sacrifice is too great, why go to all that extent, when there is a better way, I.e Redpill

I believe in this too, but I won't lie to myself and say it is the best way, or say it is part of the redpill.

Now to my opening paragraph, Logic will always be more reliable when compared with Emotions.

Ask yourself, the decision to "modify masculinity" is it coming from a place of Logic or from a place of Emotion?

Are you deciding to modify your masculinity because it is the right thing to do or because todays women are doing it.
So when tomorrow's women decide gender equality is no longer in vogue and decide to pick up another struggle like "too many Male births" and decide to abort male babies, what do we do then?

Do we modify male babies? Start giving excuses like "there is actually no need for more male babies since one man can impregnate the whole world "

When a foreign intruder invades your lands and is about to plunder your women, children and possessions, do you think mother nature cares about your level of masculinity?
She expects you to pick up your battle axe and face whoever is threatening the propagation of your gene, no negotiation.
Should you fail, it simply means the intruder possesses some traits which make him more likely to survive in the cruel world, so he should have the right to spread his gene, not you who doesn't know how to defend what's his in such a cruel world.

The world is cruel, you don't modify masculinity.

Humans have been here for thousands of years, one thing that has always been constant is masculinity and femininity, they go hand in hand, like Ying and Yang.

From one end of the world to the other, masculine men made that first step by leaving the Cave and exploring the world we know today.
They created the modern Man and world we know today, it is as a result of the sacrifice of masculine men that we have relative peace today, maybe it's because of this relative peace someone can even suggest we modify masculinity.

Is is not the modification of femininity( and masculinity) that is causing most of the societal problems we know today.
Women are tired of being women, and men don't know how to be men.

Would we even have this thread if the original Suffragettes/feminists of the 20th century had not thought to modify femininity?

Now you are suggesting the little masculinity we have left should be modified? Why?
Because women modified femininity?

That simply means, just like women, you are making crucial decisions, decisions that determine the survival of your species based on Emotions and how it makes you feel, instead of being rational and logical.

That is why any rational man should be as angry as Dapcity when he comes in contact with nihilistic ideology, because it is more dangerous than Simpish behaviour or feminist ideology.

I am a Nihilist, I'll like to watch everything burn to the ground, only those who are strong enough deserve to survive, but I won't mix it with Redpill.

Redpill is for the self development of a man which will in turn have a positive effect on his women, children and his surroundings.
It flows downward, not upward or sideways.

Xenry:
Well, I'm old enough to know better, but still too young to care.

Perfect answer to such a stupid question.

People on this site ask that age question with so much confidence, expecting you to be a teenager if they disagree with your opinion.

They conveniently forget that the country is been run by ancient people who we expect to be wise, but we can see where they have led us to.

CalliDora1:
Stop whining about money here and there. Instead, pray that God should put you in a position to be able to help others when they "bill" you.

A guy has gifted me 80k before without any strings attached and till today he never asked for even my number or anything. That's a man.

Do you read what you type?
He is a man simply because he didn't ask for anything in return, so other's who ask for something in return are not men or what?
This is too shallow even for female standards...

CaveAdullam:
It is at the heat of this ex topic that those in desire of their ex e.g Ubunja, gold360, softguy1 etc. started mentioning gifts, connections as a reason to still maintain friendship with an ex. Meanwhile, 1/3 of my posts in regards to the topic was when gold360 insists on going back to his ex when he's in "dire" need of sex and food. And of course going back to your ex for "sex and food" still remains absurd and stupid! Why because there were reasons you choose to dump her regardless of the professional sex and savoury meal she once provided you. If she was good, you would have ignored her foibles and continue with the relationship. But no, you ended it on your own terms. (Except this was not the case, that's both of you strolled out of the relationship without official breakup. And if this is the case, she's not your ex. Considering this, your ex is an ex for a reason.

In 2/3 of my posts on that same topic, the first 2 carries leverage purposes or Machiavellic purposes as the major reason for you to maintain friendship with your ex, that's if you perceived she's way better than you and has tighter connections which you can use as an opportunity to upheave yourself. But you must also know that your ex doesn't have the monopoly of helping you in life. Help from other sources is far beyond help from exes. But this is life, life is a game, and you must accept help whether it comes from your exes or allies.

I'm stating this because of the subtle remarks like forming alpha, forming redpill, anger phase, been emotional, dating trashy women, level of redpill bla bla bla that's flying in the air. And if the persons I mentioned has seen the nuances they would have understand that we all are making same points. It is good we have proper comprehension and understanding of nuances.

And by the way, who said you should cut your ex completely and dump her into the lagoon?No! Never!

But if your coming together with your ex is to quench your "dire" need for sex and hunger as at when due, sorry, she's not your ex but your old time f^ck main chick/buddy. She's not your ex, you're only spinning plates. Lol!

I still shalaye why?

Thanks.

Well Said,
Knowledge everywhere.

oyolohi:


MGTOW comes in stages. Stage two to three are men who have come to deeply understand the society and consequently no longer give f.ucks about it.

MGTOW is like a quiet bar without a sign, no recruitments...nothing. You stumble upon it, they raise their glasses to you.

An MGTOW level 3 man can get up one day and decide to get a vasectomy without regrets because he has seen how much of a scam marriage, morals, children, etc. are. You don't speak of patronizing prostitutes/porn to an MGTOW guy: he knows that society frowns on these things simply because of mere prejudice and the nonsense called morals. If he finds any of those entertaining, he goes for it!

MGTOW are men who can spot and detect stress from a thousand miles away --no matter how much you disguise it. You offer them crap: they simply give you a long stare and continue sipping their beer.

Finally, the last stage of MGTOW is leaving the bar filled with other MGTOW men and enjoying the mountains and rivers of a distant land flowing with milk and honey.

Exactly!

Only difference for me is this is my idea of redpill, I never separate MGTOW from redpill, they are one and same for me, all quests for enlightenment.

Notice how in this hypothetical bar you described, the atmosphere is that of a logical one, emotions are kept aside.
You know why, because the outside world is saturated with emotional bullshit, we wake up with emotions, we sleep with emotions, we Bleep with emotions, we choose careers based on emotions, we choose what we eat based on emotions...all bullshit.

So when you decide to take the redpill, you enter this quiet bar like you put it, drop all your emotion aside, all the garbage, leave it at the door.

Bask in the sauna that is LOGIC. Enjoy it, learn all you can while you can, oh! blessed are the young men on this thread, for the future is theirs. The best stage in life to stumble into this Bar is between 18 - 29 as a man, and 13 - 25 as a woman.

Soak yourself in it, till you get to that last stage of redpill/mgtow/enlightenment/Zen/Nirvana. Because your previous years of constant miseducation cannot just be washed away, nothing is empirically right or wrong.

You know deep down that even this LOGIC you love so much is not the ultimate, you will then on your own, leave this hypothetical Bar, and go back out into the Real world. Equally balanced in all spheres of life, a man who knows himself.

Edit: That is why I love women, contrary to what outsiders think, redpill makes you a misogynist, it's not true.
As you progress on your journey, you will come to love and admire the female gender, they figured out all these things while being overburdened with lots of emotion, nature overdosed them with emotions, yet they still somehow managed to use the little logic they have to get the best out of life.

Imagine you, blessed with almost 100% logic, but you chose to cling to that little bubble society has created for you, making important decisions, based on something as temporary as an emotion.

I don't care if you dumped me when I was broke, I'm still broke, you are now Rich, as long as I've learnt my lesson from our previous relationship, I will use you to get to where I am going without any remorse, I know you will do the same for me.


Every simp out there should be ashamed of himself, I weep for all my years as a simp, and I will never go back into the matrix.

softguy1:



You are right man!

Cutting of all your Exes means you are still in the anger phase of the redpill, it also means that you are emotional and redpill doesn't support such.

You just have to be logical as a redpiller and not the other way around.

Accept that gift and don't fall for her manipulative nature. That's all.

We underestimate this "Anger stage" a lot, and we overestimate our ability to get out on time.

It's stays on you like a faint odour,even when you think you've moved on higher in redpill knowledge, even when you think you've known it all, that anger stage is almost for a life time.
Anger is ultimately an emotion and decision making based on emotions is not part of redpill.
It's a daily struggle, we can't be perfect.

I think one thing we should learn from this "ex" topic is to know your level of game/redpill.

I am a living example of why you should not burn bridges, ex girlfriend or not, and I'm not ashamed to say it.

I personally think anyone who insists on cutting off exes, is simply speaking from his emotional side. No logical person will cut off an individual simply because you once dated.

And if you've gotten past the anger phase of redpill, you will realise that the redpill teaches you to put YOURSELF FIRST.
It's a very simple rule, I don't know why most don't get it.
PUT YOURSELF FIRST, but you want to cut off a potential future connection because of your emotions, when you should be thinking in your logical, thinking how you can use such women to increase your SMV whenever such opportunity presents itself.
Come on! What are we really learning here.

Infact, I do the complete opposite of what most guys do. I use my current girlfriend to get my future girlfriend.
Any smart man knows that women are attracted to men other women find attractive. If I keep cutting off all the women in my life simply because we dated, I am reducing my harem, and no woman wants to be in a "one woman harem". When all these women hang around me and I maintain frame, other women see it and want to find out what's going on, they fall in. If this is not an advantage of keeping in touch with exes, then I don't know what is...

I never end my relationships on a bad note, even if I am at fault, I will still manipulate you to believe you ended the relationship, because I know the value of having someone who cares about me as a "connect". In this world we now live in, you are simply cheating yourself if you burn bridges totally.

But that is not to say every man can or should do this, that is why I began this post by saying know your level of redpill.
If you know you are not capable of withstanding her manipulations, my brother run for your life. But do not assume all men cannot or should not, know your level.

crazyclown:

U re getting it wrong. Havin erection is different from fúcking the baby. I will hav erection because am a guy

Bro leave all these hypocrites, they will twist your words against you. They have been so conditioned by society to demonize male erections, that saying the truth seems like blasphemy to them.

Don't mind those guys calling u paedophile. That u have an erection at that means nothing

Men being raped have erection. It doesnt mean they are enjoying it or want it

Females being raped get wet and have hard nipples. It doesnt mean they are enjoying it

That lady cally u a paedophile will also have hard nipples if a little boy is playing with her breasts.

Ur erection at dt point is because of soft flesh on ur dick area. It would be involuntary. I will only blame u if u entertain sexual thoughts at that time.
.

That is why for me, i never let anyone sit on my groin area. U can sit on my knees and laps, but not groin area.
Tango123

ubunja:
they are not going to understand.

The same guys who want zero contact with their ex GFs are the same guys crying that their current GF is cheating with her own ex.
And ex is an ex for a reason but that doesn't erase the past you have. I'm in touch with a few Exes of mine. And some we're still fvcking. Real players know that's how the game goes. Even your ex can hook you up with a job or something because she knows your talents and your interests.
This men VS women mindset of the RedPill needs to really stop. The Game is bigger than people's broken hearts. Your ex must be a connection you have in this life. Like an ace up your sleeve. But because guys break up with women in the most terrible way they can't see past the heartache. Heartache is part of the game. Real ones know this. You need to heal and move on.

Keep contact with your Exes. They offer food eat it. They offer pussy take it. Why?? Because for sex women WILL ALWAYS TRUST AN EX BF BETTER THAN SOME RANDOM NEW GUY.

Guys internalize this shiit. Please. Life is too short.

Bro you just spoke my mind.
Why shouldn't I accept things from my ex?

In my short life, I have managed to gather a considerable number of exes. My first 6 figure job was gotten for me by ex's new boyfriend, he thought I was her brother.
That was the stepping stone for my career, imagine if I had allowed revenge to cloud my head, or I totally ghost her.
My first trip abroad, was paid for by an ex. She thought that would make me commit, but immediately I got back to Naija, I ghosted her again. If she suggests another trip in the nearest future and I'm free, I'll still oblige.

As a man, there are some bridges you don't burn, there's no shame in that. All your relationships in life are avenues for making valuable connections, both male and female.I see all of them as my fellow men, except when it's time to Bleep.

After all the time and commitment I put into my various relationships, this is even little compared to what I deserve.

The redpill has made me always on guard 24/7. But what is the point if that doesn't translate into an increase in my SMV?
My latest ex is about to get married to a Deputy Governors Son, do you know what that kind of friendship will do to my SMV in Nigeria today?

Mtola8:


Thanks so much man, I do not think I can ask my dad such. isn't it better to let her go and just concentrate instead of letting everyone know about it. My mum got to know but begged me to give it a second try. I've spoken to some male figures tho and they have given different opinions and advice.

Perfect, let her go, concentrate on yourself

Mtola8:


Thanks so much ma!! I just stumbled on this as I haven't been checking the progress of the topic. I'll look into it. happy new year.

You should know by now not to take relationship advice from women.
She is advising you out of goodwill, but she herself does not know that by virtue of being female, she lacks the capacity to view relationships from the male existential viewpoint.
Take back your baby mama and it's game over for you. Don't you notice that it's the females in the equation advising you to take her back? They are doing it purely out of love for you, not with any bad intention. But like I said previously, they lack the capacity to give you the advice you need.
Stand by your decision, but if you ever feel the need to seek advice, look to your father, the man will never lead you astray.

...

https://www.nairaland.com/6339937/fcmb-md-adam-nuru-sex

There is currently a thread on FP right now, involving a simp, a hòè and an alpha male.
This thread will make a perfect case study, for anyone who still doubts the efficacy of the redpill.

1. The deceased (proverbial simp, low smv, married)
2. The ex wife (typical hòe, branch swinging, paternity fraud TWICE )
3. The MD ( high smv, zero commitment, alpha)

Those who refuse to take the redpill ALWAYS regret it, rich or poor, young or old, wise or foolish.

Unfortunately a man is dead, and I feel for him, but what I don't understand is why people are calling for the head of Adam Nuru (MD FCMB).

Burstscam:
Men are the superior gender. Knowing all those mechanisms should be the least of our worries. Imagine a boss being so fixated at the small small tips customers give his staff for job well done?

After so much analysis, I came to understand that inferiority complex is the push for red pill

This is funny because even in the movie "The Matrix" there were people who had similar thinking like you.

On your last paragraph, I think it's the opposite, it's inferiority complex and cowardice that makes people stay bluepilled, because deep down you know you don't have what it takes to survive outside the matrix.

So you're content with your position within the matrix.

An unexamined life is not worth living, a man wise than me said so.

Burstscam:


Imagine questioning why men would be selected to go to war why women are children are spared? It has been highlighted in several redpill threads that in most countries, the law progressively gives women more preference than men. The reason is simple: women, like children, are more vulnerable. Men are superior physically, emotionally and intellectually.

Men understand the above so many abuse them and try to oppress the female... The females develop many mechanisms to protect themselves. Examples of such mechanism include emotional manipulation.

In one of the threads, the OP talked about women wanting commitment before they offer sex to the men. Now ask yourself, if you are a woman, can you open your leg to every man that ask you out? As a man that you are, will you ever chose the less when you have the option to chose the more?

You are very correct, but you still don't get the point of the redpill.
Men need to be aware of all these female mechanisms you talked about, that's all.
Why should one party have monopoly of subtle manipulations, redpill simply brings everything to the open, then leaves you to make your decision.

I think you need to watch The Matrix to get the original picture. Life is naturally not fair, the least we can do let everyone know how the world really works.

@ TheUndercover thank you for compiling this thread, I also need it so I appreciate.

But there's something about nairaland antispam bot, if more people keep dropping emails, this thread might get flagged, then draw unwanted attention (MOD), Which might lead to the closing of this beautiful thread.

If anybody needs the file, they should PM you, it's less messier that way.
Or there's a way some tech guys do it, they upload the file to cloud storage, drop the link, then whoever needs it goes there to download it.

This our thread is too valuable to even risk it been shutdown, so let's reduce the amount of emails being dropped, Thankyou.

Your self control must be top notch.
If you are able to control your gbola to this extent, you have solve 70% of your future problems.

So it was true. Buhari died since 2017?

psychoanalyst:
Good day house. I received an email on this Oil and Gas jobs for CBT test slated 24th October 2020 but I have a challenge. The CBT centre was not indicated in the mail and i can't remember the particular centre I chose as at the time of registration. Can someone help me out with this please? Thanks in anticipation

But the instruction is very clear on the email. There was nothing like CBT center on the mail, except you're talking of a different recruitment exercise.

Now it is time to change Nigeria

jeromestarks:

You don't understand what's going on with me. English is the least of my problems.

In philosophy, mathematics and most issues in life, we start from the known, then solve for the unknown. You may not know why your life is turning out the way it is, but make up your mind today to know the difference between I'm and Am.

These two abbreviations are very common in most Cover Letters and CV's. You don't know where your problem lies, but I have identified a possible aspect for you. So start from there.

30 years old, and you can't differentiate between I'm and Am. You're truly cursed

MhisTahrah:
Sometimes silence equals support.If you don't condemn/speak against, then you are definitely for.Abandoning a kid for 24years is evil, do you even know that such child can develop psychological issues stemming from the abandonment.What about his mom that was forced to play mom and dad roles for all those years owing to her baby daddy's irresponsibility. Willing his whole properties to the boy sef can never be enough to atone for the mistake.As for his wife, I pray God blesses her beyond her imagination so she won't have to fight over the properties.
You can trash the rest of your balderdash.

Why are you looking for a fight where there is none?
Must you fight over everything on nairaland?
The woman was having a discussion with you and stating her opinion and you're calling it balderdash.

It takes two people to have a conversation and exchange ideas. Not everyone wants to fight you please.

.

You should have done something equally terrible either to her or on her. She had a choice to act the way she did and you have a choice to react in whatever way you like.

Instead You simply let her go scot free, to go and terrorise the next innocent man.

I forgot his was romance section czarr and Zzor, you guys should be ashamed of yourselves. Don't you want your country to get better?

You have only one life to live and you have spent 50% of it living in abject misery, your life expectancy is just early forties.

You wake up everyday and login to nairaland, you wake up hopeless and you sleep hopeless. You and your parents should be ashamed of yourselves, cowardice runs in you lineage.

Imagine the OP asking why we are protesting. May your lives be as fruitful and prosperous as Nigeria in 2020. Amen.

I spit on you

czarr:
It has not been easy for people being restricted in movement and gatherings for over 6months. I am convinced that some youths are just letting of steam, to some this is just a carnival to them and an avenue to socialize with the opposite sex.

Some of them didn't know it would be addressed this fast, they were enjoying the attention and enjoying being close to their favourite celebrities, some for clout reason, some came out for modelling and to take pictures.

Only maybe about 15% of all the protesters were completely focused on the protest itself....anybody still protesting Endsars now, is just letting of quarantine steam.

You should be ashamed of yourself, are you not tired of the mediocre life you're living?

Your mates are out there protesting for things to get better for all of us, you're here talking rubbish.

Are you not tired of the way things are being run in this country?
If you don't pity yourself, pity your children, if our parents had protested just half of what these youths are protesting today, Nigeria would have been better for you and me. But generational cøwards and idiøts like you will always be there to discourage them.

Just incase you don't know, those youths out there are the future of this country and I am putting my faith in them.

CHoccolaTE:
W
'If you are a man, you should probably get married; if you are a woman, don’t bother'

Maya OppenheimWomen's Correspondent @mayaoppenheim
Tuesday 28 May 2019 14:33

The Independent
Women who are not married and do not have children are the happiest group in the population, a prominent expert in happiness has said.

Paul Dolan, a professor of behavioural science at the London School of Economics, said unmarried and childless women are also likely to outlive their married child-rearing counterparts and are healthier than them.

Speaking at the Hay festival on Saturday, Mr Dolan said the latest data demonstrated that long-established, traditional symbols of success did not necessarily correlate with happiness levels.



The best-selling author, who carries out original research into the measurement of happiness and its causes and consequences, noted men in comparison benefited from marriage as they “calm down”.

He said: “You take less risks, you earn more money at work, and you live a little longer. She, on the other hand, has to put up with that, and she dies sooner than if she never married. The healthiest and happiest population subgroup are women who never married or had children".

Mr Dolan added: “Married people are happier than other population subgroups, but only when their spouse is in the room when they are asked how happy they are. When the spouse is not present: f***ing miserable.


“We do have some good longitudinal data following the same people over time, but I am going to do a massive disservice to that academic science and just say: if you are a man, you should probably get married; if you are a woman, don’t bother.”

Mr Dolan’s latest book, Happy Ever After, cites evidence from the American Time Use Survey, which compared levels of pleasure and unhappiness in unmarried, married, divorced, separated and widowed individuals. The study discovered levels of happiness reported by those who were married was higher than those who do not have spouses, but only when their husband or wife was in the room.


People who were not married reported lower levels of misery than married individuals who were asked when their spouse was not present.

Other studies have measured some financial and health benefits in being married for both men and women on average, which Mr Dolan said could be ascribed to higher incomes and emotional support, allowing married people to take risks and seek medical help.


While Mr Dolan pointed to men displaying more health benefits from getting married due to them taking less risks, women’s health was mainly unaffected by marriage. But middle-aged married women were at higher risk of physical and mental conditions than their single peers.

How to dance your way to happiness
In spite of the advantages of an unmarried childless existence for women, Mr Dolan said the fact marriage and children were seen to be traditional, established emblems of success meant the stigma could cause some single women to feel unhappy.

He said: “You see a single woman of 40, who has never had children – ‘Bless, that’s a shame, isn’t it? Maybe one day you’ll meet the right guy and that’ll change.’ No, maybe she’ll meet the wrong guy and that’ll change. Maybe she’ll meet a guy who makes her less happy and healthy, and die sooner.”

Mr Dolan said that having children can be harmful to people’s well being – saying many parents might secretly agree with a famous academic colleague who “said that he liked the existence of his children but not their presence”.

“It would be categorically awful if anything happened to them, but the experiences we have with children are largely miserable,” he added.

Mr Dolan said that having children is “an amazing experience” for some, but added that “for a lot of people it isn’t, and the idea that we can’t talk openly about why that might be is a problem.”



https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/may/25/women-happier-without-children-or-a-spouse-happiness-expert

It's been more than a year now, you are still unmarried You don't need to reply this question, just ask yourself, Are you happy?

.SARS is just a unit in the Nigerian Police Force. These same men will simply change uniform (they never wore uniform sef) and resume their notorious duties.

What we should protest about is End Bad Governance