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Romance › Re: How Can I Find A Decent Girlfriend/Wife in the US? by MrsChima(f): 11:05pm On Aug 03, 2013
Lmao at some ignorant comments!

I taya! grin
Romance › Re: Identify Ur Selling Point. by MrsChima(f): 11:01pm On Aug 03, 2013
Boobies.
Romance › Re: International Dating by MrsChima(f): 10:50pm On Aug 03, 2013
Truckpusher: What is talking? undecided

Are you human or alien..btw did you get my e-slap gift to Mr Chima? grin
He said you were his best butt bish he had ever raped. He said he hope you have healed fine. grin
Romance › Re: International Dating by MrsChima(f): 7:43pm On Aug 03, 2013
Stand in line and take a number.

Nobody likes a person that don't give a Bleep and let life live.

Try it! grin
Romance › Re: White Or Black??? Which Race Is Less Troublesome In Marriage? by MrsChima(f): 7:36pm On Aug 03, 2013
xynerise: undecided
Hissssssd.
Family › Re: My Parents Threatened To Bring Me Back To Nigeria For Bad Behaviour by MrsChima(f): 6:31pm On Aug 03, 2013
Obiagu1: Wow! Why are so many people hating on this girl?
Jealousy.
Family › Re: My Parents Threatened To Bring Me Back To Nigeria For Bad Behaviour by MrsChima(f): 6:30pm On Aug 03, 2013
Awwwww Onila...go back home....Nigerua needs you!
Family › Re: What Is Contributing To The Breakdown Of Some Naija/African Families In America? by MrsChima(f): 6:24pm On Aug 03, 2013
zboyd: No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

Btw..

...a trick" is a prostitute's customer and people aren't animals to be bred.

IMO...you may want to "take" an inventory of your attitudes towards other human beings...being a human being yourself.

Your issues are quite glaring, Madam.
Awwww....the ugly truth pains you huh? grin
Your issue of ignorance requires immiment assistance!

I can see you have never traveled outside your village and I understand why many Nigerian parents send their children to proper schools because they want to break the cycle of ignorance.

Many tried and failed.
Romance › Re: White Or Black??? Which Race Is Less Troublesome In Marriage? by MrsChima(f): 6:09pm On Aug 03, 2013
huh
Romance › Re: International Dating by MrsChima(f): 6:06pm On Aug 03, 2013
SniperInADiaper: What if he turns out to just be a truckpusher. . Can you handle that? grin grin

Nigerian men are............... one of a kind grin
Lol at truckpusher grin
Romance › Re: Most Romantic Snack For A First Date!! by MrsChima(f): 7:14pm On Aug 02, 2013
[quote author=-Mr Cork-]...u lack respect..no wonda u r single!!lipsrsealed[/quote]Single and married? grin
Nairaland General › Re: Who Are Your Funniest,craziest Nairalanders? by MrsChima(f): 4:41pm On Aug 02, 2013
xynerise: undecided
undecided
Family › Re: Woman Beats Three-yr-old Niece To Death For Vomitting by MrsChima(f): 4:37pm On Aug 02, 2013
SMH at the neighbor and landlord is not to blame.
Romance › Re: Funny Yahoo Questions And Answers. by MrsChima(f): 4:31pm On Aug 02, 2013
undecided
Romance › Re: Most Romantic Snack For A First Date!! by MrsChima(f): 4:29pm On Aug 02, 2013
[quote author=-Mr Cork-]..ok what pic do u want?[/quote]Mugu.
Nairaland General › Re: Who Are Your Funniest,craziest Nairalanders? by MrsChima(f): 4:28pm On Aug 02, 2013
Yay!!!!
Romance › Re: International Dating by MrsChima(f): 4:26pm On Aug 02, 2013
amitalian: He's been to UK recently. Idk if that tells u if he can pass border or not. N he has mentioned the visa thing but if he can travel to UK y wouldn't he be able to travel to the us... Hummm.

N ur right. N I am being smart. And even tho I haven't met him face to face I do feel close to him. I jus know there r things I don't know yet. If everything he says is true the idc if we haven't met he is a true prince. He is smart n got his self together n soft n gentle when it comes to me. N not in a sissy girlie way lol.

I guess I will have to see how it plays. Thank you so much for all the comments.
You are welcome and remember to plan well before traveling.
Romance › Re: International Dating by MrsChima(f): 3:19pm On Aug 02, 2013
amitalian: I've only spoken to his mom on phone. Dad is passed on. N I also think he should come here 1st. But when I mention that to him n all the reasons y it's better he jus goes back to me visiting there. I figured it's so he knows I'm serious enough, but my thought was he comes here 1st since he will end up here n then we travel to Nigeria together but he's not getting it n I don't know how to get through to him. Any ideas? Or is it a sign that something isn't right?
Married? Idk. I'm in NO rush for that. He doesn't push the issue but we do talk about it and eventually want to. I don't want to jus get married so he can come here. I think him coming here to check out his surroundings n see if he could be happy here n how we mesh together is most important. What if we marry n when he gets here he is miserable? He may feel like I tricked him into coming or something. He keeps saying he truly loves me n he's so comfortable w me n him not wanting to be w me couldn't happen.

But also the fact the he lied to me for months about who he really was still bothers me and I am having some trust issues, but on the other hand I love him like no other... Doomed or normal?
Different strokes for different folks. Some people can fall in love with a complete stranger online and some has to build the love through physical dating.

The fact that he lied first off is a red flag. Pay attention to the red flags.

The most common reasons why people want others to visit them are:

Lack of funds
Known hardship of getting a tourist visa
Potential scam/fraud
Can't pass the border/custom

If you have an issue with his lies...you need to handle that before flying 2, 000 miles to meet a stranger in a country where you know NO ONE personally.

It's your life.
Romance › Re: International Dating by MrsChima(f): 3:07pm On Aug 02, 2013
amitalian: No. Only on cam.
Hmmmm. You made it seem though you met with him and spent quality time with him to paint him as Prince Charming.

If you are bent on meeting him in Nigeria....you need to plan your visit thoroughly and have plently cash in handy...not on you but access to it.

Make sure you have your hotel in place because you don't know his living conditions and if things doesn't work out that you won't be stranded until it's time to fly home.

Register with the embassy in Nigeria and give them true contact information. Give them a picture of the guy you are meeting.

Let your family and friends know where you are going and give them true contact information.

Carry mace for protection and don't depend on others to protect you.

Talk to his family before traveling so they would be expecting you and you can gather more information about him.

Good luck and don't be foolish.
Romance › Re: Husbands Will Be Scarce By 2023 - Women Group by MrsChima(f): 11:58am On Aug 02, 2013
Yay! Lesbianism rocks!
Family › Re: URGENT HELP NEEDED! CARE FOR AGING PARENTS OR RECONCILE W HUSBAND? by MrsChima(f): 11:54am On Aug 02, 2013
5 years ke!

A year is long enough to know!
Romance › Re: International Dating by MrsChima(f): 11:47am On Aug 02, 2013
owolabifunke14: Pkease don't come here to snatch my man lol. #Just kidding# lucky you,Nigerian men are good.
You mean my man? tongue

I have quite few of the men in Niger and Nigeria. I am building a harem. grin

Jaybee is my lead ho. wink
Romance › Re: International Dating by MrsChima(f): 11:31am On Aug 02, 2013
amitalian: Ok I looked it up. It started out that way, but I guess my charm was too much for him lol. We cam together all the time n I meet his friends on there as well.
His friends are not important....did you meet his family?

Are you guys planning to get married as soon as you get to Nigeria?

Is he able to come to US FIRST?
Romance › Re: International Dating by MrsChima(f): 11:28am On Aug 02, 2013
Lucasbalo: Be very careful. The problem is not only the guy. The main thing is how u both get to see each other. Do u have enough money to travel to Nigeria and enough to sustain u in a nice hotel for the duration of your stay. Don't rely on any financial help from ur so called friend. Anyway, be careful.
I agree.
Romance › Re: International Dating by MrsChima(f): 11:25am On Aug 02, 2013
amitalian: I hope I'm doing this right... We have been dating 2 years now n it only gets better. But I'm still so skeptical about the distance. We r trying to put together a trip right now but I'm nervous. Not nervous to meet him but to travel such a distance n jus being out of what I know.
Have you physically met him?
Family › Re: What Is Contributing To The Breakdown Of Some Naija/African Families In America? by MrsChima(f):
I take plastic and paper. grin

Lol@a trick liking his post. Birds of the same bad breed....
Family › Re: Can U Marry A Lady Dat Isnt Ready To Drop Her Surname by MrsChima(f): 12:17pm On Aug 01, 2013
Typical.
Romance › Re: My Cooking Is Better Than My Wifes,do I Complain Or Teach Her? by MrsChima(f): 12:08pm On Aug 01, 2013
[quote author=Dx.polymath]Gone are the days when women were the sole custodians of “kitchen skills“ the tides have really turned with men being better chefs and cooks than the opposite sex. As a guy who's not “too bad“ in the kitchen (partly owing to my moms training and insistence dat her boys know how to cook + living by myself bak den on campus). So what if you as a guy feel your woman can do better (not dat sha can't cook @ all,not d noodles and egg type)knowin your capabilities in the kitchen....sincerely how would you go abt it?

Also ladies if u know “in your church mind“ dat ur man aint really enjoyin your meals (he has to pass thru d lake of fire @ dinner) and you know he cooks well,wud u leav d kitchen to him (stylishly of course) or hire a maid?[/quote]Bottom line a woman taught you how to cook and tell Mommy I commend her for not raising a bunch of lazy passies.

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